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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On here or in the real world, are you perceptive?
Do you discover things like relationships that were being kept under wraps for example?
I recently worked out two people I work with were seeing each other. They’d kept it quiet and not told anyone.
I’m not really sure how I realised it but messaging one of them on WhatsApp to ask if they were single and seeing the other come online straight afterwards was fun 
They know I know and I’ve kept it secret too. |
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"On here or in the real world, are you perceptive?
Do you discover things like relationships that were being kept under wraps for example?
I recently worked out two people I work with were seeing each other. They’d kept it quiet and not told anyone.
I’m not really sure how I realised it but messaging one of them on WhatsApp to ask if they were single and seeing the other come online straight afterwards was fun
They know I know and I’ve kept it secret too."
No that’s devious and nosey lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here or in the real world, are you perceptive?
Do you discover things like relationships that were being kept under wraps for example?
I recently worked out two people I work with were seeing each other. They’d kept it quiet and not told anyone.
I’m not really sure how I realised it but messaging one of them on WhatsApp to ask if they were single and seeing the other come online straight afterwards was fun
They know I know and I’ve kept it secret too.
No that’s devious and nosey lol "
I am nosey I admit it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I used to think I was incredibly perceptive; in a work capacity I definitely am but I'm perhaps not as good outside of it as I once thought. I've been wrong a couple of times lately about something but that's probably because my own bias came into play. |
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"I used to think I was incredibly perceptive; in a work capacity I definitely am but I'm perhaps not as good outside of it as I once thought. I've been wrong a couple of times lately about something but that's probably because my own bias came into play."
Work is a different place cuz there’s always sharks but in yr private life u can get mislead .. cuz u let yr guard down .. but u know real friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im good at picking up on little things, seem to spot an early pregnancy, flirtations between people and I see a lot of shop lifters
I'm rubbish at seeing the obvious big red warning signs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I over analyse every situation including everyday conversation and I have already gone through what I think someone will answer in my head.
A lot of times I’m bang on but when I’m not I’m miles away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually know female friends/ colleagues are pregnant.. They have a glow about them "
Me too.
Iv told a couple of they pregnant before they even knew.
It's a gift, just a bit of a useless one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm online is easier as you can see patterns, and people give away a lot without really knowing. So it’s not hard to spot things or pick up on things. Real life is a tad harder. Im not bad in picking up things with others but I am bit clueless when it comes to myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm online is easier as you can see patterns, and people give away a lot without really knowing. So it’s not hard to spot things or pick up on things. Real life is a tad harder. Im not bad in picking up things with others but I am bit clueless when it comes to myself. "
Oh see I find it the other way round. I'm better at "reading" someone in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to be too perceptive for my own good! Since the horrible excuse for a human being I met on here who abused and hit me,I lost confidence in myself. But I'm back on the ball now. I am enjoying catching people out once more
.... and letting them did their own graves lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you say women are better at being perceptive than men?
Women’s intuition and all that ? "
Well, more women on here seem to say they have a better feel of whats going on.
Unless i actually see the two interacting, i wouldnt know. |
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I'm pretty good, to the extent that people blindly miss things that I take as really obvious. I'm not a good person to lie to as I'll typically know and not believe it. I see the patterns amongst large groups of people and organizations, as well as within individuals. It's interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you.
You mean you're not  "
. I actually don't know so feel free to do anything and everything in front of me. |
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"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you.
You mean you're not . I actually don't know so feel free to do anything and everything in front of me. "
Now there's an offer I'd hate to refuse  |
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"Spend a lot of time in pubs and restaurants  we can always spot the first dates and the swingers "
I’d challenge you to pick a swinger couple out of ten sat in a pub.
Firsts dates is easy if you can hear what they are talking about. |
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