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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others  ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Apart from the odd one who I'd very much like to return (actually, no I wouldn't ) most do seem to come back at some point in some sort of guise. I guess that this sort of thing can have an appeal. When I leave I'd like to think I wouldn't return but I don't know. Life happens. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave? "
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
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I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps? "
I'd agree with that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave? its addictive........ for women unending adulation and for men the promise of sex   "
Both valid points. But surely the forums and friendships is also a strong pull for some? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were to go I think it would be permanent.
I wouldn't make a meal out of it, just leave then if I changed my mind I would slip back in quitly.
Everyone has their reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I were to go I think it would be permanent.
I wouldn't make a meal out of it, just leave then if I changed my mind I would slip back in quitly.
Everyone has their reasons. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore. "
This is the same for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me. "
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I returned as a single female when I closed my couples account, then when we met we hid our profiles and began a a journey together xx"
Similar to me. I had a couples account before this one, with my current partner who I’m still with. (Who - disclaimer - knows I’m here). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it... "
Yes. But I always think that if its getting to me that much then its time for a break. |
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I had a profile before this one and left for about two and a half to three years before coming back. I had the wrong attitude back then and didn't see where I fitted in.
Four years later I'm more settled with myself, and here I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a profile before this one and left for about two and a half to three years before coming back. I had the wrong attitude back then and didn't see where I fitted in.
Four years later I'm more settled with myself, and here I am."
I think you have hit the nail on the head. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a profile before this one and left for about two and a half to three years before coming back. I had the wrong attitude back then and didn't see where I fitted in.
Four years later I'm more settled with myself, and here I am."
Sounds like it worked out well for you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve left 3 times this year
Really?
Yes
What brought you back if you don’t mind me asking?
Nora
Haha, were you peer pressured too?  "
In all honesty I think sometimes people just need a little reassurance. Because if they really wanted to leave they would not be persuaded to stay.
There is nothing wrong with that but you have to stay for the right reasons if that makes sense. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve left 3 times this year
Really?
Yes
What brought you back if you don’t mind me asking?
Nora
Haha, were you peer pressured too?
In all honesty I think sometimes people just need a little reassurance. Because if they really wanted to leave they would not be persuaded to stay.
There is nothing wrong with that but you have to stay for the right reasons if that makes sense. "
Yes, it makes perfect sense. Sometimes there’s a piece of the picture missing as a newbie, and when people give you the bigger picture and the benefit do their own experiences... you’re able look at things differently and reappraise your initial decision to leave. If that’s makes any cryptic sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been on here for about 14 years, taken a few extended breaks, but never permanently deleted ma profile
#superramfan"
You are definitely a fab legend.  |
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"I had a profile before this one and left for about two and a half to three years before coming back. I had the wrong attitude back then and didn't see where I fitted in.
Four years later I'm more settled with myself, and here I am.
Sounds like it worked out well for you. "
Yeah I'm more self assured, I don't take me or the site too seriously, although I can be serious if needed
I know that I would be an acquired taste and perhaps not what 99% of the site is looking for, but I'm okay with that.I've made some lovely acquaintances from right across the forum and enjoy contributing. |
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Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the odd one who I'd very much like to return (actually, no I wouldn't ) most do seem to come back at some point in some sort of guise. I guess that this sort of thing can have an appeal. When I leave I'd like to think I wouldn't return but I don't know. Life happens."
Never leave me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie "
I'm level headed to oh tanned one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie "
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. "
i missed you when you left |
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie I'm level headed to oh tanned one "
Yes I know x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. i missed you when you left "
I didn’t leave. That’s the whole point of the thread...  |
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. "
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"I've been on here for about 14 years, taken a few extended breaks, but never permanently deleted ma profile
#superramfan
Wowsers, 14 years. "
Yeah, but I didn't use this site much, never even uploaded a pic for about the first 3 years, then I found the forums and you've been stuck with me ever since  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Apart from the odd one who I'd very much like to return (actually, no I wouldn't ) most do seem to come back at some point in some sort of guise. I guess that this sort of thing can have an appeal. When I leave I'd like to think I wouldn't return but I don't know. Life happens.
Never leave me "
Neeeeever! You're stuck with me. Even when I'm pushing a baby out I'll be WhatsApping you all the details. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps? "
This was me, my willpower is appalling and I wanted to fully concentrate on something else. But, you can still read the forum even without a profile so its impossible to ever really stop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. i missed you when you left
I didn’t leave. That’s the whole point of the thread... "
you never left omg i said goodbye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were on for about a year first time around and left due to the sheer amount of time wasters and fakes.
But then, after a few months, it was just the memories of great meets. Of doing the things we can't just do as a couple by ourselves.
So we came back about a year or so ago... Nothing has changed... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps?
