Yes can be hard for all on here now these are my tips
1. always do you home work frist before sending a first message as you only 15 secounds ever to win anyone over
2. Never put up bad status as some folk will be put of by it and wont message you
3. Make friends to start with see where it leads
4.Never assume anything just let it find it own way
5.Its will happen when it happens
So come on folk lets add to my list and what do you think of my list |
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Meet somebody because you want to meet them, not because you want to achieve something. People don't want to feel like they are a check box on your list. People will only want to turn your fantasies into reality if there is something in it for them. |
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Don't assume because someone has replied to your message that they want to jump in the sack with you.
If someone has not replied and/or deleted your message, you've not lit their fire. Don't send another with a dick pic asking if they're not interested. You've already had your answer ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *ucilleWoman
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"Meet somebody because you want to meet them, not because you want to achieve something. People don't want to feel like they are a check box on your list. People will only want to turn your fantasies into reality if there is something in it for them. "
This is a really good point. I will admit there's times in the past I've been somewhat guilty of this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only say in your message what you’d say if you met the person in a bar
I have never done that so this is not so helpful."
You’ve never met and conversed with someone you find attractive outside if fab ?? |
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