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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some of the best people I know in regards to efficiency with love is swingers. Anyway
Hit up the best girl.
5’3, petite blonde, 4 years younger
3rd date in, she finds out I’m an extreme dominant
Says she’s nervous but excited, we make up a safe word and get to it (Brexit)
Now she’s obsessed but so am I.
I’m off to Asia for 3 months from Christmas and can’t cancel. What do I do? I Can’t take her with me.
I’m scared she’d cheat. I’m scared I’d cheat, and I’m worried we met at the wrong time, in the prime of our lives rather than when we were self sufficient and ready to settle. What do I do?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah? we agreed if we’d try to stick it out we’d send letters instead of just hitting eachother up on snap or whatever. Less impersonal. What if I stick to the shit and she doesn’t yknow? What if I’ve just gone abstinent for 3 months to get blueballed by a 9/10? Is the risk worth the reward etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the best people I know in regards to efficiency with love is swingers. Anyway
Hit up the best girl.
5’3, petite blonde, 4 years younger
3rd date in, she finds out I’m an extreme dominant
Says she’s nervous but excited, we make up a safe word and get to it (Brexit)
Now she’s obsessed but so am I.
I’m off to Asia for 3 months from Christmas and can’t cancel. What do I do? I Can’t take her with me.
I’m scared she’d cheat. I’m scared I’d cheat, and I’m worried we met at the wrong time, in the prime of our lives rather than when we were self sufficient and ready to settle. What do I do? "
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Talk it out. If you decide to give it a go, then commit to it. If you feel that you can't commit ie.no shagging anyone else, then take a break and lick up if possible where you left off.
It's sods law that you meet someone when you're about to leave.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talk it out. If you decide to give it a go, then commit to it. If you feel that you can't commit ie.no shagging anyone else, then take a break and lick up if possible where you left off.
It's sods law that you meet someone when you're about to leave.
Good luck with "
Yeah. Tell you what, if it doesn’t play out someone’s going to have to help me with etiquette on here. I’ve been trying for an older woman for like a week. Come close, but No luck. |
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"Talk it out. If you decide to give it a go, then commit to it. If you feel that you can't commit ie.no shagging anyone else, then take a break and lick up if possible where you left off.
It's sods law that you meet someone when you're about to leave.
Good luck with
Yeah. Tell you what, if it doesn’t play out someone’s going to have to help me with etiquette on here. I’ve been trying for an older woman for like a week. Come close, but No luck. "
Oh my darling I chuckled then, a week is nothing in terms of meeting anyone on fab. You've only been here 3 weeks, depending on what kind of experience your looking for things can take time. With time comes experience and then maybe success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talk it out. If you decide to give it a go, then commit to it. If you feel that you can't commit ie.no shagging anyone else, then take a break and lick up if possible where you left off.
It's sods law that you meet someone when you're about to leave.
Good luck with
Yeah. Tell you what, if it doesn’t play out someone’s going to have to help me with etiquette on here. I’ve been trying for an older woman for like a week. Come close, but No luck. "
You've not left for Asia, but you've already been looking for someone to cheat on her?
Just. Why???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh my darling I chuckled then, a week is nothing in terms of meeting anyone on fab. You've only been here 3 weeks, depending on what kind of experience your looking for things can take time. With time comes experience and then maybe success."
Hate being just another guy on every woman’s inbox though. There’s got to be a way to stand out instead of just spamming messages and chasing ass ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my darling I chuckled then, a week is nothing in terms of meeting anyone on fab. You've only been here 3 weeks, depending on what kind of experience your looking for things can take time. With time comes experience and then maybe success.
Hate being just another guy on every woman’s inbox though. There’s got to be a way to stand out instead of just spamming messages and chasing ass ??"
You're on the right path, Brad. This thread will certainly make you stand out! 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I’m setting a rule for all you baby boomers
No “at your age” “you shouldn’t be doing that at your age” my mind needs to be stimulated for my body to be. And it’s a complex one.
