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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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This gets right on my tits reading this in the verifications.
"I've enjoyed fisting her, and spitting into her gaping wrong un, treat this one with respect guys"
Fucking patronising in my opinion and these lads need to get a grip.
Turning a woman into a 12st boxing glove and 3 holed spittoon, and advising the rest on behaviour
Wtf |
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over a year ago
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"This gets right on my tits reading this in the verifications.
"I've enjoyed fisting her, and spitting into her gaping wrong un, treat this one with respect guys"
Fucking patronising in my opinion and these lads need to get a grip.
Turning a woman into a 12st boxing glove and 3 holed spittoon, and advising the rest on behaviour
Wtf "
And he could have been very respectful as he done so. I'd rather have someone checking in on me, treating me as someone with feelings whilst wearing me like a glove puppet because being worn like a glove puppet was what I wanted and felt comfortable enough to do so with someone like that, than someone who didn't give a fuck what I wanted or felt, wasn't respectful and therefore didn't get given the chance by me to be a bit wild and crazy as the trust and respect wasn't there
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"It's not a big deal imo. It's just a cliche, a nice thing to say.
And if the lady wanted all those things, then he did treat her with respect! "
Yep!
Although I'm not sure why men feel they need to advise other guys how to behave. Oh wait... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So in my case, treat me with respect and you may get a wild adventurous exquisitely deviant playmate.
Don't treat me with respect you'll get the cold shoulder and possibly a busted nose
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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It's isn't the issue of whether the man has shown her the greatest of respect, its the said man assuming that as adults, we do not know how to show a woman respect. Many of us regardless of kink were raised to treat women with respect full stop. I just find it patronising being advised to do so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And he could have been very respectful as he done so. I'd rather have someone checking in on me, treating me as someone with feelings whilst wearing me like a glove puppet because being worn like a glove puppet was what I wanted and felt comfortable enough to do so with someone like that, than someone who didn't give a fuck what I wanted or felt, wasn't respectful and therefore didn't get given the chance by me to be a bit wild and crazy as the trust and respect wasn't there
P"
Exactly...the fact that you might trat someone "roughly" in bed (having their full consent of course) does not mean that you don't show respect and kindness outside of bed. |
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"It's isn't the issue of whether the man has shown her the greatest of respect, its the said man assuming that as adults, we do not know how to show a woman respect. Many of us regardless of kink were raised to treat women with respect full stop. I just find it patronising being advised to do so "
Many men here appear not to know how to, alas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand where you are coming from as I tend to treat everyone with respect.
But, if she didn't like the words he used in the veri, then she could have just chose not to display it."
It was the Op who didnt like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what of her dyson skills?"
Treat her with respect and you might find out if she sucks like one.
Personally, I like the Vax wet and dry. It has better attachments.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This gets right on my tits reading this in the verifications.
"I've enjoyed fisting her, and spitting into her gaping wrong un, treat this one with respect guys"
Fucking patronising in my opinion and these lads need to get a grip.
Turning a woman into a 12st boxing glove and 3 holed spittoon, and advising the rest on behaviour
Wtf "
This made me giggle
See it a lot and I find it cringe. Especially after lines like ‘get this whore fucked guys’ etc etc. Pointless and a little bit of an oxymoron to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in my case, treat me with respect and you may get a wild adventurous exquisitely deviant playmate.
Don't treat me with respect you'll get the cold shoulder and possibly a busted nose
P"
 haha
I give myself a migraine when I read it on a veri  |
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Treat a woman with respect and kindness especially before during and after meeting her.
Then your wanking over porn days and messaging hundreds of ladies with no results will be over.
When a guy respects me.
I turn into a slut...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've enjoyed fisting her, and spitting into her gaping wrong un, treat this one with respect guys"
Wtf "
Wow. The person who wrote that sounds brain damaged.
I would never never allow something like that to be written about me (it would never happen anyways).
But the woman who published it saw nothing wrong with meeting the man or publishing his words.
To me that says something about them both but I'm not talking to either of them so I am not annoyed.  |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"Maybe the recipient of the verification has earned the respect of the verifier - I don't see a problem with it."
