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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"Obviously I mean when the veris indicate they have played!"
Why does it have any impact on you? If its MMF there's no guarantee they played.
Hetero flexible is a thing. Where they can play with someone of same sex but dont have an attraction nor do they fancy same sex
So they are straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
I agree it looks iffy.
I’ve a female friend who comes and goes from Fab, she asks me to verify her when she joins and I always say don’t verify me back but she does.
Soooo annoying which is why I don’t show my verifications - I’d appear to have double standards as I wouldn’t knowingly meet a bi guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No issue for as as could be a social meet or a mmmmmmmmmmf meet but profiles that say they are straight but want to meet men or Veris that say fucked or sucked me dry blah blah we pass by.
Being bi must be great and all power to you but why hide the fact because if you’re not honest about that what else are you dishonest about!!!
Tony (I think I’m straight but if I ever dabbled I’d change my profile) |
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"Anyone can verify if they've met. I've plenty veris from straight women. Dont see the issue "
Agree, it is valid.
I'd happily veri a guy as being a genuine swinger if we met whilst entertaining a/some ladies.
Another guy being a fellow swinger does not automatically make us both guy.
We both enjoy women and have no sexual interest in men - nothing wrong with recognising that with a veri! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on. |
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By *eah101 OP Couple
over a year ago
scunthorpe |
"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on. "
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can only catch the bi or ghey if they enjoy it  "
I dunno mate you can catch it off pint glasses you know. You have to be careful..
I also caught 'ginger' off a pint glass back in the 90s. I used to be white blonde you know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
Lots of guys here suck cock
Sure putting bi on profile helps
Many though don't
Same would be if a woman verifies me but I am straight does not make me bi though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can only catch the bi or ghey if they enjoy it
I dunno mate you can catch it off pint glasses you know. You have to be careful..
I also caught 'ginger' off a pint glass back in the 90s. I used to be white blonde you know..."
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"Maybe they met at a social, or for an mfm, or know each other outside of fab? "
Yup, happens a lot. Also a lot of guys who ARE bi don't put it in their profile because of inevitable homophobia. For a lot of guys, when I chat and make clear that for me a bi guy is actually a plus, they feel safe enough to open up and discuss it.
Not everyone can be out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure why this always seems to come up. Iv seen plenty of straight women who veris from women and no one seems to have an issue with this. "
This ^^^ I'm straight and have lots of veris from ladies through socials etc |
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
Im bi, but verified by a straight man, who i haven't had sex with, and never will. How should i punish myself? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol"
Fair enough lol |
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"Obviously I mean when the veris indicate they have played!"
Since those veris are public, forming part of their profile it's as if they qualified what they think straight means, by assuming you'll check his veris.
Slightly warped definition of straight (in my personal opinion - others may differ) but not dishonest as it's there for you to see. |
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
I'm a great believer that sexuality should describe your usual preference, rather than being a straitjacket that dictates how you can experiment and who with. This is most likely a social veri, but so what if the guy did have a sex meet with another guy? Perhaps he still mostly fancies women, and is most comfortable considering himself straight.
Of course a lot of bi guys profile as straight on here precisely because women reject them for being bisexual. If the bi prejudice didn't exist (bi male prejudice, that is, since swinging seems to have no problem with female bisexuality) then maybe they could be more honest with and about themselves. |
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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago
Midlands |
"If the bi prejudice didn't exist (bi male prejudice, that is, since swinging seems to have no problem with female bisexuality) then maybe they could be more honest with and about themselves."
Just another slice of female privilege |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the bi prejudice didn't exist (bi male prejudice, that is, since swinging seems to have no problem with female bisexuality) then maybe they could be more honest with and about themselves.
Just another slice of female privilege"
Why would bi men want to have sex with women or couples that do not want bisexual men? It is wrong for both sides concerned. Just concentrate on those who want you for you and stop lying your way into people’s beds ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the bi prejudice didn't exist (bi male prejudice, that is, since swinging seems to have no problem with female bisexuality) then maybe they could be more honest with and about themselves.
Just another slice of female privilege
Why would bi men want to have sex with women or couples that do not want bisexual men? It is wrong for both sides concerned. Just concentrate on those who want you for you and stop lying your way into people’s beds ??"
