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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
I'm a mint choc chip |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
I don’t think I’m kinky. Others may. It’s very subjective. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that it's all relative; I never considered myself kinky until a meet last year.
To place it in general context, I overheard a conversation this morning at work, that made me realise that everyone on here would be considered a deviant by Joe public. After that it's just a case of 'how' kinky and what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that it's all relative; I never considered myself kinky until a meet last year.
To place it in general context, I overheard a conversation this morning at work, that made me realise that everyone on here would be considered a deviant by Joe public. After that it's just a case of 'how' kinky and what it is. "
Yeah... I get this feeling too..
But even then, I’m sure Joe Public has kinky fantasies, or perhaps watches kinky porn in secret, but they don’t act them out.
I wanna believe everyone is a smorgasbord of filth. |
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
Kink is subjective .....what many on here think of as kinky is vanilla to me.
I definitely view myself as kinky....but some of what I call kink is a fetish and some might call weird, or other may view it as normal considering their own views
Each to their own   |
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
Love Neapolitan! A bit of each  |
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Me!! I don't consider myself at all kinky... But it seems to be a matter of perspective, because some of my playmates and friends think I'm very kinky. I've even had my ex's girlfriend recently thank me for his 'sexual awakening' which he apparently credited me with, and now she thinks I'm a completely filthy deviant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we just going to post what ice-creams we are?
Yo baby, tell me what’s your flavour?
What’s your sign?"
I’m mint choc chip if we’re still on the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a very active and intense spanking fetishist and sub. But I'm not looking for that kind of play here so in terms of the way I operate on this account I'd be considered pretty vanilla really. With my partner, anything but. |
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As you go through life your horizons become broader each decade and what may be thought of as kinky is the norm for some folk...that is those who live out the fantasy they have always cherished are living life to the full, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty vanilla. Apart from a fetish for womens underwear, I'm nonchalant towards bondage and I eschew pain. So yeah, I'm vanilla."
Do you mean wearing it or admiring it? (I'm not taking the piss, it's a genuine question) |
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"I'm pretty vanilla. Apart from a fetish for womens underwear, I'm nonchalant towards bondage and I eschew pain. So yeah, I'm vanilla.
Do you mean wearing it or admiring it? (I'm not taking the piss, it's a genuine question) "
Wear, but I dont do it that often any more I rarely feel sexy these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having sex with a 3rd person (mmf) or, if we're lucky another couple is as kinky as it gets, at least so far. We use toys and do a bit of anal now and again on our own but with fab meets I haven't seen anyone enough times to feel confident and get adventurous so our meets are as vanilla as a fab meet can be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty vanilla. Apart from a fetish for womens underwear, I'm nonchalant towards bondage and I eschew pain. So yeah, I'm vanilla.
Do you mean wearing it or admiring it? (I'm not taking the piss, it's a genuine question)
Wear, but I dont do it that often any more I rarely feel sexy these days."
I hope that both those things change for you |
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Compared to some I definitely don't rate on the kinky spectrum. Compared to others I am. However I don't describe myself as kinky and my interest is rarely piqued by profiles that are kink centric. I'm not ashamed of being vanilla with nuts and chocolate sauce. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I am kinky or have kinks.
It really depends on the dynamic between myself and the person I am with, can't say I am into something, because it changes depending in who I am with
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compared to some I definitely don't rate on the kinky spectrum. Compared to others I am. However I don't describe myself as kinky and my interest is rarely piqued by profiles that are kink centric. I'm not ashamed of being vanilla with nuts and chocolate sauce."
Despite my long term interest in kink I've never, ever lost my taste for purely vanilla, straight suck n fuck sex. And to me it's every bit as exciting and fulfilling as the kinkiest play you can imagine. To me the only thing that matters is to love what you do. If you love straight sex then do that, it's a damn beautiful thing to love |
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"Compared to some I definitely don't rate on the kinky spectrum. Compared to others I am. However I don't describe myself as kinky and my interest is rarely piqued by profiles that are kink centric. I'm not ashamed of being vanilla with nuts and chocolate sauce."
You are wonderfully nuts though
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"Compared to some I definitely don't rate on the kinky spectrum. Compared to others I am. However I don't describe myself as kinky and my interest is rarely piqued by profiles that are kink centric. I'm not ashamed of being vanilla with nuts and chocolate sauce.
