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No. Not at all. All self taught- at a ridiculously young age to be honest as growing up on a West London council estate in early seventies, it’s all we had.
Anyway, I’m dating a primary school deputy head and she has to show a video and discuss
( to the kids, not me) and the things they cover is incredible. This is to the young ones. The theme being that knowledge is power and all that. She says the most difficult part is showing it to the parents and handling their questions. |
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over a year ago
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Yeah, and I actually slept with that teacher multiple times (last year, so way after I had left school).
Nothing inaccurate about what he taught. He just didn’t put much of it into practice |
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"No. Not at all. All self taught- at a ridiculously young age to be honest as growing up on a West London council estate in early seventies, it’s all we had.
Anyway, I’m dating a primary school deputy head and she has to show a video and discuss
( to the kids, not me) and the things they cover is incredible. This is to the young ones. The theme being that knowledge is power and all that. She says the most difficult part is showing it to the parents and handling their questions."
Actually snorted at the "to the kids not me" part and now I'm picturing your partner showing you diagrams on a flipchart in your living room and making you put your hand up to ask questions  |
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My sex education was actually pretty good but I went to a school on the edge of a NW council estate where it was much needed. I wish they'd covered consent better back in my day though rather than just the biological stuff and contraception/STIs. |
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"No. Not at all. All self taught- at a ridiculously young age to be honest as growing up on a West London council estate in early seventies, it’s all we had.
Anyway, I’m dating a primary school deputy head and she has to show a video and discuss
( to the kids, not me) and the things they cover is incredible. This is to the young ones. The theme being that knowledge is power and all that. She says the most difficult part is showing it to the parents and handling their questions.
Actually snorted at the "to the kids not me" part and now I'm picturing your partner showing you diagrams on a flipchart in your living room and making you put your hand up to ask questions "
No flipcharts yet. Still feeling each other out as recently moved in together. I’ve introduced her to the joys of public nudity on beaches here and abroad. She enjoyed it more than she ever thought possible. I’ve even hinted at the idea of us attending a club. |
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No my dad give me a book on the female body and one about the male and that was that.i think I was 14/15 .
But funny story a friend of dad's was a night Watchman and every few months my dad got given a bin bag of dirty books.
Me and brother found them.
And we was expelled from school for a month for selling them in school.
Mum went nuts at dad and that was the end of selling dirty books
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I went to a Catholic brothers school, what they "taught" us was ridiculous!
Being told about sex by men who'd sworn an oath of celibacy!! "
Pretty messed up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah but I can't rem_mber anything about it. There are two books that I consider the core of my sexual education "A Kind of Loving" by Stan Barstow which scared me into making sure I never got pregnant. And "Bare Nell" by Leslie Thomas. Which taught me there was a life of sweet, erotic adventure out there if I wanted it. I did. |
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"My sex education was actually pretty good but I went to a school on the edge of a NW council estate where it was much needed. I wish they'd covered consent better back in my day though rather than just the biological stuff and contraception/STIs."
Consent is a big thing and should be thought. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No my dad give me a book on the female body and one about the male and that was that.i think I was 14/15 .
But funny story a friend of dad's was a night Watchman and every few months my dad got given a bin bag of dirty books.
Me and brother found them.
And we was expelled from school for a month for selling them in school.
Mum went nuts at dad and that was the end of selling dirty books
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Oh that gave me a good giggle. |
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(Ray) I went to prep school until I was 13 then finally convinced my parents to let me go to a comp school
So my sex education started at 14 and was self taught
When I first saw a condom I thought it was a sausage skin !!! Put me right off sausage sandwiches for ages  until I realised |
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Sex education at school was very basic and we were taught that sex took place in a bed. I was petrified as thought a penis may get stuck inside me once in and the 2 of us would need to go to hospital to be seperated. |
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways "
Seriously  |
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By *dx69Man
over a year ago
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways "
Really? Just how explicit was it?? |
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By *dx69Man
over a year ago
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"No. Not at all. All self taught- at a ridiculously young age to be honest as growing up on a West London council estate in early seventies, it’s all we had.
Anyway, I’m dating a primary school deputy head and she has to show a video and discuss
( to the kids, not me) and the things they cover is incredible. This is to the young ones. The theme being that knowledge is power and all that. She says the most difficult part is showing it to the parents and handling their questions."
What kind of “things” do they cover, dare I ask?? |
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I changed schools in the middle of sex education, and it was night and day.