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You know what.... I've been verified by a man
It says that on the profile now, because he's changed the profile from the couple I met earlier in the year. I'm not overly pleased by it, but there's not a great deal I can do other than keep the veri live to show it was written by the lady in the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know what.... I've been verified by a man
It says that on the profile now, because he's changed the profile from the couple I met earlier in the year. I'm not overly pleased by it, but there's not a great deal I can do other than keep the veri live to show it was written by the lady in the couple. "
Fairytale |
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"You know what.... I've been verified by a man
It says that on the profile now, because he's changed the profile from the couple I met earlier in the year. I'm not overly pleased by it, but there's not a great deal I can do other than keep the veri live to show it was written by the lady in the couple.
Fairytale"
You rang? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
No definitely correct, D here I once had a mmf with a supposedly straight couple. During the play the guy of the couple started to stick his tongue out like a lizard towards my cock awkward. A quick no thanks and out the door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what.... I've been verified by a man
It says that on the profile now, because he's changed the profile from the couple I met earlier in the year. I'm not overly pleased by it, but there's not a great deal I can do other than keep the veri live to show it was written by the lady in the couple.
Fairytale
You rang? "
Haha knew you got the joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I gotta be honest, i don't get the hang up on this??
Pleasure is pleasure, does it matter how it is arrived at? Esp on a swinger site? I find labels a little constructive... |
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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?
Im bi, but verified by a straight man, who i haven't had sex with, and never will. How should i punish myself?"
Shave your beard. |
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?
Im bi, but verified by a straight man, who i haven't had sex with, and never will. How should i punish myself?
Shave your beard. "
Into a soul patch.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol"
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of."
Only offensive to politically correct sensitive types yes, not the rest of us who appreciate people have PREFERENCES |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of."
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Only offensive to politically correct sensitive types yes, not the rest of us who appreciate people have PREFERENCES "
I wasn't talking about politically incorrect, insensitive types, I was answering for myself, so bog off and don't circumvent your block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Only offensive to politically correct sensitive types yes, not the rest of us who appreciate people have PREFERENCES
I wasn't talking about politically incorrect, insensitive types, I was answering for myself, so bog off and don't circumvent your block."
Your politically correct virtue signalling lecturing posts do get tiresome mate, but I have no problem telling you that |
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
I have a veri from the m half of a couple. It's purely social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the bi prejudice didn't exist (bi male prejudice, that is, since swinging seems to have no problem with female bisexuality) then maybe they could be more honest with and about themselves.
Just another slice of female privilege
Why would bi men want to have sex with women or couples that do not want bisexual men? It is wrong for both sides concerned. Just concentrate on those who want you for you and stop lying your way into people’s beds ??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously I mean when the veris indicate they have played!"
I agree. I hate it when they lie openly, they're just taking the piss. Makes it easy to avoid them though. |
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of."
You wouldnt personally meet bi men or you find the fact thay someone who wouldn't meet one offensive? I'm confused lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my verifactions show I played in the same scene as a man and I have played with men in the past but I dont consider myself bi as i dont have any sexual attraction to the man and that's not where my gratification comes from. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me. I have female veris doesn't mean I've played with them. And even if they have so what. Of you don't like it move on. People can write what they want in their profiles. They may have had a threesome that involved another guy doesn't make them bi tho. I find the easiest way to be in here is just do your own thing of you like someone then chat and meet of you don't like something about someone just move on.
If I don’t like it then move on? Maybe that’s what should of done!
I was only starting a conversation on one of my thoughts. I just feel it’s on par with married men pretending to be single or fake couple profiles!
This wasn’t meant to offend anyone just a convo about what irritates me lol
"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Only offensive to politically correct sensitive types yes, not the rest of us who appreciate people have PREFERENCES
I wasn't talking about politically incorrect, insensitive types, I was answering for myself, so bog off and don't circumvent your block."
He is allowed to answer any post, whether blocked or not
What people are not allowed to do is ask for the block/ filters to be unblocked or put people on the spot about blocks, a bit like you did...just ignore a persons post if you don't want them to speak to you. |
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?"
Being more turned on by a woman who likes to dress up in heels etc, loving guys who are shaved below, having a thing for submissive partners, these are things that can affect how you interact/react to someone in a sexual situation.
Saying, "Because you are also attracted to men I don't like you sexually even if everything else about you is attractive to me."
It just seems more of a prejudice than a preference... if it's something that isn't visible or tangible and it doesn't affect your experience sexually, is it really a preference?
