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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" why would you leave a toliet seat down... its meant to be up!  | |||
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"Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us? It's not appealing to watch." Its an primate thing, women do it as well (sans balls of course) Watch any of those Attenborough progs. with chimps, gorillas, etc. they all do it and to eachother its part of their socialising  | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" I do all them sorry from the seat | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?" i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!! seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do.... | |||
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"Listen fellas you need us more than we need you "Not now, they’ve invented an automatic washing machine and a microwave and blow and behold, even a dishwasher.... I’ll sit back now and watch the venom come my way | |||
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"Listen fellas you need us more than we need you
Not now, they’ve invented an automatic washing machine and a microwave and blow and behold, even a dishwasher.... I’ll sit back now and watch the venom come my way " | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?" Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile! | |||
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"Why the fuck can't you see all the mess that needs cleaning "No mess here i like to keep apartment clean just in case  | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out? Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile!" Programmed by Ada Lovelace. | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down why would you leave a toliet seat down... its meant to be up! "U will actually find when you flush germs can get out if no lid down its there to protect. Us if it wasn't meant to be a lid it wouldnt be there in first place.. It would just be a seat | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out? i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!! seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do...." I don't want to see him weeping because the prices have gone up at asda but yes, emotion is good, being expressive is good | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out? Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile! Programmed by Ada Lovelace." Possibly with a little creative input from her Dad: Lord Byron  | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" I can do all of thise but have a general dislike of bins. | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" I do all these things...I'm now questioning my masculinity... | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down I can do all of thise but have a general dislike of bins. " That's rubbish | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out? Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile! Programmed by Ada Lovelace. Possibly with a little creative input from her Dad: Lord Byron "Speaking of men who spent their lives sticking their dicks in as many holes as they could find.... | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down I can do all of thise but have a general dislike of bins. That's rubbish " | |||
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"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY?"  You know | |||
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"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?" To get sex. Or a quiet life in many cases.. | |||
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"For those of you afraid of commitment, what's behind it, caused it, how masculine do you perceive yourself to be? And when you get frightened about to break it off, how quickly do you want sex with others?" Not agraid of commitment. But knowing we can live to bee 100 or so, why would we marry in our 20's and swear to love that one singular person forever and no one else. For me monogamy is dead or dying and polyamoury is the sane future for all. | |||
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"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY? You know"I . You know what, I think I do! | |||
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"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY? You knowI
. You know what, I think I do! "Well..if you don't know! I'm not telling you | |||
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"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY? You knowI
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Well..if you don't know! I'm not telling you "I . | |||
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"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie? To get sex. Or a quiet life in many cases.. " Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx | |||
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"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie? To get sex. Or a quiet life in many cases.. Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx" Because if a guy said that he was married, generally he'd get flayed alive. If he's bi, he gets called dirty. Rather than being true to themselves, many lie to avoid confrontation | |||
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"Why can’t you look for things properly? You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it "Because 9/10 a woman has put it a 'safe place' | |||
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"Why can’t you look for things properly? You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it "Sweeping generalisation there. | |||
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"Why can’t you look for things properly? You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it
Because 9/10 a woman has put it a 'safe place' " | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?" Good question! | |||
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"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society. Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life? (To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals) " i'm not..... i grew up in a family full of really strong women, so i see that women take no shit! | |||
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"Why can’t you look for things properly? You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it
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"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved? Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf" And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH"" The devil is in the detail. | |||
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"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk? "Thats easy its copy and paste for some babs x | |||
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"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved? Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf" And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH"" | |||
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"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved? Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf" And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH" " | |||
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"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie? To get sex. Or a quiet life in many cases.. Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx Because if a guy said that he was married, generally he'd get flayed alive. If he's bi, he gets called dirty. Rather than being true to themselves, many lie to avoid confrontation" | |||
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"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk? "a bit like a politican with a set out "stump speech" you work out the general outlined work, you just have to taylor it to the right crowd... the problem with most men is they overuse the basic stump speech...... | |||
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"Why the fuck can't you see all the mess that needs cleaning "What mess? | |||
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"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved? Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf" And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH"" Okay. You’ve got me there. | |||
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"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society. Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life? (To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals) " Not sure it has impacted me at all, or am I just ignorant of its effects on others? I do know, that somehow by being, white, middle-aged, middle(ish) class and male I am now in the most reviled demographic, and its absolutely OK to insult and denigrate us [sic] because we'll just suck it up without complaining like snowflakes - the above was written with tongue firmly in cheek | |||
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"Is it a thing for women to want younger fresher men? " You wish
I do but not just out of nappies (that's tongue in cheek). In other words, not young enough to be a son. | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out? i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!! seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do...." Emotional no, emotionally intelligent yes. | |||
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"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk? "I think some men think aling the lines of. Oh saying this, worked with that woman it may work with them all. Sad i know. But it is hard to start a proper conversation on here with the fact women are almost always inundated with messages. | |||
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"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk?
