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My own take it stems from my own attitude to things - I'd far rather have multiple meets with one person / couple than numerous one offs
That's not to say one offs aren't nice, but regular is better |
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We all have a standard and code we live by, if you don't get what they want, chances are that you don't have what it is they want.
Their lives, their rules and if you don't like it, well why are you bothered about it?
Live and let live. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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To be honest could view it as a case of they will fuck as many people as they want so long as they find them attractive. Which is fine but worded in a way that just avoids saying "you are not attractive" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have a standard and code we live by, if you don't get what they want, chances are that you don't have what it is they want.
Their lives, their rules and if you don't like it, well why are you bothered about it?
Live and let live. "
Am I messaging them? No. So what's your problem 
I'm just seeking a little more clarification from people who have this on their profile.
One person said it might be that they prefer regular rather than one offs.
Which I think is a good explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all have a standard and code we live by, if you don't get what they want, chances are that you don't have what it is they want.
Their lives, their rules and if you don't like it, well why are you bothered about it?
Live and let live.
Am I messaging them? No. So what's your problem
I'm just seeking a little more clarification from people who have this on their profile.
One person said it might be that they prefer regular rather than one offs.
Which I think is a good explanation."
This explains why I have it on mine and is what I mean when I use it. It certainly isn’t to “make me look good”, as has been suggested on this thread. I’m not really sure in what way this phrase would achieve that aim. But there you go!  |
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This explains why I have it on mine and is what I mean when I use it. It certainly isn’t to “make me look good”, as has been suggested on this thread. I’m not really sure in what way this phrase would achieve that aim. But there you go! "
We know what you mean 
That's one out of the filter isn't it
Good for you. |
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From my experience, people who have it on their profile tend to have criteria they need someone to meet beyond just finding them attractive and getting on and therefore accept that they will meet less people as a result. Personally I prefer to use less vague wording to explain that haha.
I do think there are some people who use it either when messaging to say that the woman they are interacting with is "high quality" though or use it as their reason for not having many meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From my experience, people who have it on their profile tend to have criteria they need someone to meet beyond just finding them attractive and getting on and therefore accept that they will meet less people as a result. Personally I prefer to use less vague wording to explain that haha.
I do think there are some people who use it either when messaging to say that the woman they are interacting with is "high quality" though or use it as their reason for not having many meets."
Beyond finding them attractive and getting on? What else is there
Hey I find you attractive and the chat is great but your socks are yellow and I/We don't meet people who wear yellow socks?
This hasn't made it any less confusing |
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"But what if someone sleeps with a lot of people who they find attractive?
Am I the only one who doesn't get this saying?"
I think it is a bit confusing, as I don't think the two things are mutually exclusive. I think it's a way for people to say they are looking for more of a connection than "any hole's a goal".
Mrs TMN x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"But what if someone sleeps with a lot of people who they find attractive?
Am I the only one who doesn't get this saying?"
Quality and quantity are subjective and vary depending on personal opinion. The two together in that clichéd phrase tell me nothing. A careful reading of the profile and the vibe it puts out is a much better indicator of the person's preferences. |
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"From my experience, people who have it on their profile tend to have criteria they need someone to meet beyond just finding them attractive and getting on and therefore accept that they will meet less people as a result. Personally I prefer to use less vague wording to explain that haha.
I do think there are some people who use it either when messaging to say that the woman they are interacting with is "high quality" though or use it as their reason for not having many meets.
Beyond finding them attractive and getting on? What else is there
Hey I find you attractive and the chat is great but your socks are yellow and I/We don't meet people who wear yellow socks?
This hasn't made it any less confusing "
there's the language and grammar used in the introductory messages that either flatter the recipient or fall flat. The ability to read the situation and the trust that they expect in the sender is obvious. If you cannot see what they are asking for, perhaps you aren't that person. Those whom they are interested just get it, by being it. |
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