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By *AAB OP Man
over a year ago
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Just curious peeps but I’m chatting to someone here and I’m feeling a little uneasy. I’m not going to say what is bothering me as I’d like to see if any of you come up with the signs I think I might be seeing. Alternatively it could just be my imagination.
So over to you, what about a profile or conversation sets you on edge? |
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Signs of a catfish??
Very tentative bites during daylight hours and if you do hit into one then it will scream off, your reel smoking and probably snap your line unless you have suitably beefed up your tackle.
Oh, you weren't talking fishing?? |
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By *AAB OP Man
over a year ago
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"Signs of a catfish??
Very tentative bites during daylight hours and if you do hit into one then it will scream off, your reel smoking and probably snap your line unless you have suitably beefed up your tackle.
Oh, you weren't talking fishing?? "
No but then I suppose with fishing you know what’s on the end of your rod. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've recently been catfished and stupid me didn't reverse image his pics or Skype. I was meeting a tall, dark haired, super fit guy with the best bum I'd ever seen and a funny personality.
Instead, I met a skinny, pale skinned, ginger haired, ginger bearded viking.
Always try and do your due diligence and don't be trusting anyone.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It’s hard to tell nowadays, there’s some very clever and convincing ones out there!"
This, there are definitely very convincing ones mixed. Also now and again it has been known that even the most obvious catfish can end up being real (though very rare). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
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By *AAB OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
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How do you do a reverse image search - excuse me for being thick? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
How do you do a reverse image search - excuse me for being thick?"
Google it, one is called TinEye and I forget what the other is called. There's a few  |
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"It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
How do you do a reverse image search - excuse me for being thick?"
Try right clicking on a picture and selecting "search Google for this picture"
At least on my phone... Chrome on Android |
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Simple rule, if it doesn’t feel right, walk away 
Whatever is causing you concern, ask them to do something that will help verify it, e.g. if you think they are married, ask to speak on the phone and see how evasive they are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recently been catfished and stupid me didn't reverse image his pics or Skype. I was meeting a tall, dark haired, super fit guy with the best bum I'd ever seen and a funny personality.
Instead, I met a skinny, pale skinned, ginger haired, ginger bearded viking.
Always try and do your due diligence and don't be trusting anyone.
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It sounds like you met me, minus the viking part |
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If a woman is super super keen and comes on strong with sex chat, not always but a lot of the time she isn't all she seems. Also if a womans boyfriend is apparently using her account to chat to women in the chatrooms it gives me the strong feeling that there isn't any woman in the first place. |
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By *AAB OP Man
over a year ago
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"Reverse image search doesn't always work. Thankfully a lot of catfish don't know why, which is why they get caught out but the "good" ones will be able to dodge that net. "
Yeah tried that. Installed Chrome on my phone to do the lookup, but nothing found. |
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By *AAB OP Man
over a year ago
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"If a woman is super super keen and comes on strong with sex chat, not always but a lot of the time she isn't all she seems. Also if a womans boyfriend is apparently using her account to chat to women in the chatrooms it gives me the strong feeling that there isn't any woman in the first place."
Yeah super keen but no sex chat though. |
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"It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
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I was on here for longer than a year without verification... and I am no type of fish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from a fish what is meant by a catfish? "
Isnt it someone pretending to be something they are not ie a man as a woman or an older person as a younger person or something? |
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By *AAB OP Man
over a year ago
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"Apart from a fish what is meant by a catfish?
Isnt it someone pretending to be something they are not ie a man as a woman or an older person as a younger person or something? "
Yes and I’m suspicious because her photo puts her well out of my league. At the end of the day I’m just a grey haired 50 year old bastard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
I was on here for longer than a year without verification... and I am no type of fish! "
Me too. I have no verifications because I choose not to use them, yet I’ve met a couple of people on here. It’s not foolproof.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've recently been catfished and stupid me didn't reverse image his pics or Skype. I was meeting a tall, dark haired, super fit guy with the best bum I'd ever seen and a funny personality.
Instead, I met a skinny, pale skinned, ginger haired, ginger bearded viking.
Always try and do your due diligence and don't be trusting anyone.
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I'm dying to know what his opening line was, please share? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's difficult to tell.
However, reverse image search through more than one site.
If they've been on here a year or more and not meet verified (I find that strange).
My friend has asked people to send pics next to clocks etc.
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It took me over 3 years to get verified, yet I'm lovely. You can ask Cheeky when I let her out for her daily exercise.. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If a woman is super super keen and comes on strong with sex chat, not always but a lot of the time she isn't all she seems. Also if a womans boyfriend is apparently using her account to chat to women in the chatrooms it gives me the strong feeling that there isn't any woman in the first place.
