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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments.. 
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind  |
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No. I'm being a dramatic Annie. I have pulled something in my back so cant get comfy and I'm in agony, painkillers only taking the edge off. My poor daughter has to pull me up to sit up or stand. Other than that I'm good x  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind "
Yeah I'm good I'm warm how are you saffy x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Ive had a real hard time lately but I actually am ok at the moment.
Hope your ok "
sorry to hear that. Hopefully things will calm down for you and you’ll get back to your smiley self! X sending love |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"No. I'm being a dramatic Annie. I have pulled something in my back so cant get comfy and I'm in agony, painkillers only taking the edge off. My poor daughter has to pull me up to sit up or stand. Other than that I'm good x "
Ah man sounds horrible!! Can empathise with back pain.. hope the painkillers kick in soon!! X |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
A conundrum. I’ve got a personal problem I’m working through currently and I’m not quite sure what course of action I’m going to take - so am in that “fret and ruminate” stage until it becomes clearer, add onto this that I’ve been poorly and that’s probably why it’s taking me so long to find a way forward. Just got to have faith things will come good.
Aside from this, I’ve much to be thankful for and it’s important to remember this and keep it in perspective.
Thank you for asking, OP.
I hope things are well with you, or if not that you have the right support around you - sending love |
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over a year ago
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I'm bot bad, the cold isnt great but I'm wrapped up in bed alone, trying not to over think my issues as thats a big problem of mine, but I hope everyone here is doing okay themselves  |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind
Yeah I'm good I'm warm how are you saffy x"
Not too bad thanks x lots of family stuff going on so just concentrating on that at the mo x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind
Yeah I'm good I'm warm how are you saffy x
Not too bad thanks x lots of family stuff going on so just concentrating on that at the mo x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be."
Oh I can totally understand this. I used to be the same and question if people actually cared how I was actually doing it feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Struggling with the problematic installation of a new boiler, day three of having no hot water. But I'm still takin the battle to 'em. We shall overcome and all that bollocks  |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"A conundrum. I’ve got a personal problem I’m working through currently and I’m not quite sure what course of action I’m going to take - so am in that “fret and ruminate” stage until it becomes clearer, add onto this that I’ve been poorly and that’s probably why it’s taking me so long to find a way forward. Just got to have faith things will come good.
Aside from this, I’ve much to be thankful for and it’s important to remember this and keep it in perspective.
Thank you for asking, OP.
I hope things are well with you, or if not that you have the right support around you - sending love "
Ahh hate that stage.. when you know you’ll find the answer but you’ve to wreck your brain for a while to find it. Hope you find your clarity soon and thanks x I’m very lucky I have yes. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I'm bot bad, the cold isnt great but I'm wrapped up in bed alone, trying not to over think my issues as thats a big problem of mine, but I hope everyone here is doing okay themselves "
Think many of us do the same.. hope you’re reaching out to those around you too x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
Oh I can totally understand this. I used to be the same and question if people actually cared how I was actually doing it feeling "
Yeah it's awful isn't it? That's why I would just give the polite, expected answer. You don't want to be unburdening yourself on someone who was making small talk.  |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be."
That’s why I love saying no.. sometimes it’s just perfect opportunity to stop the brave face and just have a chat. Hope tomorrow’s kinder x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
Oh I can totally understand this. I used to be the same and question if people actually cared how I was actually doing it feeling
Yeah it's awful isn't it? That's why I would just give the polite, expected answer. You don't want to be unburdening yourself on someone who was making small talk. "
This hits me as its so so true. My go to response is " I'm not too bad, how is yourself ? " when I'm reality im quite bad, low, moody depressed and sometimes all over the place. But can't exactly let all that out to people who only wanted small talk. Or you've not long met and getting to know  |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’m ok, couple of stressful weeks ahead, but time with friends and different places, will keep me smiling and occupied so I don’t dwell on it
Hugs for all not feeling it right now "
Hope there’s some you time and people you can say no to too when you feel it. X |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I'm suffering with FOMO and a couple of ouchies but I'm good generally. Also I have tea, black forest gateau and the Vicious box set to distract me."