Despite my long term interest in kink I've never, ever lost my taste for purely vanilla, straight suck n fuck sex. And to me it's every bit as exciting and fulfilling as the kinkiest play you can imagine. To me the only thing that matters is to love what you do. If you love straight sex then do that, it's a damn beautiful thing to love "
Fuck yes.....vanilla sex with someone I am really into can be just as hot ....it is about balance....straight up missionary, legs spread wide with a super sexy guy to watch slowly pushing his cock in and out of my wet pussy ( I am flexible I can almost see the same view that he has) is fucking sexy.... |
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"I'm pretty vanilla. Apart from a fetish for womens underwear, I'm nonchalant towards bondage and I eschew pain. So yeah, I'm vanilla.
Do you mean wearing it or admiring it? (I'm not taking the piss, it's a genuine question)
Wear, but I dont do it that often any more I rarely feel sexy these days.
I hope that both those things change for you "
Yeah and me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty vanilla. Apart from a fetish for womens underwear, I'm nonchalant towards bondage and I eschew pain. So yeah, I'm vanilla.
Do you mean wearing it or admiring it? (I'm not taking the piss, it's a genuine question)
Wear, but I dont do it that often any more I rarely feel sexy these days.
I hope that both those things change for you
Yeah and me "
I don't want to sound like some dreary elder of the parish but all the best sex I've had, kinky or otherwise has been since I turned forty with men my own age. I suspect you have it all to come |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I'm not vanilla but I'm not full on kinky either. I am somewhere in the middle and I depends on who I am with as well.I like to try new things with people who enjoy them. But some of the best sex I have had was just what would be considered vanilla but when you have chemistry with someone that can be amazing.  |
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"I'm not vanilla but I'm not full on kinky either. I am somewhere in the middle and I depends on who I am with as well.I like to try new things with people who enjoy them. But some of the best sex I have had was just what would be considered vanilla but when you have chemistry with someone that can be amazing. "
Yes....one could almost turn vanilla full time for my current fuck buddy....oh hang on....not totally for he likes to fuck me when others are watching  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm vanilla...
Ok, ok...that's a lie!
But then, I dont wanna put hooks in your back and take pics of you in a pig mask baking a cake lol......
I've got my little kinks that seem normal to me and I'll quite happily stick to those for now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm vanilla...
Ok, ok...that's a lie!
But then, I dont wanna put hooks in your back and take pics of you in a pig mask baking a cake lol......
I've got my little kinks that seem normal to me and I'll quite happily stick to those for now "
How did you know I was baking a Victoria Sponge in a pig mask?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, y'know.... it is Xmas and it's a magical time lol
No seriously...are you?? Hahaha
You just never know!
"I'm vanilla...
Ok, ok...that's a lie!
But then, I dont wanna put hooks in your back and take pics of you in a pig mask baking a cake lol......
I've got my little kinks that seem normal to me and I'll quite happily stick to those for now
How did you know I was baking a Victoria Sponge in a pig mask?!"
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"I'm pretty vanilla. Apart from a fetish for womens underwear, I'm nonchalant towards bondage and I eschew pain. So yeah, I'm vanilla.
Do you mean wearing it or admiring it? (I'm not taking the piss, it's a genuine question)
Wear, but I dont do it that often any more I rarely feel sexy these days.
I hope that both those things change for you
Yeah and me
I don't want to sound like some dreary elder of the parish but all the best sex I've had, kinky or otherwise has been since I turned forty with men my own age. I suspect you have it all to come "
God I hope so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
vanilla people dont exist lets face it did we change anything about ourselves when we joined this site, no we didn't this is life, this internet domain is a meeting point for those of us who want to meet and a connection for those who want to chat or a messaging service for those who have made friends and keep in touch here   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
I like veggie flavours |
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"I’m not kinky. More uninhibited.
If only all women were like you  "
That is tarring all women with same brush...something that I am surprised you are doing considering you are on a swingers site forum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't consider myself kinky but also not vanilla....raspberry ripple maybe
Delicious. I’m going to dig around to find the swirls."
Hopefully next month you can dig around as much as you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't consider myself kinky but also not vanilla....raspberry ripple maybe
Delicious. I’m going to dig around to find the swirls.
Hopefully next month you can dig around as much as you like "
Is this a bring your own spoon party? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't consider myself kinky but also not vanilla....raspberry ripple maybe
Delicious. I’m going to dig around to find the swirls.