The first school, it was a load of religious guilt, mostly about girls being responsible for their purity and not tempting boys into sin. A girl needs to maintain her worth through chastity and if a boy or man "stumbles", it's her fault. I fucking shit you not. This was actually this century. Oh, and lots of anti abortion propaganda.
The second school, it was data on birth control, STIs, etc, which I don't rem_mber that clearly but seemed a lot more... grounded in evidence. |
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I wouldn't say mine was inaccurate, just more about anatomy than sex. Like this is a male anatomy, this is a female, when the sperm and egg meet there's a baby.
Nothing about the clitoris or any mention of sex other than a means of reproduction.
And they showed us a condom but didn't mention other forms of birth control. |
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I rem_mber seeing the demo for using a tampon. They put it in a glass of water to show how absorbant they are and I could rem_mber thinking 'that is going to hurt so bad!'. Yeah, they hardly expand at all when used normally.
Also, being told to use plenty of soap down there to keep clean. Thanks for that 
Always amazed by the amount of girls who didn't know they pee from a different hole. |
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways
Really? Just how explicit was it??"
I was thinking the same
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When our biology teacher (at an all-boys school when I was 12-13) asked what the different between men and women was, the class fell silent. Nobody was prepared to say "penis" or "vagina" or (heaven help us) "breasts" to a teacher.
The teacher did not back down. He told us to picture a woman and tell us what the most obvious difference is.
Eventually, one brave soul spoke up and timidly said "Women have longer hair than men, sir?" |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
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I went to a convent school, taught by Nuns and our sex ed was from a Catholic priest he had no idea and all he spoke about was no sex before marriage, where as today my 14yr old son knows everything, his first sex lesson was for all the class to give names used for all parts of the body, clean or rude he said it was the funniest lesson ever |
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"When our biology teacher (at an all-boys school when I was 12-13) asked what the different between men and women was, the class fell silent. Nobody was prepared to say "penis" or "vagina" or (heaven help us) "breasts" to a teacher.
The teacher did not back down. He told us to picture a woman and tell us what the most obvious difference is.
Eventually, one brave soul spoke up and timidly said "Women have longer hair than men, sir?" "
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways
Really? Just how explicit was it??"
Totally explicit. Naked and fucking |
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways
Seriously "
Yep, as a 9 or 10 Yr old it just wasn't healthy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That to have sex, you have to put a condom on a banana. Still never figured out why"
that was what I ended up teaching kids at the youth centre and about to probably do it all over again
and those sex props for teachers OH my! |
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways
Seriously
Yep, as a 9 or 10 Yr old it just wasn't healthy "
I wouldn't imagine its healthy. |
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I never actually had it, I was moved up sets in science before my set actually covered it, but after the set I moved into covered it.
Thank god for the sex problem page in Sugar. |
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"I never actually had it, I was moved up sets in science before my set actually covered it, but after the set I moved into covered it.
Thank god for the sex problem page in Sugar."
Was it helpful? |
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"I never actually had it, I was moved up sets in science before my set actually covered it, but after the set I moved into covered it.
Thank god for the sex problem page in Sugar.
Was it helpful? "
Very graphic! My mum is easy going but she wouldn't let me buy it so I had to read it at a friend's instead. |
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Age 11, at school... A man and woman lie close together and he puts his sperm inside her where it meets the egg and a baby is the result. Took me years and years of wondering to figure out anyone would like that.
Catholic catechism: any and all sexual acts before or outside of marriage is a mortal sin and abortion is evil in any circumstances.
I still think abortion is never an easy option, but honestly, NO ONE is pro abortion (as in, I'm going to get pregnant solely so I can have an abortion, wtf). I am completely pro choice |
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"I never actually had it, I was moved up sets in science before my set actually covered it, but after the set I moved into covered it.
Thank god for the sex problem page in Sugar.
Was it helpful?
Very graphic! My mum is easy going but she wouldn't let me buy it so I had to read it at a friend's instead."
I can imagine lol |
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My sex education was pretty much nothing. Even my teachers weren't too keen on discussing it. When it came to having sex. Me and my first girlfriend sort of learned as we went along. She was already on the pill because her mum was adamant she needed to be so it was all without condoms and we were genuinely each others firsts. I feel I turned out alright. My ex on the other hand now has 2 kids with another on the way lol and she had the same sex ed as me! |
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"My sex education was pretty much nothing. Even my teachers weren't too keen on discussing it. When it came to having sex. Me and my first girlfriend sort of learned as we went along. She was already on the pill because her mum was adamant she needed to be so it was all without condoms and we were genuinely each others firsts. I feel I turned out alright. My ex on the other hand now has 2 kids with another on the way lol and she had the same sex ed as me! "
Everyone's different I guess. |
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"I never actually had it, I was moved up sets in science before my set actually covered it, but after the set I moved into covered it.
