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Is being ugly a bit like being blind of deaf?
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By *obleton OP Man
over a year ago
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You know, where as a result of you being lacking in one facility, others improve to take their place, like blind people supposedly being able hear better or whatever?
The reason I ask is I just noticed a comment on a profile that said something along the lines of "My goodness! even the ugly people on fab are rude!" ..... as if ugly people either don't have the right or the capacity to be rude and ignorant.
Of course on the upside of this, taking into consideration that I am frequently, brusque, brutal, condescending, and even on occasion, downright nasty - that must of course mean that I'm fucking gorgeous! |
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People are all individual, its the mind that creates the personality not the looks. Someone can be very plain but their personality can make them appear beautiful. Someone can be very attractive but their personality can make them appear ugly.
Plain people can have ugly personalities same as very attractive people can have awesome personalites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know where the OP is coming from with his post as I'm just way too good for some people and potential playmates (female) have to have at least an equal figure to Siren's else it would be like stepping from a Ferrari into a fookin Corsa. As for guys, a cock will do. 
(and if you believe any of that shit you need a check up from the neck up) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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some people dont think you have the rights to turn others down or allowed to have a preference i you dont look like you have stepped out the glossies, you only have to read some o the abuse i get from men who i say no thanks to to realise that
If your not a 21 year old size 8 blonde on here you have no right to be fussy about who fucks you 
I have lost count of the amount of times ive had guys mail me back telling me i should be grateful for their attention and i couldnt do better then them in the real world and the only reason men talk to me is because im a woman on a sex site etc etc etc
Sadly its just how a lot on here are seen by others, they lower their standards to get a fuck then get offended by being turned down by people they didnt see good enough for them in the firsty place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some people dont think you have the rights to turn others down or allowed to have a preference i you dont look like you have stepped out the glossies, you only have to read some o the abuse i get from men who i say no thanks to to realise that
If your not a 21 year old size 8 blonde on here you have no right to be fussy about who fucks you
I have lost count of the amount of times ive had guys mail me back telling me i should be grateful for their attention and i couldnt do better then them in the real world and the only reason men talk to me is because im a woman on a sex site etc etc etc
Sadly its just how a lot on here are seen by others, they lower their standards to get a fuck then get offended by being turned down by people they didnt see good enough for them in the firsty place"
only problem is there theory is flawed.. as I dont have any issue outside the site either ( seems girls that can drive and fix their own cars are sexy in their own right)
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By (user no longer on site)
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plus everyone sees rudeness different anyway, i do not feel i have ever been rude to anyone on here, even when i get abusive messsages i never bite and mail abuse back as thats what they want, im still polite to them as i will not sinkt to their level but they still talk to you like your the worse person in the world and tell you your rude etc even tho its them doing all the ranting |
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"Its only the ones that turn people down that all of a sudden become ugly,when before they were goddesses "
lmao !! yep lost count of times i have gone from "goddess" to "gross" just by saying the word no lol !! says more about that person in my book. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"plus everyone sees rudeness different anyway, i do not feel i have ever been rude to anyone on here, even when i get abusive messsages i never bite and mail abuse back as thats what they want, im still polite to them as i will not sinkt to their level but they still talk to you like your the worse person in the world and tell you your rude etc even tho its them doing all the ranting"
samehere. i always try to be polite and let people down gently
am getting good at it cuz its predominatly TV`s and gay dudes that msg me  |
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"plus everyone sees rudeness different anyway, i do not feel i have ever been rude to anyone on here, even when i get abusive messsages i never bite and mail abuse back as thats what they want, im still polite to them as i will not sinkt to their level but they still talk to you like your the worse person in the world and tell you your rude etc even tho its them doing all the ranting"
I agree with everything you say.
Some are so dim witted and vain their only recourse is personal insult if you dont adore them like a true psycophant.
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Its a strange thing..I know they say its in the eyes of the beholder..but I (male half) have just been the subject for a advertising photo shot thing..and when I saw the proofs I went on an instant downer how horrible I looked..mainly because I was 'forced' to smile..but smiling makes me look like an ugly simpleton..
I dont buy the beholder bit..I have a mirror and it does not lie..
Those of you who are decent looking should consider yourself very lucky..its not a nice cloud to have hanging over you trust me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not being vain but I'm not despondent when I look in the mirror at the person looking back at me as I've always been comfortable with my looks. Could do with toning up a bit here and there but on the whole I think I look ok for almost 47 years old.
I've seen some of the people I went to school with on f/b and thought "fuck me! you've had a hard life!"
I put it down to stress - my lack of it, and their lives controlled by it. |
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"Its a strange thing..I know they say its in the eyes of the beholder..but I (male half) have just been the subject for a advertising photo shot thing..and when I saw the proofs I went on an instant downer how horrible I looked..mainly because I was 'forced' to smile..but smiling makes me look like an ugly simpleton..
I dont buy the beholder bit..I have a mirror and it does not lie..
Those of you who are decent looking should consider yourself very lucky..its not a nice cloud to have hanging over you trust me.."
I disagree, i also have a mirror. Im a realist. Im an average looking woman been blessed with a nice smile. I was also extremely overweight.
However, ive never been short of a shag or a "proper" boyfriend. I dont use the swinging sites because i cant get it in the real world. Ive also had strange things guys have done as well. What is true is that some guys will find me very attractive, some will find me average and some will find me unattractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As an individual who if I catch sight of myself in mirrors I have an urge to bury myself in the cat litter tray, exactly what is supposed to become enhanced due to a lack of facial symmetry?
I for one would have hoped for enhanced pheromones where they become a form of weaponized Rohypnol - but alas this has yet to happen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"maybe they put that in their pro cuz the "ugly" ones should be being as nice as they can to improve their chances  "
bullshit, some of us ARE naturally nice but we still get dismissed because of our looks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a strange thing..I know they say its in the eyes of the beholder..but I (male half) have just been the subject for a advertising photo shot thing..and when I saw the proofs I went on an instant downer how horrible I looked..mainly because I was 'forced' to smile..but smiling makes me look like an ugly simpleton..
I dont buy the beholder bit..I have a mirror and it does not lie..
Those of you who are decent looking should consider yourself very lucky..its not a nice cloud to have hanging over you trust me.."
I know exactly where you are coming from |
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"wat exactly is ugly no one knows wat it is"
Marty Feldman
David Blunkett
Susan Boyle
Katie Perry
Gordon Brown
Michael Jackson
Marilyn Manson
Jocelyn Wildestein.
Prince Charles
Shayne MacGowan
Steven Tyler
Clint Howard
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a strange thing..I know they say its in the eyes of the beholder..but I (male half) have just been the subject for a advertising photo shot thing..and when I saw the proofs I went on an instant downer how horrible I looked..mainly because I was 'forced' to smile..but smiling makes me look like an ugly simpleton..
I dont buy the beholder bit..I have a mirror and it does not lie..
Those of you who are decent looking should consider yourself very lucky..its not a nice cloud to have hanging over you trust me.."
so are you saying your wife and everyone who has met you is desparate because if beautie isnt in the eye of the beholder they must think your ugly too because you do? |
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so are you saying your wife and everyone who has met you is desparate because if beautie isnt in the eye of the beholder they must think your ugly too because you do? "
I have read that 4 times now..and I think I know what you mean lol..the wife is biased I spose, shes married to me!..
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