Who like me who is a woman or couple is but off by single men profiles being to full on all about sex and northing els
Who like me with single men put off when all there verifys are all single men a TVs
And Who els is put off like me by single mens verifys all meets are sex meets and not a social in them
Yes Im swinger but dont like it when messages are to full on or profiles and northing aprat from sex no menion of friendship or respect
Be good to know what folk think? |
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over a year ago
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Lots of different things on profiles put me off, but as long as I’m happy with my own profile, others can run theirs as they want.
Just means I won’t be compatible with some  |
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I am put off by people who post with no spell checking or use of grammar. People that write sentences that just run on and on and make no sense. However I don't let it ruin my enjoyment of the site. |
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"I am put off by people who post with no spell checking or use of grammar. People that write sentences that just run on and on and make no sense. However I don't let it ruin my enjoyment of the site. "
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Ppl do things different, you can live by first impressions or you can test the water and see if its too hot or cold. But living by first impressions is just a sign of being judgemental which wont work in your favour. You end up missing out on experiences youd have otherwsie been grateful for |
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"No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy."
Actually there are a whole host of "excuses" and not all of them can be helped by aids. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"Bad spelling puts me off.
To an extent I slightly agree though people often have a legit excuse however bad grammar puts me off far more. "
I can overlook the odd error, It's just a swingers profile/post/pm after all. It's when it's so bad it feels like it's smacking you in the face over and over and over as you read it that I give up. |
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"Who like me who is a woman or couple is but off by single men profiles being to full on all about sex and northing else"
Not put off by the type of verification why should I be its not the guy who has written them. As for a man's profile well better with more detail than a sparse one line profile even if its graphic then it tells me about them and that's what a profile is for isn't it? |
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"Who like me who is a woman or couple is but off by single men profiles being to full on all about sex and northing els
Who like me with single men put off when all there verifys are all single men a TVs
And Who els is put off like me by single mens verifys all meets are sex meets and not a social in them
Yes Im swinger but dont like it when messages are to full on or profiles and northing aprat from sex no menion of friendship or respect
Be good to know what folk think?"
I agree |
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Yup, could be dyslexic, maybe some other reason they have difficulty with written language despite autocorrect, which may not even be on for a good reason. Assumptions and judgementality show a lack of understanding... which are also a turn off |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy.
Actually there are a whole host of "excuses" and not all of them can be helped by aids. "
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All profiles are objective to the persons personality and also a sales pitch
Some are targeting a specific demographic others just have the horn 
Just because it doesn't appeal to you doesn't mean it's right or wrong
just try and enjoy the place for what it is
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"Yup, could be dyslexic, maybe some other reason they have difficulty with written language despite autocorrect, which may not even be on for a good reason. Assumptions and judgementality show a lack of understanding... which are also a turn off"
Totally agree.
There are developmental disorders that cause all sorts of impulsivity issues too. I have adhd and often reply to messages and then realise I've written in some bizarre form of longhanded wingdings.
But.. Confusing there their and they're just hurts my brain and it makes my eyes bleed when people do it...
But as far as other peoples' profiles go, I think it's best to be yourself and reflect that in your profile.
Those like - minded to you will find you.
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"Yup, could be dyslexic, maybe some other reason they have difficulty with written language despite autocorrect, which may not even be on for a good reason. Assumptions and judgementality show a lack of understanding... which are also a turn off
Totally agree.
There are developmental disorders that cause all sorts of impulsivity issues too. I have adhd and often reply to messages and then realise I've written in some bizarre form of longhanded wingdings.
But.. Confusing there their and they're just hurts my brain and it makes my eyes bleed when people do it...
But as far as other peoples' profiles go, I think it's best to be yourself and reflect that in your profile.
Those like - minded to you will find you.
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Hey I like your longhanded wingdings |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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I understand there are all sorts of reasons someone may have trouble spelling, constructing proper sentences or generally expressing themselves on here and that's a real shame for them.
However it doesn't stop their profiles/posts being fucking annoying for me to read and that's a good enough reason for me not to bother. |
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"No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy."
I'm dyslexic,and have the spelling aids on all computer's and phone,but it still fucks up now and again. |
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"Yup, could be dyslexic, maybe some other reason they have difficulty with written language despite autocorrect, which may not even be on for a good reason. Assumptions and judgementality show a lack of understanding... which are also a turn off
Totally agree.
There are developmental disorders that cause all sorts of impulsivity issues too. I have adhd and often reply to messages and then realise I've written in some bizarre form of longhanded wingdings.
But.. Confusing there their and they're just hurts my brain and it makes my eyes bleed when people do it...
But as far as other peoples' profiles go, I think it's best to be yourself and reflect that in your profile.
Those like - minded to you will find you.
Hey I like your longhanded wingdings "
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A profile is a reflection of the person. If you don’t like the profile move on. Some people want to see a very sexual profile and veris for only sex meets. I’m big on socials but I don’t judge a guy for having sex only veris. I get fed up of cock pics. Other women adore them. Variety is the joy of fab. |
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To be honest I'm the opposite.
Be direct. Tell me what you want. Yes have substance in your write up and messages.
But if a good fucking is what you want tell me...
Everything else and relationships can be made after we agree mutual attraction. Respect should come naturally.
As for veris good for them, regardless to whom they are from fair play for having fun.
If anything we look at them to gage if we are going to to tick boxs or not.
Each to their own. Xxx |
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