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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I am a straight guy and I have verifications from men.The verifications I have from guys are quite clear that it was at a organised social , event or a club and nothing sexual happened between us.However that doesn’t seem to stop some guys thinking I am not been honest when I say I am straight l always say to them read the verification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?
Being more turned on by a woman who likes to dress up in heels etc, loving guys who are shaved below, having a thing for submissive partners, these are things that can affect how you interact/react to someone in a sexual situation.
Saying, "Because you are also attracted to men I don't like you sexually even if everything else about you is attractive to me."
It just seems more of a prejudice than a preference... if it's something that isn't visible or tangible and it doesn't affect your experience sexually, is it really a preference?
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I am not straight and do not find it offensive simply as it puts a lady off if a man has been with another man sexually. We all have preferences or desires, political correctness needs to stay out the bedroom. Their bodies, their choice |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?
Being more turned on by a woman who likes to dress up in heels etc, loving guys who are shaved below, having a thing for submissive partners, these are things that can affect how you interact/react to someone in a sexual situation.
Saying, "Because you are also attracted to men I don't like you sexually even if everything else about you is attractive to me."
It just seems more of a prejudice than a preference... if it's something that isn't visible or tangible and it doesn't affect your experience sexually, is it really a preference?
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It might affect your sexual experience, it did us on one meet.
We got told once a person wouldn't meet us because we were straight and they wanted bi play....we were not offended |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
Stockport |
"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
Having had another thought on this (hence the deleted one).
What if I had a social with a straight man because it was to do with whats on my profile? (Indoor rock climbing) Or to do with my sport?
Does that make both of us straight males gay?
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I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,??? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,??? "
Had you met him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,??? "
You basically gave a fake verification and said it loud  |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
Had you met him? "
No he hadn't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
You basically gave a fake verification and said it loud "
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?
Having had another thought on this (hence the deleted one).
What if I had a social with a straight man because it was to do with whats on my profile? (Indoor rock climbing) Or to do with my sport?
Does that make both of us straight males gay?
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I avoided head injury here by placing a cushion on my desk.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
Had you met him?
No he hadn't.
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Oh. Then yes, that was wrong |
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
Could be a friend etc. Unless the profile said "straight" and the verification from the male was sexual I wouldn't jump to conclusions. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,??? "
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things?"
The wait is too bloody long ! We want to know ffs !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things?
The wait is too bloody long ! We want to know ffs !! "
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things?
The wait is too bloody long ! We want to know ffs !! "
I wait with delicious anticipation...did he cam or not?
The saga continues. |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things?
The wait is too bloody long ! We want to know ffs !!
I wait with delicious anticipation...did he cam or not?
The saga continues."
I've stopped eating biscuits waiting for the answer.
Edge of seat stuff this!
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things?"
no I didn't,
I did click on his profile, further than I ever went with another male on here lol,
Does that count, lol |
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
You basically gave a fake verification and said it loud
Oops "
I did and I'm ok with it,
I'll await my ban
And I'm still ok with it,
If it got the pair of them up and running on here, then I ain't gonna loose any sleep over it |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things? no I didn't,
I did click on his profile, further than I ever went with another male on here lol,
Does that count, lol"
Noooo, take it back, quick, delete delete delete |
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over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
If you hadn't met or cammed him yes...did you do either of those things? no I didn't,
I did click on his profile, further than I ever went with another male on here lol,
Does that count, lol"
If you 75% bi you may get away with it |
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"To the OP we have been verified by a man who says he is 75% gay, we have never played with him
75% Did he not touch hubbies testicles? 
The management in Wetherspoons might have objected"
Try the Babington, they have no scruples in there |
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
Had you met him?
No he hadn't.
Oh. Then yes, that was wrong "
What's my punishment
And you don't have to be gentle with me,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?"
Maybe you should stick to enforcing the rules and not dishing out personal opinions to users unable to respond in kind? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
You basically gave a fake verification and said it loud
Oops I did and I'm ok with it,
I'll await my ban
And I'm still ok with it,
If it got the pair of them up and running on here, then I ain't gonna loose any sleep over it "
This is why it is against rules to do these things, you haf no clue who you are verifying...being banned is not worth the risk if you wanted to stay on the site |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?
Maybe you should stick to enforcing the rules and not dishing out personal opinions to users unable to respond in kind?"
Maybe you should send that feedback to Admin who allow mods to join in on the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?
