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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The same as so many other people thensounds like I'm in the right place
you are in the right place op.
Have you messaged many? "
I have but honestly not a lot of luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why don't you try being more pro active. Get to socials and clubs, get yourself known on the scene."
I've been eurekas before a couple of years ago but I'm worried ohf going on my own
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, there are a lot of forum threads that are full of good advice. Read it, and take heed.."
I definitely will I need to start fulling some of my fantasys
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"Why don't you try being more pro active. Get to socials and clubs, get yourself known on the scene.I've been eurekas before a couple of years ago but I'm worried ohf going on my own "
Give over man. It's not that scary |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why don't you try being more pro active. Get to socials and clubs, get yourself known on the scene.I've been eurekas before a couple of years ago but I'm worried ohf going on my own
Give over man. It's not that scary"
I know exactly what you are saying ,I don't know why I'm finding it so difficult |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Often when people say they struggle on the site OP it comes down to one/some/all of the following - so maybe take a look and see what you could change:
Profile - make sure you have one that sells you well and shows some personality along with a flavour of what you are looking for and think you can offer - entice people to find out more with something that isn't generic and like lots of other profiles etc
Pics - make them appealing and showing you off in the best way.
Approach - think about how you approach the site and meeting and what you could change to make it better - some fall into the trap that the only thing they can do is send "cold" messages to people they've never interacted with before - there are numerous other ways, such as using the forums more, using the chat rooms, going to socials etc etc. If you do stick to messaging people, be polite and respectful don't just start with sex chat.
Attitude - make sure you keep it positive at all times again be considerate and respectful of others.
Expectations - set them low and then turn them down a notch or two
Get the above right and it won't guarantee a thing but it will improve your experience - get them wrong and you can guarantee you'll be frustrated and find the site hard work. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Often when people say they struggle on the site OP it comes down to one/some/all of the following - so maybe take a look and see what you could change:
Profile - make sure you have one that sells you well and shows some personality along with a flavour of what you are looking for and think you can offer - entice people to find out more with something that isn't generic and like lots of other profiles etc
Pics - make them appealing and showing you off in the best way.
Approach - think about how you approach the site and meeting and what you could change to make it better - some fall into the trap that the only thing they can do is send "cold" messages to people they've never interacted with before - there are numerous other ways, such as using the forums more, using the chat rooms, going to socials etc etc. If you do stick to messaging people, be polite and respectful don't just start with sex chat.
Attitude - make sure you keep it positive at all times again be considerate and respectful of others.
Expectations - set them low and then turn them down a notch or two
Get the above right and it won't guarantee a thing but it will improve your experience - get them wrong and you can guarantee you'll be frustrated and find the site hard work."
Very well said. |
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