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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind flirting with them, if they like it, gives em a boost, bless em  "
Harmless friendly flirting, yeah sure, with zero intent it going further than that.
Also the married/attached bit is not a factor in my interest of doing so. I'm just a friendly flirt if I like somebody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones that have been married longer, flirt the most..
I have entertained a few in bars, mainly when working abroad. But I have never taken it any further |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have zero interest in married women I know aren't swinging. The thought of Seducing a woman with her husbands permission though is a massive turn on. "
yes, all the above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's seduction then?"
This is not the first thread you don’t know what the subject is. Eg Flirting.
I strongly recommend “The Ladybird book of everything you needed to know about sex but was too scared to google”. Amazon £4.99. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a broad brush...
Strangely, I like seeing photos of women who have wedding rings on, out that hand around a c*ck in a photo and it’s even sexier... put it around mind and oh, hello! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single or married for flirting or fun I have never segregated one from the other. As long as it is consensual fun and you both enjoy each other then why not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys like to seduce married women?
Is it a big thrill?"
For me its not the thrill. Its the fact they are more discreet, private and unlikely to stalk and pester you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys like to seduce married women?
Is it a big thrill?
Nope, no interest in married or attached people outside of the swinging world."
Then how you going to swing with couples? |
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"What's seduction then?
This is not the first thread you don’t know what the subject is. Eg Flirting.
I strongly recommend “The Ladybird book of everything you needed to know about sex but was too scared to google”. Amazon £4.99. "
Or I'm taking the piss...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people."
Well thanks it’s nice of you guys to say that it makes a nice change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys like to seduce married women?
Is it a big thrill?
For me its not the thrill. Its the fact they are more discreet, private and unlikely to stalk and pester you.
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Same with married men. I’ve said before, in my experience on here the married men have been more respectful and what I deem as “normal”! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys like to seduce married women?
Is it a big thrill?"
Only in the swinging/sharing world. Would never do it with somebody who lived in the vanilla world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people."
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site? |
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?"
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat "
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys like to seduce married women?
Is it a big thrill?
Is this a trick question? Everyone knows married women don't have sex. "
It’s true. I’m still a virgin |
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating. "
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of the few 'affairs' I experienced, I doubt I was the seducer. The women were just waiting for someone suitable to happen along.
It all seemed rather too slick. I thought I was the leading player, but that soon dissipated, as they proved highly capable and experienced.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating.
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating? "
Not cheating no |
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating.
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating?
Not cheating no "
I don’t see it as cheating. (Side note i am working on him to join me on this ride) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating.
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating?
Not cheating no
I don’t see it as cheating. (Side note i am working on him to join me on this ride) "
If he's aware of it then no, of course not. Cheating is lying to or betraying a partner. If he had no idea then you'd be be cheating, if he's not interested and happy to just let you get on with it then that's just how your marriage works. And marriages work in far stranger ways than that. |
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating.
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating?
Not cheating no
I don’t see it as cheating. (Side note i am working on him to join me on this ride)
If he's aware of it then no, of course not. Cheating is lying to or betraying a partner. If he had no idea then you'd be be cheating, if he's not interested and happy to just let you get on with it then that's just how your marriage works. And marriages work in far stranger ways than that. "
For me this is the grey area. Currently “we” don’t swing but I don’t cheat .. it is what it is ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating.
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating?
Not cheating no
I don’t see it as cheating. (Side note i am working on him to join me on this ride)
If he's aware of it then no, of course not. Cheating is lying to or betraying a partner. If he had no idea then you'd be be cheating, if he's not interested and happy to just let you get on with it then that's just how your marriage works. And marriages work in far stranger ways than that.
For me this is the grey area. Currently “we” don’t swing but I don’t cheat .. it is what it is ... "
Thats not grey though is it thats black and white. He knows so its not cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Sometimes things aren’t always so black & white. There’s a definite grey area between swing & cheat
I'm very fond of grey areas but there's a definite strong black line between swinging and cheating.
So I’m married. He doesn’t play. He doesn’t swing. He turns a blind eye. Am I swinging or cheating?
Not cheating no
I don’t see it as cheating. (Side note i am working on him to join me on this ride)
If he's aware of it then no, of course not. Cheating is lying to or betraying a partner. If he had no idea then you'd be be cheating, if he's not interested and happy to just let you get on with it then that's just how your marriage works. And marriages work in far stranger ways than that.
For me this is the grey area. Currently “we” don’t swing but I don’t cheat .. it is what it is ... "
It's not a grey area to me, they're two different things. It doesn't matter what you call it, if you're having sex or being intimate (the spanking scene is bursting with people playing in secret) and your partner doesn't know and wouldn't be OK with it if they did then you're cheating. If you're single or your partner is aware and OK with it then you're not. But that's just what I think and fuck knows I'm no guru  |
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?"
Why should people feel the need to belittle others though. No need tk. If people don't like it, then move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men and women find it a turn on, some don't.
What we find unneccesary on this site is the constant belittleling of 'cheating' people.
Swinging is about total trust and honesty in a couple. Cheating is the exact opposite. If they don't want to be judged negatively, why join a Swinging site?
Why should people feel the need to belittle others though. No need tk. If people don't like it, then move on. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the moral debate is redundant. This is about folk knowingly cheating or adultery.
The sexual chemistry with cheating women is a thing of its own. I'd say the sex was some of the hottest I've had.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting how so many are adverse to anyone calling a cheat a cheat. They are deceiving, lying and potential ruining others lives, maybe leading to marriage break up, emotionally and physically effecting their kids, may lead to depression or suicide of a partner (this is real life).
I wonder if any of us saw someone stealing in a shop or take someones handbag or car we'd report it, right, or would we turn and look the other way and say, its not that simple as we don't know their circumstances. So the moral argument stands or is it just subjective morals that are acceptable, in which case we have no need for laws or judicial systems.
On that note would the cheat feel entitled to legal help? Just a though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me the attraction with a married woman is that I can give them something they want or need. Know the possible outcomes at the end of it I.e limited or no chance of a relationship, but the thrill of giving them what they want is a huge turn on for me. |
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