This was me, my willpower is appalling and I wanted to fully concentrate on something else. But, you can still read the forum even without a profile so its impossible to ever really stop! "
Oh can you? I didn’t realise you could read the forums without a profile... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. i missed you when you left
I didn’t leave. That’s the whole point of the thread... you never left omg i said goodbye "
Look don’t stress about it. Just retract your goodbye and say welcome back instead. Sorted. |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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I know a Lady or two who have left for good they say. Still in contact on Kik for the chat. We only socialised and met via Fab. Good honest chat. One found her new beau via Fab so our Social never went further. Happy for her.
Some just disappear by the looks of things completely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps?
This was me, my willpower is appalling and I wanted to fully concentrate on something else. But, you can still read the forum even without a profile so its impossible to ever really stop!
Oh can you? I didn’t realise you could read the forums without a profile... "
Yes they are public. Anyone can read them but if not a member can't see photos or username. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps?
This was me, my willpower is appalling and I wanted to fully concentrate on something else. But, you can still read the forum even without a profile so its impossible to ever really stop!
Oh can you? I didn’t realise you could read the forums without a profile... "
You can, you cant see profiles or pictures or anything and names are partially hidden but yes Not that I looked or anything with my excellent willpower |
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"Apart from the odd one who I'd very much like to return (actually, no I wouldn't ) most do seem to come back at some point in some sort of guise. I guess that this sort of thing can have an appeal. When I leave I'd like to think I wouldn't return but I don't know. Life happens.
Never leave me
Neeeeever! You're stuck with me. Even when I'm pushing a baby out I'll be WhatsApping you all the details. "
Oh god forbid Meli lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave?
Seems to be the case with many a person i've met here. The lure is strong and after having left out of fatigue and disinterest, they eventually gravitate back.
I don't really see to the need to delete your profile instead of just hiding it, but I can equally understand it may be more effective in staying away longer.
I suppose the permanent delete makes it harder to drift back out of boredom or curiosity if your willpower to stay logged off and give yourself a break isn’t great, perhaps?
This was me, my willpower is appalling and I wanted to fully concentrate on something else. But, you can still read the forum even without a profile so its impossible to ever really stop!
Oh can you? I didn’t realise you could read the forums without a profile...
You can, you cant see profiles or pictures or anything and names are partially hidden but yes Not that I looked or anything with my excellent willpower "
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I'm inspired by Beatles lyrics at the minute so this one is for us all...
You say, "Yes", I say, "No"
You say, "Stop" but I say, "Go, go, go"
Oh no
You say, "Goodbye", and I say, "Hello, hello, hello"
I don't know why you say, "Goodbye", I say, "Hello, hello, hello"
I don't know why you say, "Goodbye", I say, "Hello"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from the odd one who I'd very much like to return (actually, no I wouldn't ) most do seem to come back at some point in some sort of guise. I guess that this sort of thing can have an appeal. When I leave I'd like to think I wouldn't return but I don't know. Life happens.
Never leave me
Neeeeever! You're stuck with me. Even when I'm pushing a baby out I'll be WhatsApping you all the details.
Oh god forbid Meli lol "
That would make me godmother |
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"Apart from the odd one who I'd very much like to return (actually, no I wouldn't ) most do seem to come back at some point in some sort of guise. I guess that this sort of thing can have an appeal. When I leave I'd like to think I wouldn't return but I don't know. Life happens.
Never leave me
Neeeeever! You're stuck with me. Even when I'm pushing a baby out I'll be WhatsApping you all the details.
Oh god forbid Meli lol
That would make me godmother "
Technically yes |
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I'm still here for the forums, the socials, and fab messages for the few acquaintances where they are the preferred way of occasional chat. I guess that my profile page gives me a handy place to hang my personal identity statement, so i can tell people to go read it instead of having to do the explanations every time.
The suppposed primary purpose of the site though, making contacts for "adult activities", has hardly ever worked out for me. If that was all it did, I'd never have stayed beyond the first couple of months. As it is, you're probably all stuck with me for the foreseeable future... |
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it... "
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not! |
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not! "
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite"
Exactly! I avoid the threads where I know I’ll bite. I spent half the time last year on the naughty step and the other half unlos! I thought I can’t leave anymore DC will kill me if she has to do my veri a 23rd time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite"
I haven't learned that skill just yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
Exactly! I avoid the threads where I know I’ll bite. I spent half the time last year on the naughty step and the other half unlos! I thought I can’t leave anymore DC will kill me if she has to do my veri a 23rd time! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I left and came back. Now I just close the door to the cave watch the world go by and rather than deleting my account come and go from time to time.
Staying away completely, I think I might actually miss the place...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know about hotel california. I'd say much closer to hotel cortez.
What’s that?
Season 4 of American Horror Story. "
Ahh I’ve not seen it, but the horror story part resonates... |
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
Exactly! I avoid the threads where I know I’ll bite. I spent half the time last year on the naughty step and the other half unlos! I thought I can’t leave anymore DC will kill me if she has to do my veri a 23rd time! "
Lmao! Too right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet. "
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back! |
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over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet.
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back!"
Ash is a good influence
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet.
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back!"
Can you teach me this skill please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet.
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back!
