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Why only black men

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

I don't think I've seen profiles stating only white or only Asian men? And if the white women who are in relationships with white men, love black men so much.. then how come they're not married to black men.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And before you start saying its because they're bigger.. Their not.

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By *modDMan over a year ago

Lichfield

Oh black men? I misread it as back men and thought they were looking for John Stones lookalikes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

Because that’s what turns them on and it’s their choice and right to do so. End of discussion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear. You do ask some questions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why does it bother you, OP?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

As a personal choice, if choosing from here, then black guys for me every time. If at a club or party, any colour will do if they make me laugh and have a nice smile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why does it bother you, OP?"

I'm not bothered

More intrigued

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As a personal choice, if choosing from here, then black guys for me every time. If at a club or party, any colour will do if they make me laugh and have a nice smile.

So you choose black guys from here. Is this the Mrs choice or do Mr like seeing it.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

My Mrs just finds them less "needy"? *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up.

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By *hezuMan over a year ago

London

I've seen only white and only asian too and even only straight!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe white ladies are just more vocal about what they like/want. Should you be the same OP?

Ive seen profiles that exclude black and asian men.

Suppose it reduces folk messaging who aren’t that persons attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe white ladies are just more vocal about what they like/want. Should you be the same OP?

Ive seen profiles that exclude black and asian men.

Suppose it reduces folk messaging who aren’t that persons attraction. "

It wouldnt do me any good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I have seen lots of no to this, no to that, or only xyz type of bios. Just the way they chose to state their preferences...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe white ladies are just more vocal about what they like/want. Should you be the same OP?

Ive seen profiles that exclude black and asian men.

Suppose it reduces folk messaging who aren’t that persons attraction.

It wouldnt do me any good "

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe white ladies are just more vocal about what they like/want. Should you be the same OP?

Ive seen profiles that exclude black and asian men.

Suppose it reduces folk messaging who aren’t that persons attraction.

It wouldnt do me any good

Why not? "

Id probably get blocked by everyone else then

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Personal preferences

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they're in attempts to be "edgy" and hip bro.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve seen many profiles with ‘white men only’ and I think two which said ‘Asian men only’

No idea OP. Preference and all that.

I only meet men who are over 30 but married someone only four years older than me. Hmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday. "

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful! "

Is there like a sign up sheet and what are my numbers lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful!

Is there like a sign up sheet and what are my numbers lmao"

Lol I just made my own.

I will PM you the categories.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have seen plenty of women mentioning only White men in their profiles. So I don't think it is something to be intrigued much about.

I haven't seen a single person looking for "Only Asian" though

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By *hezuMan over a year ago

London

I haven't seen a single person looking for "Only Asian" though

I have :0

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful!

Is there like a sign up sheet and what are my numbers lmao

Lol I just made my own.

I will PM you the categories. "

Sounds fabulous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful!

Is there like a sign up sheet and what are my numbers lmao

Lol I just made my own.

I will PM you the categories.

Sounds fabulous "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful!

Is there like a sign up sheet and what are my numbers lmao

Lol I just made my own.

I will PM you the categories.

Sounds fabulous

Lol

You should be listening to that music I sent you and be in bed young man! Don’t make me come and tuck you in!

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By *octor DeleriumMan over a year ago

Wellingborough

"And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up."

Apologies for bursting your bubble, but they are not.

A systematic review in 2015* found that it was not possible to draw any conclusions about size and race from the published research literature and that further research needed to be conducted.

I'm quite happy for you to send me the links that back-up your assertion but, until then, the belief that penis size varies according to race is not supported by scientific evidence.

* Veale D, Miles S, Bramley S et al. Am I normal? A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15 521 men. BJU International; 2015. 115 (6): 978–986.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is just my personal sexual preference.

My long term partner is also a black man.

I have dated/fucked white guys when I was younger but the sex was rubbish because I was never actually attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

White women love black men because we moisturize........

We get very dry skin after a shower , so we always put lotion or baby oil on our skin..... plus our feet and elbows.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

White women love black men because we moisturize........