I think some men think aling the lines of.
Oh saying this, worked with that woman it may work with them all.
Sad i know. But it is hard to start a proper conversation on here with the fact women are almost always inundated with messages."It's not difficult to start a proper (whatever that is) conversation on here, just don't be like all the others; I've yet to have a sent message deleted/unread/not replied to | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles?" Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? " Cyclists and swimmers do And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? " They do They are So some men shave but it's more for sport than look (cycling, body building competition etc) Lots of men collect trainers etc and lots will have various shoes for various things. | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive "Always read profiles  | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive "This is a thread for women to ask men questions | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? " Shoes aren’t a thing for all women. Personally, I HATE shoes | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity?" That I'm not living up to my full potential  | |||
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"Some of us don't lie.. Surely you girlies can tell the true ones from the fakers" I Yep. Why do men call women "girls"? | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? Cyclists and swimmers do And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money" I stand corrected, nice profile x | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity? That I'm not living up to my full potential "I think both sexes suffer from this | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity?" At one point my penis due to a very cruel woman I met who killed all my confidence by taking the piss out it's size. Not insecure about it now but I generally will not meet women who have string of meets from well endowed guys. Always at the back of my mind. | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
This is a thread for women to ask men questions "And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED | |||
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"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie? To get sex. Or a quiet life in many cases.. Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx Because if a guy said that he was married, generally he'd get flayed alive. If he's bi, he gets called dirty. Rather than being true to themselves, many lie to avoid confrontation" Women lie just as much as men so don’t really get why this is only applicable to men. | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? Cyclists and swimmers do And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money I stand corrected, nice profile x" Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection  | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" There’s no need too, there are women to do those things. | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
This is a thread for women to ask men questions
And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED "You answered with a question. I don’t approve | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity? That I'm not living up to my full potential "This is mine too! | |||
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"If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you? " Absolutely, hence I never sent you that message | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity? At one point my penis due to a very cruel woman I met who killed all my confidence by taking the piss out it's size. Not insecure about it now but I generally will not meet women who have string of meets from well endowed guys. Always at the back of my mind. " There are some cruel people in this world. I’m glad you feel less insecure now. Ps you’re a serious fuckin hottie | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity? At one point my penis due to a very cruel woman I met who killed all my confidence by taking the piss out it's size. Not insecure about it now but I generally will not meet women who have string of meets from well endowed guys. Always at the back of my mind. " What a nasty bitch
It’s a shame that a nasty comment takes precedence in our minds over lots of nice, complimentary comments | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
This is a thread for women to ask men questions
And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED
You answered with a question. I don’t approve "Please do point out the question in the following statement - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' | |||
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"Listen fellas you need us more than we need you "Can’t argue with that | |||
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"If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you? " No but if you said this and had a all your veris published and every guy was well endowed I would question it. Also see my post above. | |||
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"If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you? " The way some people lust after massive cocks on here I’d have to say yes | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? Cyclists and swimmers do And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money I stand corrected, nice profile x Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection "I could bring my shoes to meet your shoes | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
This is a thread for women to ask men questions
And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED
You answered with a question. I don’t approve
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down why would you leave a toliet seat down... its meant to be up!
