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Flirting in the forums

By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are on my hotlist now. And shirking. Dance, Vine, dance!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I suppose it depends what the thread is about,I mean if it's a pretty serious thread and you have two people flirting on it it's not good is it,go and inbox each other instead. I like seeing the flirting or the people that flirt with any man,woman or beast.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Do I like it, yes sometimes. It's a bit irritating when two people flirting take over someone's entire thread though, just take it to PM.

Has it ever got me in trouble, no, I don't meet forumites so I can't see how it would.

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

I agree it can be annoying if a thread is hijacked but if it’s done in moderation, maybe across a number of threads it’s fun.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I don't mind seeing people flirting with each other - at times I find it a bit cringey, like a dog in heat cocking its leg at every possible opportunity. Sometimes it's a bit unfair on the OP when two people take over the thread with something they can easily pm. I don't really take it that seriously - some people will flirt with anything given a chance and that's fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s just fun and banter

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"You are on my hotlist now. And shirking. Dance, Vine, dance! "

I’m shaking my assets!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Oh it has got me in trouble a couple of times! But I really don't think flirt with people so I was a bit confused.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't mind seeing people flirting with each other - at times I find it a bit cringey, like a dog in heat cocking its leg at every possible opportunity. Sometimes it's a bit unfair on the OP when two people take over the thread with something they can easily pm. I don't really take it that seriously - some people will flirt with anything given a chance and that's fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve also found on here that people have vastly different definitions of what constitutes flirting... what I might consider ‘humorous banter’ (even if I have used a wink emoji), others might consider flirting. Interesting ....

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

I think the forum is an escape from reality. And yes people flirt, I like to see it from others I personally think it'd harmless. However, I have seen the darker side of it where people have become vindictive because of some flirting. These people should think of the innocent parties feelings, not their own selfish ones and sort it with the person they are actually upset with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a born flirt but don’t like it when it takes over a thread. That’s what pming is for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh it has got me in trouble a couple of times! But I really don't think flirt with people so I was a bit confused."

This might relate to my point about different definitions- there are times I’ve been accused of doing so and I honestly genuinely thought it was just a bit of banter.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

I’ve never flirted in my life, so no it’s not got me in trouble.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the forum is an escape from reality. And yes people flirt, I like to see it from others I personally think it'd harmless. However, I have seen the darker side of it where people have become vindictive because of some flirting. These people should think of the innocent parties feelings, not their own selfish ones and sort it with the person they are actually upset with."

Agreed.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I’ve never flirted in my life, so no it’s not got me in trouble.

Haha, I don't think there's a regular user you've not.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I’ve also found on here that people have vastly different definitions of what constitutes flirting... what I might consider ‘humorous banter’ (even if I have used a wink emoji), others might consider flirting. Interesting ....

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always open to a flirt....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post."

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You are on my hotlist now. And shirking. Dance, Vine, dance!

I’m shaking my assets! "

Good job! Great assets!

To answer your question -

I just read past it. These forums are so very lucky when you look at other well known sites where every second message is someone lonely in Nigeria looking for hot women, or a 24 year old wanting to bang big cock etc etc.

So these forums are very tame compared to the latter out there in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble? "

Cannot say I have noticed tbh,I suppose it is bound to happen as friendships form/evolve.

If it has ever got me in trouble I never know about it.

I have made some great friends through the forums, had some good experiences.

Although I have had to sit on my fingers and keep a dignified silence on many posts/threads created making underhand subtle digs. Narcissm and attention seeking are not attractive traits in anyone, let alone someone who is master at emotional manipulation and mindgames.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

I know how dare we agree with someone or have a bit of a laugh or dare I say become friends!

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"I’ve never flirted in my life, so no it’s not got me in trouble.

Haha, I don't think there's a regular user you've not.

I can name three.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Somebody please flirt with me. Naked

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman over a year ago

London

What's flirting?

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

My view is that expressed of Ignite and NSA. It’s fine in small doses. But when folk start taking over someone elses thread with it incessantly it’s not only rude, its unnecessary.

And I never get into trouble

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

I know how dare we agree with someone or have a bit of a laugh or dare I say become friends!"