We get very dry skin after a shower , so we always put lotion or baby oil on our skin..... plus our feet and elbows.....

And you smell like cocoa butter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up.

Apologies for bursting your bubble, but they are not.

A systematic review in 2015* found that it was not possible to draw any conclusions about size and race from the published research literature and that further research needed to be conducted.

I'm quite happy for you to send me the links that back-up your assertion but, until then, the belief that penis size varies according to race is not supported by scientific evidence.

You forgot to drop the mic, Doc

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

Why do some men like slender women on here when they're married to fat women? Why do short men seek Amazon's on here when married to a dwarf? Why do women seek a female playmate whilst married to a man? Why does a Domme only meet submissive men when in a relationship with a man who can't even say "submissive?"

This...is...fantasy for most people NOT real life!!! When will people realise other people's fantasies that DOESN'T include them is NOT a personal slight. Just because the object of your desire is married to someone like you but is looking for someone different get over yourself and look elsewhere.

The entitled daily whining is getting on my last nerve!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I’ve seen many profiles with ‘white men only’ and I think two which said ‘Asian men only’

No idea OP. Preference and all that.

I only meet men who are over 30 but married someone only four years older than me. Hmm"

My point exactly: exploring someone different.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday. "

Annoying isn't it?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Erm... It absolutely is real life for me. My fwbs are real people who are in my life. And in physical and character terms they're pretty much in the same ball park as the love of my life.. Tall, hench, confident, mature, assertive and self aware. I'm sure some people are here to live out fantasies and I sincerely hope every one of them comes true, I applaud anyone who goes for it in that way. But one of the biggest hurdles they face is that this absolutely is real life, these people are real and they'll only join you in your fantasies if they want to.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Erm... It absolutely is real life for me. My fwbs are real people who are in my life. And in physical and character terms they're pretty much in the same ball park as the love of my life.. Tall, hench, confident, mature, assertive and self aware. I'm sure some people are here to live out fantasies and I sincerely hope every one of them comes true, I applaud anyone who goes for it in that way. But one of the biggest hurdles they face is that this absolutely is real life, these people are real and they'll only join you in your fantasies if they want to. "

"Not real life" in the sense most people I'd wager see this as fantasy, sharing their fantasy with other like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

White women love black men because we moisturize........

We get very dry skin after a shower , so we always put lotion or baby oil on our skin..... plus our feet and elbows.....

And you smell like cocoa butter. "

Yes, but I’ve been using Sabon products now....

I smell like Citrus and ginger now

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman over a year ago

crawley

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

White women love black men because we moisturize........

We get very dry skin after a shower , so we always put lotion or baby oil on our skin..... plus our feet and elbows.....

I do agree.

I like the smell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not real life" in the sense most people I'd wager see this as fantasy, sharing their fantasy with other like minded people.

Ah.... I misunderstood you which is my bad. That makes perfect sense. Sorry 'bout that, chick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its the visual of black in white or other way some folks get off on it i think

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

I've often seen profiles of white females/couples seeking meets only with white males.

Incidentally I'm a white female married to a black man, but I don't fetishize his skin colour, it's completely incidental to who he is and his personal qualities.

I suspect to some people here skin colour plays a part in sexual fantasy and as black males are in the minority those couples wanting to meet them state it explicitly on their profiles, otherwise most of their messages will be from white males (majority).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do white men smell of?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

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iv seen loads saying white men only btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do white men smell of?"

I use rose petal scented body butter and mango facial moisturiser

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do white men smell of?"

Depends on what they’ve been eating and using on their skin. Just like all us humans...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You seem to ask so many questions where the answer will be the same! Do you not understand personal choice? Why wonder, ponder, waste time ... just it is, it's never really worth discussing the outcome is the same! Better to use the time more constructively ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

Because that’s what turns them on and it’s their choice and right to do so. End of discussion "

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it about time that fab was updated and accommodated for exactly what people are looking for? Would save a lot of time wasting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it about time that fab was updated and accommodated for exactly what people are looking for? Would save a lot of time wasting."