U will actually find when you flush germs can get out if no lid down its there to protect. Us if it wasn't meant to be a lid it wouldnt be there in first place.. It would just be a seat"Visited many public toilets lately. | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? Cyclists and swimmers do And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money I stand corrected, nice profile x Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection
I could bring my shoes to meet your shoes "They might end up sole(soul)mates...hey its xmas and these cracker jokes dont write themselves! P.S. I have boots as well | |||
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"Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women? " Because us women have more brain cells to work with | |||
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"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society. Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life? (To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals) i'm not..... i grew up in a family full of really strong women, so i see that women take no shit!" Oh amazing .. do you feel your relationships (presuming you have them with women) are influenced positively because of your upbringing? .. having an understanding of women? | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
This is a thread for women to ask men questions
And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED
You answered with a question. I don’t approve
Please do point out the question in the following statement - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive'
Your first response was a question "No it was an example of massive sweeping generalisations, and it was purely rhetorical
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"Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women? " Because it uses a joystick (or at least it did last time I played Manic Miner on my ZX Spectrum) - we are genetically programmed to like playing with our joysticks | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. " Great answer. | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity?" As I get older, probably career choice and financial stability. Younger days would have been about what impression I would leave, not it’s not so important. | |||
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"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society. Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life? (To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals) i'm not..... i grew up in a family full of really strong women, so i see that women take no shit! Oh amazing .. do you feel your relationships (presuming you have them with women) are influenced positively because of your upbringing? .. having an understanding of women? " interesting question... I don't think men will ever 100% understand women, but with the way i was brought up, i think i had a headstart in recognising more of the "rights" and more importantly, more of the "wrongs".... i'll always be a work in progress and i have recognised a lot of the stuff that makes me wince when other guys do them to know i am of the right path.... | |||
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"Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us? It's not appealing to watch." Because we are comfortable within ourselves and it's natural. | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" Same reason you can't turn a light switch off ! | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. " Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal. | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal. " So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object. What have we done to our men? | |||
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"Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women? Because it uses a joystick (or at least it did last time I played Manic Miner on my ZX Spectrum) - we are genetically programmed to like playing with our joysticks" | |||
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"Why do you want -and make it clear every time possible- to have “NSA sex only” but then get in a huff when the lady you’ve been seeing fairly regularly is doing the same and seeing other people? "I'd say thats just as likely to happen the other way around, some people (non-gender specific) simply don't like sharing their toys [sic], but don't mind playing with others. Then there's the 'what if he/she is x,y or z than me?' that some people torture themselves with. | |||
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"Why do you want -and make it clear every time possible- to have “NSA sex only” but then get in a huff when the lady you’ve been seeing fairly regularly is doing the same and seeing other people?
I'd say thats just as likely to happen the other way around, some people (non-gender specific) simply don't like sharing their toys [sic], but don't mind playing with others.
Then there's the 'what if he/she is x,y or z than me?' that some people torture themselves with.
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The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread "I noticed. I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid. | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? Cyclists and swimmers do And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money I stand corrected, nice profile x Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection
I could bring my shoes to meet your shoes
They might end up sole(soul)mates...hey its xmas and these cracker jokes dont write themselves!
P.S. I have boots as well " | |||
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"Menfolk ... What advice and guidance should you be giving to our sons and daughters about a good healthy sex life? X " Good communication, if it ain’t working...talk about it. Know not only what you like and dislike, sexually but also your partners likes and dislikes...and respect that. Make time for each other. | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid. "OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear' P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum "I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
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I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
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"Menfolk ... What advice and guidance should you be giving to our sons and daughters about a good healthy sex life? X " My daughter - men can be arseholes with only one thing on their mind; don't allow yourself to be sucked in by charm and well constructed romantic verse My son - go get em boy; fuck as much as you possibly can, albeit apply caution and realise the dangers of 'beer goggles' wearing... | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal. So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object. What have we done to our men?" Some men would feel awkward showing their softer side in front of others about a woman. We may feel it shows weakness. I'm not saying I'm like that or most others. Just my thinking lol | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
He says, proving my point
Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season "He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch? | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
He says, proving my point
Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season
He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch? "Audience participation is encouraged, nay mandatory x Ps congrats on your reindeer award | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
He says, proving my point
Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season
He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?
Audience participation is encouraged, nay mandatory x
Ps congrats on your reindeer award"And congrats on your thought provoking one (I won that in 2016 last time we did the awards, it’s the best one ) | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
He says, proving my point
Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season
He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch? "Only if you show me your Widow Twanky! | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
He says, proving my point
Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season
He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?
Only if you show me your Widow Twanky!"You’ll want your money back! | |||
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"Why can’t men read profiles? Why do women tar all men with the same brush? We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive
The idea behind the thread is.
I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread
I noticed.
I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.
OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'
P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum
I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics
Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod
He says, proving my point
Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season
He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?
Only if you show me your Widow Twanky!
