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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After being on fab for over 6 weeks and 7 social meets with some of the most beautiful women on fab, I have learnt a few things about myself. I am not kinky, not into 3/4 some, not into NSA, not Bi or gay and not into weird and wonderful things.
I have also learnt that I am a Sapiosexual, a big flirt and enjoy a female companionship (Platonic).
But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic?    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In answer to your question, yes guys can be romantic. I think it’s a lovely quality.  "
I thought it was kinda gay till now. And I am straight as it gets.
PS. Nothing wrong with being gay or hopeless romantic.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free. "
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a rock.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free. "
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank balance and sperm count..... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"In answer to your question, yes guys can be romantic. I think it’s a lovely quality.
I thought it was kinda gay till now. And I am straight as it gets.
PS. Nothing wrong with being gay or hopeless romantic. "
You thought it was gay to be romantic how novel plenty of straight guys are romantic a guy who can show emotion is a man but just don't get emotional with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank balance and sperm count....."
I have to disagree- I found it nothing like Fab. |
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock. "
Outstanding move  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank balance and sperm count.....
I have to disagree- I found it nothing like Fab. "
It’s the one dating app I haven’t tried
Maybe I should |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock.
Outstanding move "
Were you in it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank balance and sperm count.....
I have to disagree- I found it nothing like Fab.
It’s the one dating app I haven’t tried
Maybe I should"
I mean. It seems to have mixed reviews but I liked it. Served a purpose at the time. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock.
Outstanding movie "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a rock. "
A free dating site called Plenty of Fish.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In answer to your question, yes guys can be romantic. I think it’s a lovely quality.
I thought it was kinda gay till now. And I am straight as it gets.
PS. Nothing wrong with being gay or hopeless romantic.
You thought it was gay to be romantic how novel plenty of straight guys are romantic a guy who can show emotion is a man but just don't get emotional with me "
Yes, I thought that. But I was wrong. I admit it. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock.
Outstanding move "
Thought you said movie sorry gorgeous xx xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank balance and sperm count....."
No one has asked me for my bank balance or sperm count on here.
I meant not yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank balance and sperm count.....
I have to disagree- I found it nothing like Fab.
It’s the one dating app I haven’t tried
Maybe I should"
Alright. Meet you there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a rock.
A free dating site called Plenty of Fish. "
Sounds like a fishing site.
Do we use a hook or a net. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"In answer to your question, yes guys can be romantic. I think it’s a lovely quality.
I thought it was kinda gay till now. And I am straight as it gets.
PS. Nothing wrong with being gay or hopeless romantic.
You thought it was gay to be romantic how novel plenty of straight guys are romantic a guy who can show emotion is a man but just don't get emotional with me
Yes, I thought that. But I was wrong. I admit it. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock.
Outstanding move "
Mate, you should try being romantic. Seven meets under three weeks is a great start. Or I should write a book.
How to get fab meets under a month for dummies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock.
Outstanding move
Mate, you should try being romantic. Seven meets under three weeks is a great start. Or I should write a book.
How to get fab meets under a month for dummies "
You’ve met seven people in three weeks? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
What is that? My apologies. I have been living under a cock.
Outstanding move
Mate, you should try being romantic. Seven meets under three weeks is a great start. Or I should write a book.
How to get fab meets under a month for dummies
You’ve met seven people in three weeks?"
Yeah. I know sounds like I am a whore. All social meets. One sex. |
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"You know that's what a good percentage of the single women who use the forum say they want right? 
NSA I am in the wrong place. "
No, they want what you describe. Almost all of them say they want a "connection" . Most men do too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You know that's what a good percentage of the single women who use the forum say they want right?
NSA I am in the wrong place.
No, they want what you describe. Almost all of them say they want a "connection" . Most men do too."
Lol. I am still to meet one who needs the connection. |
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"You know that's what a good percentage of the single women who use the forum say they want right?
NSA I am in the wrong place.
No, they want what you describe. Almost all of them say they want a "connection" . Most men do too.
Lol. I am still to meet one who needs the connection. "
Interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me... "
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks. |
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks. "
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks.
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me.. "
Fair enough Sherlock.
I dont need to convince you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone probably called you that because you were nice to her, that doesn't make it so. What do you think? Are you a hopeless romantic? "
I dont think I am. But I am a big flirt. I do enjoy the female company. I keep in touch with four of them. We are good friends. One of my social meets mentioned that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank
balance and sperm count....."
Fuck it's just the same pickie woman on there an you get blocked mid way though a convo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
PoF is like fab tbh, only they want to know your job, bank
balance and sperm count.....
Fuck it's just the same pickie woman on there an you get blocked mid way though a convo"
Never got blocked mid way through a conversation too. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think romance and being genuine are necessarily linked tbh, and I think it depends on who you're coupled with, how/if you connect, plus their attitude to romance too....