Reduce people to tick boxes. Tick what I want, meet, fuck, fuck off. None of this interaction crap.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet people on their personality not how they look and yet have only met black men the black men I have met have been friendly, not needy, gentle and funny. They have been very aware of my husband and that he is part of the deal not just me! I was attracted to them as a person before we played I have not had this feeling with one white man yet, however I am married to a white man who I am very attracted to. I’ve had so many messages “why don’t you just marry a black guy” or “your so disrespectful to your husband only meeting black men” I’m still shocked this is even a thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

I've seen plenty of profiles stating "No black or asians", "white men only" or even "white english men" only" tbf. Think I've also seen one profile that said "only asians" though the latter stood out in my head because it was rare really.

So how you reached that conclusion I don't know. Did you draw your sample pool of Fabbers entirely from a "BBC Appreciation" thread by any chance?

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

"It is just my personal sexual preference.

My long term partner is also a black man.

I have dated/fucked white guys when I was younger but the sex was rubbish because I was never actually attracted to them."

This is so spot on as is your profile is amazing. It's like Ronseal. It does exactly what it says on the tin. Why analyse it when we can just enjoy our tastes. Some white zealot will soon post about how uncomfortable they feel when a race or colour is fetishized.. my advice to them is that they think too much..

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

My personal preference too ... though I do see white men ... I lived with a black man before he passed away 3yrs ago ... I just prefer the sex and their personalities

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

And another forum grenade...

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman over a year ago

Richmond

Fab is a fantasy land. You can come here and look for (not necessarily get) anything you are interested in.

Gangbang with 7 blond men over 6'3"?

Swinging relationship?

FWB or FB?

Someone with the coloring you find attractive?

Not everyone is here to fuck anything, and not everyone is here to "just see how it goes." Some are simply looking for someone specific, in a way they can't find in real life.

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By *assage_noirMan over a year ago

1The Angel

Plenty of profile on here saying whites only.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

Oh I've seen plenty of profiles demanding for white only or Asian only.

I'd never dated a black guy till 4 years ago & I've just come to a stage where I am not physically attracted to anyone who isn't black anymore so there's no point in going there anymore

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Why not black white anything you want it’s your choice

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By *icknHMan over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up."

True, the average is bigger. But then expectation on the poor chaps to be ‘packing’ is bigger as well. Rarest site in a swingers club is SBC....the poor guys don’t turn up.

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By *icknHMan over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

The entitled daily whining is getting on my last nerve!!!"

This. Spot on

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Not real life" in the sense most people I'd wager see this as fantasy, sharing their fantasy with other like minded people.

Ah.... I misunderstood you which is my bad. That makes perfect sense. Sorry 'bout that, chick

No harm, no foul

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife is initially attracted to definition and tattoos.

Although she wont completely rule out others because they dont have those features it would certainly put any guy who doesn't have them further down the list.

Do I have those attributes? No.

Does it bother me? No.

She has a certain look she is attracted to and that's that. Doesn't mean she isn't attracted to me though. That attraction is much deeper.

At the end of the day, it really is a case of each to their own so why bother yourself with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up."

Medical research you say, is there a link?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Black men are sexy. I love black women xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own. Personal preferences and all that x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up.

Medical research you say, is there a link?"

Sponsored by Sky

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Because only a black man has a black cock maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can’t be every ones cup of tea bro or else you’d be a mug lol do uno the amount of people that haven’t wanted meet my girlfriend but no me because I’m brown , but it don’t bother me the women that are into Asians are really into Asians

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By *igBlacKnightMan over a year ago

London

There is literally dozens of women saying onky white men. The funny thing is usually their the ones noone wants. The country is predominetly white, you dont need a site like this to find a man. Dont take that negatively but its true.

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By *tarship112Man over a year ago

/lancaster

Forget all diss black dick is king end ov

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah this gem.

I'll say it once more... I'm looking for something very specific with regards to what find incredibly sexy looks wise. This happens at the moment to be hot black guys. That changes over time and when/if it does, I'll change my profile to my new specifics.

