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Umm... Straight? ...but curious?!!! Or not?!
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious 
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot  |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot "
Your sexual orientation on fab is not a sworn contract that confines your behaviour to defined limits. It just a checkbox that defines you best most of the time. |
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"They don't know you're bi until they view your profile"
I guess that's an point I overlooked... but why would a straight guy look at another guy's profile if his profile categorically said he is straight
Especially if I try message, and I get the warning message saying that I'm not what they're looking for  |
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it."
Fair comment thank you x |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it.
Fair comment thank you x"
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"We have naughty bi couple on our opening line and still get lots of straight profile visitors and fabbing our bi pics! Not that we mind hehe!"
Likewise, I don't mind either
Just curious about their curiosity I guess lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it."
Surely on a scale one end is completely straight. Some must be at that end. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Think of your profile as a shop window and Fab as a high street. You might stop and admire (or grimace) at a window display in a shop you have no intention of entering. Something might catch your eye and you might go in, browse the merchandise and maybe even have a chat with the proprietor.
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot
Your sexual orientation on fab is not a sworn contract that confines your behaviour to defined limits. It just a checkbox that defines you best most of the time."
Also fair comment, thanks for your insight
Again, I'm kinda curious about their curiosity lol
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it.
Surely on a scale one end is completely straight. Some must be at that end."
In the scale in my head exclusively liking men is at one end and women at the other. I don't think very many people are at either end. I think most people fall between....they might not admit it but I think they do. |
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Think of your profile as a shop window and Fab as a high street. You might stop and admire (or grimace) at a window display in a shop you have no intention of entering. Something might catch your eye and you might go in, browse the merchandise and maybe even have a chat with the proprietor.
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Hahaha I like your analogy or grimace  lol
Totally hear what you're saying
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By *AABMan
over a year ago
Not far |
I’m straight but will look at a man’s profile if it has been the topic of conversation in the forums. So a man bragging about his pictures or seeking profile advice, I’ll have a nosy. I couldn’t care less if he was straight bi or gay and I wouldn’t know until I read his profile anyway. |
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it.
Surely on a scale one end is completely straight. Some must be at that end.
In the scale in my head exclusively liking men is at one end and women at the other. I don't think very many people are at either end. I think most people fall between....they might not admit it but I think they do."
I tend to agree with you
Unfortunately, I've had some really negative responses from some users if I drop a message and say hi, so I'm very careful not to overstep someone's boundaries or preferences...
Each to their own, and everyone's entitled to browse... sometimes I feel as though I've caught them out when I say hi, and that's totally not my intention x |
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"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot "
How will they know you are bi until they look at your profile? |
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I’m straight but will look at a man’s profile if it has been the topic of conversation in the forums. So a man bragging about his pictures or seeking profile advice, I’ll have a nosy. I couldn’t care less if he was straight bi or gay and I wouldn’t know until I read his profile anyway."
Ah! Good point! I see what you mean
I must admit, some users that view are from forums.. but their are others who view, and I have no idea where they may have come across my profile  |
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"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot
How will they know you are bi until they look at your profile? "
Sorry ignore me, just seen that this question has already been answered! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot "
I am straight, I am also a nosey bitch.
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot
I am straight, I am also a nosey bitch.
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot
How will they know you are bi until they look at your profile?
Sorry ignore me, just seen that this question has already been answered! "
That's ok, your input is still noted thank you x |
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"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
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Absolutely this, particularly if they aren't getting from the site what they had hoped.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to present yourselves better, successful or not and hopefully they can make it work.
We will be having a bit of a revamp ourselves having gotten through a bit of a shocking 2019 and no doubt we will be looking for some inspiration from others profiles and pictures but adding a little more of us into them.
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"News flash;
Not everyone who views your profile is wanting to fuck you. "
Wow... Guess there's always that one person...
Thought this was a general conversation, I didn't intend for it to be so outrageously ambiguous...
But please tell me, where exactly did I say that I was expecting everyone to fuck me?
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By *am069 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
Absolutely this, particularly if they aren't getting from the site what they had hoped.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to present yourselves better, successful or not and hopefully they can make it work.
