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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
Men generally seem to hope for spontaneous meets more. Couples and single women generally seek dialogue for some time before meeting. I think hook up sites are probably better for spontaneous. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Taking my time getting to know people and building a connection and chemistry is always my preference - spontaneity only comes into it once we have agreed to meet and is about going with the flow once we get there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Planning the vague location and hair removal and then just going with the flow and excitedly anxiously waiting to see what unfolds."
Love that!!! Winter growth is a bitch  |
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"Planning the vague location and hair removal and then just going with the flow and excitedly anxiously waiting to see what unfolds."
I'm glad I'm not the only one who likes to time meets around hair removal. Also hair dying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Planning the vague location and hair removal and then just going with the flow and excitedly anxiously waiting to see what unfolds.
Love that!!! Winter growth is a bitch "
I thought the exact same  |
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Well overwhelming support for planned...
However as life all to frequently has a way of putting a spanner in the works.
Surely is,nt it setting one party up for disappointment and frustration if other has to bail ? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Sex meets i like spontaneity. If a fella starts telling me what he’s going to do to me I lose interest.
Social meets i like some planning. I like to know where i’m going, plan my clothes accordingly and what the parking situation is like and plan accordingly.
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"Is there a preference to planned meets or is spontaneous better?"
Everyone does some planing its a fallacy they don't. It might be a bit of shaving down below clean sheets if you are accommodating or filling the car with fuel to travel we all do some planing and preparation. |
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"Men generally seem to hope for spontaneous meets more. Couples and single women generally seek dialogue for some time before meeting. I think hook up sites are probably better for spontaneous. "
Which sites are good for spontaneous hook ups?
Asking for a friend....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I realised something yesterday... The best meets I've had and the ones that gave turned into long term, lovely fwb situations have all followed a similar pattern. We've connected, spoken, sometimes at length, sometimes not but never about sex. We've met, kissed and taken it from there.
I've become wary of men who are simply here to talk dirty and jerk off, that's fine in itself but I don't want that or to be involved. But aside from that I've realised talking it out beforehand doesn't seem to get good results. |
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Ive had one out of the blue meet with a girl on a different site/app (not dating funnily enough). It was very fun but lacked the build up, fanny flutters, nervousness and general excitement of a planned meet.
So I'd say planned meets are more fun overall |
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"I like to plan the time and place, and then see what happens...it would turn me right off if someone had a tick list of sexual acts that they wanted to work through  "
I'll put the checklist up on the wall with a box for rating too  |
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