I've been back here three months now and not even had one social... ...I am a hopelessly romantic slut though.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being on fab for over 6 weeks and 7 social meets with some of the most beautiful women on fab, I have learnt a few things about myself. I am not kinky, not into 3/4 some, not into NSA, not Bi or gay and not into weird and wonderful things.
I have also learnt that I am a Sapiosexual, a big flirt and enjoy a female companionship (Platonic).
But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic? "
A hopeless romantic is a person who holds sentimental and idealistic views on love, especially in spite of experience, evidence, or exhortations otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think romance and being genuine are necessarily linked tbh, and I think it depends on who you're coupled with, how/if you connect, plus their attitude to romance too....
I've been back here three months now and not even had one social... ...I am a hopelessly romantic slut though..... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being on fab for over 6 weeks and 7 social meets with some of the most beautiful women on fab, I have learnt a few things about myself. I am not kinky, not into 3/4 some, not into NSA, not Bi or gay and not into weird and wonderful things.
I have also learnt that I am a Sapiosexual, a big flirt and enjoy a female companionship (Platonic).
But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic?
A hopeless romantic is a person who holds sentimental and idealistic views on love, especially in spite of experience, evidence, or exhortations otherwise."
I know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After being on fab for over 6 weeks and 7 social meets with some of the most beautiful women on fab, I have learnt a few things about myself. I am not kinky, not into 3/4 some, not into NSA, not Bi or gay and not into weird and wonderful things.
I have also learnt that I am a Sapiosexual, a big flirt and enjoy a female companionship (Platonic).
But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic? "
I am hopeless at picking the right job or man always seem to be hopeless and feel worthless. As for hopeless romantic never really found my soul mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After being on fab for over 6 weeks and 7 social meets with some of the most beautiful women on fab, I have learnt a few things about myself. I am not kinky, not into 3/4 some, not into NSA, not Bi or gay and not into weird and wonderful things.
I have also learnt that I am a Sapiosexual, a big flirt and enjoy a female companionship (Platonic).
But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic? "
there is even a more called hopeless romantic maybe you watch with your self lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks.
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me.. "
Guess what else is going to sound contrived to you, I met the first three in Australia and the next four in the US in a matter of three weeks. Now that is going to sound a lot more disingenuous to you. 
Keep pondering |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing. "
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster. |
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks.
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me..
Guess what else is going to sound contrived to you, I met the first three in Australia and the next four in the US in a matter of three weeks. Now that is going to sound a lot more disingenuous to you.
Keep pondering "
I enjoy socials as much as the next person but I don’t see how all 7 can be romantic connections in just 3 weeks.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After being on fab for over 6 weeks and 7 social meets with some of the most beautiful women on fab, I have learnt a few things about myself. I am not kinky, not into 3/4 some, not into NSA, not Bi or gay and not into weird and wonderful things.
I have also learnt that I am a Sapiosexual, a big flirt and enjoy a female companionship (Platonic).
But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic? "
Yes being a hopeless romantic is not gender specific it is a state of mind. Male or Female
Describe yourself in 500 words.
1) describe who you are really
2) your outlook on life.
3) what youd like to do given the chance
4) how you would interact with a female companion
Then you should have your answers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think romance and being genuine are necessarily linked tbh, and I think it depends on who you're coupled with, how/if you connect, plus their attitude to romance too....
I've been back here three months now and not even had one social... ...I am a hopelessly romantic slut though..... "
You may not be trying hard enough.lol. I would suggest take them out to dinner or lunch. Let them pick the restaurant. And if you can afford it, pay for their meal. It works. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster. "
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks.
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me..
Guess what else is going to sound contrived to you, I met the first three in Australia and the next four in the US in a matter of three weeks. Now that is going to sound a lot more disingenuous to you.
Keep pondering
I enjoy socials as much as the next person but I don’t see how all 7 can be romantic connections in just 3 weeks.. "
I would suggest reading my post once again. You have totally misrepresented my post. |
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks.
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me..
Guess what else is going to sound contrived to you, I met the first three in Australia and the next four in the US in a matter of three weeks. Now that is going to sound a lot more disingenuous to you.
Keep pondering
I enjoy socials as much as the next person but I don’t see how all 7 can be romantic connections in just 3 weeks..
I would suggest reading my post once again. You have totally misrepresented my post. "
Very possibly.. but I associate romancing with some sort of genuine feelings.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though. "
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though.
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman. "
Oops. She may read this thread. 
Fuck it. She doesn't talk to me anymore, anyways. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though.
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman. "
You invited her to stay with you for the night but didn't expect her to stay? I'm confused! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"7 social meets in 3 weeks due to romancing?!? Sounds a tad disingenuous to me...
