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Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.
Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? |
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"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.
Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? "
Tell her you're nervous, nothing to worry about then
Almost definitely she'll say that she is as well
Ice broken, no pretending needed
Good luck |
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"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.
Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves?
Tell her you're nervous"
Ermmm.. No. |
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I love that nervous excited feeling and then when you make eye contact for the first time that excitement becomes even more intense. Hope all goes well for the both of you
You’ll have to let us know how it goes |
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"I love that nervous excited feeling and then when you make eye contact for the first time that excitement becomes even more intense. Hope all goes well for the both of you
You’ll have to let us know how it goes "
Yes I'll report back haha |
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"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.
Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? "
You’ll be fine - promise!
You’re a great guy - she’d be mad not to like you! |
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"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.
Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves?
You’ll be fine - promise!
You’re a great guy - she’d be mad not to like you! "
Thanks |
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"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.
Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? " pull yourself together man, don't drink and just be yourself trust me she'll be more nervous than you |
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"Don't try and hide your nerves .. weird shit happens if I ever try to do this!
Just confess .. it's sweet and flattering, be you xxx "
What's kind of weird shit lol |
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Being nervous means it's important to you. It's a good thing and helps you for the day.
Whenever I do public speaking, if I'm nervous before, it goes well, if I'm not nervous, I fuck it up.
Enjoy the nerves and have a great time! |
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We all get nervous, even when we already know the person. It's all normal. Take a look in the mirror and say to yourself "she wants to meet me and I'm looking good". Smile, be happy. I wish it was me x |
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Nerves are perfectly normal and part of the ‘buzz’ for us . If you’re not nervous or emotionless it’s the time to give up in our book . Just be yourself , you’ve done something right in the first place by arranging to meet up ! |
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Nervousness and excitement are part of the same thing, our mind and body's response - the key difference is our own interpretation. We can reinterpret nervousness as excitement, as a good start.
Anything that builds relaxation is calming, so I'd pick what works for me. I do some exercise when I'm very excited or nervous, as it works my body and the chemicals in it to good purpose. A short walk, run or gym workout is fine.
Breathing is the instant key to change my state of mind. Slow breaths, exhale twice as long as inhaling.
And the other absolute winner is to pick wisely what I focus on. Pick positive things that will enhance your confidence etc |
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Hi there what kind of location are you meeting at and have you discussed on here what you are both looking for ?. Are you both meeting for a drink then heading off and to meet again or you thinking you might go somewhere if you both get along well and maybe something come of your meet up ?. |
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"Pre meet nerves are normal and part of it for us.
The day we don't get nerves is the day we will stop swinging."
True that.
I am meeting a old friend from fab tonight. I really like him, I am really excited and have to admit to a few butterflies |
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