I'm married to a white guy because, although I'm completely shallow when it comes to fab, I'm not so shallow in my personal life and marriage is about way more than looks. I would have thought that fairly obvious but it seems if people have to question it then they really don't understand that relationships are based on way more than looks and sexual fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up."

They just have a tighter perm

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Forget all diss black dick is king end ov "

Well, when you put it like that...

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By *ourneblondeWoman over a year ago

Bourne

I want a really big black man with a huge cock to fuck me bareback really hard all night...

Any offers or suggestions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Strange hmmmm but the best fuck in the universe is me and im white but it matters not you cannot have my penis

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah this gem.

I think it's good that people question it. That's how people learn new things.

Some people don't understand even the basics of swinging, some never will even after having it explained.

Also for some people, their relationships may be based purely on looks so they can't understand the need for anything else.

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By *heelofTimeCouple over a year ago

Two Rivers

"I meet people on their personality not how they look and yet have only met black men the black men I have met have been friendly, not needy, gentle and funny. They have been very aware of my husband and that he is part of the deal not just me! I was attracted to them as a person before we played I have not had this feeling with one white man yet, however I am married to a white man who I am very attracted to. I’ve had so many messages “why don’t you just marry a black guy” or “your so disrespectful to your husband only meeting black men” I’m still shocked this is even a thing? "

This exactly ........ the guys are more in tune with fact a couple are a couple and come as a pair. The gentle part also for us has been true for all the black guys we’ve met they were dominant but sensual which in my opinion is bliss

x bitch!

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Do you believe a black man wouldn't be marriage material because such a relationship would be 'shallow'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you believe a black man wouldn't be marriage material because such a relationship would be 'shallow'?"

No. I'm saying that I hadn't taken skin colour into it when choosing a life partner. He could have been white black Asian etc etc he just so happened to be white. I'm not shallow enough to choose a life partner based on skin colour.

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

I saw an ad saying No Romanians.. though it was a bit odd to single out on one eastern European country

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up."

Not questioning peoples right to express a preference and I know it is the opinion of the writer but it is not a valid statistic and is subjective.

It is like the buttered bread test, it does not fall on the buttered side always it will land on buttered or none buttered side equally given a suitable sample number of drops.

Wider audience, it is generalisation and a complete myth, fallacy and been proved many times, propagated by some to their own ends. A lot of guys are shite on bed whatever colour/race they are and size has nothing to do with colour/race either.

It is simply a case of "8 out of 10 who expresses a preference, said they prefer it"

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up.

Not questioning peoples right to express a preference and I know it is the opinion of the writer but it is not a valid statistic and is subjective.

It is like the buttered bread test, it does not fall on the buttered side always it will land on buttered or none buttered side equally given a suitable sample number of drops.

It is simply a case of "8 out of 10 who expresses a preference, said they prefer it"

In my experience it always falls on the buttered side.

I think it's because the centre of gravity moves once butter is applied. I am sure the fab scientists will express it better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

If there are none asking for "white men only" why are their so many threads on here from people whining about that too?

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By *nicornRhinoCouple over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

The entitled daily whining is getting on my last nerve!!!"

Very good explanation!!!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m gonna write white or Asian only on my profile. See if anyone questions it.

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

I see white men only fairly often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up.

Not questioning peoples right to express a preference and I know it is the opinion of the writer but it is not a valid statistic and is subjective.

It is like the buttered bread test, it does not fall on the buttered side always it will land on buttered or none buttered side equally given a suitable sample number of drops.

It is simply a case of "8 out of 10 who expresses a preference, said they prefer it"

In my experience it always falls on the buttered side.

