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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes! Well it felt like love. Although it was probably just infatuation. "
Could you please elaborate? When did you know it was infatuation? Why did you confuse that with love? |
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love?  "
Nope absolutely not!
Is it something you have or are doing OP? Probably infatuation! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love?
Nope absolutely not!
Is it something you have or are doing OP? Probably infatuation! "
Define infatuation please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love? "
No. I dont even confuse my feelings towards someone with love when I've met them. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"Yes! Well it felt like love. Although it was probably just infatuation.
Could you please elaborate? When did you know it was infatuation? Why did you confuse that with love?"
It’s really difficult to pin it down. But I suppose when you can’t stop thinking about someone. And in each situation you would like to be able to share with them. You crave interaction with them. I think it’s not really love because you don’t really know someone you haven’t met. You love the projection of the person not the real person. |
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love?
Nope absolutely not!
Is it something you have or are doing OP? Probably infatuation!
Define infatuation please "
Dictionary is your friend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It wasn’t love I was infatuated with the idea of the person"
Oh I did meet them and that fuelled the infatuation, but it was still an infatuation with the idea rather than really being the person. If it had been love It would have been the person not the idea and I would have been willing to do anything within reason to be with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. Only ever fallen in love with my husband when we met.
I can't comprehend how you can fall in love if you haven't met. It will be lust and infatuatiom
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It is definitely not lust. Wish it was though. It would have been easier  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes! Well it felt like love. Although it was probably just infatuation.
Could you please elaborate? When did you know it was infatuation? Why did you confuse that with love?
It’s really difficult to pin it down. But I suppose when you can’t stop thinking about someone. And in each situation you would like to be able to share with them. You crave interaction with them. I think it’s not really love because you don’t really know someone you haven’t met. You love the projection of the person not the real person. "
That makes sense. I told you, you are truly a gentleman and a scholar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. Only ever fallen in love with my husband when we met.
I can't comprehend how you can fall in love if you haven't met. It will be lust and infatuatiom
It is definitely not lust. Wish it was though. It would have been easier "
What’s going on OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love?
Nope absolutely not!
Is it something you have or are doing OP? Probably infatuation!
Define infatuation please
Dictionary is your friend lol "
cmon your definition    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It wasn’t love I was infatuated with the idea of the person
Oh I did meet them and that fuelled the infatuation, but it was still an infatuation with the idea rather than really being the person. If it had been love It would have been the person not the idea and I would have been willing to do anything within reason to be with them."
What if you met and the connection was deeper? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it is possible to be in love with someone you have never met.you love god or many do or Allah
Nope. Atheist."
just quantifying your thought I'm a non believer to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. Only ever fallen in love with my husband when we met.
I can't comprehend how you can fall in love if you haven't met. It will be lust and infatuatiom
It is definitely not lust. Wish it was though. It would have been easier
What’s going on OP? "
Just asking.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I virtually 'met' someone online a few years back and we used to talk on the phone every day, text, Skype etc ..
I went through a phase of thinking I had feelings for this man - I'm not sure it was love though.
He's completely unavailable and dishonest- married.
I have never met him.
I think he came along when I was at my most vulnerable- someone to talk to.
I still speak to him via text occasionally but it's nothing like it was.
I 'played the tape forward' in my mind and met my fantasy man ( in my mind only ) and I was let down.
I have a little more respect for myself now and only want to meet available people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you discussed these feelings with the woman in question? What's her take on it? "
I did..Same time I started this thread. I thought I could use some real fab experiences as a reference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, and I met her, the love of my life.... 
Really. Tell me more "
It's a two year long sad story and I only just read the last page a few weeks ago.... ...better than any book ever written, with a million pages....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I virtually 'met' someone online a few years back and we used to talk on the phone every day, text, Skype etc ..
I went through a phase of thinking I had feelings for this man - I'm not sure it was love though.
He's completely unavailable and dishonest- married.
I have never met him.
I think he came along when I was at my most vulnerable- someone to talk to.
I still speak to him via text occasionally but it's nothing like it was.
I 'played the tape forward' in my mind and met my fantasy man ( in my mind only ) and I was let down.
I have a little more respect for myself now and only want to meet available people."
I am sorry to hear that. Hope that experience has made you more stronger.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does worry me, how nowadays this seems to be the norm. Infatuation or love/lust, over the internet..
Why does it worry you?"
Because I do not believe it is healthy.
I’m really going on about people who do this a lot though...
Anyway! I thought you were having a hard time of it...but you seem ok
Good luck with ( whatever it is) and take care |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does worry me, how nowadays this seems to be the norm. Infatuation or love/lust, over the internet..
