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I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "
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Here..
I’ve not had any say they want there partners there.. coz I just don’t get a reply. Haha
Even the ones who wink you first don’t reply.. or if you are lucky enough to get a reply.. then stop chatting within a few messages.
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I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.
Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile! |
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"I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.
Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!"
Yeah, you all but agree and set up a date, and boom! A man appears.
No. If I'm setting up something with a single female, there will be no men. |
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"I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.
Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!
Yeah, you all but agree and set up a date, and boom! A man appears.
No. If I'm setting up something with a single female, there will be no men. "
Definitely. That’s the reason we’ve got a joint profile, I wouldn’t expect to be chatting to a woman on this one and all of a sudden say can he come along? Out of order in my opinion. |
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"I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.
Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!
Yeah, you all but agree and set up a date, and boom! A man appears.
No. If I'm setting up something with a single female, there will be no men.
Definitely. That’s the reason we’ve got a joint profile, I wouldn’t expect to be chatting to a woman on this one and all of a sudden say can he come along? Out of order in my opinion. "
I do very occasionally set up meetings where I couple up, but I say from the outset, happy to meet alone or I have a FWB (username), see verifications. |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "
Now isn’t that like winning the lottery  |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?
Now isn’t that like winning the lottery "
. No. Not when you’re not looking for any penis action lol |
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over a year ago
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I want to play alone for ff fun. MrD is fine with me having fun with another lady. Yes he would eventually like to be involved but is more than happy for me to play alone with a lady. He finds the idea a super turn on. |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "
That's a shame that the men want to muscle in. I (Luke) am perfectly happy for Hannah to meet up with women with no involvement from me. She has had sex with one of her best friends a couple of times and I haven't had anything to do with it. The three of us have talked about those times without any embarrassment and there was no suggestion of me joining in in any way. It was rather lovely to be that open.
It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.
So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady? |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?
That's a shame that the men want to muscle in. I (Luke) am perfectly happy for Hannah to meet up with women with no involvement from me. She has had sex with one of her best friends a couple of times and I haven't had anything to do with it. The three of us have talked about those times without any embarrassment and there was no suggestion of me joining in in any way. It was rather lovely to be that open.
It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.
So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady? "
No. I admit I haven’t but then it seems a real trudge picking apart their profile for if they play alone as I’d hate to offend. I usually like to address a couple as a couple.
Maybe I will put a meet up and see what transpires. Thanks for the tip xx |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?
Now isn’t that like winning the lottery . No. Not when you’re not looking for any penis action lol"
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true. I don’t disclose that information I have what you call manners  |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?
That's a shame that the men want to muscle in. I (Luke) am perfectly happy for Hannah to meet up with women with no involvement from me. She has had sex with one of her best friends a couple of times and I haven't had anything to do with it. The three of us have talked about those times without any embarrassment and there was no suggestion of me joining in in any way. It was rather lovely to be that open.
It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.
So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady?
No. I admit I haven’t but then it seems a real trudge picking apart their profile for if they play alone as I’d hate to offend. I usually like to address a couple as a couple.
Maybe I will put a meet up and see what transpires. Thanks for the tip xx"
The difficulty with a meet is you can miss out on women who are not available at a particular time but would otherwise be interested.
I suggest you put up forum threads asking if any women are interested in meeting up with other women with no male involvement, probably socially at first, and open the question to couples where it is understood that only the woman would come. It would just be asking in principle and could potentially help women across the country find each other.
You could also start a thread to see if any women in your area would be interested in a ladies-only social, again including women in couples.
Threads like that can give interested women an opportunity to say so without tying them to times and places. Details can be worked out when you know who is interested. |
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I’m a single bi curious lady.
I’ve been on a couple dates with women but it’s never gone anywhere sexual (sadly)
I never expected to find other solo women on fab - it just didn’t seem like the place! I’d love to be proven wrong though. |
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"Here..
I’ve not had any say they want there partners there.. coz I just don’t get a reply. Haha
Even the ones who wink you first don’t reply.. or if you are lucky enough to get a reply.. then stop chatting within a few messages.
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As you no doubt know, women are absolutelt inundated with messages and your messages are either lost in the pike of mass deleted i expect  |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "
Have you tried meeting a TS/TV?
Remember , clothes and having a penis does not define a persons Sexuality...... |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "
I just peeked at your profile & if I was in the UK, you could count me in for some ff time with you. Tattoo's too....Im in!! Great pics
MsDub  |
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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?
That's a shame that the men want to muscle in. I (Luke) am perfectly happy for Hannah to meet up with women with no involvement from me. She has had sex with one of her best friends a couple of times and I haven't had anything to do with it. The three of us have talked about those times without any embarrassment and there was no suggestion of me joining in in any way. It was rather lovely to be that open.
It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.
So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady? "
Why assume that it's the men "muscling" in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder are there any swinging clubs with nights for only women.
Townhouse does a women only event called Indulgence. It's great fun!"
Well there's your chance, Ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots appearing now.... but why are you all soooooooo far away  "
A curse of the internet.
It brings us all closer by means of communication but not physical presence |
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"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.
I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.
I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)
Now I know why men get so exacerbated.
Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "
Love the latex dress. You look fantastic. |
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