Maybe you should stick to enforcing the rules and not dishing out personal opinions to users unable to respond in kind?
Maybe you should send that feedback to Admin who allow mods to join in on the forum"
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
Had you met him?
No he hadn't.
Oh. Then yes, that was wrong
What's my punishment
And you don't have to be gentle with me,, "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"To the OP we have been verified by a man who says he is 75% gay, we have never played with him
75% Did he not touch hubbies testicles?
The management in Wetherspoons might have objected
Try the Babington, they have no scruples in there "
We have scruples though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure why but this irritates the hell out of me. It shows dishonesty straight away. Be true to yourself! arggghh
Am I alone on this?"
Depends what's on the verification. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't knowingly meet a bi guy". Offensive. End of.
Maybe the offended should get a thicker skin?
Why would a preference offend someone?
Maybe you should stick to enforcing the rules and not dishing out personal opinions to users unable to respond in kind?
Maybe you should send that feedback to Admin who allow mods to join in on the forum"
PS the respond in kind comment I am not sure what that means as we have no block between each other but if we did you are allowed to answer anyone on the forum as explained on my previous post about mail blocks
If my explanation of those rules were not clear, you check them out on the rules itself here.
https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I verified a dude last week here who met another newbie the night before and neither could verify each other, he came on here for advice and got slated, so seeing as it was Christmas and I was feeling in a good mood I did the guy a fav.
Was I wrong ,,,???
You basically gave a fake verification and said it loud
Oops I did and I'm ok with it,
I'll await my ban
And I'm still ok with it,
If it got the pair of them up and running on here, then I ain't gonna loose any sleep over it "
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Maybe you should send that feedback to Admin who allow mods to join in on the forum"
Absolutely. Some mods come and go, but but if you weren't here then the entire site may just implode
We all love you Ruggers 
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Who verified who doesn’t bother me but I don’t fully understand why people don’t own their sexuality. I have bi guy friends and the amount of messages they get from guys whose profile says straight but messages say they are bi is unreal. It’s fab. Own it. No one cares if you like dick as well right?
I consider myself hetero flexible. I’m not bi but I’ll play with the right girl now & then. So my profile states bi-curios cos flexi ain’t an option |
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"Who verified who doesn’t bother me but I don’t fully understand why people don’t own their sexuality. I have bi guy friends and the amount of messages they get from guys whose profile says straight but messages say they are bi is unreal. It’s fab. Own it. No one cares if you like dick as well right?
I consider myself hetero flexible. I’m not bi but I’ll play with the right girl now & then. So my profile states bi-curios cos flexi ain’t an option "
No, people really do care. I wish they didn't and I wish people did feel free to be open about their sexually knowing people would be comfortable with it but they're not. |
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"Who verified who doesn’t bother me but I don’t fully understand why people don’t own their sexuality. I have bi guy friends and the amount of messages they get from guys whose profile says straight but messages say they are bi is unreal. It’s fab. Own it. No one cares if you like dick as well right?
I consider myself hetero flexible. I’m not bi but I’ll play with the right girl now & then. So my profile states bi-curios cos flexi ain’t an option
No, people really do care. I wish they didn't and I wish people did feel free to be open about their sexually knowing people would be comfortable with it but they're not. "
Ah maybe I should rephrase it. You shouldn’t care if people don’t like the fact that you like both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a man veri.
As a straight man I do still talk to other men and have acquired a mate on here who I occasionally wing man for or go for a pint.
It does not mean I have shagged him LOL |
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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago
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"Who verified who doesn’t bother me but I don’t fully understand why people don’t own their sexuality. I have bi guy friends and the amount of messages they get from guys whose profile says straight but messages say they are bi is unreal. It’s fab. Own it. No one cares if you like dick as well right?
I consider myself hetero flexible. I’m not bi but I’ll play with the right girl now & then. So my profile states bi-curios cos flexi ain’t an option
No, people really do care. I wish they didn't and I wish people did feel free to be open about their sexually knowing people would be comfortable with it but they're not.
Ah maybe I should rephrase it. You shouldn’t care if people don’t like the fact that you like both. "
Yes, ideally bi guys shouldn't care, but that's easier said then done. |
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I am a straight man, and have two veris from other straight males. there's nothing dishonest about them, it just shows men are capable of networking too. You wouldn't believe how many women and couples are fakes and time wasters in here |
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