Why does it worry you?
Because I do not believe it is healthy.
I’m really going on about people who do this a lot though...
Anyway! I thought you were having a hard time of it...but you seem ok
Good luck with ( whatever it is) and take care "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It build an expectation. And that's a risk. But it's your risk to take. "
I love taking risks. I do that a lot for living. Love the buzz I get out of it to be honest
It is like a drug I cannot resist |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Have you discussed these feelings with the woman in question? What's her take on it?
I did..Same time I started this thread. I thought I could use some real fab experiences as a reference "
So what's her take on it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a difficult one. Before I started speaking to people online and I’d seen that catfish a few times and a few other things I just used to think bloody nutjobs, what’s the matter with them. I can see how this can happen now. I don’t think I could fall in love with someone without meeting them but I have had really strong connections and one time I knew that it would be more than just a friendship/sex once we’d met. I do still struggle with the falling in love without meeting someone and even getting engaged etc! I personally don’t think it’s possible for me. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Ah is this about the woman in your previous thread OP?
Could be I am not sure which woman are you talking about? "
I can't rem_mber her name! Apologies when you read this.
I can't say I have fallen in love with someone before meeting them but I have liked them quite a bit.
I'd always be a bit cautious until we have met. Yes, there have been wonderful stories of people meeting after falling in love and it just working. Everything clicks. I've also seen it play out and end poorly many times on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you discussed these feelings with the woman in question? What's her take on it?
I did..Same time I started this thread. I thought I could use some real fab experiences as a reference
So what's her take on it? "
She thinks I may be overthinking it. And I think I am. She is right. My brain works at 100 miles per hour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When we met Hannah lived in New York and I (Luke) lived in the UK. We spent months jabbering away to each other without meeting for about seven months. We were very much in love before we met. "
Love to hear your story one day! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on your definition of the word... What’s the rush to use the word love OP?
Is like, respect, fancy not enough for now? "
I do feel all that. But its more than that. Hard to explain. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah is this about the woman in your previous thread OP?
Could be I am not sure which woman are you talking about?
I can't rem_mber her name! Apologies when you read this.
I can't say I have fallen in love with someone before meeting them but I have liked them quite a bit.
I'd always be a bit cautious until we have met. Yes, there have been wonderful stories of people meeting after falling in love and it just working. Everything clicks. I've also seen it play out and end poorly many times on here."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a difficult one. Before I started speaking to people online and I’d seen that catfish a few times and a few other things I just used to think bloody nutjobs, what’s the matter with them. I can see how this can happen now. I don’t think I could fall in love with someone without meeting them but I have had really strong connections and one time I knew that it would be more than just a friendship/sex once we’d met. I do still struggle with the falling in love without meeting someone and even getting engaged etc! I personally don’t think it’s possible for me. "
Fair enough |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Ah is this about the woman in your previous thread OP?
Could be I am not sure which woman are you talking about?
I can't rem_mber her name! Apologies when you read this.
I can't say I have fallen in love with someone before meeting them but I have liked them quite a bit.
I'd always be a bit cautious until we have met. Yes, there have been wonderful stories of people meeting after falling in love and it just working. Everything clicks. I've also seen it play out and end poorly many times on here."
This is kind of it. It is entirely possible, it happened to me. Upon meeting my feelings did not change (stronger or weaker) and were definitely confirmed to be true. As you say it does not always turn out that way.
However it is a rare thing to happen, it is not something that somebody just allows themselves to do.
Until it happens, it is not something easily understood. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Met my husband on a chat room at 15 was 100% in love and knew he was the one married 5 years together 14 and 3 kids and love him more each day! "
Good on ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you discussed these feelings with the woman in question? What's her take on it?
I did..Same time I started this thread. I thought I could use some real fab experiences as a reference
So what's her take on it?
She thinks I may be overthinking it. And I think I am. She is right. My brain works at 100 miles per hour "
You are overthinking it. One thing I will do is you keep you grounded, you know that. Regardless of what happens.
I have told him my feelings, and my take on it. One step at a time
If there is a wedding we will let you know so you can buy a hat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ah is this about the woman in your previous thread OP?
Could be I am not sure which woman are you talking about?
I can't rem_mber her name! Apologies when you read this.
I can't say I have fallen in love with someone before meeting them but I have liked them quite a bit.
I'd always be a bit cautious until we have met. Yes, there have been wonderful stories of people meeting after falling in love and it just working. Everything clicks. I've also seen it play out and end poorly many times on here.