Indeed! By this definition, I’ve flirted with you approximately 187 times in here thus far. I clearly just want to bed you, Frida

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My view is that expressed of Ignite and NSA. It’s fine in small doses. But when folk start taking over someone elses thread with it incessantly it’s not only rude, its unnecessary.

And I never get into trouble

I’ve seen several threads be taken over and derailed from the OP by all sorts of banter (sometimes flirting; sometimes in other ways). I don’t think it is solely flirting (however one wishes to define that) that ends up in derailed threads.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Oh it has got me in trouble a couple of times! But I really don't think flirt with people so I was a bit confused.

This might relate to my point about different definitions- there are times I’ve been accused of doing so and I honestly genuinely thought it was just a bit of banter.

banter. Banter?

But no, that aside. I think that there's a general flirting and then the just being friendly way of talking. I think the forum can be good for some people to flirt in - it's less pressure and they can get the attention they want in a sort of controlled way and no obligation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,"

There are two seperate topics here though... you are referring to people staking claim due to whatever is going on in the background... most of us aren’t aware off that based on answers so far. The other topic is getting annoyed by people’s flirting taking over a thread. Which actually can be a pretty great way of making people feel excluded.

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"What's flirting?

I have no idea! I don’t know how to do it!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh it has got me in trouble a couple of times! But I really don't think flirt with people so I was a bit confused.

This might relate to my point about different definitions- there are times I’ve been accused of doing so and I honestly genuinely thought it was just a bit of banter.

banter. Banter?

Guessing you don’t like that phrase?

And yes. I agree.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"I think the forum can be good for some people to flirt in - it's less pressure and they can get the attention they want in a sort of controlled way and no obligation. "

I think this is very accurate.

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Nothing wrong with a bit of forum flirting.

Either partaking in or witnessing.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,"

Or they're hacked off that they've posted asking a question and a couple of folk take it entirely off topic by using it as a place to have a conversation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only in trouble in a good way OP

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

Or they're hacked off that they've posted asking a question and a couple of folk take it entirely off topic by using it as a place to have a conversation

- yes!!

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

I agree, they are two separate things.

I think my original intent with the question was more aimed at getting grief from others that might feel a bit jealous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha, some people think merely talking to someone else is flirting and get arsey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,"

Couldn't agree more

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

"My view is that expressed of Ignite and NSA. It’s fine in small doses. But when folk start taking over someone elses thread with it incessantly it’s not only rude, its unnecessary.

And I never get into trouble

No, you’re right it’s not. But this thread was about flirting specifically so that’s what my comment addressed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

I agree, they are two separate things.

I think my original intent with the question was more aimed at getting grief from others that might feel a bit jealous. "

Sorry for detailing the topic then...I’m single so no I don’t get grief and if I did then they know where the door is. This is after all a swingers site is it not?

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

I know how dare we agree with someone or have a bit of a laugh or dare I say become friends!

Indeed! By this definition, I’ve flirted with you approximately 187 times in here thus far. I clearly just want to bed you, Frida

Wait for the messages saying I'm a terrible person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

I agree, they are two separate things.

I think my original intent with the question was more aimed at getting grief from others that might feel a bit jealous. "

So just to clarify, when you asked does it get you into trouble, you meant in the sense that another person has an issue with it due to jealousy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

I agree, they are two separate things.

I think my original intent with the question was more aimed at getting grief from others that might feel a bit jealous.

Sorry for detailing the topic then...I’m single so no I don’t get grief and if I did then they know where the door is. This is after all a swingers site is it not?"

Urghhh derailing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble? "

Dont worry about what others think. You cannot live other people's life. Flirt away!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Flirting for me is like a pick me up can be uplifting but mood aswell has a play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

I know how dare we agree with someone or have a bit of a laugh or dare I say become friends!

Indeed! By this definition, I’ve flirted with you approximately 187 times in here thus far. I clearly just want to bed you, Frida

Wait for the messages saying I'm a terrible person

If that happens you tell me my lovely!! I’ll sort them!

Disclaimer: not flirting. Just an expression of fondness and friendship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble?

Dont worry about what others think. You cannot live other people's life. Flirt away!

"
it was brief but hi

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

I agree, they are two separate things.