Can you teach me this skill please? "
Haha it comes with time (and maybe meeting a placid calm man!) I’ve not fully mastered it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet.
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back!
Can you teach me this skill please?
Haha it comes with time (and maybe meeting a placid calm man!) I’ve not fully mastered it!"
But we are getting there hey! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I left once (a few years ago) and obviously came back.
I needed a break last time, we all do at some point.
This time - I'm here to have fun in both the forums and at meets. "
I’m pleased you came back. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet.
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back!
Can you teach me this skill please?
Haha it comes with time (and maybe meeting a placid calm man!) I’ve not fully mastered it!
But we are getting there hey! "
We are! |
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over a year ago
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"If I decided to leave, I wouldn't announce it, I would leave quietly "
Yeah, I suppose some would like an opportunity to say bye to the friends they made. Others wouldn’t. We’re all different and that’s the beauty of it. |
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over a year ago
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"I used to delete a lot and come back. I suppose it depends why you’re here. I look at it as a Facebook replacement now really so probably wouldn’t leave. I rarely meet apart from socially, it would take someone really special for anything else and I have that now so it’s just a laugh and joke for me now really. Can’t see myself getting wound up enough to leave like I used to anymore.
This is the same for me.
Makes sense. So being less wound up with the bullshit comes with time and experience as a Fabber then? I look forward to it...
Oh god I was always throwing my toys out I’ll admit it! I’m calm now. Believe it or not!
And I’ve learned to ignore/not to bite
I haven't learned that skill just yet.
You’re better though! You used to be as bad as I was . We both deserve a pat on the back!
Can you teach me this skill please?
Haha it comes with time (and maybe meeting a placid calm man!) I’ve not fully mastered it!"
It’s going to be one of my 2020 New Year’s Resolutions... “stay calm and keep fabbing”. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"If I decided to leave, I wouldn't announce it, I would leave quietly
Yeah, I suppose some would like an opportunity to say bye to the friends they made. Others wouldn’t. We’re all different and that’s the beauty of it. "
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I would just pm my friends |
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"If I decided to leave, I wouldn't announce it, I would leave quietly
Yeah, I suppose some would like an opportunity to say bye to the friends they made. Others wouldn’t. We’re all different and that’s the beauty of it. ,
I would just pm my friends "
like I say, all different. |
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"If I decided to leave, I wouldn't announce it, I would leave quietly
Yeah, I suppose some would like an opportunity to say bye to the friends they made. Others wouldn’t. We’re all different and that’s the beauty of it. ,
I would just pm my friends "
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"If I decided to leave, I wouldn't announce it, I would leave quietly
Yeah, I suppose some would like an opportunity to say bye to the friends they made. Others wouldn’t. We’re all different and that’s the beauty of it. ,
I would just pm my friends
like I say, all different. "
We are and you were persuaded to stay so that's all good |
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over a year ago
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"If I decided to leave, I wouldn't announce it, I would leave quietly
Yeah, I suppose some would like an opportunity to say bye to the friends they made. Others wouldn’t. We’re all different and that’s the beauty of it. ,
I would just pm my friends
like I say, all different.
We are and you were persuaded to stay so that's all good "
Indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it’s better to just take a step back... take stock and come back when you’re ready.
Fab can be addictive, infuriating and amusing all in the same breath but nonetheless, for all the idiots, sycophants and baffoons there are some truly lovely people.
I’m sure you won’t let it get to you a second time ... you seem a very level headed person lucie
DC... you have hit the nail so eloquently on the head. And your appraisal of me is spot on. i missed you when you left
I didn’t leave. That’s the whole point of the thread... you never left omg i said goodbye
Look don’t stress about it. Just retract your goodbye and say welcome back instead. Sorted. hi and welcome back hope you enjoy your stay with us more this time "
Yup. I’ve upgraded to a far superior room. So I think I most definitely will enjoy it more this time around. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I left once (a few years ago) and obviously came back.
I needed a break last time, we all do at some point.
This time - I'm here to have fun in both the forums and at meets.
I’m pleased you came back. xx"
And I'm pleased we're friends xx |
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over a year ago
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"I left once (a few years ago) and obviously came back.
I needed a break last time, we all do at some point.
This time - I'm here to have fun in both the forums and at meets.
I’m pleased you came back. xx
And I'm pleased we're friends xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just hide because I KNOW I’ll be back.
Haha same x
We have too much in common
Not so sure about such a thing as 'too much'! "
Oh there’s always a touch too much
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"I just hide because I KNOW I’ll be back.
Haha same x
We have too much in common
Not so sure about such a thing as 'too much'!
Oh there’s always a touch too much
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"After my failed attempt earlier this week to depart Fab (due to the clever persuasion, peer pressure, and in some cases blatant bullying of others ).... I’ve since been informed that no one ever really leaves Fab for good - they always return.
This made me ponder. How common is UNLOS and return? Is it true that you can check out any time you like... but you can never leave? its addictive........ for women unending adulation and for men the promise of sex "
“The promise“l
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