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over a year ago
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"How nasty are we talking and no I don't."
Oh and by the way. Going to have a wank at about 8ish tonight, can you unhide your profile before then please?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.
If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now"
Forgot about Swindon fo sho!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How nasty are we talking and no I don't.
Oh and by the way. Going to have a wank at about 8ish tonight, can you unhide your profile before then please?
Thanks "
I'll go for the 8.30 slot if that's ok... ...wait that's like sloppy seconds, can I go first ...?  |
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"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"
On the forums or nasty by sending abusive messages? On the forums we would just tend to ignore, we’re not argumentative and we realise that not everyone will share our tastes and opinions. If somebody goes out of their way to send us an abusive or derogatory message ( which has happened ) then we will just block them. Thankfully that’s only happened twice though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.
If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now
Forgot about Swindon fo sho! "
Look, for the last time, I haven't forgot about Swindon, I just don't see why I have to put all the effort in to making it happen! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends. Language is often misinterpreted, dynamics are also. I tend to ask for clarification so I'm not in any doubt. Humour is subjective at the best of times. If they are without any shadow of a doubt nasty to me, no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.
If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now
Forgot about Swindon fo sho!
Look, for the last time, I haven't forgot about Swindon, I just don't see why I have to put all the effort in to making it happen!"
So there's no next time in Swindon then? Going out with a bang??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.
If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now
Forgot about Swindon fo sho!
Look, for the last time, I haven't forgot about Swindon, I just don't see why I have to put all the effort in to making it happen!
So there's no next time in Swindon then? Going out with a bang???"
Me, you and LucieJo are definitely having a bang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think in the 10 years I’ve been on here I someone has said something nasty to me about 3 times. I’ve had I’ll informed criticism a few more times but still only a handful and one thing I could call a drama. I get blocked quite a bit but not because I’ve been nasty or horrible. I have said things that may have annoyed others. When I believe I have been wrong in things I’ve said I’ve apologised.where I could.
The nasty things that have been said have all come from men who felt rejected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"
It depends on what you define as nasty? People often have strong opinions which may differ or disagree with? People may mis-read a post to take things personally.
As in texts, emails or forum posts may be difficult to express the intent which leaves open for mis-interpretation. There are those who like being the centre of attention and don't like anything that detracts from that.
People just simply get impatient of the same old same old posts, sometimes that reflects.
Then you have those that are genuinely nasty usually cos they think the are under personal attack.
Only the individuals can decide and can't put and general rules on the reactions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list. "
Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the definition of nasty to be honest. I tend to brush off most things anyway.
But if a beautiful buxom lady who has been particularly nasty to me suddenly appears in my DMs asking for a meet then I'll make sure to bring along my reportoire of punishment toys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case 
90% of forum users have been nasty to you?
Yes roughly"
I guess we have different definitions of nasty then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some times could have been a bad day but others just plane bug me so with them its unlikely but im sure i bug folks too iv butted heads with a few but most iv forgotten who they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case
90% of forum users have been nasty to you?
Yes roughly
I guess we have different definitions of nasty then"
Must be |
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"How nasty are we talking and no I don't.
Oh and by the way. Going to have a wank at about 8ish tonight, can you unhide your profile before then please?
Thanks
I'll go for the 8.30 slot if that's ok... ...wait that's like sloppy seconds, can I go first ...? "
Nothing wrong with sloppy seconds. |
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"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.
Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?"
Lol that's a lie.
Ur not blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.
Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?
Lol that's a lie.
Ur not blocked "
Made you look though, did you like what you saw  |
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"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.
Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?
Lol that's a lie.
Ur not blocked
Made you look though, did you like what you saw "
I did. Thank you for asking xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've blocked people who were previously on my hotlist just because of the attitudes they've shown. I'm sure it's probably happened to me too. C'est la vie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"
no if they can be that once they can be that again, its a nature thing........ in the workplace you have to forgive but you never trust that person   |
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When I first joined many moons ago I received a vile message out of the blue from a local female. Blocked her but remembered her user name. Fast forward a few years and we bump into each other in a club. It was definitely her issue and a touch of the green eyed monster. Some people have real issues and this isn't a healthy place for them. Instant block now and feel sorry for their pathetic lives. |
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