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Would you be single rather than settling down with the wrong one?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With this I mean would you rather be single all your life if you couldnt find your perfect partner or would you rather find not your type just to be with someone? I would choose to be single all my life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been very lucky met my best friend and soul mate at the age of 15 been together since then so don’t know what being single is like and the thought of it in old age scares me shitless be devastated to not have her with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Newly single (about five months) and totally loving it. So much so that I don't envisage being in a relationship again. The peace, not having to compromise, worry about someone etc all I have to think about is myself and my children. If I need sex there is fab, parties or my sex toys. It's a win win. Your happiness over an unhappy relationship always. |
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Having already spent half my life with the wrong person, then single all the way.
It's taken alot to rebuild my life. I'm finally me, free & very happy.
I wouldn't sacrifice what I've built, to share it with anyone now unless they were 100% right for me.
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If it's someone who's wrong for you, then single all the way
If you're single because you can't be with the person who's right for you (because you had a bit of a breakdown and screwed things up totally) then that's a lot harder to take.... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Please stop saying single all the way! I keep reading it as Jingle all the way 
On a serious note. Single, 100%, everytime. It may end up lonely but the wrong person can make it lonely and all other parts of hell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eh single every day.
Was with my husband 19yrs....I shouldnt have stayed with him. Should have stayed single and played the field until I found myself. Was too young. Trying desperately to seperate from him now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spent 29 years with the wrong one so unless i find someone who loves me for being me and is my best friend too i will be staying single. I cant do fab forever and sex means more with someone special. |
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"Please stop saying single all the way! I keep reading it as Jingle all the way
On a serious note. Single, 100%, everytime. It may end up lonely but the wrong person can make it lonely and all other parts of hell. "
I was lonelier married, than I ever have been single! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please stop saying single all the way! I keep reading it as Jingle all the way
On a serious note. Single, 100%, everytime. It may end up lonely but the wrong person can make it lonely and all other parts of hell.
I was lonelier married, than I ever have been single! "
If we were married, I would never be out of you
EVER! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Please stop saying single all the way! I keep reading it as Jingle all the way
On a serious note. Single, 100%, everytime. It may end up lonely but the wrong person can make it lonely and all other parts of hell.
I was lonelier married, than I ever have been single! "
Exactly. I'm fortunate enough to have never been in a relationship that I regret being with that person, I know others who have and they said the exact same thing.
Its not just about a body being there, it is how that body physically and mentally makes you feel. Often isolated and trapped.
And that's not even abusive relationships. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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My (ex) wife was and still is wonderful but we grew apart and separated 7 years ago. We were both upset at the time and we still stay in touch, no kids involved.
We were together for almost 20 years and if it didn't work for me with her then it won't work for anyone else with me. I'm much happier single and even more content. I don't have to think about anybody, just me. That might sound selfish but I'm happier single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rather be single, twice I thought I'd met the illusive "one" and twice I've had to rebuild from nothing if not less than nothing, so this time if I do meet someone they had better be prepared for us to live separate as I refuse to go through it all again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think anyone is going to say they would deliberately settle for the wrong person....but a lot of couples seem to stay together for the wrong reasons...
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"Ive been very lucky met my best friend and soul mate at the age of 15 been together since then so don’t know what being single is like and the thought of it in old age scares me shitless be devastated to not have her with me. "
Aw that’s so sweet! 
My son’s 15 - nearly 16 - and he’s been with his girlfriend about 6 months now. They seem so in tune with each other that I wouldn’t be surprised if they grow up and grow old together!
He’s clearly a lot better at relationships than I am! I’m a soft shite who always falls in love far too easily and gets very hurt! |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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I'm very happily single, after 16 yrs in a bad marriage. I miss someone to scrape the ice off my car in a morning, and mow the lawn... Other than that, I'm pretty sorted and content with everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does the whole settling down with someone not mean you think you’ve found the right one?
It may not work out but I’d have thought no one would settle down for the sake of it a. "
You would be surprised by the number of people that settle down for the sake of it. Some do it as they dont want to live out the rest of there days alone. Me i rather be alone and happy than attached and unhappy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been very lucky met my best friend and soul mate at the age of 15 been together since then so don’t know what being single is like and the thought of it in old age scares me shitless be devastated to not have her with me.
Aw that’s so sweet!
My son’s 15 - nearly 16 - and he’s been with his girlfriend about 6 months now. They seem so in tune with each other that I wouldn’t be surprised if they grow up and grow old together!
He’s clearly a lot better at relationships than I am! I’m a soft shite who always falls in love far too easily and gets very hurt! "
awwwww I'm a softie too   |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
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"Does the whole settling down with someone not mean you think you’ve found the right one?
It may not work out but I’d have thought no one would settle down for the sake of it a.
You would be surprised by the number of people that settle down for the sake of it. Some do it as they dont want to live out the rest of there days alone. Me i rather be alone and happy than attached and unhappy "
I have to agree I couldn’t settle down for the sake of it |
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I was blissfully single 10year, met someone we have banter and we talk about everything and we laughing all the time. I say single all the time until you find someone you adore, that makes you laugh and can speak to without having to second guess what they'd think about what you say and makes you feel comfortable around them. Stay single till |
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This. I love being single!
