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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch

How do you refocus and concentrate on what you should be doing, when your mind has gone off on a tangent and elsewhere ?

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple  over a year ago

leamington spa

My mind always wandèring on to something else so just carry on thinking what you are at that time lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How do you refocus and concentrate on what you should be doing, when your mind has gone off on a tangent and elsewhere ? "

Depends where it’s gone and for how long. Sometimes I need to escape for a little while so trust myself to go with the flow...

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm attempting that at this very minute!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not best placed to answer this ...have done zero work today!

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"My mind always wandèring on to something else so just carry on thinking what you are at that time lol"

I like that approach, although not much will be get done

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"How do you refocus and concentrate on what you should be doing, when your mind has gone off on a tangent and elsewhere ?

Depends where it’s gone and for how long. Sometimes I need to escape for a little while so trust myself to go with the flow..."

Escaping for a little while is good, I do that, but think this is in for the day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Take a break. Set an alarm for the end of said break. Get back to it. Make a cuppa / drink some water.

In extreme cases, and where possible, go have a wank.

That's my methodology anyway.

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By *eilde HoarWoman  over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

Close your eyes, empty your brain and breathe deeply for 60 times

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By *hromosexualsCouple  over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I’ll follow this with interest as In(the man half) find it very difficult to concentrate. I’m pretty good in a crisis though, but sometimes things become a crisis because I haven’t sorted them earlier.

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By *ily WhiteWoman  over a year ago

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I have to have a break...get up and make a cuppa, even go for a quick walk

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

Welsh Lass

I slap myself and give myself a Rocky esque pep talk

And have 23 cups of coffee.

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm attempting that at this very minute! "

Focus you.... important !

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Not best placed to answer this ...have done zero work today!"

I’m heading that way

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Take a break. Set an alarm for the end of said break. Get back to it. Make a cuppa / drink some water.

In extreme cases, and where possible, go have a wank.

That's my methodology anyway."

Tried a break, tried a chat change of topic, neither worked.... haven’t tried last option, could work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Take a break. Set an alarm for the end of said break. Get back to it. Make a cuppa / drink some water.

In extreme cases, and where possible, go have a wank.

That's my methodology anyway.

Tried a break, tried a chat change of topic, neither worked.... haven’t tried last option, could work "

Some days you just can't be on top form. Peaks and troughs are normal...

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Accept it's not happening for whatever reason and take some time out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I.. ummm...sorry what was the question?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get a cup of coffee or tea. Change to a different room if necessary and focus on the thing I should be doing. The trick is to shift position for me. Changes the energy and my mind follows.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont i find it hard to focus unless i set myself a target but it has to be something i really want to be worth it

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Close your eyes, empty your brain and breathe deeply for 60 times"

Every time I close my eyes I see what I’m trying to forget

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I’ll follow this with interest as In(the man half) find it very difficult to concentrate. I’m pretty good in a crisis though, but sometimes things become a crisis because I haven’t sorted them earlier."

I can normally focus and usually the sane one in a crisis and someone who others turn to when need to focus.... today I’m the ditsy, brain all over the place

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By *icknHMan  over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Go for a walk then refocus when you get back to your desk / bed / chair etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Close your eyes, empty your brain and breathe deeply for 60 times

Every time I close my eyes I see what I’m trying to forget "

Did you google rainbow shower or something?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I keep my objectives in mind, so if a reality check shows that what I'm doing isn't helping me to fulfill my objectives, I stop what I'm doing.

I may need to relax - so do this. Remind myself why my objectives are important, to rekindle my motivation. Seek help, if I need it. Exercise is my killer way to reenergise and reset my focus - subject to any time constraints. Alternatively, brief contact with nature works well for me

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I have to have a break...get up and make a cuppa, even go for a quick walk "

Grabbed a drink, tried the walk and even cold water face splash... no hope fir me today I think

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I slap myself and give myself a Rocky esque pep talk

And have 23 cups of coffee."