I think my original intent with the question was more aimed at getting grief from others that might feel a bit jealous.

So just to clarify, when you asked does it get you into trouble, you meant in the sense that another person has an issue with it due to jealousy?"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This also Lucie or if you agree with them on a post.

Yes. To me, that’s not flirting, it’s just a human interaction where you’re getting along and have the same point of view.

If people get snarky about two other people talking then it’s probably a warning sign that someone might be a bit possessive,

Or they're hacked off that they've posted asking a question and a couple of folk take it entirely off topic by using it as a place to have a conversation

I wish you were my mirror, so I could watch you every morning!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble?

Dont worry about what others think. You cannot live other people's life. Flirt away!

it was brief but hi

Lol.. last day ar fab. Binge dabbing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble?

Dont worry about what others think. You cannot live other people's life. Flirt away!

it was brief but hi

Lol.. last day ar fab. Binge dabbing!

Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble?

Dont worry about what others think. You cannot live other people's life. Flirt away!

it was brief but hi

Lol.. last day ar fab. Binge dabbing!

"
yes i like a dabble

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There’s a difference between flirting and the amount of innuendo and Benny Hill type of idiocy.

Never got me into trouble because I’ve never had anyone ‘stake a claim’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its fine. Do what pleases you. To me its worse to be approached three times by same person publically and them not getting a hint to stop trying, as I already didnt reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do I like it, yes sometimes. It's a bit irritating when two people flirting take over someone's entire thread though, just take it to PM.

Has it ever got me in trouble, no, I don't meet forumites so I can't see how it would. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No but it gets other people in trouble. I’ve had men confess that they won’t openly flirt with me as others don’t like it, or they’re worried what people will think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its fine. Do what pleases you. To me its worse to be approached three times by same person publically and them not getting a hint to stop trying, as I already didnt reply

Just like NSA chick did to me. She blatantly ignored my flirting

I got the message. She just asked me to fuck off in her head.

And then, I move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree it can be annoying if a thread is hijacked but if it’s done in moderation, maybe across a number of threads it’s fun. "

It's an adult site. Some people behave like 13 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its fine. Do what pleases you. To me its worse to be approached three times by same person publically and them not getting a hint to stop trying, as I already didnt reply

Just like NSA chick did to me. She blatantly ignored my flirting

I got the message. She just asked me to fuck off in her head.

And then, I move on.

If only telepathy really worked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think flirting is really my forte.. But if you're looking for a sarcastic remark then I'm your girl

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Its fine. Do what pleases you. To me its worse to be approached three times by same person publically and them not getting a hint to stop trying, as I already didnt reply

Just like NSA chick did to me. She blatantly ignored my flirting

I got the message. She just asked me to fuck off in her head.

And then, I move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

If you're the type who jumps into someone elses thread and hijacks it, making it mainly about you and the person you're flirting with.. then the OP and a few others will start to get pissed off with you. Especially if that thread has nowt to do with flirting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just naturally flirty even when I don't mean to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

I’d flirt with you

I’ll do it right now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just naturally flirty even when I don't mean to

That must make it awkward on public transport

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It amuses me, I do love watching a bit of forum flirting, even more so when it's people I know doing it

I do think it depends on the thread though. Some are intended to be jokey & Flirty, but when it's a serious topic it can be too much.

I like a joke, and a bit of light hearted banter, it's never got me into any trouble, but I've seen folks use it to have subtle digs, try score points over others on many occasions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just naturally flirty even when I don't mean to

That must make it awkward on public transport "

Yes, yes it does

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

"Do I like it, yes sometimes. It's a bit irritating when two people flirting take over someone's entire thread though, just take it to PM."

I agree, there is a limit when it interferes with the flow of a thread, especially when it is the same across multiple threads in the same manner.

Otherwise flirt as much as you like with who you like.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on. "

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Amen.

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I like to see it and do it, as long as it doesn't completely take over a thread (but I don't like thread derailing for any reason).

I have experienced the negative side of indulging in a bit of flirting - I honestly couldn't give a toss, it's never going to upset me, and will just make me do it all the more if i'm honest. I don't like bullies.

