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Long distance meets

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I get a lot of messages from people that are a long distance away and I'm just wondering how far would you travel for a meet and do you expect to be accommodated overnight? Also would you class it as a waste of time if sex wasn't involved?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would happily tra el to England to meet some of you for a social, no sex expected, and be happy to pay for a hotel. I dont think any distance is out of the question if the 2 of you really want to meet.

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

I have plans to travel next year. I wouldn't expect to be accommodated at a first meet because what if the chemistry just isn't there in person?

Plan would be to get a hotel room with no expectations but a certain amount of hope.

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By *ourayloversCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

Distance is never a consideration for us if you hit it off is the main thing xxx

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think most probably 1 hour to 2 hours maximum of travelling. But there is that thing called chemistry first. if that is not there there is really no point

And sarcasm is a sure winner for me and a great gift to mankind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

J once spent 10 hours doing a 500 mile round trip for our first meet

Mrs x

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not far, there are lots of lovely folks nearby so I don't have to. Plus I don't have the time to be travelling too far from home. If someone wants to come to me though, that's fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Travelled as far Leicester.

If no sex was involved then yeah it would be disappointing but that's just the way it is.

If both dont click then it's pointless going further and no point kicking off about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to go to

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get a lot of messages from people that are a long distance away and I'm just wondering how far would you travel for a meet and do you expect to be accommodated overnight? Also would you class it as a waste of time if sex wasn't involved? "
if I'm interested and have struck up a friendship i will travel however far is needed and get accommodation if needed

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I went to Essex.

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By *ackinabox19Man over a year ago

Harrogate

I’d travel a good distance and just stay over if the connection was mutual, I’d definitely still chat even if sex wasn’t a possibility it’s nice just to be nice but that’s just how I am as a person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've travelled to Newcastle but its a bit far really

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

I traveled from Dublin to Prague for 2 years , eventually married her, so long distance ain't so big a deal,

Looking back , the marriage part did cost me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I traveled from Dublin to Prague for 2 years , eventually married her, so long distance ain't so big a deal,

Looking back , the marriage part did cost me lol"

Are you still married though?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We put in as many miles as we can for the right people or social! Travelling is part of the fun, stops along the way for quick socials and catch ups! Gotta love a road trip!

Peach x

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

"I traveled from Dublin to Prague for 2 years , eventually married her, so long distance ain't so big a deal,

Looking back , the marriage part did cost me lol

Are you still married though? "
yep ,, but only cause I can't find her,

and it's been that since 2011, lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I traveled from Dublin to Prague for 2 years , eventually married her, so long distance ain't so big a deal,

Looking back , the marriage part did cost me lol

Are you still married though? yep ,, but only cause I can't find her,

and it's been that since 2011, lol"

That's so funny lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I travel from Southampton to London on public transport most weeks taking about 5 hours each way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Provided I can find the time and opportunity I’ll travel to meet people I really like already. I wouldn’t go far for someone I’ve only just started to get to know. I’d take my time getting to know them better before I do.

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

"I traveled from Dublin to Prague for 2 years , eventually married her, so long distance ain't so big a deal,

Looking back , the marriage part did cost me lol

Are you still married though? yep ,, but only cause I can't find her,

and it's been that since 2011, lol

That's so funny lol "
well I gave up crying in 14 and started laughing in 16,

Spilt milk and all that, lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I traveled from Dublin to Prague for 2 years , eventually married her, so long distance ain't so big a deal,

Looking back , the marriage part did cost me lol

Are you still married though? yep ,, but only cause I can't find her,

and it's been that since 2011, lol

That's so funny lol well I gave up crying in 14 and started laughing in 16,

Spilt milk and all that, lol"

Best way to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have driven 3 hours for a meet before and if it was someone I really wanted to see I'd travel further.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few hours travel is ok for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would travel for a good friend and make moments matter

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Most of my good friends are spread all over the country. Lots have travelled to me for the day or I’ve put them up. I’m just as happy to catch up with friends in a non sexual way so would do the same when I do eventually get my backside out to another city x

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By *hromosexualsCouple over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Distance isn’t a problem for us as travel (In the UK at least) doesn’t cost us anything and we both enjoy the adventure of a road-trip. We wouldn’t expect (or accept) being accommodated either.