Hopefully next month you can dig around as much as you like
Is this a bring your own spoon party?"
You’ll have to bring your own spoon because angelic is mine. Hands off |
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"I’m not kinky. More uninhibited.
If only all women were like you
That is tarring all women with same brush...something that I am surprised you are doing considering you are on a swingers site forum "
Twas joking, surely you dont really think that I'd would want that?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
Me not kinky and prefer vanilla anyday!
What is Neapolitan? |
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It's tough, as lots of people settle themselves firmly inside their own boundaries of habit, even though they know that they would like some things that are way beyond those limits - they may have the interests but little to no. Intention of breaking out and exploring. They may have some basic sex within one or several staid relationships.
I have some limits but much of my exploration needs the right partners. Like most here, how I'll live would shock most people outwardly, whilst probably giving them some titillation.
I'm probably above average for kink. I always want more but find a lot of men a little tame. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself.
Me not kinky and prefer vanilla anyday!
What is Neapolitan? "
Neapolitan means from Naples, Italy.
In this context I meant the eponymous ice cream, which is three layers of strawberry, vanilla, and chocolate ice cream all in one tub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself.
Me not kinky and prefer vanilla anyday!
What is Neapolitan?
Neapolitan means from Naples, Italy.
In this context I meant the eponymous ice cream, which is three layers of strawberry, vanilla, and chocolate ice cream all in one tub. "
Thank you for the clarification. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself.
Me not kinky and prefer vanilla anyday!
What is Neapolitan?
Neapolitan means from Naples, Italy.
In this context I meant the eponymous ice cream, which is three layers of strawberry, vanilla, and chocolate ice cream all in one tub.
Thank you for the clarification. "
You’re welcome. Scoop me anytime. |
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"I’m not kinky. More uninhibited.
If only all women were like you
That is tarring all women with same brush...something that I am surprised you are doing considering you are on a swingers site forum
Twas joking, surely you dont really think that I'd would want that?
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The green arrow speaks volumes..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't consider myself kinky but also not vanilla....raspberry ripple maybe
Delicious. I’m going to dig around to find the swirls.
Hopefully next month you can dig around as much as you like
Is this a bring your own spoon party?
You’ll have to bring your own spoon because angelic is mine. Hands off "
I'm a one woman woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself.
Me not kinky and prefer vanilla anyday!
What is Neapolitan?
Neapolitan means from Naples, Italy.
In this context I meant the eponymous ice cream, which is three layers of strawberry, vanilla, and chocolate ice cream all in one tub.
Thank you for the clarification.
You’re welcome. Scoop me anytime."
I would prefer spooning you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't consider myself kinky but also not vanilla....raspberry ripple maybe
Delicious. I’m going to dig around to find the swirls.
Hopefully next month you can dig around as much as you like
Is this a bring your own spoon party?
You’ll have to bring your own spoon because angelic is mine. Hands off "
Oooh, I thought I was gonna be greedy a put my spoon in both ice creams |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many spoons on this thread
Forking hell yeah.
You can cut the atmosphere with a knives. "
With a knives. I would like educating on “A knives” please sir |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too many spoons on this thread
Forking hell yeah.
You can cut the atmosphere with a knives.
With a knives. I would like educating on “A knives” please sir "
Haha this made me snort |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Too many spoons on this thread
Forking hell yeah.
You can cut the atmosphere with a knives.
With a knives. I would like educating on “A knives” please sir "
Ffs. The Grammar police are in town. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many spoons on this thread
Forking hell yeah.
You can cut the atmosphere with a knives.
With a knives. I would like educating on “A knives” please sir
Ffs. The Grammar police are in town. "
Aye, and you’re nicked.
C’mon, In the back of the van son |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too many spoons on this thread
Forking hell yeah.
You can cut the atmosphere with a knives.
With a knives. I would like educating on “A knives” please sir
Ffs. The Grammar police are in town.
Aye, and you’re nicked.
C’mon, In the back of the van son "
You’re going doooowwwwwwnnnnnnn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"NOT consider themselves to be kinky???
Based on the other thread, absolutely everyone rates themselves as kinky.
Do vanilla people even exist? Have you met any? What were they like?
I’m Neapolitan, myself."
I would say I’m kinky not |
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