I appreciate that, but just as we all have different outlooks on all things life, we also have differing opinions on what we find patronising
Cheers for your reply |
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"I understand where you are coming from as I tend to treat everyone with respect.
But, if she didn't like the words he used in the veri, then she could have just chose not to display it.
It was the Op who didnt like it. "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
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Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler"
Do you have 35 dick pics ready to go when she replies tho  |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler
Do you have 35 dick pics ready to go when she replies tho "
Fuck no, 34 ish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in my case, treat me with respect and you may get a wild adventurous exquisitely deviant playmate.
Don't treat me with respect you'll get the cold shoulder and possibly a busted nose
P"
Well I can vouch for the validity of the former...And it was so bloody good that I won't bother trying the latter, thanks.
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Not sure a blow by blow account is necessary when verifying. Just acknowledging a fun time with a fun person(s) should be suffice for verification purposes. They're not written for people to get off on just to acknowledge that someone is genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see the issue people don't have to display them people don't have to read them lets be honest you should spend more time improving your own profile that stressing over someone else's. |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm either reading this wrong but helloooooooo, Veri,s are optional to display......let's start with respect for one's self eh ......"
Very nicely put...
But its the being personally patronised I find distasteful. |
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"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler"
You find something patronising, or not to your taste?
That's perfectly fine.
What would you like to happen now? |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't see the issue people don't have to display them people don't have to read them lets be honest you should spend more time improving your own profile that stressing over someone else's. "
Again, you along with others make a cogent point, but it's not the point/s that irk me, it's the being advised to treat someone with respect when it's something I already do as a given
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"I don't see the issue people don't have to display them people don't have to read them lets be honest you should spend more time improving your own profile that stressing over someone else's.
Again, you along with others make a cogent point, but it's not the point/s that irk me, it's the being advised to treat someone with respect when it's something I already do as a given
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Then you've no need to be worrying about how others "suggest" you behave.
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler
You find something patronising, or not to your taste?
That's perfectly fine.
What would you like to happen now?"
Well I'd love to have Whitney Houston come in and rim me, while stroking me softly wearing a chinchilla glove. Unfortunately alas she's still being snorted to this day, off of Bobby Browns 1 eyed ball python. So as it is I'll read the cogent answers, digest them, as I digest a bacon sandwich and cup of Rosie. |
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"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler
You find something patronising, or not to your taste?
That's perfectly fine.
What would you like to happen now?
Well I'd love to have Whitney Houston come in and rim me, while stroking me softly wearing a chinchilla glove.
Unfortunately alas she's still being snorted to this day, off of Bobby Browns 1 eyed ball python. So as it is I'll read the cogent answers, digest them, as I digest a bacon sandwich and cup of Rosie. "
Bacon sandwich you say......
*turns grill on.
(I'm not really, I don't eat bacon) |
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"I'm either reading this wrong but helloooooooo, Veri,s are optional to display......let's start with respect for one's self eh ......
Very nicely put...
But its the being personally patronised I find distasteful. "
Are you speaking from experience or something you've read? |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm either reading this wrong but helloooooooo, Veri,s are optional to display......let's start with respect for one's self eh ......
Very nicely put...
But its the being personally patronised I find distasteful.
Are you speaking from experience or something you've read? "
Some of the many veris on here, although it may not piss some off, I does me
Thanks for your input |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
Coggeshall |
"Just another white Knight attempt to get women to think you're different from the other 'sex pest' men on here and that you actually care about their feelings when you wanna dump a load on their face too
Whilst this did make me chuckle, you miss the mark, it's more about finding something patronising as opposed to trying to portray myself as something white knightish, just so I can slip some one a crippler
You find something patronising, or not to your taste?
That's perfectly fine.
What would you like to happen now?
Well I'd love to have Whitney Houston come in and rim me, while stroking me softly wearing a chinchilla glove.
Unfortunately alas she's still being snorted to this day, off of Bobby Browns 1 eyed ball python. So as it is I'll read the cogent answers, digest them, as I digest a bacon sandwich and cup of Rosie.