This is kind of it. It is entirely possible, it happened to me. Upon meeting my feelings did not change (stronger or weaker) and were definitely confirmed to be true. As you say it does not always turn out that way.
However it is a rare thing to happen, it is not something that somebody just allows themselves to do.
Until it happens, it is not something easily understood."
This
Mate, you just explained how I feel. You are a legend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met my husband on a chat room at 15 was 100% in love and knew he was the one married 5 years together 14 and 3 kids and love him more each day!
Good on ya "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you discussed these feelings with the woman in question? What's her take on it?
I did..Same time I started this thread. I thought I could use some real fab experiences as a reference
So what's her take on it?
She thinks I may be overthinking it. And I think I am. She is right. My brain works at 100 miles per hour
You are overthinking it. One thing I will do is you keep you grounded, you know that. Regardless of what happens.
I have told him my feelings, and my take on it. One step at a time
If there is a wedding we will let you know so you can buy a hat "
What do they say? There is a smart woman behind every successful man |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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"Do guns count?
Spotted it on a website, loved the looks, imported it, love using it
Can I clarify before he gets banned. He is talking about paintballing guns  "
Did see a pic of my dog, loved him before met him.
Does that count?
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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"Do guns count?
Spotted it on a website, loved the looks, imported it, love using it
Can I clarify before he gets banned. He is talking about paintballing guns
Did see a pic of my dog, loved him before met him.
Does that count?
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Nope. Love is a connection. Until you have connected in the real world, it is hope, not love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you discussed these feelings with the woman in question? What's her take on it?
I did..Same time I started this thread. I thought I could use some real fab experiences as a reference
So what's her take on it?
She thinks I may be overthinking it. And I think I am. She is right. My brain works at 100 miles per hour
You are overthinking it. One thing I will do is you keep you grounded, you know that. Regardless of what happens.
I have told him my feelings, and my take on it. One step at a time
If there is a wedding we will let you know so you can buy a hat
What do they say? There is a smart woman behind every successful man "
Smart or wise? (No lets not go there again!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes. I met my partner online and fell in love before we met. I spoke to him online every day for a year and we video chatted daily and spoke on the phone and we really got to know each other. It was all confirmed when I met him for the first time that I really was crazy in love and he was too.
It's 11 years later now and we have a child and we still love each other like crazy. My love for that man grows every single day. I'd say the love I have now is so much stronger than it was when we first met, but that doesn't mean I wasn't in love back then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I met my partner online and fell in love before we met. I spoke to him online every day for a year and we video chatted daily and spoke on the phone and we really got to know each other. It was all confirmed when I met him for the first time that I really was crazy in love and he was too.
It's 11 years later now and we have a child and we still love each other like crazy. My love for that man grows every single day. I'd say the love I have now is so much stronger than it was when we first met, but that doesn't mean I wasn't in love back then. "
That's really beautiful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure you can love someone you have never met personally you can be in lust but love?"
Define love, and unless your definition involves actually touching a person, then.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fell in Love online once with a stunning 20 year old from Norwich and when we finally met up it was a 50 year old man in make up "
was he good in the sack? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fell in Love online once with a stunning 20 year old from Norwich and when we finally met up it was a 50 year old man in make up was he good in the sack? "
Not bad at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I met my partner online and fell in love before we met. I spoke to him online every day for a year and we video chatted daily and spoke on the phone and we really got to know each other. It was all confirmed when I met him for the first time that I really was crazy in love and he was too.
It's 11 years later now and we have a child and we still love each other like crazy. My love for that man grows every single day. I'd say the love I have now is so much stronger than it was when we first met, but that doesn't mean I wasn't in love back then. "
That is lovely to hear. Ray will love to read that I am sure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes. I met my partner online and fell in love before we met. I spoke to him online every day for a year and we video chatted daily and spoke on the phone and we really got to know each other. It was all confirmed when I met him for the first time that I really was crazy in love and he was too.
It's 11 years later now and we have a child and we still love each other like crazy. My love for that man grows every single day. I'd say the love I have now is so much stronger than it was when we first met, but that doesn't mean I wasn't in love back then. "
That is a beautiful story..Thanks for giving me the hope! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure you can love someone you have never met personally you can be in lust but love?"
It is not lust. Trust me. I am not looking at her nudes every day or the second day and thinking how am I going to bang her. The thoughts are beautiful. Holding her hands, kissing her, running my fingers through her hair..Lot of conversations..The list goes on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fell in Love at frist sight with my wife was like a hartatack..
But some you never met is a stretch by suppose it may happen.
This the ladie your meeting for coffee when you get to the UK.."
