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Organised to meet a lady at 5 in Sheffield I messaged to to confirm it’s on ... yes yes all systems go
And then stood up no notice no message phone call
Well I like to think of myself as a gentlemen and that everything happens for a reason .
She’s missed out on a great night full of laughter and joy
It stings though    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude 
I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though."
agreed very frustrating  |
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"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....
*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*  "
Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on...."
Aftermath of too many sprouts... In a confined space at work! Or am hour long exam |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....
*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*
Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns! "
Self infliction. Tough titties lady  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Yep sounds like “He” missed out..
Getting stupid on here, Now you have to do a veri trawl to veri the veries.
Had a single gem one the other day, six veris all dodgy as fuck.
& Gen newbies wonder why no one will meet them ?? |
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"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....
*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*
Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!
Self infliction. Tough titties lady "
Where's the  fadge just where is the |
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"Organised to meet a lady at 5 in Sheffield I messaged to to confirm it’s on ... yes yes all systems go
And then stood up no notice no message phone call
Well I like to think of myself as a gentlemen and that everything happens for a reason .
She’s missed out on a great night full of laughter and joy
It stings though "
It's good to be gracious about it but yes, totally get that it must have stung...sorry to hear |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....
*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*
Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!
Self infliction. Tough titties lady
Where's the fadge just where is the "
Love is someone cooking steak,chips and mushrooms after a long drive  hint hint |
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"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....
*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*
Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!
Self infliction. Tough titties lady
Where's the fadge just where is the
Love is someone cooking steak,chips and mushrooms after a long drive hint hint "
Will you vaseline my bum then?  |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....
*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*
Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!
Self infliction. Tough titties lady
Where's the fadge just where is the
Love is someone cooking steak,chips and mushrooms after a long drive hint hint
Will you vaseline my bum then? "
Ooooh eerrrrr  |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring "
You find it boring, everybody else has been supportive. That's the plus side if the forums, people can see another facet of people's personalities beyond their profile. |
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By *rbubbleMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring
You find it boring, everybody else has been supportive. That's the plus side if the forums, people can see another facet of people's personalities beyond their profile. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Similair happened to me recently, chatting with someone, unable to meet due to conflicting schedules, then, when we are both free, we arrange to meet, I message to confirm its still on and they do a houdini, life goes on though. |
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"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring
You find it boring, everybody else has been supportive. That's the plus side if the forums, people can see another facet of people's personalities beyond their profile.
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I don't find this boring. The forum is a good place to express feelings and to be supportive of each other. |
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"Similair happened to me recently, chatting with someone, unable to meet due to conflicting schedules, then, when we are both free, we arrange to meet, I message to confirm its still on and they do a houdini, life goes on though. "
It does go on but to disappear without explanation when things have gone so far is bad form.
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"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring "
if you find it boring move on keep scrolling till something interests you . No need to be negative about it  |
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"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring "
The last thing I look for is sympathy but thanks for your input
If I ever need a see through ball full of hot air I’ll be in touch (mr bubble) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yup! Been there.. Began a relationship with a couple, built up trust and respect. Arranged to meet, drove to London and.. They disappeared! Absolutely nothing wrong with saying 'sorry, you're not for me', I get that.. But to waste time, effort and money. Well, its a bit shit really! |
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"Yup! Been there.. Began a relationship with a couple, built up trust and respect. Arranged to meet, drove to London and.. They disappeared! Absolutely nothing wrong with saying 'sorry, you're not for me', I get that.. But to waste time, effort and money. Well, its a bit shit really! "
This is my exact thought anyways I’m out before I get into bother |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"Thanks for sharing this boring story 
No need to be rude
Thanks
Anyways I’ll stick my dummy back in and put my big boy pants on "
You didn't spit your dummy out. You vented your frustration and disappointment, without resorting to tarring all women with the same brush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same thing happened to me.
We had arranged to go for lunch. Great comms all the day before, and the morning then just didn’t show up.
I got an apology the next day asking to reschedule.
Such a giant waste of my time. |
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"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude
I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though.
Sorry to disappoint "
Yeah, ghosting like that is really rotten, tbh I'd prefer a crappy lie that I can see through over absolutely no message at all.
It's also one of the reasons I insist on social meets before actual meets BC if someone is prone to last min call offs/cold feet then it's better I find out in a coffee shop in the afternoon the the evening of a meet when I've bathed, scrubbed, moisturised waxed and changed the bed/booked a hotel. |
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"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude
I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though.
Sorry to disappoint
Yeah, ghosting like that is really rotten, tbh I'd prefer a crappy lie that I can see through over absolutely no message at all.
It's also one of the reasons I insist on social meets before actual meets BC if someone is prone to last min call offs/cold feet then it's better I find out in a coffee shop in the afternoon the the evening of a meet when I've bathed, scrubbed, moisturised waxed and changed the bed/booked a hotel."
It was just a social meet but stood up at the bar |
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"The same thing happened to me.
We had arranged to go for lunch. Great comms all the day before, and the morning then just didn’t show up.
I got an apology the next day asking to reschedule.
Such a giant waste of my time. "
Their loss by the looks of things |
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"Thanks for sharing this boring story
No need to be rude
Thanks
Anyways I’ll stick my dummy back in and put my big boy pants on
You didn't spit your dummy out. You vented your frustration and disappointment, without resorting to tarring all women with the same brush "
I would never tar anyone with the same brush and too much of a nice guy to start hurling abuse like some of the rascals here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm used to it now! Drove an hour (2 hours there and back) to meet a couple a few weeks back and it was all systems go and then as soon as I arrived they stopped replying.
I've been chatting with some single women aswell and all of a sudden after saying they are just after nsa sex they decide they have had enough of one nighters.
I suppose both men and women are indecisive but I keep reading the same things on these forums about not getting messages and when you do get messages you get stood up anyway lol.
It's extremely difficult for single men on here and in general.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Organised to meet a lady at 5 in Sheffield I messaged to to confirm it’s on ... yes yes all systems go
And then stood up no notice no message phone call
Well I like to think of myself as a gentlemen and that everything happens for a reason .
She’s missed out on a great night full of laughter and joy
It stings though "
name and shame if it was a bloke it would be everywhere by now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t judge too harshly .... cold feet sometimes cause this to happen.
Cold feet is no excuse for bad manners and wasting someones precious time. A one minute message to cancel is all it takes."
Agreed |
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"Don’t judge too harshly .... cold feet sometimes cause this to happen.
Cold feet is no excuse for bad manners and wasting someones precious time. A one minute message to cancel is all it takes."
This is my thought
I see myself as a gentleman I know I’d have let her know if I couldn’t make it for any reason |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Just to add we got stood up by someone we’d previously met & played with & they contacted us about a second meet at a club, all organised & they didn’t turn up, no contact, no nothing.
Two days later they send a message & act like nothing has happened!
Yeah Righto, bye then!!
So it’s not just newbies & fakes that do it!
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"Just to add we got stood up by someone we’d previously met & played with & they contacted us about a second meet at a club, all organised & they didn’t turn up, no contact, no nothing.
Two days later they send a message & act like nothing has happened!
Yeah Righto, bye then!!
So it’s not just newbies & fakes that do it!
S"
Sorry to hear that
Surely it’s just good manners and polite to let folk know if you’re not going to make it  |
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