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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do people think?
Do people find that a Social meet is always best or do people just dive straight in?
I would always say social meet at least once with some chatting to get things going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.  "
That's his name! Couldn't think of it last night when I was watching The Revenant. Thanks x. |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.
That's his name! Couldn't think of it last night when I was watching The Revenant. Thanks x."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol"
I dont usually have cat ears...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol
I dont usually have cat ears... "
Lol too true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol
I dont usually have cat ears... "
Lol I think cat ears would be a good thing. |
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Usually a social first, but there have been a couple of exceptions when someone has been making a long trip just to meet me - but in those instances we have chatted extensively and spoken on the phone beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never heard so much bullshit in all my life....
Every single, single man, who has messaged us, has never mentioned anything about a social first.....
And lets be honest here... there are that many single guys on here, which makes hard enough to get a meet, that no single man is going to miss the opportunity of a fuck by insisting on a social first... especially if it's a short notice meet.
No offence guys.... but your not here for tea and cakes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy. "
Can we share him? |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol
I dont usually have cat ears... "
Or whiskers!  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Never heard so much bullshit in all my life....
Every single, single man, who has messaged us, has never mentioned anything about a social first.....
And lets be honest here... there are that many single guys on here, which makes hard enough to get a meet, that no single man is going to miss the opportunity of a fuck by insisting on a social first... especially if it's a short notice meet.
No offence guys.... but your not here for tea and cakes... "
Sorry, but all me first meets have been social. |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.
Can we share him? "
I was taught to share...  xx |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy. "
Now - I've been told I look like Tom Hardy......or was it Oliver Hardy????? |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.
Now - I've been told I look like Tom Hardy......or was it Oliver Hardy?????"
 mwahh xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do people think?
Do people find that a Social meet is always best or do people just dive straight in?
I would always say social meet at least once with some chatting to get things going."
diving in not for me
social breaks the ice and then you can see if you want to fuck them or not because we do not have to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a few meets where I’ve invited them to mine and kissed them on arrival...
But social probably builds more anticipation and excitement, I think."
we can still get disappointment
My first days on here were a let down with a few not looking like their photos
I am getting to the stage now where I have to have a social or nothing else because after all we have to be safe both men and women.
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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
We've discussed this at length with several of our friends on here. We like socials but they seem to be a waste of time for others.
We bit the bullet and set up a private room and dinner at a country pub and invited everyone on our hot list that we'd been meaning to meet. Six couples showed. This led to an invitation to an awesome meet that still gives us the post orgasm shivers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A quick hello a handshake and a ride in the lift is a social isnt it "
he he he never tried a lift sex, sex lifts yes
must try that next time in the lift |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do people think?
Do people find that a Social meet is always best or do people just dive straight in?
I would always say social meet at least once with some chatting to get things going."
some guys here think a social is a date and say that this is not a dating site.
Erm like to change your attitude, a social meet to me is not a date it just means you meet to either say yes or no to sex rather than
oi love just open your door and let me in for a quick fuck without even the slightest conversation
it is getting desperate on here lately not me ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find socials incredibly awkward. I don't meet anyone unless we've had at least one phone conversation. Then I'll usually wait a bit, see how they behave over a few days. Then we'll talk again and once I'm comfortable I'll invite them here. It's worked brilliantly. And I've never been on a social meet that's gone further. It just doesn't work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had guys round and got more or less straight down to play. Not meeting atm though."
As a couple we never do socials. Never had any trouble with anyone. My bf is a big, scary looking fucker, they're always on their best behaviour. |
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"We've had guys round and got more or less straight down to play. Not meeting atm though.
As a couple we never do socials. Never had any trouble with anyone. My bf is a big, scary looking fucker, they're always on their best behaviour. "
Yes..lol. Same here, never any trouble. |
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By *handraWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
Prefer a social first but I have chatted to some guys for a while first and first meet wasn't social but went to his.
Need to get the right vibe from them, that they are real and not just wasting time.
Never had a bad experience so far. |
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