Plus if someones got a piss fetish and share their wife, you do you but I’m not going to take your advice on morals & social norms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I’m setting a rule for all you baby boomers
No “at your age” “you shouldn’t be doing that at your age” my mind needs to be stimulated for my body to be. And it’s a complex one.
Plus if someones got a piss fetish and share their wife, you do you but I’m not going to take your advice on morals & social norms "
Just our dating advice, then? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just our dating advice, then?
x N"
Anyones, but Im not gonna pay attention to 55 year old Gary from Liverpool or whatever lecturing me on principles while his wifes out getting pissed on yknow? |
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"The circumstances caused by age do. And I’m stuck between instinct and rational thinking. Maybe it’s one best kept off Swingers forum boards"
The situation you describe could arise at my age I think.
Why not discuss it with your date and agree a solution. E.g. you both have a pass for the three months and pick up where you left off when you get back. |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah I’m setting a rule for all you baby boomers
No “at your age” “you shouldn’t be doing that at your age” my mind needs to be stimulated for my body to be. And it’s a complex one.
Plus if someones got a piss fetish and share their wife, you do you but I’m not going to take your advice on morals & social norms "
Then why ask opinion of people with whom you feel have lower moral standards than you ? |
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"Just our dating advice, then?
x N
Anyones, but Im not gonna pay attention to 55 year old Gary from Liverpool or whatever lecturing me on principles while his wifes out getting pissed on yknow?"
Oh sorry, I didn't read that until after I'd answered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I’m setting a rule for all you baby boomers
No “at your age” “you shouldn’t be doing that at your age” my mind needs to be stimulated for my body to be. And it’s a complex one.
Plus if someones got a piss fetish and share their wife, you do you but I’m not going to take your advice on morals & social norms "
Changed my mind. Hope she finds someone nice while you're away. |
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"Yeah I’m setting a rule for all you baby boomers
No “at your age” “you shouldn’t be doing that at your age” my mind needs to be stimulated for my body to be. And it’s a complex one.
Plus if someones got a piss fetish and share their wife, you do you but I’m not going to take your advice on morals & social norms
Changed my mind. Hope she finds someone nice while you're away. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Because everyone’s free to share their thoughts on what got posted, but I can’t lie some advice is better than others. Looking for that sound advice, not gonna sit through life rules with Brian from stoke on trent who wanks over feet pics |
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"Because everyone’s free to share their thoughts on what got posted, but I can’t lie some advice is better than others. Looking for that sound advice, not gonna sit through life rules with Brian from stoke on trent who wanks over feet pics "
Hehhhh shaming isn't going to help you love, far from it.... |
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And you shouldn't judge people lest you want to be judged. That's not what it's about. You may not understand where other people come from but respect goes a long way. I fund if I give it I receive it.
Again,good luck in which ever path you take. |
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By *modDMan
over a year ago
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"Because everyone’s free to share their thoughts on what got posted, but I can’t lie some advice is better than others. Looking for that sound advice, not gonna sit through life rules with Brian from stoke on trent who wanks over feet pics "
I've got time for you, Brad. |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
"And you shouldn't judge people lest you want to be judged. That's not what it's about. You may not understand where other people come from but respect goes a long way. I fund if I give it I receive it.
Again,good luck in which ever path you take."
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My advice? (Paul nearly 45 from the Southwest, partial t face sitting but never been pissed on)
Talk to the fair lady and just say “I’m going away for 3 months, I’ve really enjoyed the short time we’ve had together but it would be a little naive to think that after a short time we could offer commitment, when I get back maybe, if we are both of a similar mind we can pick this up where we left off?”
