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Can single people be swingers?
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Although I attend swingers clubs and parties etc and have played with men, women, couples and other TVs I got told by a couple the other day that it was wrong to class myself as a swinger as true swinging is something for couples only.
Just got me thinking. What is swinging? What defines a swinger? And can single people be swingers? |
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I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.
So yes and no.
Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.
So yes and no.
Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers "
We all shag at the end of the day  |
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"I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger
But why not? What is swinging? for me swinging is about swooping partners , maybe that's wrong but it's how I see it "
Ah I see, yes makes sense |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.
So yes and no.
Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers
We all shag at the end of the day "
And sometimes in the morning or afternoon! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I'm single and yes I do.
Other people have different definitions of the word, some couples will try and tell you that you 'can't be' because you don't fit with their personal definition. I think that swinging is a mindset as much as anything else.
I think that people try to make specific things more exclusive all the time in an effort to feel more special when they do it. Really it's their issue, not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just another label, and the only thing that's clear is that people have different definitions of what constitutes 'swinging'. For example I'm on here because it is implied that you are not looking for a long term relationship, otherwise I'd just use a TV dating site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never thought of myself as a swinger. My bf and I play here as an extension of our Ds dynamic and as a single I'm just a chick who likes men and hates dating. |
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"I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.
So yes and no.
Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers "
Yes this! I'm a solo swinger at the moment (swingle?), and my relationship preference is to swing together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just got me thinking. What is swinging? What defines a swinger? And can single people be swingers? "
Yes, but it isn't compulsory  though singles who only meet singles are close to borderline between every normal human being and swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Although I attend swingers clubs and parties etc and have played with men, women, couples and other TVs I got told by a couple the other day that it was wrong to class myself as a swinger as true swinging is something for couples only.
Just got me thinking. What is swinging? What defines a swinger? And can single people be swingers? "
if a label is to be applied to the lifestyle then yes couples started it so they are the origin but as it progressed singles were needed    |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Can single people be swingers ? If a couple want to swap with another couple then the answer is no.If a couple are looking for a guy or girl to experiment / experience a scenario , fantasy , tick something of the bucket list then yes single guys and girls can be swingers.Should single people who want to experience something be called something else I have seen the word swingle today on this thread.So what am I swinger , swingle , FWB , friend well I am a single guy looking to meet couples or single ladies for social , friends or adult fun. I let others decide if they want to attach a label. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.
I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging? |
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"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.
I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging? "
So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.
I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?
So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!"
Pretty much, some couples have a real bee in their bonnet over how swinging is just for them even while they are hunting singles.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.
I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?
So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!
Pretty much, some couples have a real bee in their bonnet over how swinging is just for them even while they are hunting singles. "
I think it's the guilt. They need to call it Swinging because they feel bad about fucking around.
Other swinging couples are great. They are secure and don't need to look down on people. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.
I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?
So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!
Pretty much, some couples have a real bee in their bonnet over how swinging is just for them even while they are hunting singles.
I think it's the guilt. They need to call it Swinging because they feel bad about fucking around.
Other swinging couples are great. They are secure and don't need to look down on people. "
Yep. I know a fair few really nice couples who embrace singles on the scene. |
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adjective
1. moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.
"an old mahogany grandfather clock with a swinging pendulum"
2.
INFORMAL
lively, exciting, and fashionable.
"a swinging resort"
noun
1. the action of moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.
"all clocks used to keep time by the swinging of a pendulum"
2.
INFORMAL
the practice of engaging in group sex OR the swapping of sexual partners within a group, especially on a habitual basis.
I quite like the idea of being a pendulum |
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If you are single and only meet other single people, maybe you aren't a 'swinger'.
But if you are single and playing with a couple, maybe you are.
The reverse is asking whether couples who only meet single people (unicorns, or BBC etc) are swingers, because they are not swapping either.
If you want to draw a line, maybe it's about sharing? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"If you are single and only meet other single people, maybe you aren't a 'swinger'.
But if you are single and playing with a couple, maybe you are.
The reverse is asking whether couples who only meet single people (unicorns, or BBC etc) are swingers, because they are not swapping either.
If you want to draw a line, maybe it's about sharing?"
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I see it as more of a lifestyle choice...one which I'm fully onboard with, both in and out of a relationship. So yes, I would class myself as a swinger even though I'm not currently in a relationship. |
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"I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger
But why not? What is swinging? for me swinging is about swooping partners , maybe that's wrong but it's how I see it "
I will happily swap partners if I have one.. therefore I could probably be one ... but I prefer to say I'm a sexual adventurer anyway |
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If you're stuck in the 1960's then no.
If you've joined the rest of the world in the next milennium, we've updated the T&C's to be more inclusive.
I've even seen some couples claim that singles can be classed as swingers if they're allowed to play with a swinging couple...which was awfully nice of them to be so fucking gracious!  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"If you're stuck in the 1960's then no.
If you've joined the rest of the world in the next milennium, we've updated the T&C's to be more inclusive.
I've even seen some couples claim that singles can be classed as swingers if they're allowed to play with a swinging couple...which was awfully nice of them to be so fucking gracious! "
Elitist couples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a swingers site and it has an option for selecting if you are single or not. I originally thought of swinging as something couples did but since using Fabswingers I now class myself as a swinger, I think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Technically to swing means you have to swap isn’t it? So that involves more than one person.....but lots of singletons together at clubs you wouldn’t know if they was single or part of a couple x |
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