I do, however, think that it's wrong that this behaviour happens, as there are many people on here that aren't as obstinate as me and do get upset by it. Why should they be made to feel that way because someone else can't control their jealousy?

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

I’m shit at flirting in reality so in a forum I suppose I’m even worse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to see it and do it, as long as it doesn't completely take over a thread (but I don't like thread derailing for any reason).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have experienced the negative side of indulging in a bit of flirting - I honestly couldn't give a toss, it's never going to upset me, and will just make me do it all the more if i'm honest. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to see it and do it, as long as it doesn't completely take over a thread (but I don't like thread derailing for any reason).

I wouldn’t be surprised though if some openly flirted in the forums just to make someone jealous.

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"I like to see it and do it, as long as it doesn't completely take over a thread (but I don't like thread derailing for any reason).

I knew I liked you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble? "

On a serious note, when you flirt with someone and you will know if there is a spark between you both. Once there is spark, there is a connection. Once there is a connection there is chemistry. And if the chemistry is there, then the first kiss ignites passion, once there is passion there is fire within you. That is when sex becomes mindblowing.

Believe it or not, sex by itself is not pretty. Sex with passion is great sight.

So it may all start in a simple flirting in the forum. I dont see any issues with that.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Nothing wrong with people flirting BUT and a very loud BUT...... sfucking trite when two people totally ignore the thread or anyone else on it and just keep playing cat and mouse....... EVEN when they have NIL chance of ever meeting. Talk about fragile ego and compliment hoovers..... fuck off and do each other.

Oh ..... I changed my mind. Flirting on a thread that isn't about flirting is fucking nauseating if it goes beyond the first flirt..... STOP IT.

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By *nto My ArmsMan over a year ago

Herts/London

"Nothing wrong with people flirting BUT and a very loud BUT...... sfucking trite when two people totally ignore the thread or anyone else on it and just keep playing cat and mouse....... EVEN when they have NIL chance of ever meeting. Talk about fragile ego and compliment hoovers..... fuck off and do each other.

Oh ..... I changed my mind. Flirting on a thread that isn't about flirting is fucking nauseating if it goes beyond the first flirt..... STOP IT."

Turns me when you get mad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh ..... I changed my mind. Flirting on a thread that isn't about flirting is fucking nauseating if it goes beyond the first flirt..... STOP IT.

Turns me when you get mad

This isn’t what the OP was meaning. He’s clarified that further up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh ..... I changed my mind. Flirting on a thread that isn't about flirting is fucking nauseating if it goes beyond the first flirt..... STOP IT."

Compliment hoovers... Brilliant. Another thing that irritates me is a woman making a serious point and a guy quoting her and posting a flirty comment. That's not a compliment. It's trifling and trivialising. Don't do that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't say I've ever got in trouble for flirting in forums

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Oh ..... I changed my mind. Flirting on a thread that isn't about flirting is fucking nauseating if it goes beyond the first flirt..... STOP IT.

Turns me when you get mad

This isn’t what the OP was meaning. He’s clarified that further up.

But there does tend to be this assumption that if someone doesn't like/want to read two people flirting it's because of jealousy. One, that smacks a bit of assumptiveness. Two, egotism ahoy with that one. Three, actually talking to the person about why might clarify their actual feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh ..... I changed my mind. Flirting on a thread that isn't about flirting is fucking nauseating if it goes beyond the first flirt..... STOP IT."

We will have to agree to disagree on that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not assumption that it’s driven by jealousy when you get a direct PM about it that isn’t very pleasant.

It's not happened to me here but in the past yes, my first spanking partner was a nightmare for it. If I even addressed a comment to a man I'd get a phone call about how dangerous they were. If I'd had the temerity to flirt I think he'd have had a stroke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not assumption that it’s driven by jealousy when you get a direct PM about it that isn’t very pleasant.

I don’t think it’s fair at all. It feels controlling ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

I’d flirt with you

I’ll do it right now

maximum 2 flirty messages each on someone elses thread or it's bad manners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not assumption that it’s driven by jealousy when you get a direct PM about it that isn’t very pleasant.

I don’t think it’s fair at all. It feels controlling ....

It's not even close to fair. I put up with it for a long time and I regret it bitterly. Its possibly made me oversensitive about anyone asking me about what I do. I answer to my boyfriend because I love him, I'm not answering to anyone else ever.

