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One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect? |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
Tbh I kind of admire you for turning up at a strangers house!
I always have a social in a public place first - and in t’old days when I actually shagged I sometimes met in a club!
I only fancy about 30% of the people I meet for socials - so would hate to feel compelled to have sex with them by meeting them at a house or hotel straight away! X
And btw - I think you’re very pretty - and certainly not overweight! Xxx |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
Yes a couple of years back , but best not to discuss it on here as I’d be shot at dawn ( wouldn’t want to offend a particular type) ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
That's a favourite, couple times we have turned up to meeting after, messages, exchanged photos, phone call and they looked nothing like their photos. Although the being the other half of a long time pro photographer hes pretty good at dating (age of or how old photos are), but he's fully admit it's no an exact science |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
This is my ultimate horror nightmare! And what an absolute fucktard for saying that to you. No one deserves to be treated like that. I'm all riled up now ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
You must be amazing at photoshop ![](/icons/s/neutral.gif) |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
We had a meet where the person was nothing like the picture. That was a wtf moment and awkward all round. We generally met at clubs so folk see exactly who we are etc and we are exactly as we are on here and photos only a couple of months old. Wish everyone was the same |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
For the record re his comment to u idiot. His loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day "
This is ridiculous! How rude! And not in a good way!
x N |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day "
May I offer my opinion please ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
Parallel Universe moment?
They were on something that reduced judgement- severely?
Well they were barmy.
Social is a good fun way to have the wtf moment or have the imagination action start on what play could look like while flirting.... |
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over a year ago
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We've been catfished a couple of times. Both socials, has we always have a social before a meet.
And on our first ever arranged social, we confirmed, turned up and she was a no show, however I noticed a man in a car near the entrance of the pub bashing his bishop... LOL We came off fab for several months after that one!
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over a year ago
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day
May I offer my opinion please "
Anytime ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day "
Jesus that's harsh!
Granted mine's not all that impressive but fortunately no one's ever laughed at it yet. Or not when I'm around to hear it, at least
I genuinely hope it didn't debt your confidence too much |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day
Jesus that's harsh!
Granted mine's not all that impressive but fortunately no one's ever laughed at it yet. Or not when I'm around to hear it, at least
I genuinely hope it didn't debt your confidence too much"
It did, killed it.
Left FAB, took almost a year before I had the confidence to be naked with a woman again. |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day "
Not had that, thankfully.
Normally send a pic a get called an ugly ginger fuck though. |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
Omg! Well he was obviously an absolute idiot (for want of a stronger word)
I wouldn't turn you away! You gorgeous and we're lovely to me recently too.
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
No I havent. However I always mention to people that I'm petite because I do look taller for some reason in my pictures. I look bigger as well than I am in real life. They say the camera never lies but it does.... |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day
Jesus that's harsh!
Granted mine's not all that impressive but fortunately no one's ever laughed at it yet. Or not when I'm around to hear it, at least
I genuinely hope it didn't debt your confidence too much
It did, killed it.
Left FAB, took almost a year before I had the confidence to be naked with a woman again."
That's awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Some of women wouldn't be that disgustingly awful. |
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"No I havent. However I always mention to people that I'm petite because I do look taller for some reason in my pictures. I look bigger as well than I am in real life. They say the camera never lies but it does...."
In the same boat. Just had to look at your height on your profile and we are pretty much the same. |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
Yes i can confirm that _oodnitegirl is actually 7 foot six inches tall, with a 15 inch waistline. Or when she takes the corset off, 3 foot 8 tall with a 57 inch waist....
(just kidding gng, you know that you are absolutely perfect in every way xxxx) |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"No I havent. However I always mention to people that I'm petite because I do look taller for some reason in my pictures. I look bigger as well than I am in real life. They say the camera never lies but it does....
In the same boat. Just had to look at your height on your profile and we are pretty much the same. " . ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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Yep, on a previous profile someone said I was larger than they expected even though I say I’m ample and the bloody hypocrite said he was taller than he was and said he was average but had a beer belly ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day "
I am honestly cannot beleive I am reading this. That is so out of order x |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day
May I offer my opinion please
Anytime "
Please forward it in my box postbox ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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How some people act to others beggars belief !
For those that have experienced this, I’m sorry, but it is their small minded shallowness of a character and not a reflection of you
Individuals like that don’t deserve your time |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day "
So sorry you had that experience! I'm Gobsmacked!
Judge your partners well, kindness and respect is so high on my list when I'm sensing into who I meet x |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"How some people act to others beggars belief !
For those that have experienced this, I’m sorry, but it is their small minded shallowness of a character and not a reflection of you
Individuals like that don’t deserve your time "
I echo this .. try never to value yourself on the careless actions or words of others.
Work hard at this in life !
