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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It's been a little while since I did one of these, so here we go again!
Not me specifically but everyone else.
I often think it's interesting how our sense of self or internal picture of ourselves can be skewed in comparison to how others see us. I think that being aware of this can actually be a very positive thing, as it allows us to look outside ourselves and grow as people.
Post that you're in on the thread then PM other people on the thread what you think of them and their posting style and why.
Remember as well that this isn't an opportunity to fawn over people, honest appraisal is the key here, so good and bad points!
Now obviously some people aren't for everyone so please try and keep it constructive, not nasty folks.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Why not? In  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
Oh. This may be ether fun or a disaster.
I'm in.  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Yeah sure. Go for it. I accept the good and the bad. I'm always interested to see how people view me compared to what I do myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never did this before but here goes. I'm in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in  |
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This could be interesting
I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok im in skin thickener applied  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting. I’ll have a go. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
Interested. I'm in
And this raises more questions for me around what we choose to see/how we filter/What we project onto eachother.
Add it to the list please OP  |
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This should be interesting, go for it |
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In! Always an interesting one. I do love a bit of navel gazing. And gazing at other parts too 
Mrs TMN x |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"This should be interesting, go for it "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Always find these interesting...so open for some Saturday afternoon evaluation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in "
Wanted to tell you I think you’re good fun with great tits but I’m out of your age range  |
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"I’m in "
Fairy lights suit you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on then never played this one |
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I’m in - but I’m guessing most people don’t really know me as I’m not on the forums much these days! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In, also never played this before. Filters down for a bit too, message away.
x Niki |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Quite enjoying this to be honest. The compliments and honest truths help keep things grounded. Not blowing smoke up an arse for the sake of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In.... |
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"I’m in! "
Can’t mail you for your settings but I just want to say that when I grow up I want to be DiamondCougar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In. I’ll be prepared |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK I'm in, might regret this though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well iam here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am not the best looking guy here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
The people who have messaged me have been lovely xx thank you all |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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" Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
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If they've received a message from me, yes they have. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
I've been humbled by your messages.
Bug Chunky hugs to you amazing people. Xx |
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" Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
The people who have messaged me have been lovely xx thank you all "
I live by if nothing nice to say don’t say it. But all nice here too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in but I'm not sure anyone will have noticed me enough to form an opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have received some lovely comments - the closest to constructive being that don't suffer fools gladly, which is sometimes a challenge at work... But people know not to try and BS me lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
If they've received a message from me, yes they have. "
Oh my... watch out...
Just remember how gorgeous I think you are |
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" Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
If they've received a message from me, yes they have. "
I can attest to this  |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
I hate myself and everyone else so it’ll be fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In...let the abuse begin... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am an ugly guy nobody wants me |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
" Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
The people who have messaged me have been lovely xx thank you all "
I have, and I love it. Honest criticism can be done without being mean. And criticism is not always mean, it's not always needed either. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Quite enjoying this to be honest. The compliments and honest truths help keep things grounded. Not blowing smoke up an arse for the sake of it. "
Very much the point |
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What the hell, I can take it - I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh gosh ok. I think. Ive not been here long enough for people to judge me though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ill jump in... i have thick skin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok ... im in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Out of curiosity... anyone received any constructive criticism yet? Or are we all too nice?
The people who have messaged me have been lovely xx thank you all "
Nobody has messaged me but it’s what I expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
All feedback gracefully received. I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in for constructive criticism and negative comments.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go for it, I'm in. |
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Can’t beat a bit of feedback! I’m in x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm trying to find folk in the thread I know first! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I’m in but nothing mean as I’m slightly hormonal today! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m in but nothing mean as I’m slightly hormonal today!"
I think you're awesome. You've inspired me lots of times. X
I mean that- this is not sarcasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in.
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Should just say I'm AkA Lorna, people seem to be getting confused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im back in its all very fluffy this i wore my armour for nothin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im back in its all very fluffy this i wore my armour for nothin "
I think under all the bluster you're a decent bloke. And you're more clever than you seem to give yourself credit for. It's a shame because your ex knocked you down, but you got right back up. You're strong. Don't knock yourself down again. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I’m in but nothing mean as I’m slightly hormonal today!
I think you're awesome. You've inspired me lots of times. X
I mean that- this is not sarcasm. "
Thanks Mavis. I enjoy your thought provoking threads (that’s not sarcasm either) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im back in its all very fluffy this i wore my armour for nothin
I think under all the bluster you're a decent bloke. And you're more clever than you seem to give yourself credit for. It's a shame because your ex knocked you down, but you got right back up. You're strong. Don't knock yourself down again. "
thats suppost to be secret who told ya fess up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still can't see any people on this thread that I could genuinely give constructive feedback. I do have a few in mind, though i do't think they would take it as constructively as it's given! LOL
In any case, I'm still in if anyone has feedback for me / us!
x Niki |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still can't see any people on this thread that I could genuinely give constructive feedback. I do have a few in mind, though i do't think they would take it as constructively as it's given! LOL
In any case, I'm still in if anyone has feedback for me / us!
x Niki"
feedbag? You saying theres many showponys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in.
Should just say I'm AkA Lorna, people seem to be getting confused. "
Ahhh! I couldn't figure out why they'd nicked your sock picture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still can't see any people on this thread that I could genuinely give constructive feedback. I do have a few in mind, though i do't think they would take it as constructively as it's given! LOL
In any case, I'm still in if anyone has feedback for me / us!
x Nikifeedbag? You saying theres many showponys?"
