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Hi Ladies,
Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?
Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....
Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?
Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....
Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes... |
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"Hi Ladies,
Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?
Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....
Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?
Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....
Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes..."
It’s nice to know someone finds me attractive.
No, it’s not like a drug, I don’t get a buzz or whatever..
And nope, no disappointments. I’d be amazed if someone found me attractive every day  |
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"Hi Ladies,
Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?
Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....
Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?
Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....
Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes..."
I never have wanted desire from all and sundry, that can get dangerous - I only ever wanted the desire of the ones I desire, which number is few.  |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X oh yes you,ve rumbled me .... I am a bit of a ..BABLER..ha ha .."
I'll have a go any way xx
I think I feel pretty resourced and secure in myself..enough so that I don't need to be lusted after, crave attention or feel frustrated if I don't get it. AND my ego likes it, of course. Fundamentally we all like to feel wanted. But I don't place my value on it.
What I like is a mutual exchange, when theres chemistry and I don't mind if I get to the end of the day without lustful eyes ... end of the month however might ave my bottom lip out  |
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I love being able to turn people on. It’s a power thing. Like giving a good blow job. Empowerment is very sexy. But there’s not drug like buzz or anything exciting like that |
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"Hi Ladies,
Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?
Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....
Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?
Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....
Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes..."
I find it more thrilling if it's a woman who's paid me a complement |
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you 
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything "
I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me |
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It's all a matter of context. Most of the time I don't particularly care that much unless it's a friend paying me a compliment. Sometimes, usually involving strangers, it's downright irritating. Sometimes I just want to get shit done. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything
Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence
I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me "
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything
Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence
I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me "
Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train  |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything
Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence
I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me
Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train "
Hahaha! Im past trying hard .. o trust all the right trains will arrive in my station |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything
Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence
I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me
Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train
Hahaha! Im past trying hard .. o trust all the right trains will arrive in my station "
Choo choo bitch! |
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By *atonMan
over a year ago
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything "
just did and where are you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything just did and where are you? "
Riding my train |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just read my thread again...
I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...
Does,nt it ?"
It comes across as asking for assumptions to be confirmed than asking questions. Saying that both sexes like to be desired to some extent its not just a female thnig. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything
Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence
I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me
Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train
Hahaha! Im past trying hard .. o trust all the right trains will arrive in my station
Choo choo bitch! "
Charmer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just read my thread again...
I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...
Does,nt it ?"
Made sense to me.
I never have a day where lustful eyes haven't ogled my tits. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Just read my thread again...
I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...
Does,nt it ?
Made sense to me.
I never have a day where lustful eyes haven't ogled my tits. "
As the official founding member of the boob appreciation club (see my forum thread) ogling boobs is a founding principle. Thanks for the mammories.  |
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X oh yes you,ve rumbled me .... I am a bit of a ..BABLER..ha ha ..
I'll have a go any way xx
I think I feel pretty resourced and secure in myself..enough so that I don't need to be lusted after, crave attention or feel frustrated if I don't get it. AND my ego likes it, of course. Fundamentally we all like to feel wanted. But I don't place my value on it.
What I like is a mutual exchange, when theres chemistry and I don't mind if I get to the end of the day without lustful eyes ... end of the month however might ave my bottom lip out "
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"Getting a compliment on fab doesn't make me feel great at all as u men will say anything to anyone for a shag...a compliment of a stranger in the street is nice  "
ooooh yes ...very good .... had,nt thought of that angle....
Damn pretty pointless writing .." oh your so damn sexy " now is it... |
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For me...being an almost 43yr old woman after 2 kids popped out, its knowing I still have it.
I was in a bad marriage and when I ended it in 2018, my self esteem was soooo low, I said to a gal pal I will never be attractive to a guy and get a date.
So to know MrD loves my bod and it gets me fabbed is a huge boost for my confidence. Small steps..... |
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"Hi Ladies,
Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?
Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....
Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?
Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....
Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes...
I never have wanted desire from all and sundry, that can get dangerous - I only ever wanted the desire of the ones I desire, which number is few. "
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"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X
I know what I would like to ask you
Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything just did and where are you? "
Baton ?? That photo ....that's never yours ?? Cccchhhhrrriiiisstt..!!
Oh god ,oh god...
I feeling an inferior complex coming on... |
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"For me...being an almost 43yr old woman after 2 kids popped out, its knowing I still have it.
I was in a bad marriage and when I ended it in 2018, my self esteem was soooo low, I said to a gal pal I will never be attractive to a guy and get a date.
So to know MrD loves my bod and it gets me fabbed is a huge boost for my confidence. Small steps....."
good for you ....go girl @! |
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What they say doesnt define me ,but god yes it helps my confidence ,ive had body issues and been shy for years ,butafter a shit put down first hubby ,ive now had a great one for 25 years but i enjoy his compliments but feel he is biased ,so any i get on here from meets etc makes me smile and ive gone from body shy to wearing underwear id have NEVER looked at before myself and hubby are loving my new confidence in and out of the bedroom ,i still have the odd wobble but feel so sexual now love it .. |
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Maybe it’s the menopause, but I don’t feel desirable and i don’t desire anyone either and it really doesn’t bother me
I just don’t get what’s so great or important about some stranger on the internet saying they find you desirable.
Most times on here, it’s a lie anyway and is said just in the hope of them getting sex. |
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