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

"It’s not assumption that it’s driven by jealousy when you get a direct PM about it that isn’t very pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all good fun watching people flirt with each other, unless it's a Forumite you just had sex with and it's not you he's flirting with. That can be a little humiliating. #lessonlearned

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not assumption that it’s driven by jealousy when you get a direct PM about it that isn’t very pleasant.

I don’t think it’s fair at all. It feels controlling ....

Same. I love my partner and I answer to him only. No one else on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ... "

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

Having said that, I tend not to join in "My favourite Forumite" type posts because people get upset that they don't get a mention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I flirt, I go off on tangents, I post whatever comes to mind but I don’t deliberately endeavour to derail threads or upset OPs. If I have then..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

I’d flirt with you

I’ll do it right now

maximum 2 flirty messages each on someone elses thread or it's bad manners

Maxed out

Fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

Having said that, I tend not to join in "My favourite Forumite" type posts because people get upset that they don't get a mention. "
i agree with this and the people that start that type of thread know that people will get upset so kinda rotten in a way

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

Having said that, I tend not to join in "My favourite Forumite" type posts because people get upset that they don't get a mention. i agree with this and the people that start that type of thread know that people will get upset so kinda rotten in a way

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either. "

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life!

"
omg can i use that line when youre gone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life!

omg can i use that line when youre gone

Bloody hell....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life!

omg can i use that line when youre gone

You can inherit all my flirting lines.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life!

omg can i use that line when youre gone

Bloody hell....

If I were a transplant surgeon, I'd give you my heart.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Flirting or banter...it's all just fun.....people sometimes take the (light) threads to serious, getting annoyed (attention seeking threads) not getting the attention they wanted.....

Oh yeh no way would I meet a forumite......most are lovely of course, but the aftermath is cringe

If your heart was a prison, I would like to be sentenced for life!

omg can i use that line when youre gone

You can inherit all my flirting lines.

"
what are the others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

Is your name google?

Because you have everything I have been searching for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

He doesn't mind that. Suzuki has ran for her life. It just you, WAF and me here.

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Yeah! Get a room you two!

But invite me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Yeah! Get a room you two!

But invite me

Ahhhh. Have we by any chance found an instance where the OP doesn’t mind his thread being derailed?? Well. I. Never.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Was that an earthquake or did you just rock my world?

WAF, are you taking notes?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

He doesn't mind that. Suzuki has ran for her life. It just you, WAF and me here.

I do apologize, I've just stopped laughing....had a little accident....pelvic floor and all that....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Was that an earthquake or did you just rock my world?

WAF, are you taking notes?

"
yes and I'm getting your i dont give a........ attitude lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to be fairly oblivious to flirting. Lots of things I see posted make me cringe which I guess suggests I do notice it more than I realise.

But it in no way surprises me that men (and let's be honest it is usually men) think a shared opinion is somehow far more. And it really doesn't surprise me that people get shitty in private about how other people act on the forums. There are a lot of jealous and insecure on here although most won't show that side publicly

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Yeah! Get a room you two!

But invite me

Ahhhh. Have we by any chance found an instance where the OP doesn’t mind his thread being derailed?? Well. I. Never.

It’s not really’ my’ thread. I’m not the possessive type!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

He doesn't mind that. Suzuki has ran for her life. It just you, WAF and me here.

I do apologize, I've just stopped laughing....had a little accident....pelvic floor and all that....

Is your name Wi-fi? Because I am feeling a connection?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

He doesn't mind that. Suzuki has ran for her life. It just you, WAF and me here.

I do apologize, I've just stopped laughing....had a little accident....pelvic floor and all that....

You must be a magician because everytime I look at you everyone disappears!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

He doesn't mind that. Suzuki has ran for her life. It just you, WAF and me here.

I do apologize, I've just stopped laughing....had a little accident....pelvic floor and all that....

You must be a magician because everytime I look at you everyone disappears!

On a roll this lad......a seedy one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Yeah! Get a room you two!

But invite me

Ahhhh. Have we by any chance found an instance where the OP doesn’t mind his thread being derailed?? Well. I. Never.