I think it's because the centre of gravity moves once butter is applied. I am sure the fab scientists will express it better "

That was the point that it is a miss-conception a fallacy, as per the inference in these posts, it has been scientifically proved that buttered bread will fall equally on ether sides, it only seems to fall on the buttered side more and pure subjective, so equally being better in bed or bigger is equal which ever colour/race or persuasion given a suitable sample

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

So why, if you drop a cat from height, does it always land on its feet ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

They really want silver with purple spots, but those are hard to find

I think many are happy with their lot but sometimes like to try something different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So why, if you drop a cat from height, does it always land on its feet ? "

Mine regularly falls off the back of the sofa when asleep, lands on her back or side then does the walk of shame back round to the front to jump back up and fall asleep again.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

I reckon if you put as much effort into meeting as you do questioning everyone's choices, you'd be knee deep in fanny every night.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

I reckon if you put as much effort into meeting as you do questioning everyone's choices, you'd be knee deep in fanny every night."

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

"So why, if you drop a cat from height, does it always land on its feet ?

Mine regularly falls off the back of the sofa when asleep, lands on her back or side then does the walk of shame back round to the front to jump back up and fall asleep again."

Try putting butter on your cat's feet ?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

From experience;

Black guys - average to larger, however their whole personality is based on the size of their cock

Asian guys - don't have that much experience, are absolutely petrified of catching something, so no kissing, defo no oral on me, covered bj and safe sex, and then grief afterwards even though you did everything to ease their requirements

Younger guys - robotic and the need to do sex by numbers

So the upshot is I prefer white guys, don't rule out other colours, but it's really down to their attitude and whether someone can stimulate my mind and have conversation other than sex, cause after 10 mins I'm bored to tears.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

Just a stab in the dark but robably because its their preference. The reason you don't see "White guys only" is because that person would be instantly regarded as a racist. Strange isnt it!

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

I have seen lots of white guys only and just their preference ads

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I've not read the thread but I guess many people have said it's just their personal preference. I like black guys too, but not exclusively, had two this week, in this case they were both hung but not always but I tend to find black guys have much more solid cocks, rock hard.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I've not read the thread but I guess many people have said it's just their personal preference. I like black guys too, but not exclusively, had two this week, in this case they were both hung but not always but I tend to find black guys have much more solid cocks, rock hard. "

Ooo, love a really hard cock

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Ooo, love a really hard cock

Seriously they are like rods of steel, every time, no floppy ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fantasy and find it daring so fair play, my preference would be a slim asian girl ,but hard to find on fab .But only a preference find all sizes and races sexy

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

Ye do know ginge is the new black

Just saying,,,

So does Netflix,,

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Ooo, love a really hard cock

Seriously they are like rods of steel, every time, no floppy ones

That's what we need!

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By *hezuMan over a year ago

London

Didnt know soft boners were a thing

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

"Didnt know soft boners were a thing"
that's kinda an oxymoron right,

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Didnt know soft boners were a thing"

Well, some men don't get rock solid hard, it's more of a bendy hard, not easy to explain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

They really want silver with purple spots, but those are hard to find

I think many are happy with their lot but sometimes like to try something different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And before you start saying its because they're black.. Their not. "

Say what ?!

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By *r AmbassadorMan over a year ago

Dublin

"Didnt know soft boners were a thing

Well, some men don't get rock solid hard, it's more of a bendy hard, not easy to explain."
maybe they just were not turned on, or enough ??

Or took on to much alcohol ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So why, if you drop a cat from height, does it always land on its feet ?

Mine regularly falls off the back of the sofa when asleep, lands on her back or side then does the walk of shame back round to the front to jump back up and fall asleep again."

Cats will instinctively try and land on there feet and will twist their body accordingly (doesn't always work lol). There is a small intelligence at work there.

I think if buttered bread instinctively always fell on the buttered site and then got up and did the walk of shame back to the kitchen table that would definitely be something to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same reason Some women ask for Only White Men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We state black men because it is our preference that's all and we got called racist because nicky wont entertain white men.

Give your head a wobble I'm white it's just a preference that's all x

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By *ungmagic10Man over a year ago

Northampton

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

So how you reached that conclusion I don't know. Did you draw your sample pool of Fabbers entirely from a "BBC Appreciation" thread by any chance?

My thoughts precisely

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve found 6

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By *ungmagic10Man over a year ago

Northampton

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

I reckon if you put as much effort into meeting as you do questioning everyone's choices, you'd be knee deep in fanny every night.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Apparently once you have gone black you never go back...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

Live and let live..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Attraction of opposites and the appetite to please is subconsciously greater.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We state black men because it is our preference that's all and we got called racist because nicky wont entertain white men.