Love your silver lining hoping you make up for the FOMO very soon |
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"I’m ok, couple of stressful weeks ahead, but time with friends and different places, will keep me smiling and occupied so I don’t dwell on it
Hugs for all not feeling it right now
Hope there’s some you time and people you can say no to too when you feel it. X "
Solitary me time not really, but that comes on evening of 23rd when I can switch off and forget for three days. There are some I can say no to, but I wont especially at this time of year x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
Oh I can totally understand this. I used to be the same and question if people actually cared how I was actually doing it feeling
Yeah it's awful isn't it? That's why I would just give the polite, expected answer. You don't want to be unburdening yourself on someone who was making small talk.
This hits me as its so so true. My go to response is " I'm not too bad, how is yourself ? " when I'm reality im quite bad, low, moody depressed and sometimes all over the place. But can't exactly let all that out to people who only wanted small talk. Or you've not long met and getting to know "
They want small talk until they understand you need a proper talk. You may be surprised how much people want to know the truth rather than just a generic response x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’m ok, couple of stressful weeks ahead, but time with friends and different places, will keep me smiling and occupied so I don’t dwell on it
Hugs for all not feeling it right now
Hope there’s some you time and people you can say no to too when you feel it. X
Solitary me time not really, but that comes on evening of 23rd when I can switch off and forget for three days. There are some I can say no to, but I wont especially at this time of year x"
December definitely makes it harder for people to talk properly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
Oh I can totally understand this. I used to be the same and question if people actually cared how I was actually doing it feeling
Yeah it's awful isn't it? That's why I would just give the polite, expected answer. You don't want to be unburdening yourself on someone who was making small talk.
This hits me as its so so true. My go to response is " I'm not too bad, how is yourself ? " when I'm reality im quite bad, low, moody depressed and sometimes all over the place. But can't exactly let all that out to people who only wanted small talk. Or you've not long met and getting to know
They want small talk until they understand you need a proper talk. You may be surprised how much people want to know the truth rather than just a generic response x "
Very true , I love a good proper talk with people im a great listener. Always up for a good chat , but much better at listening than opening up myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind "
really nice gesture and its good to see people showing care for others
I'm ok thank you, and yes really I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind "
I am OK.
Whats on my mind?
Since your post earlier. Your werewolf eyes have been on my mind not to mention your delicious curves x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"No...not ok.
If I started to list everything I'd be here all day .....just need to grin and hope things get better...."
Sometimes it’s good to let the mask slip and talk.. hope you’ve got someone to speak to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, not really. But I need to be strong for family.
It's death. It frightens me.
I've lost 2 really fantastically nice people in 4 months, one of which was my father-in-law. Needless to say the other half is beside herself. I tend to do my crying here on nightshift as I miss him terribly too.
My 14 year old dotes on me, and I'm frightened for him if I suddenly go next. I'm getting old.
Periods of highs, and then big lows which I hide. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
Oh I can totally understand this. I used to be the same and question if people actually cared how I was actually doing it feeling
Yeah it's awful isn't it? That's why I would just give the polite, expected answer. You don't want to be unburdening yourself on someone who was making small talk.
This hits me as its so so true. My go to response is " I'm not too bad, how is yourself ? " when I'm reality im quite bad, low, moody depressed and sometimes all over the place. But can't exactly let all that out to people who only wanted small talk. Or you've not long met and getting to know
They want small talk until they understand you need a proper talk. You may be surprised how much people want to know the truth rather than just a generic response x
Very true , I love a good proper talk with people im a great listener. Always up for a good chat , but much better at listening than opening up myself "
I’m usually the listener but I’ve also found several people to talk to too.. it’s important. Try it.. you might find it helps |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind
really nice gesture and its good to see people showing care for others
I'm ok thank you, and yes really I am "
That’s good to hear this place can be an amazing place for support x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"No, not really. But I need to be strong for family.
It's death. It frightens me.
I've lost 2 really fantastically nice people in 4 months, one of which was my father-in-law. Needless to say the other half is beside herself. I tend to do my crying here on nightshift as I miss him terribly too.