Bacon sandwich you say......
*turns grill on.
(I'm not really, I don't eat bacon) "
Your missing out mate lol |
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"I'm either reading this wrong but helloooooooo, Veri,s are optional to display......let's start with respect for one's self eh ......
Very nicely put...
But its the being personally patronised I find distasteful.
Are you speaking from experience or something you've read?
Some of the many veris on here, although it may not piss some off, I does me
Thanks for your input "
Well your distaste is noted, but if the people recieving these Veri,s are not bothered showing them.....well says alot about them dsnt it.....do they know their being patronised or they are simply not bothered.....end of input.....  |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm either reading this wrong but helloooooooo, Veri,s are optional to display......let's start with respect for one's self eh ......
Very nicely put...
But its the being personally patronised I find distasteful.
Are you speaking from experience or something you've read?
Some of the many veris on here, although it may not piss some off, I does me
Thanks for your input
Well your distaste is noted, but if the people recieving these Veri,s are not bothered showing them.....well says alot about them dsnt it.....do they know their being patronised or they are simply not bothered.....end of input..... "
Yes I'm aware when I'm being patronised |
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"I'm either reading this wrong but helloooooooo, Veri,s are optional to display......let's start with respect for one's self eh ......
Very nicely put...
But its the being personally patronised I find distasteful.
Are you speaking from experience or something you've read?
Some of the many veris on here, although it may not piss some off, I does me
Thanks for your input
Well your distaste is noted, but if the people recieving these Veri,s are not bothered showing them.....well says alot about them dsnt it.....do they know their being patronised or they are simply not bothered.....end of input.....
Yes I'm aware when I'm being patronised "
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Having the veri on display is optional. If the person showed it i'll assume they're comfortable with what was written and didn't find any offence. Why should it bother you? |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"Having the veri on display is optional. If the person showed it i'll assume they're comfortable with what was written and didn't find any offence. Why should it bother you?"
I don't need to be told to "treat anyone with respect" as it's a given I will do just that anyway , unless of course they're some 2 Bob James Hunt. I find it patronising, many don't. Along with many others I've just simply posted a dislike/irk of mine
Cheers for the input |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"This gets right on my tits reading this in the verifications.
"I've enjoyed fisting her, and spitting into her gaping wrong un, treat this one with respect guys"
Fucking patronising in my opinion and these lads need to get a grip.
Turning a woman into a 12st boxing glove and 3 holed spittoon, and advising the rest on behaviour
Wtf "
Baffling isn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well in some of my published veri's it has been used as a phrase and in the context of those veri's, I find it quite endearing. I'll continue to show them as and and when I want to. My choice and I don't force people to view them, live and let live we all have choices. |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well in some of my published veri's it has been used as a phrase and in the context of those veri's, I find it quite endearing. I'll continue to show them as and and when I want to. My choice and I don't force people to view them, live and let live we all have choices. "
Bravo Treacle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This gets right on my tits reading this in the verifications.
"I've enjoyed fisting her, and spitting into her gaping wrong un, treat this one with respect guys"
Fucking patronising in my opinion and these lads need to get a grip.
Turning a woman into a 12st boxing glove and 3 holed spittoon, and advising the rest on behaviour
Wtf "
You should write for Mills n Boon
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Lots of verification clichés, cringes etc - we've listed them in forum posts before.
Some things become self perpetuating, once in common use and I'm guessing this is one of them.
It may sound as if full of gallantry but it's perhaps a roundabout way of them informing their partners that they respect them. |
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"It's isn't the issue of whether the man has shown her the greatest of respect, its the said man assuming that as adults, we do not know how to show a woman respect. Many of us regardless of kink were raised to treat women with respect full stop. I just find it patronising being advised to do so "
i don't know why you're taking it so personally..don't seeat the small stuff.
Verifications allude to the person writing them not reading them |
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By *eniorsx OP Man
over a year ago
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"If they posted the verification i guess they don't mind so why should anybody else?
I'm not sure many women on here need rescuing OP"
Who's trying to rescue anyone?
I find the remark "treat her with respect" a patronising thing to me personally |
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