Not sure about feedbags - feedback plenty though! Haha... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m in but nothing mean as I’m slightly hormonal today!"
La Luna - you have such a brilliant way with words and you make me laugh a lot. I like your no BS approach and reading about your sexual antics and what you find attractive in a man. Your mind must be an amazing place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure im in |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I’m in but nothing mean as I’m slightly hormonal today!
La Luna - you have such a brilliant way with words and you make me laugh a lot. I like your no BS approach and reading about your sexual antics and what you find attractive in a man. Your mind must be an amazing place. "
Thank you Meli - it’s never dull in my own little world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
I don't post very often, I'm not sure what people will think of me. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
This could be interesting. I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in too, please lmk what you think |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"I don't post very often, I'm not sure what people will think of me. "
Unfortunately I can’t say! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In! |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I don't post very often, I'm not sure what people will think of me.
Unfortunately I can’t say! "
I don't understand..... |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"I don't post very often, I'm not sure what people will think of me.
Unfortunately I can’t say!
I don't understand..... "
You’re blocking messages from men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A tentative and nervous in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think  |
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I had some lovely and unexpected messages earlier - thank you to everyone that sent one x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Some messages have been a revelation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel free to tell me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in. Feel free to tell me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In))) |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I don't post very often, I'm not sure what people will think of me.
Unfortunately I can’t say!
I don't understand.....
You’re blocking messages from men "
Oops. This is my natural hair colour, I'm not blonde.
Really I'm not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am in be gentle lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think "
I'm too young to message you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am not the best looking guy here"
That shouldn't have anything to do with it. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Thank you to everyone who has sent me such lovely messages, I really appreciate it - you've made me think and smile. Even the little things that I didn't think anyone would notice have been picked up on and you've highlighted things I didn't see in myself. Thank you.  |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"Thank you to everyone who has sent me such lovely messages, I really appreciate it - you've made me think and smile. Even the little things that I didn't think anyone would notice have been picked up on and you've highlighted things I didn't see in myself. Thank you. "
I think you have stunning boobs Meli.
I'm jealous!!!! |
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Thank you for the accidental fawning #youknowwhoyouare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit late but I’m in x |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
As suspected, not much! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in. |
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I'm out.
Good night all, I've procrastinated long enough. Time to pack. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm out.
Good night all, I've procrastinated long enough. Time to pack."
Safe flight lovely. X |
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"I'm out.
Good night all, I've procrastinated long enough. Time to pack.
Safe flight lovely. X"
Thank you. I'm going to miss you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U lot are very kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm new....ish here. Again
Maybe I should just sit quietly and watch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m pretty much past giving a shit but feel free to vent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In. Whatever that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m pretty much past giving a shit but feel free to vent "
Haha best way to be x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I'm new....ish here. Again
Maybe I should just sit quietly and watch "
Welcome young man.
Just join in. A great way to introduce yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m pretty much past giving a shit but feel free to vent
Haha best way to be x"
A few cocktails help |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"In. Whatever that is "
Little miss innocent there. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
Not a lot as I had no one comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give it another go |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I'm new....ish here. Again
Maybe I should just sit quietly and watch "
Nice to see you hine.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m pretty much past giving a shit but feel free to vent
Haha best way to be x
A few cocktails help "
Rioja here Doc;-) |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm in for honest, critical appraisals as long as they are constructive and not a chance to be cruel and rude.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm new....ish here. Again
Maybe I should just sit quietly and watch
Nice to see you hine.. "
Always nice to see you Spidey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m pretty much past giving a shit but feel free to vent
Haha best way to be x
A few cocktails help
Rioja here Doc;-)"
I’m on my 6th cocktail and struggling to see straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m pretty much past giving a shit but feel free to vent
Haha best way to be x
A few cocktails help
Rioja here Doc;-)
I’m on my 6th cocktail and struggling to see straight "
Gently place it on the nearest flat surface away from arms reach. Close your eyes. And "see" you tomorrow. Today;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you like tea and you are hung like monkey who likes coffee |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I think you like tea and you are hung like monkey who likes coffee "
I think you're a hunka hunka man and I love your baguette...
Bins? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iinteresting so I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
Never been in on one of these before as I'm a sensitive soul but what the hell, in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Managed to get blocked for constructive (in my opinion), but hypocritical(in opinion receiver's) opinion.
Beats the purpose. But I tried. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Managed to get blocked for constructive (in my opinion), but hypocritical(in opinion receiver's) opinion.
Beats the purpose. But I tried."
What is it you said |
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"Managed to get blocked for constructive (in my opinion), but hypocritical(in opinion receiver's) opinion.
Beats the purpose. But I tried.
What is it you said"
Somerhing about being slow to getting angry and super fast in forgiveness, rather than vice versa.
The vice versa opinion appears to have been more favoured. |
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"Managed to get blocked for constructive (in my opinion), but hypocritical(in opinion receiver's) opinion.
Beats the purpose. But I tried.
What is it you said
Somerhing about being slow to getting angry and super fast in forgiveness, rather than vice versa.
The vice versa opinion appears to have been more favoured."
Some people don’t like the truth |
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over a year ago
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We are in x |
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I'm in x |
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over a year ago
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im in |
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I’m in |
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No messages so far  |
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Same no replies here either |
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[Removed by poster at 08/12/19 13:18:06] |
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I'm in |
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