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over a year ago
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"Intrigue to know if couples look for friendship or just sex with potential meets ??
Personally I want more of a mental connection and a greater understanding of each other ( all 3 ) "
Just sex if we're playing as a couple. We're friendly and welcoming but we don't want a connection. |
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We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship. |
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"We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship."
Do you mind my asking what problems you've had? It's totally cool if you'd rather not say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Intrigue to know if couples look for friendship or just sex with potential meets ??
Personally I want more of a mental connection and a greater understanding of each other ( all 3 ) "
To be honest as a couple it's just sex but if we were single then probably more of a mental connection
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Do you mind my asking what problems you've had? It's totally cool if you'd rather not say. "
We've met some couples that weren't singing from the same hymn sheet and a few guys that could talk the talk when messaging but when it came to play showed a different side to their nature. Nowhere to hide when you're naked I guess. |
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Do you mind my asking what problems you've had? It's totally cool if you'd rather not say.
We've met some couples that weren't singing from the same hymn sheet and a few guys that could talk the talk when messaging but when it came to play showed a different side to their nature. Nowhere to hide when you're naked I guess."
We've found meeting couples problematic. Other than a few where nerves got the better of them we've mostly been fine with single guys, certainly never had one play up. But he's 6ft 2 and pretty big and scary looking. |
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"We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship."
Yeh I know what you mean....shame really.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was on here as a couple we became good friends with a couple we met originally just for sex. Wasn’t planned that way, was just supposed to be a couple we had fun with. We see them socially now, it’s just sort of evolved into a platonic friendship.  |
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"We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship."
How does swinging really work? |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Just sex..dont want or need any more friends, keep vanilla life and Swinging separate "
I've many friends from the swinging life we do lots together normal stuff I wdnt keep them separate  |
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I always need a mental connection just as much as being psychically attracted to my potential meet. I
Understand not everyone is the same but I’d not change my mindset on this under any circumstances. In reference to chatting and meeting a couple having a good rapport with mr is a must. I understand that I’d be the extra in the fun if things progressed  |
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