FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Views on scars
Views on scars
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
So out of interest, if you met someone, really liked them and when you got down to it they removed their clothes to reveal scars on their boobs ... would you be put off or find it unattractive? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *opilotMan
over a year ago
Heathrow |
I dont think that I'd be put off, some people have scars, some have stretch marks and bodies come in different shapes and sizes. If you've got that far with someone, why would you then be put off. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So out of interest, if you met someone, really liked them and when you got down to it they removed their clothes to reveal scars on their boobs ... would you be put off or find it unattractive?"
not at all and would end up talking about them when finished laying there all sweaty lol
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have a 10cm scar just under my ribs from an operation when I was a baby. I guess because it's always been there I don't even think twice about it. I often have an "oh yeah" moment when people ask about it. I've never had someone put off by it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We wouldn't find scars anywhere on anyone off putting or unattractive at all.
We are what we are - there are so many reasons why people have scars - we don't walk in anyone's shoes but we sure can hold their hands while they do! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've a few scars haven't had anyone complain about them tho. I have a big one on my leg and no one has ever been put off by any of mine. They usually just ask what happened.
I don't mind anyone with scars they tell a story. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We wouldn't find scars anywhere on anyone off putting or unattractive at all.
We are what we are - there are so many reasons why people have scars - we don't walk in anyone's shoes but we sure can hold their hands while they do! "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have quite a lot of scars - never met anyone who seems bothered by them, though one or two have asked about them.
Scars on someone else wouldn't bother me at all. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have numerous scars of various sizes, so would be a bit hypocritical to be put off by a few life marks here and there. I'd probably be more interested in the stories behind them more than put off (cos theres always one from a moment of stupity...and more than one for some of us  ) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have a 10cm scar just under my ribs from an operation when I was a baby. I guess because it's always been there I don't even think twice about it. I often have an "oh yeah" moment when people ask about it. I've never had someone put off by it."
I have the same scar. Right hand side? Something to do with a muscle in the stomach that was not letting food pass through? Apparently I nearly died. But yeah I always had a massive hang up about it but pretty much no one has ever said anything or commented on it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have scars that run down from both ankles to my feet from when I had chemotherapy years ago. Then there’s that kick ass shingles scar on my stomach. There’s no covering them up. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have a few scars. I've never been ashamed of them or embarrassed.
They are like a road map that charts adventure and survival. I would very much see it that way in others... Say so much more than tattoos I think.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
My daughters mum had major scars/burns/skin graphs all down her right hand side from neck to waist due to a boiling kettle being pulled over her at very young age. She basically had no breast or nipple etc. Didn't bother me in the slightest. I found it unique and I felt privileged that she felt comfortable being topless with me. Still has skin graphs to this day nearly 40 years on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So out of interest, if you met someone, really liked them and when you got down to it they removed their clothes to reveal scars on their boobs ... would you be put off or find it unattractive?"
I am not shallow. It wouldn't bother me! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No wouldn't bother me,if you want to be with someone it's part of them,can be hard though got fairly prominent one on my upper left arm and few other issues,wouldn't wear t short for ages,still feel bit self conscious now so can understand people being unsure |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's highly unlikely to bother us. Hannah has some significant scars and they are just part of her. We are not looking for airbrushed perfection. We are looking for real people, and real people often have scars (not all of them physical). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's highly unlikely to bother us. Hannah has some significant scars and they are just part of her. We are not looking for airbrushed perfection. We are looking for real people, and real people often have scars (not all of them physical). "
No if I’m attracted to a person it’s for them. The face is obviously a huge part the rest of the body is irrelevant. As long as said person is happy I am |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Doesnt put people off in my experience.
I had a mastectomy & reconstruction using muscle from my back. My left boob has no nipple & a huge scar shaped like an oval on my boob.
MsDub |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So out of interest, if you met someone, really liked them and when you got down to it they removed their clothes to reveal scars on their boobs ... would you be put off or find it unattractive?"