Yup. That is corect |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I think you can be in a sort of state of love with someone before you meet them. But I think you need to meet to get clarity on it. That said, if you connect and feel strongly about each other from a distance then I think you're more likely to spark when you do meet.
I fell in love with someone within 5 seconds of meeting him for the first time. I have no idea why, it took my breath away. In some ways it was beautiful, in some ways it would have been better if it hadn't happened. But it changed the course of my life hugely. |
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"Fell in Love at frist sight with my wife was like a hartatack..
But some you never met is a stretch by suppose it may happen.
This the ladie your meeting for coffee when you get to the UK..
Yup. That is corect "
Wow she is lucky hope it goes well we may have a fab marriage I really Want to come to the after party....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you can be in a sort of state of love with someone before you meet them. But I think you need to meet to get clarity on it. That said, if you connect and feel strongly about each other from a distance then I think you're more likely to spark when you do meet.
I fell in love with someone within 5 seconds of meeting him for the first time. I have no idea why, it took my breath away. In some ways it was beautiful, in some ways it would have been better if it hadn't happened. But it changed the course of my life hugely."
Wow..That is powerful. And what happened after that? How did it end? Or is it going on? |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love? "
Now. Grown attracted to but the rest followed after meeting. Sometimes people aren't all they appear to be. Others are a real treat and blossom from there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fell in Love at frist sight with my wife was like a hartatack..
But some you never met is a stretch by suppose it may happen.
This the ladie your meeting for coffee when you get to the UK..
Yup. That is corect
Wow she is lucky hope it goes well we may have a fab marriage I really Want to come to the after party....
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I don't think she is lucky. I am the one who is lucky.. She may have to settle fo less. That is life I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love?
Now. Grown attracted to but the rest followed after meeting. Sometimes people aren't all they appear to be. Others are a real treat and blossom from there"
Possibly. It is not the physical attributes that matter to me. It's the mental and spiritual attributes that mate. Trust me, I have gone out with women who are stunning physically, but very shallow and cannot hold a decent conversation. It was a torture meeting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP
I’m kind of in your position, only a little further down the line....
He is everything.
I am infatuated, but it’s more than that, it’s been four months since we first started chatting on here, about three months since we first met.
Neither of us have ever been able to control our feelings. We’re both a bit reckless, very romantic, very sexual, warm, loving people. We are like a drug to each other.
I think of him constantly. Not sex, just being next to him, his smell, the way he looks at me.... I crave him, and I know he feels it too.
It’s absolutely nuts. I feel 15 again.
I certainly feel like I’m in love.
It’s not plain sailing but I would love it if we could overcome obstacles and be together. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I’m kind of in your position, only a little further down the line....
He is everything.
I am infatuated, but it’s more than that, it’s been four months since we first started chatting on here, about three months since we first met.
Neither of us have ever been able to control our feelings. We’re both a bit reckless, very romantic, very sexual, warm, loving people. We are like a drug to each other.
I think of him constantly. Not sex, just being next to him, his smell, the way he looks at me.... I crave him, and I know he feels it too.
It’s absolutely nuts. I feel 15 again.
I certainly feel like I’m in love.
It’s not plain sailing but I would love it if we could overcome obstacles and be together. "
Wow. I can totally relate to it. It is beautiful. And thank you for taking the time to share.
It is great to hear that others understand where I am coming from! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kinda did. I wouldn't say it was love but definitely very strong feelings and somebody I could see myself in a relationship with. We have now been together nearly a year and very much in love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fell in Love at frist sight with my wife was like a hartatack..
But some you never met is a stretch by suppose it may happen.
This the ladie your meeting for coffee when you get to the UK..
Yup. That is corect
Wow she is lucky hope it goes well we may have a fab marriage I really Want to come to the after party....
I don't think she is lucky. I am the one who is lucky.. She may have to settle fo less. That is life I guess "
I concur, lucky to have found you whatever happens
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I met L online and we got very close, we lived 80 miles apart so expected nothing to come from it. We were talking daily and it was very clear we just clicked. It certainly wasn't love, until I looked into her eyes the minute I was stood in front or her. I don't believe I could of loved her if we did not meet |
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"I met L online and we got very close, we lived 80 miles apart so expected nothing to come from it. We were talking daily and it was very clear we just clicked. It certainly wasn't love, until I looked into her eyes the minute I was stood in front or her. I don't believe I could of loved her if we did not meet "
Cool story. Our problem is the distance is over 8000 miles!  |
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"OP
I’m kind of in your position, only a little further down the line....
He is everything.
