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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
Liverpool |
More so aimed at the singles on fa, but certainly not limited to them.
Have you ever been getting to know, or chatting to somebody, or on a date with somebody that is "vanilla". They have no idea about fab, and sexual talk is slightly more taboo early on, then without realising it the filter shuts down and you are a bit more sexual with your flirting and conversation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not convinced I'd know what to do. It's been the best part of 23 years since I went on a first date so it would probably scare the living shit out me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When texting my guy in the beginning stages it was unusual not to be asked for pictures of my tits, cunt or asshole and was unusual not to be sent cock pictures! Conversation was a little bit flirty and I said I could read his palm if he sent me a picture of his hand (I could tell how big his dick was from that!). |
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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"This is just describing work for me haha... So many raised eyebrows nobody needs a face lift with me about  "
This is what I mean. Not just dates, but people who are not accustomed to our personalities.
When I'm talking to anyone on fab, sex and anything sex related is generally already on the cards. For the most part there are no boundaries.
When away from fab you are unsure of how they will take it if they are not used to your personality yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More so aimed at the singles on fa, but certainly not limited to them.
Have you ever been getting to know, or chatting to somebody, or on a date with somebody that is "vanilla". They have no idea about fab, and sexual talk is slightly more taboo early on, then without realising it the filter shuts down and you are a bit more sexual with your flirting and conversation? "
Nope |
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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Yes, I met someone last year and we didn't kiss until the end of the second date. Flirting was impossible without the fear of just going full 'fab' and melting her face off. "
Exactly! If you go too sexual too soon, even in a sense of joking that can often risk chasing away potentional future dates. Don't want it to seem like that's what it's all about.
As I said above, on fab it is usually all on the table, so any mention of sex is part of the convo anyway. Outside of fab (or nsa) sometimes it's a dangerous line to walk when you are so used to just being thst mindset with people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah like it was hard not to turn the conversation smutty for fear of looking like a slag or making him think I was only good for a fuck cos he’s from the real world not fab.
I think I came across quite reserved and innocent for the first month of dating then when we started sleeping together it was all systems go. Sucking him off or fucking his nose when he was asleep, asking him if I could hold his dick whilst he had a pee and then building up to getting him to piss in my mouth.
Think he knows now that I’m a little bit kinky. |
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The worst for me was going from a BDSM site to a mainstream dating site. Got asked what I was into and replied with "No blood, no scat, no kids, no animals, no extreme pain, otherwise it's all up for discussion".
Very long silence between messages, then "I meant do you have any hobbies, do you like the cinema?" 
I'm pretty inappropriate at the best of times, so even a non-fab acquaintance will quickly figure out I'm a libidinous old bird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The worst for me was going from a BDSM site to a mainstream dating site. Got asked what I was into and replied with "No blood, no scat, no kids, no animals, no extreme pain, otherwise it's all up for discussion".
Very long silence between messages, then "I meant do you have any hobbies, do you like the cinema?"
I'm pretty inappropriate at the best of times, so even a non-fab acquaintance will quickly figure out I'm a libidinous old bird."
  love this post so much! |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"The worst for me was going from a BDSM site to a mainstream dating site. Got asked what I was into and replied with "No blood, no scat, no kids, no animals, no extreme pain, otherwise it's all up for discussion".
Very long silence between messages, then "I meant do you have any hobbies, do you like the cinema?"
I'm pretty inappropriate at the best of times, so even a non-fab acquaintance will quickly figure out I'm a libidinous old bird."
So do you like the cinema? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More so aimed at the singles on fa, but certainly not limited to them.
Have you ever been getting to know, or chatting to somebody, or on a date with somebody that is "vanilla". They have no idea about fab, and sexual talk is slightly more taboo early on, then without realising it the filter shuts down and you are a bit more sexual with your flirting and conversation? "
"Vanilla" the most overused word on the site |
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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"More so aimed at the singles on fa, but certainly not limited to them.
Have you ever been getting to know, or chatting to somebody, or on a date with somebody that is "vanilla". They have no idea about fab, and sexual talk is slightly more taboo early on, then without realising it the filter shuts down and you are a bit more sexual with your flirting and conversation?
"Vanilla" the most overused word on the site"
good observation, buddy! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Actually its so refreshing to have a normal conversation with the opposite sex not focused around sex. Stimulate my mind!!! It really does get so boring (rolls eyes) the same old, same old and I lose interest very quietly now and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been with my wife since we were at school. Our first date was me carrying her bag to school
The only date I've ever been on was a social with someone on here who I've been involved with for three years now.
I'm not sure if that counts as a date.
Lol no dates but a happy marriage, girlfriend and more sexual partners than anyone I've ever met.
... Thinking dating might not be my thing... |
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