It’s not really’ my’ thread. I’m not the possessive type! "

Good to hear it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

He doesn't mind that. Suzuki has ran for her life. It just you, WAF and me here.

I do apologize, I've just stopped laughing....had a little accident....pelvic floor and all that....

You must be a magician because everytime I look at you everyone disappears!

On a roll this lad......a seedy one

Are you a parking ticket? Because you have fine written all over you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

As a rule I don’t really like the naming threads either.

Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too!

hello there. (Yes, I’m fucking flirting and I don’t give a fuck).

You must be a very important passage in a textbook, because seeing you is the highlight of my day!

Careful now, we’ve had our flirt message allowance.... let’s not derail Vine’s thread.

Yeah! Get a room you two!

But invite me

Ahhhh. Have we by any chance found an instance where the OP doesn’t mind his thread being derailed?? Well. I. Never.

It’s not really’ my’ thread. I’m not the possessive type!

Good to hear it!

Can I tie your shoes? Cause I dont want you to fall for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Harmless flirting can be amusing at times.

Flirting to cause a negative reaction or to say "teach someone a lesson" is at the other end of the scale for me.Seeing people unashamably flirting in public is nice to see,but what happens behind the scenes in PMS sometimes shows people ,that the harmless flirting is not so harmless and is in fact some twisted popularity game to hurt other peoples feelings.I have personally fallen in that trap of reacting, not through jealousy but because I think it's a pretty dickish thing to do and I will pull anyone up if they are in the wrong.The people in the middle I do feel sorry for,if they are a genuine victim and would apologise if I felt the need to

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By *r SxxMan over a year ago

ashford

I think I am guilty of flirting in thread's, Although I am awful at flirting so maybe that isn't what I'm actually doing haha

I try to talk to the whole thread not just an individual, but it's hard if you hit it off sometimes.

It can be very fun to see, but also very cringy - as in real life!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

WAF, you still there? That is enough for you to last the next few months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Harmless flirting can be amusing at times.

You breathe oxygen too? We have so much in common.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"WAF, you still there? That is enough for you to last the next few months.

"
lol yes I've inwardly digested them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"WAF, you still there? That is enough for you to last the next few months.

lol yes I've inwardly digested them

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"For me part of the fun of the forum is flirting and making friends. I know I’m not alone but it seems some people get a bit funny when they see other people flirting with each other.

I personally quite like it. Does it ever get you in trouble? "

Yep! Been told off before, there are some proper control freaks on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No good at flirting unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not now

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"Harmless flirting can be amusing at times.

I agree, doing anything to deliberately hurt someone else is horrible and deliberately flirting with someone else to cause hurt to another is really childish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

There are a couple of regular posters who do it to cause these problems. "Firestarters, fackin' instagators".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

There are a couple of regular posters who do it to cause these problems. "Firestarters, fackin' instagators"."
yep

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If the thread is asking who your favourite/funniest/most attractive person/s are.. and you're the type who first with a few.. then you're likely to ruffle a few feathers.. understandably.

Spot on.

The OP clarified a few posts up that he meant does it get you into trouble as in, have you been on the receiving end of jealous remarks from others because you’re flirting with others ...

I'm guilty of not reading every thread I post in to competition before posting

Yes I've been on receiving end of that for a while. I'm single, consider myself a swinger, don't get jealous of others flirting and am pretty open about all of that.

There are a couple of regular posters who do it to cause these problems. "Firestarters, fackin' instagators"."

There are? Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am. "

Just remember this, the forums are full of singles in their mid 30s to 50 ish. There's usualy a good reason for a person being on the shelf at that age... issues darling, issues!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like it

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Just remember this, the forums are full of singles in their mid 30s to 50 ish. There's usualy a good reason for a person being on the shelf at that age... issues darling, issues!

I can never tell if you have your tongue in your cheek when you type! But I hope so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am. "

Don’t change it then

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am. "

Keep being you.

Others can see it differently - talking to them can help you understand why if you're in a place to truly listen to them. Sometimes people are irrational, others less so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree, doing anything to deliberately hurt someone else is horrible and deliberately flirting with someone else to cause hurt to another is really childish. "

Exactly this.