Ooh I haven’t tried the slap, that could work

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Take a break. Set an alarm for the end of said break. Get back to it. Make a cuppa / drink some water.

In extreme cases, and where possible, go have a wank.

That's my methodology anyway.

Tried a break, tried a chat change of topic, neither worked.... haven’t tried last option, could work

Some days you just can't be on top form. Peaks and troughs are normal..."

So true... maybe tomorrow will be better to focus

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Accept it's not happening for whatever reason and take some time out."

I’m coming to that conclusion, roll on home time

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Well I.. ummm...sorry what was the question?"

Said that more than a few times today

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I get a cup of coffee or tea. Change to a different room if necessary and focus on the thing I should be doing. The trick is to shift position for me. Changes the energy and my mind follows."

Thanks Doc, I’ve been shifting position most the day, think going to have to just admit defeat and let the mind wander

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By *attb179Man  over a year ago

London

With a new meet on tonight, my heads racing, impossible to focus!

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I dont i find it hard to focus unless i set myself a target but it has to be something i really want to be worth it"

I don’t normally. If I have a target I normally will meet it as hate failing, but today it’s not going to happen

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Close your eyes, empty your brain and breathe deeply for 60 times

Every time I close my eyes I see what I’m trying to forget

Did you google rainbow shower or something?"

No, no.... I didn’t know what that meant and now I had to google, I will never learn

That’s definitely something I don’t want to remember but has got me refocused on the job at hand...so a gold star for achieving that, but a slap for spoiling my thoughts and replacing it with that !!

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By *rivateparts!Man  over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I cant even spell it never mind sit long enough to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surprised no one talked about meditation in this long thread.

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I keep my objectives in mind, so if a reality check shows that what I'm doing isn't helping me to fulfill my objectives, I stop what I'm doing.

I may need to relax - so do this. Remind myself why my objectives are important, to rekindle my motivation. Seek help, if I need it. Exercise is my killer way to reenergise and reset my focus - subject to any time constraints. Alternatively, brief contact with nature works well for me "

All good tips, I’ll remember them for next time

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"With a new meet on tonight, my heads racing, impossible to focus! "

Good luck for tonight

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I cant even spell it never mind sit long enough to do it."

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Surprised no one talked about meditation in this long thread."

Not something I’ve done, but that wouldn’t have worked for me today

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By *udewhennudeMan  over a year ago

newport

I just think it such a spursey thing to do as they lose another game and refocus

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I just think it such a spursey thing to do as they lose another game and refocus "

Haha to true, but football definitely wasn’t on my mind !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I recently bought a book called Uni Life Hacks. Almost all the advice in it can be applied to every day life and there's a great section on beating procrastination (as well as a million other pieces of noteworthy advice!) It's absolutely worth investing in, if only for the section about beating hangovers

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I recently bought a book called Uni Life Hacks. Almost all the advice in it can be applied to every day life and there's a great section on beating procrastination (as well as a million other pieces of noteworthy advice!) It's absolutely worth investing in, if only for the section about beating hangovers "

Sounds good, I’ll have to look it up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Close your eyes, empty your brain and breathe deeply for 60 times

Every time I close my eyes I see what I’m trying to forget

Did you google rainbow shower or something?

No, no.... I didn’t know what that meant and now I had to google, I will never learn

That’s definitely something I don’t want to remember but has got me refocused on the job at hand...so a gold star for achieving that, but a slap for spoiling my thoughts and replacing it with that !! "

You’re welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surprised no one talked about meditation in this long thread.

Not something I’ve done, but that wouldn’t have worked for me today "

It's something you have to do regularly. Helps you long term to be focused.

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By *attb179Man  over a year ago

London


"With a new meet on tonight, my heads racing, impossible to focus!

Good luck for tonight "

Thanks! Your good luck wishes helped

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP   Woman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"With a new meet on tonight, my heads racing, impossible to focus!

Good luck for tonight

Thanks! Your good luck wishes helped "

Glad you had a good night

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