Thank god for the sex problem page in Sugar.
Was it helpful?
Very graphic! My mum is easy going but she wouldn't let me buy it so I had to read it at a friend's instead.
I can imagine lol"
I was only 11/12 at the time so now I appreciate her choice |
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No I wasn't taught sex education. All I can rem_mber is finding a cupboard where old newspapers were kept and me and my friend broke in after school and took all the page 3's out.
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"We were shown videos of a couple having sex as part of sex education in primary school.
I honestly believe it was too young and messed up my feelings about sex in certain ways "
Sex videos in primary school that is so wrong. If a child of mine went to that school, I'd have to have a word with the teachers. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I teach it.
Lesson one. Write down all the words you can think of for the words penis and vagina. Contribute....I write them on the board, all of them.
From them on we all know what we're talking about when we say penis and vagina, so we use the right words.
Then we shout them both out at the top of our voices. Because once you've shouted it, you're not embarrassed saying it.
I always try to guess the one that will say cunt. When they do, I don't react at all. |
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"No I wasn't taught sex education. All I can rem_mber is finding a cupboard where old newspapers were kept and me and my friend broke in after school and took all the page 3's out.
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Gave me a good giggle |
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In year 9 at a catholic girls school, the religious teacher ‘taught’ us sex education. We only had a small number of lessons, but all I can rem_mber 36 years ago ( ) was him saying ‘something has to tear’.
Little did he or our parents knew, but the ‘Joy of sex’ had been passed around the class the previous year!
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"In year 9 at a catholic girls school, the religious teacher ‘taught’ us sex education. We only had a small number of lessons, but all I can rem_mber 36 years ago ( ) was him saying ‘something has to tear’.
Little did he or our parents knew, but the ‘Joy of sex’ had been passed around the class the previous year!
J"
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"Did you receive sex education in school? If so what was the most widely inaccurate thing you were thought? "
i thought my maths teacher was hot but thats it on sex education  |
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"I teach it.
Lesson one. Write down all the words you can think of for the words penis and vagina. Contribute....I write them on the board, all of them.
From them on we all know what we're talking about when we say penis and vagina, so we use the right words.
Then we shout them both out at the top of our voices. Because once you've shouted it, you're not embarrassed saying it.
I always try to guess the one that will say cunt. When they do, I don't react at all."
Cunt |
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"I did but I was teaching myself from the bbc teen agony aunts way before any formal education on the subject. I was surprised that women didnt have balls."
Why ? |
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"Did you receive sex education in school? If so what was the most widely inaccurate thing you were thought? "
I think it was more gestation and childbirth education. The sex bit was a diagram with a label ‘the penis is inserted into the vagina’. And in cross section too! Rather dry, in all respects. |
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"Taught it for 20+ years. Only ever been shocked by one question in all that time.
Oh what was that ?"
Too gross to put on here! It'll close the thread down.
I answered everything I reasonably could, or directed them to websites that would (especially if it was a gay lad asking a practical question). Lessons focused on relationships, consent, assertiveness, safety and THEN sex. |
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"I did but I was teaching myself from the bbc teen agony aunts way before any formal education on the subject. I was surprised that women didnt have balls.
Why ?"
The last part was a joke, a south park reference if you will. |
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"Taught it for 20+ years. Only ever been shocked by one question in all that time.
Oh what was that ?
Too gross to put on here! It'll close the thread down.
I answered everything I reasonably could, or directed them to websites that would (especially if it was a gay lad asking a practical question). Lessons focused on relationships, consent, assertiveness, safety and THEN sex. "
Oh I can only imagine. |
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I got my sex education from my mum when I was 10 and it was really good.
At school girls got some at 11/12 and info about periods.
Full sex ed was at 13 and was actually pretty good, if a bit late and lacking in the consensual side of things.
I think modern sex ed is much better. |
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"I grew up in a very religious family, such topics was never discussed...so I had to self educate. It had its messy moments "
I can just imagine. I hope you cleaned up yourself. |
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