Along with threads and posts making underhand digs and comments are hurtful too, lengths some will go to for attention is cringeworthy

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Keep being you.

Others can see it differently - talking to them can help you understand why if you're in a place to truly listen to them. Sometimes people are irrational, others less so. "

Yeah! Some people are just crazy!

Live your own life.

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am. "

Why do you feel the need to change who you are because of someone else's issues? I find that really quite sad, and personally wouldn't want anything to do with someone that tried to control me in that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will quite literally flirt with ANYONE, men, wowmen, TV's, inanimate object s, pensioners? Doesn't mean I'm planning to engage in sexy times, we're just making each other smile.... ....ain't nobody gonna stop those smiles!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I will quite literally flirt with ANYONE, men, wowmen, TV's, inanimate object s, pensioners? Doesn't mean I'm planning to engage in sexy times, we're just making each other smile.... ....ain't nobody gonna stop those smiles!

Make me smile big boy. Make it a big one.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I has to be good seeing as 'pensioner' was listed after inanimate objects.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid."

I've flirted with people in public places in front of people. Nothing wrong with flirting as long as it doesnt turn too crude

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By *Vine OP Man over a year ago

The right place

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid."

I don’t read all the posts!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Just remember this, the forums are full of singles in their mid 30s to 50 ish. There's usualy a good reason for a person being on the shelf at that age... issues darling, issues!

There's all kinds of people with major issues here of all ages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid."

Not sure I'd feel stupid but I know I'm sure as shit not wasting my moves on a bunch of strangers.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I'm always in trouble

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am. "

It shouldn't get you into trouble, you can flirt with who you like. But the problem can be if you are flirting with someone on a thread and ignoring someone you had sex with on the same thread. It can hurt people's feelings and make them feel like shit. I'm speaking from experience so I know that some people on here are bloody tactless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm always in trouble

I can see why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid.

I've flirted with people in public places in front of people. Nothing wrong with flirting as long as it doesnt turn too crude "

This

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid.

I've flirted with people in public places in front of people. Nothing wrong with flirting as long as it doesnt turn too crude "

Agreed. I didn't make it clear that I mean the continuous flirting ..... yada yada yada ... I mean when they are blind to all else and it's relentless for fooking hours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The irony on here ... is laughable

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm always in trouble

I can see why

I'm an

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Just remember this, the forums are full of singles in their mid 30s to 50 ish. There's usualy a good reason for a person being on the shelf at that age... issues darling, issues!

There's all kinds of people with major issues here of all ages. "
I've got tissues

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Essentially this is an N.S.A site and people have sex with others.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The irony on here ... is laughable

Gimme a kiss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid.

I've flirted with people in public places in front of people. Nothing wrong with flirting as long as it doesnt turn too crude

Agreed. I didn't make it clear that I mean the continuous flirting ..... yada yada yada ... I mean when they are blind to all else and it's relentless for fooking hours."

Got ya

Fancy a fuck?

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By *Man1263Man over a year ago

Stockport

"Look, flirting is lovely between TWO people ( or more if your after more ) what most seem to forget is the we are ALL here, ALL reading every word you say to someone else.....

Now be fair ...... you just WOULDN'T carry on that way in front of others in work, or in a bar or even in your own front room.

Not in a million years if you thought we were all listening down the end of a phone would you put your 'struttin feathers' on display. You'd feel stupid."

Nope.

If (and it's a big IF) I am in the mood to flirt, be it here, shop, work etc, then I will.

It will just be flirting, nothing sexual, so at no point do I feel stupid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Essentially this is an N.S.A site and people have sex with others."
its an internet domain, a possible meeting point, many never achieve the meeting stage, many dont even want to and its all things to all people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It got me into all sorts of trouble. And most of the time I don’t understand why. I see flirting as innocent, maybe others see it differently.

I toned it down a notch or two and now find it difficult to find my place in the forums because flirting is what I do, it’s who I am.

Just remember this, the forums are full of singles in their mid 30s to 50 ish. There's usualy a good reason for a person being on the shelf at that age... issues darling, issues!

Or maybe we’re just not scared of being on our own

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Don't start part 2 please if anyone was thinking of as it is giving a platform for people to have a dig or air dirty washing

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