My 14 year old dotes on me, and I'm frightened for him if I suddenly go next. I'm getting old.
Periods of highs, and then big lows which I hide."
We all need that person to lean on too feel a little like this myself at the mo but I have loved ones that need a crutch and friends that are keeping me sane. Hope you have the same x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Physically I'm in bits, new tattoo today and its sore 
Mentally I'm drained and considering taking a back seat on meets, etc.
Hope you're ok saff xxx"
Looks lovely! Yeah I get that too it’s good having people around for a smile and a chat though. great to catch up on Friday x |
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over a year ago
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"No, not really. But I need to be strong for family.
It's death. It frightens me.
I've lost 2 really fantastically nice people in 4 months, one of which was my father-in-law. Needless to say the other half is beside herself. I tend to do my crying here on nightshift as I miss him terribly too.
My 14 year old dotes on me, and I'm frightened for him if I suddenly go next. I'm getting old.
Periods of highs, and then big lows which I hide.
We all need that person to lean on too feel a little like this myself at the mo but I have loved ones that need a crutch and friends that are keeping me sane. Hope you have the same x "
I do saff, and it's lovely. After an awful few months I think I'm just feeling down. Thanks xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
That’s why I love saying no.. sometimes it’s just perfect opportunity to stop the brave face and just have a chat. Hope tomorrow’s kinder x "
Yeah. I'll still give generic responses and brave it out. I appreciate the thread and what you're trying to do Op. x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"No, not really. But I need to be strong for family.
It's death. It frightens me.
I've lost 2 really fantastically nice people in 4 months, one of which was my father-in-law. Needless to say the other half is beside herself. I tend to do my crying here on nightshift as I miss him terribly too.
My 14 year old dotes on me, and I'm frightened for him if I suddenly go next. I'm getting old.
Periods of highs, and then big lows which I hide.
We all need that person to lean on too feel a little like this myself at the mo but I have loved ones that need a crutch and friends that are keeping me sane. Hope you have the same x
I do saff, and it's lovely. After an awful few months I think I'm just feeling down. Thanks xx"
That’s good. Make sure you tell them you’re finding it difficult! Loved ones love us when we are both happy and sad. |
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind "
I'm spiffing not a care in the world   |
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind "
Hope you are taking some time for you, sod everyone else. You are priority |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind I'm spiffing not a care in the world "
Pinky promise? |
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind I'm spiffing not a care in the world
Pinky promise? "
as long as its in person  |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Physically I'm in bits, new tattoo today and its sore
Mentally I'm drained and considering taking a back seat on meets, etc.
Hope you're ok saff xxx
Looks lovely! Yeah I get that too it’s good having people around for a smile and a chat though. great to catch up on Friday x"
Absolutely loved it! Xx |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Mentally tired doing x2 degrees and working full time but i know its worth it when i graduate next year.
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That’s tough! But that’s determination and a half! The ends in sight x hope you’ve got people to lean on too x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind
I am OK.
Whats on my mind?
Since your post earlier. Your werewolf eyes have been on my mind not to mention your delicious curves x"
Least I’m not called a witch this time.. werewolf’s a new one |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Not been around much for a while.. you know what it’s like.. real life stuff gets hectic and there doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to fit in friends and other commitments..
This question I have a love hate relationship with. Too often we just say yes when we actually mean no.. the day I started to say no was the start of my journey back to health.
So are you ok?!? Really..
what’s on your mind
Hope you are taking some time for you, sod everyone else. You are priority "
Really am thanks yes x lots of great friends and family time right now until things settle down
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Physically I'm in bits, new tattoo today and its sore
Mentally I'm drained and considering taking a back seat on meets, etc.
Hope you're ok saff xxx
Looks lovely! Yeah I get that too it’s good having people around for a smile and a chat though. great to catch up on Friday x
Absolutely loved it! Xx"
Still laughing x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I have a love/hate relationship with that question as well. I used to question the sincerity behind it and if people actually wanted to know or if it was one of those odd societal etiquette quirks we have.
Right now, no. Not quite. But tomorrow I should be.