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

We would happily travel a fsir distance. Driving doesn't bother us and we would book a hotel and enjoy the break away.

We would prefer a sexy meet but ee wouldn't be too dissappointed if it didn't happen. As long as we had a good time doing whatever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d travel to the airport to pick them up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just locally for me as I don't have much free time to travel far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We would happily travel a fsir distance. Driving doesn't bother us and we would book a hotel and enjoy the break away.

We would prefer a sexy meet but ee wouldn't be too dissappointed if it didn't happen. As long as we had a good time doing whatever."

Couple benefits

Fuzz

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've travelled for meets, Ive had long distance relationships and I'd do the same again. To me, it's about the person, not the distance.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

From where I live 2-3 hours each way if the other person is willing to do similar means that most of England and Wales came be covered - have done that kind of journey before too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Travel is fine. But longer distances will be worked in with other things just in case lol.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

If you are both willing to travel it can happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No more than 30 minutes travel and that would be half way. They would travel the same. First meet only a social and I don't ever sleep over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No more than 30 minutes travel and that would be half way. They would travel the same. First meet only a social and I don't ever sleep over. "
youre so forthright

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By *hisguy84Man over a year ago

Jersey

I like to travel. I would travel within the UK if someone took my fancy enough. Wouldn’t expect to be hosted either.

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By *lashheartMan over a year ago

shrewsbury

I’ve been on quite a few long distance meets, one to York was very memorable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve had a few long distance meets over the years. Always made sure I had a shower when I arrived. No one wants sweaty balls from the journey. Even had some join me in the shower

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Scotland! A fwb lives in Dundee.

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By *olex99Man over a year ago

Hull

I'd travel & get a hotel. I enjoy a night in a hotel. If there's someone to share it with then it's even better.

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By *olex99Man over a year ago

Hull

"Not far, there are lots of lovely folks nearby so I don't have to. Plus I don't have the time to be travelling too far from home. If someone wants to come to me though, that's fine

Trip to Scotland it is then

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By *reya73Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I have and would travel.

I visited a fwb in Brighton in the summer .. we knew eachother though,knew it would be a good few days and I visited friends on the way back. Bloody miles that was though.

For a first meet I popped my tent and some dry wood in the back of the car just in case.

I was so glad I did too .. had a gorgeous time to myself under the stars.

Win win .. an adventure is an adventure.

I'm pretty resourceful though.. I imagine this wouldn't work for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's both where you want go be the miles dont matter

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By *lex46TV/TS over a year ago

Near Wells

I travel a lot for work. Nowadays I don't travel too far for meetings maybe 20-30 miles.

I used to travel for miles but after a couple of disappointing meetings I lost the will.

I still visit clubs in London, Blackpool, both 3 hour journeys and Birmingham which is 2 hours away.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm happy to travel, & often do, to see some of my favourite people.

But they are people I've encountered through the forums, then chatted to at length, or met at group socials, events.

I got to know them very well first before arranging to meet up.

I do find messages from random strangers, hundreds of miles away odd though.

Standard message "Wow, you're gorgeous, hot, stunning. What you doing tonight, tomorrow, this weekend? I'd love to meet you"

As much as I enjoy a road trip, I'm not about to leap into my car & drive 4hrs for someone I don't know

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By *endheroverMan over a year ago

sheffield

One of my best meets was in Belfast a great weekend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Distance is easily overcome if the connection/chemistry is there, whether it be as a friendly meet or more, accommodation isn't expected but what ifs can be discussed before hand so necessary preperations can be made.

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