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Meeting anyone here as a single guy seems to be a waste of time?
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Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..
However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.
Win some lose some |
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"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..
However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.
Win some lose some"
If you're struggling to meet, through this site, but do ok at clubs, then maybe you need to consider how you approach people or sell yourself on here?
Maybe ask the people you meet in clubs to give you a recent veri too? |
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He wonders why,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Thats after he's stated on his profile that most people don't tell the truth.
Does he deserve replies, i'll leave that for you to decide |
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over a year ago
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Then use clubs for meeting and fab as a tool to keep in touch with people you meet at said clubs and also a way to keep in the loop at events that are upcoming.
That's pretty much what we do.
I also use the forums to watch how people behave, to see if they have cunty tendencies. I don't care how good a fuck anyone may be, if they're a horrible human then they ain't coming near us.
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"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..
However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.
Win some lose some"
You look like a angry man in your profile would not reply for the reason ..
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I’m 56 and boo hoo boo hoo I’ve never had a meet in a club but I keep my chin up so I think I may as well give up, oh no hold on we all live in hope so I will look at all the positives and crack on.
I’m a fat ugly munter
You are not
This site is jam packed full of time wasters and fakes but there are a lot of very very genuine people on here for the same reasons you are and if you treat it as fun then fun you will have.
Plus you live in the greatest town England has ever seen with the country’s top toppest football team(not) so man up and get fabbing!!!!
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"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..
However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.
Win some lose some"
If anything this place makes you more humble. When next your out there you've already been shut down by a few too many here for it to matter  |
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"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..
However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.
Win some lose some"
Hard work but not a waste of time |
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over a year ago
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It is all in profile and the message.. sell yourself well and things will happen. It won't happen over night.. some ladies and couples have been on here a while so know one another. Single men will struggle unless your a bronzed Adonis but everyone has their own type.. Saying that.. not been to long on here myself .. so still learning the ropes and the messaging protocol.. but sort of easing myself in. Happy Fabbing |
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"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..
However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.
Win some lose some"
Nothing wrong with oliteness with a P 
Fear of rejection... Happens to us all |
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over a year ago
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I’ve had about 10 replies to the hundreds of messages I’ve sent out. However, clubs have been an endless source of conversation and connections. I’m sticking to clubs! |
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Nah your approaching it all wrong. Dont treat it like your ravenous and not eaten in 3 weeks at buffet..
treat it like your in egypt had chronic diarrhea and and suspicious of everything at the buffet |
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