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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You see so many woman older and younger sick and tired of one word lines the whole ‘hi’ ‘wuu2’ all that jazz and I really don’t blame you the amount of guys that just waste your time it’s probably a good 80% but you know when you just find a profile that is right up your street and you message them and ends up not even being read or just gets lost in the sea of absolute trash that other people send it’s getting a bit boring and tiring now, I get people do not open them and look at the profiles n decide wether they are what they like or not that’s perfectly fine everyone knows what they like but just wanted to give a shoutout to my fellow brothers that struggle who can actually hold a conversation down once in a blue moon when we get a reply. And they guys who ruin it for us and spam inboxes damn your the worst  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You see so many woman older and younger sick and tired of one word lines the whole ‘hi’ ‘wuu2’ all that jazz and I really don’t blame you the amount of guys that just waste your time it’s probably a good 80% but you know when you just find a profile that is right up your street and you message them and ends up not even being read or just gets lost in the sea of absolute trash that other people send it’s getting a bit boring and tiring now, I get people do not open them and look at the profiles n decide wether they are what they like or not that’s perfectly fine everyone knows what they like but just wanted to give a shoutout to my fellow brothers that struggle who can actually hold a conversation down once in a blue moon when we get a reply. And they guys who ruin it for us and spam inboxes damn your the worst "
There are other ways to get noticed, as you're begining to discover....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try thinking that if they were right for you, they would have replied. Shake it off and adjust strategy "
That only really works if they've read your message.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try thinking that if they were right for you, they would have replied. Shake it off and adjust strategy
That only really works if they've read your message...."
Not really. You can view profile without reading a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always reply if I recieve a well thought out message.
Even if it is just to say thanks no thanks."
This
For the sea of douchbags out there there are good guys and gals too x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The only person that could possibly ruin my experience of the site OP is me - no-one else can, and that applies to any other guy on here.
The guys that are genuinely decent, who have the right attitude, approach and expectations of the site, coupled with a decent profile and pics, will always shine through and be noticed and usually do so by just quietly going about their Fab business and not worrying about the actions of others.
Or how about thinking of it that rather than ruining others experience the ones who have the wrong attitude, approach and expectations are actually improving it for others by helping them shine through? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah like I ain’t tryna be a white knight but it’s not like a have 3-6 hours to search through the whole site I’m just chilled n message someone when I think they fit the type but the struggle to get seen is real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read almost all my messages.
If someone has made an effort, I reply.
I delete if I don’t find someone attractive - seems the most painless way."
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah like I ain’t tryna be a white knight but it’s not like a have 3-6 hours to search through the whole site I’m just chilled n message someone when I think they fit the type but the struggle to get seen is real"
It can be stretched in time? Its not about sending 100s of messages. Few but composed with care? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Yeah like I ain’t tryna be a white knight but it’s not like a have 3-6 hours to search through the whole site I’m just chilled n message someone when I think they fit the type but the struggle to get seen is real"
If you think you're struggling to be seen then how about you find a way to make yourself stand out more so you are seen?
A lot of guys fall into the trap of believing the *only* way to find people to meet on here is to send messages to people they've never contacted before in the hope they get read - that's just one way, I have sent exactly 6 such messages in my 3 years or so here, and none for at least two years - yet am very happy with my experience of the site.
There are numerous other ways to get to know people and have them get to know you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah like I ain’t tryna be a white knight but it’s not like a have 3-6 hours to search through the whole site I’m just chilled n message someone when I think they fit the type but the struggle to get seen is real
It can be stretched in time? Its not about sending 100s of messages. Few but composed with care? "
Yeah I fully agree like when I send one I at least try and start a conversation like I don’t go over the top just calm I don’t want to bore someone with a forced essay |
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