Give your head a wobble I'm white it's just a preference that's all x"

Just a preference as a answer, isn’t good enough for the Op....

He needs to know why it’s a preference...

Was it preference from birth?

Was it preference because you wanted to rebel against society?

He can’t enjoy swinging unless these questions are answered...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently once you have gone black you never go back..."

Lies , lies , lies

Heidi Klume left Seal for a white guy......

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"The Attraction of opposites and the appetite to please is subconsciously greater.

'The appetite to please is subconsciously greater' You really think so

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

I think that if a whole race is written off then there maybe more going on than preference alone.

It may be subconsciously, maybe down to 'conditioning', like ideals we've picked up growing up, negative stereotypes, that kind of thing.

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

"I think that if a whole race is written off then there maybe more going on than preference alone.

It may be subconsciously, maybe down to 'conditioning', like ideals we've picked up growing up, negative stereotypes, that kind of thing.

Everything is in our subconscious possibly. I would love to be on the psychiatrist couch and reveal all..

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yet another thread where people are questioned for their preferences. Forum bingo almost complete and it's only Monday.

Can I join in on forum bingo pls?

Of course beautiful!

Is there like a sign up sheet and what are my numbers lmao

Lol I just made my own.

I will PM you the categories. "

This sounds fun x

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I want a really big black man with a huge cock to fuck me bareback really hard all night...

Any offers or suggestions"

Thought you "Don't like black cock" or "Don't like UK black guys?".

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By *awpleasureMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

There are hundreds of profiles that say white only. We all have preferences and nobody should be judged.

Plenty of profiles on here to suit everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the end of the day its their preference who they want to meet with and dont see why they should have to justify that choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From experience;

Black guys - average to larger, however their whole personality is based on the size of their cock

I don't think this has to do with them being black though, there's a reason there's a term called "Big Dick Energy" guys with large dicks are typically more cocky

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By *ssex_tomMan over a year ago

Chelmsford

Every variety of man, woman, TV, TS is here.. try your pick and preference is key.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Why do some of the ladies on here ask for "only black men"

Black women are my choice but I wouldn't rule others out because of their skin tone.

Now I come to think of it.. I've seen a white woman on here who is married to a black man.

I reckon if you put as much effort into meeting as you do questioning everyone's choices, you'd be knee deep in fanny every night."

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

I’m 10” and thick,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m 10” and thick,"

Must be hard to reach high places...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m 10” and thick,"

Holy thread revival Batman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m 10” and thick,

Must be hard to reach high places..."

And work out maths problems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find black men are better in bed. But I still meet white guys as well even though black men are my preference.

And black men on average are bigger. Not in any huge way but they are. And there is medical research that backs that up."

Nice to know taxpayers funds for medical research are being used wisely and for the benefit of the public

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m 10” and thick,

Must be hard to reach high places...

And work out maths problems "

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Another fab tape measure

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

Can’t comment for everyone but for me as a black guy it’s cos I have a big cock. For me it’s a win win situation, the amount of women wanting sex can be intense, but at the same time it’s a situation I take full advantage of, it’s generally a similar scenario/BBC I’m a horny guy who’s not gonna turn down some hot pussy, because it’s not politically correct. If a woman is horny and she’s looking for a good time, then I give them the orgasm she’s looking for .

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

Not for me I’m 6ft, no camera tricks, my pics are open noting to hide, and can’t say all, but the women I’ve met, I always make sure they enjoy it.

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not for me I’m 6ft, no camera tricks, my pics are open noting to hide, and can’t say all, but the women I’ve met, I always make sure they enjoy it. "

That’s a really blurry photo!

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

"Not for me I’m 6ft, no camera tricks, my pics are open noting to hide, and can’t say all, but the women I’ve met, I always make sure they enjoy it.