I am infatuated, but it’s more than that, it’s been four months since we first started chatting on here, about three months since we first met.
Neither of us have ever been able to control our feelings. We’re both a bit reckless, very romantic, very sexual, warm, loving people. We are like a drug to each other.
I think of him constantly. Not sex, just being next to him, his smell, the way he looks at me.... I crave him, and I know he feels it too.
It’s absolutely nuts. I feel 15 again.
I certainly feel like I’m in love.
It’s not plain sailing but I would love it if we could overcome obstacles and be together. "
I can totally relate to this |
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"I fell for someone on here from messages only and it only strengthened after meeting.
Great to know "
Not really he didn't feel the same and fucked me off |
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"I fell for someone on here from messages only and it only strengthened after meeting.
Great to know
Not really he didn't feel the same and fucked me off "
Aww..Sorry to hear that |
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"OP
I’m kind of in your position, only a little further down the line....
He is everything.
I am infatuated, but it’s more than that, it’s been four months since we first started chatting on here, about three months since we first met.
Neither of us have ever been able to control our feelings. We’re both a bit reckless, very romantic, very sexual, warm, loving people. We are like a drug to each other.
I think of him constantly. Not sex, just being next to him, his smell, the way he looks at me.... I crave him, and I know he feels it too.
It’s absolutely nuts. I feel 15 again.
I certainly feel like I’m in love.
It’s not plain sailing but I would love it if we could overcome obstacles and be together. "
That made beautiful reading. Thank you for sharing openly |
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"OP
I’m kind of in your position, only a little further down the line....
He is everything.
I am infatuated, but it’s more than that, it’s been four months since we first started chatting on here, about three months since we first met.
Neither of us have ever been able to control our feelings. We’re both a bit reckless, very romantic, very sexual, warm, loving people. We are like a drug to each other.
I think of him constantly. Not sex, just being next to him, his smell, the way he looks at me.... I crave him, and I know he feels it too.
It’s absolutely nuts. I feel 15 again.
I certainly feel like I’m in love.
It’s not plain sailing but I would love it if we could overcome obstacles and be together.
That made beautiful reading. Thank you for sharing openly "
I second that |
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Yes .
Many years ago. We got chatting on line .
Then it became texts
Quickly it escalated in to phonecalls and mind-blowing phone sex.
This went on for about 2 years.
I took drastic action and got on a train to Manchester to surprise him . (Not in a creepy stalker way )
It was thrilling and terrifying. Probably the bravest thing I've ever done.
Our relationship continued for many years at a distance. Seeing each other when we could .
Despite the hurt that came and almost 16 years on, we still remain friends and love each other dearly . |
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"Yes .
Many years ago. We got chatting on line .
Then it became texts
Quickly it escalated in to phonecalls and mind-blowing phone sex.
This went on for about 2 years.
I took drastic action and got on a train to Manchester to surprise him . (Not in a creepy stalker way )
It was thrilling and terrifying. Probably the bravest thing I've ever done.
Our relationship continued for many years at a distance. Seeing each other when we could .
Despite the hurt that came and almost 16 years on, we still remain friends and love each other dearly . "
What a great story!! Amazing what happened and how you decided to go and see him...
I’m not surprised he has kept you that long. You’re worth it |
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I was with a girl whom I met on the aretell text thing . We exchange numbers the first night we stayed up all night just texting and laughing. We made plans to meet a some stage but abut two weeks of texting her . I was at a mates for the day and one evening she text me and a few messages into it she said something and right then I was hit by what felt like am emotional train but in a good way and I panicked for a sec thinkging to myself what was that and then I knew it I'm in love with this girl... think back to it I was so smitten over her ... First true love ... |
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"Yes .
Many years ago. We got chatting on line .
Then it became texts
Quickly it escalated in to phonecalls and mind-blowing phone sex.
This went on for about 2 years.
I took drastic action and got on a train to Manchester to surprise him . (Not in a creepy stalker way )
It was thrilling and terrifying. Probably the bravest thing I've ever done.
Our relationship continued for many years at a distance. Seeing each other when we could .
Despite the hurt that came and almost 16 years on, we still remain friends and love each other dearly . "
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"Has anyone ever fallen in love with someone you have never met? If you did, how did you know you were falling in love? "
Now if the person I haven't met, is someone I shouldn't fall in love with, then I could ask have I ever fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have fallen in love with...
How would I know, maybe I'll get a buzz in my cock or buzz my cock... |
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"I need a wealthy guy with a big cock and a cracking personality to fall in love with me and sweep me off my high heels"
You are asking for much, ain't you  |
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