You’ll want your money back!"Go on i'll let you rub my lamp, i'll even throw in 2 thigh slaps, a handful of magic beans and, a genuine golden egg as used in John Inmans critically acclaimed 'Mother Goose' Oxford theatre circa 1978 | |||
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"For those of you afraid of commitment, what's behind it, caused it, how masculine do you perceive yourself to be? And when you get frightened about to break it off, how quickly do you want sex with others? Not agraid of commitment. But knowing we can live to bee 100 or so, why would we marry in our 20's and swear to love that one singular person forever and no one else. For me monogamy is dead or dying and polyamoury is the sane future for all. " It depends how you define monogamy. If it is only having sexual contact with one person, then fair enough, if you are on Fab, it is not for you, though is for millions of others. If monogamy is a romantic commitment to only one then it is compatible with swinging. We are very much in love and romantically monogamous, but sharing others for our (and their) sexual pleasure is different. Polyamory, multiple romantic attachments to others, is not necessarily an antonym of monogamy. | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal. So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object. What have we done to our men? It's also a lot easier to px your car for a younger model "true! | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" Or worse " the missus"" or "'er indoors" | |||
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"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name? It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband" My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others... "My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal. So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object. What have we done to our men? Some men would feel awkward showing their softer side in front of others about a woman. We may feel it shows weakness. I'm not saying I'm like that or most others. Just my thinking lol" saying my wife instead of the wife is showing a softer side!? | |||
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"Why don't men shave their legs?? Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? " They are, read "Trainer's" for shoe's | |||
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"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society. Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life? (To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals) " I suffer from social anxiety and am about as far from "lad culture" as you can get and many times over the years I have found it quite difficult to not feel less of a man because of it. Toxic masculinity is the worst..it forces a lot of men to pretend to be something they are not and I am glad that people are becoming more aware of it these days. | |||
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"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society. Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life? (To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals) I suffer from social anxiety and am about as far from "lad culture" as you can get and many times over the years I have found it quite difficult to not feel less of a man because of it. Toxic masculinity is the worst..it forces a lot of men to pretend to be something they are not and I am glad that people are becoming more aware of it these days. " ? | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?" . I don't understand that question | |||
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"Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us? It's not appealing to watch. Its an primate thing, women do it as well (sans balls of course) Watch any of those Attenborough progs. with chimps, gorillas, etc. they all do it and to eachother its part of their socialising "I think you'll find its called flirting | |||
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"Is it a thing for women to want younger fresher men? " In general I don't think so no | |||
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"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out? i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!! seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do...." Yes, we do. It would be nice to know what is going on inside man's head and to know that even though something is bothering them, it's not you and you don't have to be worried why their behaviour has suddenly changed. That way we can help them get through things faster. | |||
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"Why do some men leave the empty toilet roll on the holder and when cooking use every blooming piece of cutlery and plate? " The second thing pisses me off too | |||
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"What’s your biggest insecurity?" That I am, fundamentally, unlovable When someone starts getting a bit too close emotionally, this seems to kick in and subconsciously I'll start to push them away so that, once they've left me, I can say "I knew I was unlovable" ?? | |||
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"If a man doesnt show you his emotions he isnt interested, you should move on and find someone worth your time" I have had that disproved to me a couple of times. In that men will refuse to show their emotions or discuss relationship difficulties until the relationship has completely broken down. You end it and suddenly they find their voice, way too late. | |||
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"Why aren’t you guys answering the questions? " Because we're still waiting for that sandwich  | |||
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"What does it feel like when you orgasm... ... Does your mind disconnect/go blank, or do you see /hear everything in high definition?? " A little bit of both, for me anyway. Anything which I find a turn on at that moment (sights, sounds, feelings etc) gets cranked up to eleven and my mind goes a little blank | |||
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"Why do you go soft when putting a condom on? " Its hard because our mind is focussed on you and turned on, the bloods fliwing down 'there'. Stopping to tske the condom, open it snd put it on the right way, stops the sexy sctivity, blood glow slows and johnson droops. Gcse biology. | |||
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"Why aren’t you guys answering the questions? " Answering your previous question. As aslways you ask us to do something and while we are doing it, you ask us to do another one and complain we arent doing either. | |||
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"Why do you go soft when putting a condom on? Its hard because our mind is focussed on you and turned on, the bloods fliwing down 'there'. Stopping to tske the condom, open it snd put it on the right way, stops the sexy sctivity, blood glow slows and johnson droops. Gcse biology." I don't have that problem, it takes 10 seconds to put one on | |||
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"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down" That's easy ... because their mum's did it all for them! And noone told them why we put the lid down when we flush! | |||
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"Why do some men leave the empty toilet roll on the holder and when cooking use every blooming piece of cutlery and plate? The second thing pisses me off too "If cutlery and plates aren't there to be used, what is their purpose? Decoration? The dishwashers do all the hsrd work nowadays. You cant even be bothered to load the dishwasher, get the men to do it, and still complain all the cutlery and plates are used up! | |||
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