That’s a really blurry photo! "
not being funny it doesn’t look 10 inches either even without my glasses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not for me I’m 6ft, no camera tricks, my pics are open noting to hide, and can’t say all, but the women I’ve met, I always make sure they enjoy it.

That’s a really blurry photo! not being funny it doesn’t look 10 inches either even without my glasses

Exactly what I thought! My ex fwb was 9 and much bigger than that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Called preference. Get over it. Would you be posting this if it said No Black men ever..nahh doubt it!

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

Had to go back to see who necroposted, seeing as the OP of the thread posted over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Called preference. Get over it. Would you be posting this if it said No Black men ever..nahh doubt it!"

But you do see threads with that topic started though...

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By *abasaurus RexMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Because that’s what they want. Really don’t need a textbook for this one …

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By *hy4BBCWoman over a year ago

near

It's a preference like some people prefer blondes

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

I don’t need to, I’ve sucked a lot of cock over the years so I have a lot of reference material

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

It’s not just the ladies, I only date black guys. Not just because they’re bigger, but they have more stamina, not riddled with insecurities and don’t act like overgrown children

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not just the ladies, I only date black guys. Not just because they’re bigger, but they have more stamina, not riddled with insecurities and don’t act like overgrown children "

It's interesting you mention overgrown children

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

"It’s not just the ladies, I only date black guys. Not just because they’re bigger, but they have more stamina, not riddled with insecurities and don’t act like overgrown children "
insecurity’s ?

says the bloke who’s adding inches to his cock size

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not just the ladies, I only date black guys. Not just because they’re bigger, but they have more stamina, not riddled with insecurities and don’t act like overgrown children

It's interesting you mention overgrown children "

Savage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not just the ladies, I only date black guys. Not just because they’re bigger, but they have more stamina, not riddled with insecurities and don’t act like overgrown children

It's interesting you mention overgrown children

Savage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not just the ladies, I only date black guys. Not just because they’re bigger, but they have more stamina, not riddled with insecurities and don’t act like overgrown children

It's interesting you mention overgrown children

Savage

And true!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m 10” and thick,

Must be hard to reach high places...

And work out maths problems "

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By *adistic_visionMan over a year ago

bolsover

I tied a brick to it to stretch it an inch to ten inches to be like a man of colour a lady once knew I got half way there it went black

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"I’m 10” and thick,

Must be hard to reach high places...

And work out maths problems

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

Sorry to burst your bubble but if I want to see a bbc, I can drop by boxers or look at my profile. Problem with these studies is you can’t find them to validate any theory Sounds like a big of green eye

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

I’m not white, so prefer my own kind. That’s not a diss or anything, but I’ve only had relationships with black/mixed guys. I don’t say “black guys only “ but to understand it helps to be black/mixed. It’s not just about skin colour. Often (some) white ppl treat us like a fashion accessory, or an unpaid hooker service.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"I’m 10” and thick,

Must be hard to reach high places...

And work out maths problems

Gold

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

So it’s a whites only forum where we get spoken about like cattle. Could be worse, never been called mutton dressed as lamb before

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

White ppl have been exploiting us for centuries, used to be picking cotton, cleaning houses, etc. now I guess people just see us as a little more than a walking vibrator.

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

“A man if colour” black is the colour of our skin. It’s not dirty and it isn’t something to be ashamed of.

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

What the hell is going on in here

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"What the hell is going on in here

Trouble. Personally. I find stating a racial preference creepy. But I'm a weirdo. Looks like the OP isn't on here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What the hell is going on in here

Someone seems to be having a word with himself

Shhhh.... best leave him in peace

*slips away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"What the hell is going on in here

Someone seems to be having a word with himself

Shhhh.... best leave him in peace

*slips away"

lol! Nowt wrong with talking to yourself...I do it all the time....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What the hell is going on in here

Someone seems to be having a word with himself

Shhhh.... best leave him in peace

*slips away

lol! Nowt wrong with talking to yourself...I do it all the time....

The only person I trust not to tell fibs

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By *esthetic21Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Closet racists

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By *imGimMan over a year ago

london

Are you comparing being black to hair colour?

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