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By *eavenNhell OP Couple
over a year ago
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ok before i start ranting i aint looking for sympathy
my 84 year old dad is currently dieying of heart failure in hospital and will be lucky to last the week .as im full of a cold and chest infection so cannot go and visit .my self and lily have put a notice in our statuses to this effect and only have been coming on to chat with friends .
today lily recieved a message from a new couple to us the usual "your lovey can we meet and chat " stuff she replyed tht due to the situatio with my dad she wasnt in the mood and could we leave it a week or two .reply from them "she could stay at theres or they could come to her " she replyed that due to my dad DYING it wasnt appropriate realy and could you kindly back off ! then recieved and reply "aww if you want to chat am here from you or you could come to mine" ! yeah right your gonna open up to complete stranger and run around to theirs ! wtf ?
rant over
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I found out last night you should NEVER say that you're not in the mood but might be in a week or so as the messager will take that as a challenge and whine until you give in. I think I said 'no' 6 times before he got the hint.
Sorry to hear about your situation and I hope it improves eventually. In the meantime best thing to do is possibly hide your profile so you don't get the drive by searchers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps it was there way of trying to dig themselves out of the hole they put themselves in by not reading your profile/status.
I wouldn't let it bother you while your emotions are already running on overdrive and concentrate on more important things you are going thru right now.
Best wishes to your dad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not the most sensitive exchange but maybe they thought if you were ok to log into the site your ok to take things further. There are always two points of view to explore. Grief is a personal thing and often dose not easily transfer and some are less close to parents and more hardened to life. Its easier and better to ignore, block and move on. |
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