No romancing there. Just raw flirting.
I was working incredibly hard the first two weeks.
Doesn’t sound romantic. Sounds contrived to me..
Guess what else is going to sound contrived to you, I met the first three in Australia and the next four in the US in a matter of three weeks. Now that is going to sound a lot more disingenuous to you.
Keep pondering
I enjoy socials as much as the next person but I don’t see how all 7 can be romantic connections in just 3 weeks..
I would suggest reading my post once again. You have totally misrepresented my post.
Very possibly.. but I associate romancing with some sort of genuine feelings.. "
I had no feelings with any of those meets tbh. And I have been honest with them. |
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I think the op is saying that he wants a good, romantic connection with the women he meets but so far that hasn't happened. Meeting quite a few women had helped him form that opinion.
To be fair most forum contributors say similar except a lot want to keep it nsa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though.
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman.
You invited her to stay with you for the night but didn't expect her to stay? I'm confused! "
She was meant to drive back same evening. We had dinner and I was genuinely concerned about her diving back. So I politely asked if she would want to crash at the hotel and drive back in the morning. She said she would love that. I thought she would say no. Being a gentleman I suggested I get a room for her and I was happy to pay for it. She said she was happy to share my room. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though.
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman.
You invited her to stay with you for the night but didn't expect her to stay? I'm confused!
She was meant to drive back same evening. We had dinner and I was genuinely concerned about her diving back. So I politely asked if she would want to crash at the hotel and drive back in the morning. She said she would love that. I thought she would say no. Being a gentleman I suggested I get a room for her and I was happy to pay for it. She said she was happy to share my room. "
But then I made the first move on her. I regret that now. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though.
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman.
You invited her to stay with you for the night but didn't expect her to stay? I'm confused!
She was meant to drive back same evening. We had dinner and I was genuinely concerned about her diving back. So I politely asked if she would want to crash at the hotel and drive back in the morning. She said she would love that. I thought she would say no. Being a gentleman I suggested I get a room for her and I was happy to pay for it. She said she was happy to share my room.
But then I made the first move on her. I regret that now. "
Gotcha. Why do you regret it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing.
Agree. Had sex with one of the meets. It was a disaster.
Oh! That’s a shame. I love the sex part though.
She was the hottest of the lot. I had to fly from LA to San Diego for the meet. It was a bit of a rush.
She drove over 150 miles to meet me and I invited her to stay with me for the night. I didnt expect her to stay over.
I was not a gentleman.
You invited her to stay with you for the night but didn't expect her to stay? I'm confused!
She was meant to drive back same evening. We had dinner and I was genuinely concerned about her diving back. So I politely asked if she would want to crash at the hotel and drive back in the morning. She said she would love that. I thought she would say no. Being a gentleman I suggested I get a room for her and I was happy to pay for it. She said she was happy to share my room.
But then I made the first move on her. I regret that now.
Gotcha. Why do you regret it? "
The sex was okay. But after the sex I felt terrible. It was not her fault. It was me. |
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Yes i am a hopeless romantic but only with my partner. Never was before im certainly not looking for it on here. Also taking someone out for a meal is just normal. Also flirting doesnt work with me. If im interested in someone theres no need for it |
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By *eliWoman
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"I’m not hopeless but I am a romantic. I much prefer one on one sensual meets or non sexual adventures with a friend that I love spending time with. Both with and without clothing. "
Yes, this is much the same for me. I don't allow myself to get swept up in it (okay, maybe a bit) but I do really enjoy the... ach. I'm loathe to call it romantic because of the connotations associated with it. Whatever it is, I enjoy it a lot. |
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But someone suggested that I am a hopeless romantic too! What the hell does that mean? I thought hopeless romantics are women! Do you think guys can be hopeless romantic? "
Yes! And it’s a very endearing quality to posses |
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free. "
Really free? Or is that just for girls? |
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"Nice guy innit....
I wouldn't go that far. I may have to sign up on match.com.
Rip off! Go on PoF instead - it’s free.
Really free? Or is that just for girls?"
It was free for both genders when I used it a few years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have moments of romanticism and at heart I’m a romantic. However I’m not a hopeless one, I still maintain a level of hope
Awwww! "
trying to find that movie Hopeless Romantic was you starring in it |
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"I have moments of romanticism and at heart I’m a romantic. However I’m not a hopeless one, I still maintain a level of hope
Awwww!
trying to find that movie Hopeless Romantic was you starring in it "
Is there a movie? Lol. I am sure it would be a chick flick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe I am one! Time will say!
Have you fallen in love?
Almost!
On here?"
Yup. She has a great mind. That is the most sexiest part of her. She thinks it is her body, unfortunately! |
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