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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If you're meeting both of them, just go with the flow. Ideally you'll have discussed at some point any major nos for both them and you. Lube and condoms aplenty.
Enjoy it, laugh and don't overthink it! It's just like meeting one person with their own likes and dislikes but two at once.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just take it easy do a social, make sure the chemistry is felt all ways and just talk about it between the 3 of you. With the right people it’s a great experience and you can build nice friendships x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it a bit intimidating.. Two personalities to get to know and understand and then two differing body types to appreciate!
When you finally find a couple that appeals, they are 99million miles away!
I've yet to meet with a couple.. And I think my nerves would be off the scale (and I'm pretty confident) |
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"I personally have never dealt with the whole couple scenario just wondering what your experiences are and any advice for a novice  "
Talk to them both, if you're focusing on one and not the other also, it comes over as disrespectful. You have to establish what you want to do and how that will work for them also. But the bottom line is dont over think it, they will probably be a little nervous about it too. Have a fab time. |
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"Just take it easy do a social, make sure the chemistry is felt all ways and just talk about it between the 3 of you. With the right people it’s a great experience and you can build nice friendships x"
 This.
We would always go for a social. Even messaging both of us, isn't the same as all three being in the same space. It's only then that you really know if the chemistry is 3 way. Any less than 3 way and it's going to be rubbish.
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If we were meeting a single, we would hope we would all be open with each other about why the potential experience appeals to us, what we each are hoping to get from it and how we see it working including boundaries. It can sound a bit like discussions about it are less sexy than than just going for it but it makes for more clarity and understanding between everybody which should create a better bond leading to a better experience for all.
Why are you attracted to being with a couple and what would you hope to happen, OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If we were meeting a single, we would hope we would all be open with each other about why the potential experience appeals to us, what we each are hoping to get from it and how we see it working including boundaries. It can sound a bit like discussions about it are less sexy than than just going for it but it makes for more clarity and understanding between everybody which should create a better bond leading to a better experience for all.
Why are you attracted to being with a couple and what would you hope to happen, OP?"
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For us it's getting to know the person first of they don't come across as a decent person we kindly decline or if what we (us and her) are looking for them again we say thank you but it's not for us.
Discuss (at length) everything if you're new to this all then they should respect and acknowledge what you want out of it.
If you meet we always, we always meet socially so see if their on line persona matches the person and always make sure you let someone know so that you have a person to safety call.
If you go to play again make sure you have a safety call person or meet at a club if you're nervous about going into a club meet them outside and walk in together x |
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