We will be having a bit of a revamp ourselves having gotten through a bit of a shocking 2019 and no doubt we will be looking for some inspiration from others profiles and pictures but adding a little more of us into them.
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That's awesome, very positive outlook thank you x |
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"I look at all sorts of profiles. See what people have written. Look at their photos. Get inspiration. Just be nosey.
I don't think anyone is totally straight. I think it's a scale of straightness we're all somewhere on it.
Surely on a scale one end is completely straight. Some must be at that end."
well I'm definitely at the opposite end of straight cos I'm very definitely gay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get many, many straight couples viewing our profile which clearly states we are a TV/Bi fem couple. I guess we’re a bit of an oddity and people are curious. We don’t mind at all. It’s only if they wink that we find it a bit strange!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get many, many straight couples viewing our profile which clearly states we are a TV/Bi fem couple. I guess we’re a bit of an oddity and people are curious. We don’t mind at all. It’s only if they wink that we find it a bit strange!
Miss V"
Just so I understand this. Straight couples view your profile but it isn't until they read it that they discover you're TV/bi? |
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There are thousands of people here, including thousands of bi people and likely thousands of people who potentially have a curiosity. That's a lot of people who may look at you.
Many of the rest of us look at others as we've no clue about them until we do. Its perhaps surprising that we're not getting more views
If something causes no issue, it's better to keep your focus on your objectives for using fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people don't know your TV/bi until they've viewed your profile then TV/bi can't have been their motivation for reading you profile because the didn't know what they were going to read.
Am I missing something here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people don't know your TV/bi until they've viewed your profile then TV/bi can't have been their motivation for reading you profile because the didn't know what they were going to read.
Am I missing something here?"
It will say ‘tv/TS, next to their name before you look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We get many, many straight couples viewing our profile which clearly states we are a TV/Bi fem couple. I guess we’re a bit of an oddity and people are curious. We don’t mind at all. It’s only if they wink that we find it a bit strange!
Miss V
Just so I understand this. Straight couples view your profile but it isn't until they read it that they discover you're TV/bi? "
Not at all. Before they click on our profile the header states we are a TV/Bi fem couple. So we make it quite clear who and what we are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people don't know your TV/bi until they've viewed your profile then TV/bi can't have been their motivation for reading you profile because the didn't know what they were going to read.
Am I missing something here?
It will say ‘tv/TS, next to their name before you look. "
This ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people don't know your TV/bi until they've viewed your profile then TV/bi can't have been their motivation for reading you profile because the didn't know what they were going to read.
Am I missing something here?
It will say ‘tv/TS, next to their name before you look.
This ^ "
Um no. I can see a pic which a bit far off. By VivAbs Couple 5 minutes ago. Bedford. I clicked on your profile before I read your posting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people don't know your TV/bi until they've viewed your profile then TV/bi can't have been their motivation for reading you profile because the didn't know what they were going to read.
Am I missing something here?
It will say ‘tv/TS, next to their name before you look.
This ^
Um no. I can see a pic which a bit far off. By VivAbs Couple 5 minutes ago. Bedford. I clicked on your profile before I read your posting. "
Ok, I just went into the browse section which we do if we want to look at profiles. I put your username in and it comes up with your profile header (Sometimes naughty...etc, etc) If you put our username in our header shows TV/Bi fem couple. This is what people will read when they are browsing profiles before they click on them.
V |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just cause someone viewed you don't mean they wanna shag you mate
Lots of straight men looked at my profile, after I verified a lady at the weekend. "
That’s to see who she was. She’s clearly up for it |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
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"Hey all!
Guess this is for both bi couples and bi singles
Does anyone else find it strange that "straight" users casually browse your profile, without saying a word, and when you view their profile it clearly says that they're straight... quite often it may something alone the lines of "absolutely no - insert gender here" or "insert gender here - need not message!"
Lol why look at a bi profile, when yours clearly states: straight
Now I'm curious
I mean, I don't mind... just seems to happen a lot "
So does it matter ? Doesn’t bother me non tbh justsaying |
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