That way there is no pressure on either of you, but if what you have gained from each other is strong enough you may actually remain true to one another without having set that in stone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We all start somewhere, it's a learning curve and it's not for everyone x"
Yeah your right haha. i got some learning to do. Had 2 requests to cuck some dudes with their wives so far. Lost both of them on message. Thought the whole point was to be aggressive like, shaking a dudes hand before I bang his soulmate doesn’t really make sense yknow?x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Brad, I'm not sure, but I read on another thread that you need to do a cum tribute to a couple of forumites on here to actually be considered for shagging an older woman... It may get you noticed with the female forumites that are after a younger bloke too...
Perhaps consider that - maybe not over a picture of feet if you don't like them...
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
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We all start somewhere, it's a learning curve and it's not for everyone x
Yeah your right haha. i got some learning to do. Had 2 requests to cuck some dudes with their wives so far. Lost both of them on message. Thought the whole point was to be aggressive like, shaking a dudes hand before I bang his soulmate doesn’t really make sense yknow?x "
But you have listed cuckold as one of your interests  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We all start somewhere, it's a learning curve and it's not for everyone x
Yeah your right haha. i got some learning to do. Had 2 requests to cuck some dudes with their wives so far. Lost both of them on message. Thought the whole point was to be aggressive like, shaking a dudes hand before I bang his soulmate doesn’t really make sense yknow?x
But you have listed cuckold as one of your interests "
Green arrow....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you know where she is right at this very moment? "
Fuck knows. She FaceTimed me like 40 minutes ago, but her ex is pale as shit so, could’ve blended with the curtains |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
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We all start somewhere, it's a learning curve and it's not for everyone x
Yeah your right haha. i got some learning to do. Had 2 requests to cuck some dudes with their wives so far. Lost both of them on message. Thought the whole point was to be aggressive like, shaking a dudes hand before I bang his soulmate doesn’t really make sense yknow?x
But you have listed cuckold as one of your interests
Green arrow....
N x"
Oh Fook. I never learn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh my darling I chuckled then, a week is nothing in terms of meeting anyone on fab. You've only been here 3 weeks, depending on what kind of experience your looking for things can take time. With time comes experience and then maybe success.
Don't brude on it if you feel that there is more than lust tell her talk gauge her response if it's meant to be it will be some ladies are worth waiting for only you can make that call ,but hope it works out for you I'm a fucking hopeless romantic |
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Do you know where she is right at this very moment?
Fuck knows. She FaceTimed me like 40 minutes ago, but her ex is pale as shit so, could’ve blended with the curtains "
Well I’m sure she’ll be forgotten about when your in Thailand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Don't brude on it if you feel that there is more than lust tell her talk gauge her response if it's meant to be it will be some ladies are worth waiting for only you can make that call ,but hope it works out for you I'm a fucking hopeless romantic "
Bro that’s actually sound advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do you know where she is right at this very moment?
Fuck knows. She FaceTimed me like 40 minutes ago, but her ex is pale as shit so, could’ve blended with the curtains "
Did the curtains look sticky? |
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"All that after 3 dates
Jesus
Alarm bells ringing much,,,
6 Mr ambassador"
Nothing for it so kid, ye 2 need to get hitched, do it now get the paperwork in place by Xmas and take her with you as your stay at home wife,,
Easy visa application right there,,
6 dates is huge,,
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"Yeah I’m setting a rule for all you baby boomers
No “at your age” “you shouldn’t be doing that at your age” my mind needs to be stimulated for my body to be. And it’s a complex one.
Plus if someones got a piss fetish and share their wife, you do you but I’m not going to take your advice on morals & social norms
Changed my mind. Hope she finds someone nice while you're away. "
Brilliant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All that after 3 dates
Jesus
Alarm bells ringing much,,,
6 Mr ambassador
Nothing for it so kid, ye 2 need to get hitched, do it now get the paperwork in place by Xmas and take her with you as your stay at home wife,,
Easy visa application right there,,
6 dates is huge,,
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Seriously mate? You're 25!
Go out.
Live your life, tour the world, have amazing adventures, do all that crazy shit.
If she's the one, she'll be waiting when you get back, if she's not, you've had the best 3mths |
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