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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you saw on a couples profile that the female may want a bit of girl on girl fun but the male half would come along too for her safety and sit in another room or watch.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you saw on a couples profile that the female may want a bit of girl on girl fun but the male half would come along too for her safety and sit in another room or watch.
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I would think the woman wants abit of girl on girl fun and wants the male half there for her safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's very one sided.
They say it's for safety but what about the safety of the other woman.
I had a message like this a few weeks ago, I said so can my partner be there for my safety and surprise surprise I didn't get a reply. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I would think they're being honest that is in a couple rather than portray her as a single girl and adding the guy later and there would be nothing wrong with two couples meeting like this and the guys either watching, getting together or having a beer in another room |
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"Sounds like bollocks to me...
 I think it might be one where last minute she can’t make it but he still can  "
This old one. I tried to meet two couples before and upon arrival I was told the wife had to nip out and the girlfriend was still at work but I could still come in if I fancied it.
Now, I insist on a public meet / drink with a couple before anything. I’ve since had a bloke turn up alone though and admit his wife has no idea he’s playing on here and he just wants to meet men. |
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"I would think they're being honest that is in a couple rather than portray her as a single girl and adding the guy later and there would be nothing wrong with two couples meeting like this and the guys either watching, getting together or having a beer in another room"
I agree that at least they aren’t trying to pull a fast one by setting up a ‘single’ profile to later drop in the “I have a partner...”
The safety comment seems a little odd though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would think that they wanted the guy to be there for her safety but hadn't given much thought to how the women they want to meet might feel about her safety. "
This and in my experience he rarely is happy just watching |
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"If you saw on a couples profile that the female may want a bit of girl on girl fun but the male half would come along too for her safety and sit in another room or watch.
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I'd think, Thanks but no thanks!
I have my own safety to consider, and I'm not a performing seal for some bloke to watch, assuming just watching was all he had in mind |
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(Ray) this is exactly what we are into and I've posted on this subject before.
I've tried FFM and it did nothing for me and I felt like I had cheated even though I was with my partner and we both fully discussed the rules before hand with all parties
Yes I appreciate the female form same as any other red blooded male but that's about it for me.
When Lou plays I'm always fully clothed and my pleasure is from her confidence (massive turn on for me ) to feel secure in our relationship to explore/fulfill her bi fantasy
It's something I cannot physically give her as I have a sticky out bit not an inny bit lol
I fact she (and the lady she is with) knows it's not the act of her/them been together that turns me on and it's her feeling confident in our relationship/is that I love
We've discussed me playing with Lou when she's with a woman and I've told her it's not for me.
We are all wired differently and that's what makes this Little Rock we all live on so interesting  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Loving the responses. Think I need some more though.
I had the same thoughts about safety... When do two women ever become a safety issue. I've not heard of it either.
And if it was me having the female half and her man was going to come along it would set of a few alarm bells. It would be worse if he was described as a dom type in the profile and I'd feel unsafe.
Apparently it's on a few profiles but I think it's quite a bold thing to put on. I can see how showing you're a couple and do things together and make sure each other is OK works though. Not sure using the safety word is quite it though. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I had the same thoughts about safety... When do two women ever become a safety issue. I've not heard of it either.
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It could be in case the "woman" they are meeting turns out not to be female at all, or turns up accompanied by a previously undisclosed guy I guess - but both those situations are easily avoided with a quick phone/video call and asking the right questions.
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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I think bollocks. It’s a roundabout way to say the bloke wants to sit and watch. I’m not a sideshow for his fantasies which quite often mean she’s also not that into it but doing it for him.
I move on and find someone who’s idea of girl in girl fun is the same as mine
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With regards to safety this a paramount for both parties and we would never entertain just randomly meeting someone and going for it !
Safety is a very broad term and can be interpreted differently, for us it's so Lou know that's if the person she's with goes outside the boundaries then she has the reassurance I'm there to say something and likewise so does her play mate as we always discuss what's acceptable and is not.
I can fully understand that some people have reservations and sceptical but if you meet socially first as an adult you can make your own informed and intelligent decisions and make your mind if they are genuine and they will respect your boundaries and like wise for us we respect theirs if it doesn't feel right then it's not right !
I can only speak from our own experiences and we've said "thanks but no thanks" a few times I'm sure there are plenty of people on here with horrible stories of what they've experienced
As with most things in life communication and a little understanding go a long way |
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"I wouldn't meet. I'll meet a woman alone or a couple, where both in the couple play. The scenario you said wouldn't work for me x"
And we totally get that and I think it's fantastic when people have a clear understanding of what they want and can be open and honest about it x what works for one person may not work for another and that's what makes life interesting that we are all different x
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"If you saw on a couples profile that the female may want a bit of girl on girl fun but the male half would come along too for her safety and sit in another room or watch.
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I know a couple that do this.... he has no interest in playing with others it’s all about his wife’s pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you saw on a couples profile that the female may want a bit of girl on girl fun but the male half would come along too for her safety and sit in another room or watch.
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I would think they've more than likely had a dodgy experience in the past and instead of letting it wipe out their desires of FF completely they've come up with a solution where they both feel comfortable to continue.
I know a few people that proper get off on listening, so it could be that he gets sexually worked up by hearing the sounds and then they go back and have a whale of a time together afterwards.
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"If you saw on a couples profile that the female may want a bit of girl on girl fun but the male half would come along too for her safety and sit in another room or watch.
I would think they've more than likely had a dodgy experience in the past and instead of letting it wipe out their desires of FF completely they've come up with a solution where they both feel comfortable to continue.
I know a few people that proper get off on listening, so it could be that he gets sexually worked up by hearing the sounds and then they go back and have a whale of a time together afterwards.
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(Ray) cannot speak for other as we've not experienced that but that's not our reason but could imagine that's a possibility
And yes after we go for it like two sex starved nymphs |
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