That’s why I love saying no.. sometimes it’s just perfect opportunity to stop the brave face and just have a chat. Hope tomorrow’s kinder x
Yeah. I'll still give generic responses and brave it out. I appreciate the thread and what you're trying to do Op. x"
I kinda like the startled rabbit response to the word no.. x |
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I’m drained, mentally and physically. I’ve not been sleeping well this past week. I know I’m worrying but can’t see an end or a solution to the problems. I will cope as always, but it’s affecting my confidence and causing me to eat badly.
But otherwise I’m ok x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’m drained, mentally and physically. I’ve not been sleeping well this past week. I know I’m worrying but can’t see an end or a solution to the problems. I will cope as always, but it’s affecting my confidence and causing me to eat badly.
But otherwise I’m ok x "
Ah Angie hope you’re leaning on people around you too. We always get through but sometimes we all need a hand too sending love x |
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"I’m ok, couple of stressful weeks ahead, but time with friends and different places, will keep me smiling and occupied so I don’t dwell on it
Hugs for all not feeling it right now
Hope there’s some you time and people you can say no to too when you feel it. X
Solitary me time not really, but that comes on evening of 23rd when I can switch off and forget for three days. There are some I can say no to, but I wont especially at this time of year x
December definitely makes it harder for people to talk properly x"
It’s the happy month x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’m ok, couple of stressful weeks ahead, but time with friends and different places, will keep me smiling and occupied so I don’t dwell on it
Hugs for all not feeling it right now
Hope there’s some you time and people you can say no to too when you feel it. X
Solitary me time not really, but that comes on evening of 23rd when I can switch off and forget for three days. There are some I can say no to, but I wont especially at this time of year x
December definitely makes it harder for people to talk properly x
It’s the happy month x "
Which can make it sadder for those that are not . I think I’m lucky that because I’ve been very unwell previously my friends preempt it and ask things brutally wanting the honest answer x |
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I’m ok - but I still really miss my ex! I know I should be over him and rogering my way back to happiness by now - but he totally got under my skin - and still is!
I know he doesn’t want me back though - and that sucks! |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m ok - but I still really miss my ex! I know I should be over him and rogering my way back to happiness by now - but he totally got under my skin - and still is!
I know he doesn’t want me back though - and that sucks! "
There’s no right or wrong in getting over someone.. for some it’s getting back out there, others time alone. I’m sure you’ll know when it feels right to crack on x |
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"I’m drained, mentally and physically. I’ve not been sleeping well this past week. I know I’m worrying but can’t see an end or a solution to the problems. I will cope as always, but it’s affecting my confidence and causing me to eat badly.
But otherwise I’m ok x
Ah Angie hope you’re leaning on people around you too. We always get through but sometimes we all need a hand too sending love x"
Thanks, Saffron. I cope with everything as best I can, I’m everyone’s rock x |
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"I’m ok, couple of stressful weeks ahead, but time with friends and different places, will keep me smiling and occupied so I don’t dwell on it
Hugs for all not feeling it right now
Hope there’s some you time and people you can say no to too when you feel it. X
Solitary me time not really, but that comes on evening of 23rd when I can switch off and forget for three days. There are some I can say no to, but I wont especially at this time of year x
December definitely makes it harder for people to talk properly x
It’s the happy month x
Which can make it sadder for those that are not . I think I’m lucky that because I’ve been very unwell previously my friends preempt it and ask things brutally wanting the honest answer x "
That’s good to have x |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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Thanks for asking op
Christmas is my problem why is it so expensive we have so many presents to buy that I'm absolutely skint before the fun social side starts then I just worry more about the expense of it all.
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Thanks for asking op
Christmas is my problem why is it so expensive we have so many presents to buy that I'm absolutely skint before the fun social side starts then I just worry more about the expense of it all.
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It’s crazy expensive we do secret Santa between the adults now so that we only buy one gift not 8. Helps a lot. It’s hard watching people struggle by what they think they should buy rather than what they can afford. Hope it’s a good one for you x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Nice to see all the family and friends for a drink and catch up so I does have its good side too.
I hope you have a merry Christmas op xxxx"
Yes defo. Time with loved ones is irreplaceable x
Thankyou you too! |
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