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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.
This  "
Well that's me out then.... an unpublished young talent, a bit odd bluegrass and, some queen... not a normal taste in music |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.
This
Well that's me out then.... an unpublished young talent, a bit odd bluegrass and, some queen... not a normal taste in music"
That doesn’t mean you’re out. No music specifics were specified in our posts. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners."
Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!) |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.
Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)"
*hinged |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enter into a witty sarcastic conversation with them about random stuff and see if they can match me"
Omg this it's me.. If they can't keep up its sayounara!! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.
Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)"
Yes! If they badmouth/bitch all of their previous partners, it tends to be more a reflection of them - they are the link. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.
Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)
Yes! If they badmouth/bitch all of their previous partners, it tends to be more a reflection of them - they are the link."
Exactly. |
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"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important."
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I've been misled with that before. Start off thinking yea they're into all the same stuff as me then boom out of nowhere the xfactor songs are playing and it's too late, you've already been trapped. Think in future my music interrogation needs to be more thorough and nerdy lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enter into a witty sarcastic conversation with them about random stuff and see if they can match me
Omg this it's me.. If they can't keep up its sayounara!! "
Hahaha so this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?
Tea or coffee?
How do you like your breakfast?
Spit or swallow?
What would you ask?"
I'd ask where she wanted to go for lunch   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.
Aberdeen
I've been misled with that before. Start off thinking yea they're into all the same stuff as me then boom out of nowhere the xfactor songs are playing and it's too late, you've already been trapped. Think in future my music interrogation needs to be more thorough and nerdy lol
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I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone! |
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"What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?
Tea or coffee?
How do you like your breakfast?
Spit or swallow?
What would you ask?I'd ask where she wanted to go for lunch "
* brownie points * |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?
Tea or coffee?
How do you like your breakfast?
Spit or swallow?
What would you ask?I'd ask where she wanted to go for lunch
* brownie points *"
i already know where you want to go  |
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"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.
Aberdeen
I've been misled with that before. Start off thinking yea they're into all the same stuff as me then boom out of nowhere the xfactor songs are playing and it's too late, you've already been trapped. Think in future my music interrogation needs to be more thorough and nerdy lol
I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone! "
Like it. I've already considered my playlist for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone!
Like it. I've already considered my playlist for that."
.. And your choice is?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to sit them down, position the spotlight and give them a good grilling. It’s worked so far  "
I don’t know why, but Sharon stone in basic instinct springs to mind lol |
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I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone!
Like it. I've already considered my playlist for that.
.. And your choice is?? "
I like the idea of keeping it up beat and lively but still everyone with the lump in their throat. Quite a bit of Dropkick Murphys, but coffin being carried out to Flogging Molly - If I ever leave this world alive. Because I want them howling with tears by that point....I change the playlist pretty regularly to be fair so it's really going to depend what I was feeling on the lead up to the inevitable lol |
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