The Boy here. I have a 9” scar in my chest, I worry about it too. No ones ever said anything about it.
It wouldn’t bother me! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I don’t have any scars on my boobs (lots of stretch marks due to kids mind) but I do have a lot on my torso due numerous surgeries over the years. I used to be embarrassed but now I see them as sort of medals because I’m still here.
Don’t ever be ashamed of your body
S x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have quite a few scars on my body. Each one tell's a tale from 22 years in the army. I am proud of them all.
The only scar that bothers me from time to time in the one in my head that nobody else can see. Luckily I sort treatment for that one so it stays hidden even to me most of the time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
(Ray)
Absolutely not and really struggle to understand why someone would ?
I understand and totally get vanity but if you've gone though life and not had a few scars/stretch marks then you've not lived  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
The South Near That London |
They’re like a trailer to an interesting story.
I’ve got 12+ inch scar down the outside of my left leg (chainsaw accident) used to tell the kids when they were younger it was a shark bite, like most things those people that matter won’t care, and those that do don’t matter 
And as Shane Flaco (Keanu Reeves) said “Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory... lasts forever.“ |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So out of interest, if you met someone, really liked them and when you got down to it they removed their clothes to reveal scars on their boobs ... would you be put off or find it unattractive?"
Nope personally I find them a bit sexy xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"They’re like a trailer to an interesting story.
I’ve got 12+ inch scar down the outside of my left leg (chainsaw accident) used to tell the kids when they were younger it was a shark bite, like most things those people that matter won’t care, and those that do don’t matter
And as Shane Flaco (Keanu Reeves) said “Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory... lasts forever.“"
I have a scar on my shoulder..I sometimes say it's a shark bite too!!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Try not to worry about it. In all likelihood, you're more aware of them than anyone else. I've got a few scars on my face from a car accident twenty years ago. Most people don't even notice. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
The South Near That London |
"They’re like a trailer to an interesting story.
I’ve got 12+ inch scar down the outside of my left leg (chainsaw accident) used to tell the kids when they were younger it was a shark bite, like most things those people that matter won’t care, and those that do don’t matter
And as Shane Flaco (Keanu Reeves) said “Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory... lasts forever.“
I have a scar on my shoulder..I sometimes say it's a shark bite too!!
"
We should get together and do a Fab remake of Jaws with that old profile special as the tag line “won’t bite, well not unless you ask..” |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
The South Near That London |
"They’re like a trailer to an interesting story.
I’ve got 12+ inch scar down the outside of my left leg (chainsaw accident) used to tell the kids when they were younger it was a shark bite, like most things those people that matter won’t care, and those that do don’t matter
And as Shane Flaco (Keanu Reeves) said “Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory... lasts forever.“
I have a scar on my shoulder..I sometimes say it's a shark bite too!!
We should get together and do a Fab remake of Jaws with that old profile special as the tag line “won’t bite, well not unless you ask..” "
And after we’ve vanquished the shark we could find a roundabout to have that fish supper  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It wouldn't bother me at all. Beauty is more than skin deep and scars are just part of our story.
I have quite a few scars over both arms from my younger days. They remind me of where I was then and how far I've come since. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think it’s more a case of self confidence OP. Wear your scars with pride "
This! Vixen was extremely self conscious about her childbirth marks and it wasn't until after a few play sessions with others that she realised the only person worried about them was her. She had no concerns about getting her kit of now lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So out of interest, if you met someone, really liked them and when you got down to it they removed their clothes to reveal scars on their boobs ... would you be put off or find it unattractive?"
It wouldn’t put me off at all scars are unique n make a person who they are , I have scars n patches of psoriasis in my body which has made me too self conscious to meet anymore x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’ve got scars and have only once had a negative experience with someone’s attitude towards them. They used to bother me a lot more than others but the more I’ve grown as a person the less I notice them to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