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
Come knock at my door. I wouldn’t turn you away if you were a Jehovah’s Witness ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Yep, on a previous profile someone said I was larger than they expected even though I say I’m ample and the bloody hypocrite said he was taller than he was and said he was average but had a beer belly "
Yeah but we still fucked. ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?" awwwww ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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I went for a coffee with a bloke who I thought was a catfish. He turned out to be very real, very friendly and totally gorgeous. Very surprised! An actual positive wtf. |
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"Yep, on a previous profile someone said I was larger than they expected even though I say I’m ample and the bloody hypocrite said he was taller than he was and said he was average but had a beer belly
Yeah but we still fucked. "
Yeah, from behind and with a bag over my head ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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Oh god. Some of these stories are awful. I mean, I found it quite comical (not the fact I had driven for 30 mins) but the fact anyone could think I was tall. I’m mini and all tits and ass but that’s just how god built me. I just went and met someone else and had a good night but the pointing at the willy story is making me want to growl, genuinely. Some people have a right way of saying things!!
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I’ve had a couple of WTF in a good way moments too.
I met someone on here about five years ago who was tall, good looking, polite and sexy as fuck.
We went to a hotel, had lots of hanky panky and watched Match of the Day
We’re still in touch now and although real life means we don’t meet up often, he’s still as lovely as ever. I would never have expected someone like him to be interested in someone like me ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I’ve had a couple of WTF in a good way moments too.
I met someone on here about five years ago who was tall, good looking, polite and sexy as fuck.
We went to a hotel, had lots of hanky panky and watched Match of the Day
We’re still in touch now and although real life means we don’t meet up often, he’s still as lovely as ever. I would never have expected someone like him to be interested in someone like me "
You sound like a real catch! I leave the room when the theme tune starts haha |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
He sent you away? Is he blind? I'm straight and I wouldn't send you away!!!
Definitely his loss ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?awwwww " u got similar response then? ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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"I’ve had a couple of WTF in a good way moments too.
I met someone on here about five years ago who was tall, good looking, polite and sexy as fuck.
We went to a hotel, had lots of hanky panky and watched Match of the Day
We’re still in touch now and although real life means we don’t meet up often, he’s still as lovely as ever. I would never have expected someone like him to be interested in someone like me "
I love this.
Someone like you... someone lovely... |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day
Jesus that's harsh!
Granted mine's not all that impressive but fortunately no one's ever laughed at it yet. Or not when I'm around to hear it, at least
I genuinely hope it didn't debt your confidence too much
It did, killed it.
Left FAB, took almost a year before I had the confidence to be naked with a woman again."
That's fucking awful. Some people shouldn't be allowed to have sex. She doesn't deserve cock. |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?" well he must of been mad |
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"Yes, she pointed at my penis, laughed and said what the fuck am I supposed to do with that.
Very much unexpected and WTF, not a good day
Jesus that's harsh!
Granted mine's not all that impressive but fortunately no one's ever laughed at it yet. Or not when I'm around to hear it, at least
I genuinely hope it didn't debt your confidence too much
It did, killed it.
Left FAB, took almost a year before I had the confidence to be naked with a woman again."
No one should have to be treated like that. She was obviously an evil piece of work. Sincerely hope you have gained your confidence back. |
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I look tall, quite slim, and leggy in my pics, and probably better looking too, haha- but I wear killer heels to elongate the legs, I’m also quite good with lighting and camera angles- I do always tell everyone that though.
So hopefully no one has had any mast surprises.
Had a guy complain that my boobs were smaller than he thought when I first joined. Not sure why he thought they’d be bigger as I said in the profile I had small boobs, and my pics showed that fact too. He said he wasn’t bothered, but kind of made me feel a bit crappy, as if I was disappointing x
Viv xx
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"I look tall, quite slim, and leggy in my pics, and probably better looking too, haha- but I wear killer heels to elongate the legs, I’m also quite good with lighting and camera angles- I do always tell everyone that though.
So hopefully no one has had any mast surprises.
Had a guy complain that my boobs were smaller than he thought when I first joined. Not sure why he thought they’d be bigger as I said in the profile I had small boobs, and my pics showed that fact too. He said he wasn’t bothered, but kind of made me feel a bit crappy, as if I was disappointing x
Viv xx
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Nasty not mast surprises xx |
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?"
You wouldnt have got in my door either.... well not before id ripped your clothes straight off at 1st sight and got to work on you on the doorstep x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One meet the guy turned up.. but was about 7 to 8 st heavier than his pictures.. i said your not like your photos.. "oh i let myself go since those pics."
Carried on for a social only..
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"One bloke Once sent me away from his doorstep as ‘look fatter in real life’ and apparently many expect a 6-footer from the pics!
Ever had a wtf moment on a meet or anything said to you that you didn’t expect?" you got told you where fatter in person you look toned to me would of said fuck off to him an laughed how rude |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Well, I think you look absolutely gorgeous so what the hell he was expecting is beyond my comprehension! I know this thread wasn't meant to be about you directly, but if I could be your age and have your figure I'd be very happy indeed!
In the name of the thread, all I have had lately is men ignoring what I am looking for, lying about their age, looking a lot older than their pics suggest, so no wonder I haven't had sex in nearly 3 years!
All I need is truthfulness and attraction, you wouldn't think it was that hard, but my god it is! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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