Yeah super keen but no sex chat though. "
Not everyone sex chats before meeting though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from a fish what is meant by a catfish?
Isnt it someone pretending to be something they are not ie a man as a woman or an older person as a younger person or something? "
Thanks! A liar then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a woman is super super keen and comes on strong with sex chat, not always but a lot of the time she isn't all she seems. Also if a womans boyfriend is apparently using her account to chat to women in the chatrooms it gives me the strong feeling that there isn't any woman in the first place.
Yeah super keen but no sex chat though.
Not everyone sex chats before meeting though. "
This ^^^ I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from a fish what is meant by a catfish?
Isnt it someone pretending to be something they are not ie a man as a woman or an older person as a younger person or something?
Thanks! A liar then "
Basically yes. Everything needs a fancy name nowadays |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from a fish what is meant by a catfish?
Isnt it someone pretending to be something they are not ie a man as a woman or an older person as a younger person or something?
Thanks! A liar then
Basically yes. Everything needs a fancy name nowadays "
It's all American but still a liar and someone who isn't real or not telling the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's easier now than ever to catch somebody out if they are a man pretending to be a woman etc, with how easily it is to access a camera etc I think it would be foolish to meet up without a video chat first to help establish some trust. It's spotting the liars like people who are in relationships claiming tk be single or those people who are telling huge lies about who they are that's the difficult part.
I'd say go with your gut OP, if something seems fishy then it probably is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Constantly asking for photos puts me on edge, go with your gut feeling and tell them what is bothering you."
Makes sense... follow your instincts and say out loud your concerns. By their reaction you should be able to tell
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I don’t always go by verifications, I don’t display mine (happy to share if asked). But if no verifications I’m more cautious, I like a phone call or video chat. If they’re over keen or jump on sex talk then alarm bells go |
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"I've recently been catfished and stupid me didn't reverse image his pics or Skype. I was meeting a tall, dark haired, super fit guy with the best bum I'd ever seen and a funny personality.
Instead, I met a skinny, pale skinned, ginger haired, ginger bearded viking.
Always try and do your due diligence and don't be trusting anyone.
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If he met you he's a liar, but not a catfish.
I'd be surprised if anyone got truly catfished on here. The lying and pretending to be someone else to get a response, yes - but to drag it out and build a whole relationship without ever actually meeting, does that happen? We aren't on here looking for love, but for meets! Lots of time wasters on here, but it's a strange site to come on as a true catfish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Catfishing.....i always understood that to be something different..
You get hookes by a 'hottie' they find out about you, where you live, what you do and they eventually gather enough info to identify you...find you on social media and if youre a naughty boy or girl..black mail you into keeping your sex life a secret...thats a real threat peeps.. but only to cheats and anyone who would rather die than have their friends find out...
Thats catfishing...i thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True catfishing people target vulnerable people. Send photos agree to meet but always a reason not too. Hooks the person in then starts asking for money for presents or some family illness or to help to travel to meet you. Simple if it's a distance just facetime and dont send money. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"True catfishing people target vulnerable people. Send photos agree to meet but always a reason not too. Hooks the person in then starts asking for money for presents or some family illness or to help to travel to meet you. Simple if it's a distance just facetime and dont send money."
I think that the term has come to mean something else but the actual term comes from the film and series of the same name.
Basically it's where a person pretends to be someone that they're not, whether it's a whole other person or just younger, slimmer, etc. In order to gain attention. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"True catfishing people target vulnerable people. Send photos agree to meet but always a reason not too. Hooks the person in then starts asking for money for presents or some family illness or to help to travel to meet you. Simple if it's a distance just facetime and dont send money.
I think that the term has come to mean something else but the actual term comes from the film and series of the same name.
Basically it's where a person pretends to be someone that they're not, whether it's a whole other person or just younger, slimmer, etc. In order to gain attention. "
This is the definition of catfishing. It's simply pretending to be someone you aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've recently been catfished and stupid me didn't reverse image his pics or Skype. I was meeting a tall, dark haired, super fit guy with the best bum I'd ever seen and a funny personality.
Instead, I met a skinny, pale skinned, ginger haired, ginger bearded viking.
Always try and do your due diligence and don't be trusting anyone.
I'm dying to know what his opening line was, please share?"
Hi Dayna, lovely to finally meet you. Acted completely normal!
Me: Who the hell are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not photo verified or have no verifications, out of date face pics, lack of selfies, pictures with filters, reluctant to send face pics, pictures that look like they have been stolen from Facebook. Refusing to cam or video chat prior to meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not just ask to Skype or video chat?
Or even just chat on the phone to hear her voice?
I’m always happy to do those things if I intend to meet the person. |
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