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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys and girls.. Right been on this site for a while now and I'm getting to grips with it! But I'm finding a lot of fake profiles. Any tips on how to avoid these? |
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"Hi guys and girls.. Right been on this site for a while now and I'm getting to grips with it! But I'm finding a lot of fake profiles. Any tips on how to avoid these?"
No verifications or the verifications all verify each other and no one else.
To quick to talk about sex or only talk about sex
No "normal" friends that have been on for years with lots of veris
Asks for your bank details to help a Nigerian prince who can't transfer money out of the country.
Can't spell the place where they're from
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Speak with all people in the profile live, as it can reveal what may be hidden between me lines. Don't rush at someone else's pace - go at your own, so that you don't get hoodwinked under pressure.
Don't rush off site,so that their conversation is trackable by Admin. They can do everything here, swap pics, use video cam etc.
Be detailed and thorough, so you are less likely to be caught out. Ask and share lots. Don't just rely on gut instinct - use your rational, logical thinking skills to assrss everything.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There normally a lack of recent pic or they look like the have been snapshots and badly cropped, snapchat filters, lack of verifications, little to no information and they as you to message them elsewhere with some lame excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our opinion, any meaningful meet will take time to arrange.
Once initial contact is made, we generally exchange a number of mails & chat before exchanging mobile telephone numbers. We always request theirs before supplying ours.
We always meet strictly social at least once, sometimes twice. If there is a connection, we always insist that the male introduces us to his home before we will introduce him to ours.
You will be amazed at how many meets fail at this point 
Largely it is all about taking care and putting structures in place to spot the timewasters.
We generally spot them from a mile off, but some have fooled us up until the social.
Either way, if they do not fit our criteria, they are wasting their time. We will always find out before the relationship progresses beyond a social |
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"In our opinion, any meaningful meet will take time to arrange.
Once initial contact is made, we generally exchange a number of mails & chat before exchanging mobile telephone numbers. We always request theirs before supplying ours.
We always meet strictly social at least once, sometimes twice. If there is a connection, we always insist that the male introduces us to his home before we will introduce him to ours.
You will be amazed at how many meets fail at this point
Largely it is all about taking care and putting structures in place to spot the timewasters.
We generally spot them from a mile off, but some have fooled us up until the social.
Either way, if they do not fit our criteria, they are wasting their time. We will always find out before the relationship progresses beyond a social "
The op was talking about fakes, none of what you’ve said is about fakes, time wasters perhaps, but not fakes. Nor does everything you do work, it’s not a foolproof system. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im an older guy and am aware im one of the few to disclose a face pic. I assure you there all me .i do it to let members know im geniune. Dose,nt seem to help my verification tally though . Im not fake nor is my profile. |
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