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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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I totally understand.
But on a scale of 1 to 10? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
I totally understand.
But on a scale of 1 to 10?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
I totally understand.
But on a scale of 1 to 10?
8 "
I think it's sad to even question a rating let alone ask.
But I'll take your solid 8.9, triple gold, platinum rating.
Can't wait to tell my gran tomorrow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do men flash at people? What my mother used to call "waving it about". I don't know if you even get real life flashers now, you can reach a much larger audience online. Some men just like to show their penises to people. We'd need to ask Frasier or Niles about why. I suspect there are some well endowed men who attempt to use it as a substitute for a personality but I wouldn't like to say for sure.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men flash at people? What my mother used to call "waving it about". I don't know if you even get real life flashers now, you can reach a much larger audience online. Some men just like to show their penises to people. We'd need to ask Frasier or Niles about why. I suspect there are some well endowed men who attempt to use it as a substitute for a personality but I wouldn't like to say for sure. "
why do women flash there tits on road trips |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men flash at people? What my mother used to call "waving it about". I don't know if you even get real life flashers now, you can reach a much larger audience online. Some men just like to show their penises to people. We'd need to ask Frasier or Niles about why. I suspect there are some well endowed men who attempt to use it as a substitute for a personality but I wouldn't like to say for sure. why do women flash there tits on road trips"
Again... You'd need to ask a shrink  I dunno but yeah it's the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't need others to tell me that I have a magnificent cock.
You've got a couple of nice guitars, is that a telecaster? "
Telecaster copy that I built myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men flash at people? What my mother used to call "waving it about". I don't know if you even get real life flashers now, you can reach a much larger audience online. Some men just like to show their penises to people. We'd need to ask Frasier or Niles about why. I suspect there are some well endowed men who attempt to use it as a substitute for a personality but I wouldn't like to say for sure. "
Frasier...now that was a good show. Whatever happened to Roz and Daphne? Niles was a hoot.
Showing our age there. This Netflux gen have no clue with their Friends longing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men flash at people? What my mother used to call "waving it about". I don't know if you even get real life flashers now, you can reach a much larger audience online. Some men just like to show their penises to people. We'd need to ask Frasier or Niles about why. I suspect there are some well endowed men who attempt to use it as a substitute for a personality but I wouldn't like to say for sure.
Frasier...now that was a good show. Whatever happened to Roz and Daphne? Niles was a hoot.
Showing our age there. This Netflux gen have no clue with their Friends longing."
My 17 year old adores Frasier and we both love Friends it's how you raise 'em |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All of the attention seeking ‘fab my pics’ demands I see are from women and couples- so I guess there’s a lot of ego and insecurity everywhere, but let’s have another pop at blokes again?  "
A valid point. Attention seeking isn't limited to men and their penises. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All of the attention seeking ‘fab my pics’ demands I see are from women and couples- so I guess there’s a lot of ego and insecurity everywhere, but let’s have another pop at blokes again? "
I'm genuinely curious and not "having a pop at blokes"
I agree there's attention seeking on both parts . I'm not meaning to man bash. I love men. I just want to understand I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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Guys have very fragile egos, the only cock I'd rate/have rated is my OH. Score off the scale so the bar is set very high lol  , so don't want crush egos by rating |
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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The guys at football are always comparing their cocks in the changing rooms, it's just the way they are, single or married it makes no difference they do it from a purely fun nosy aspect.
I suppose on here comparison is inevitable and a fragile confidence is easily shattered by a few cruel words  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
The guys at football are always comparing their cocks in the changing rooms, it's just the way they are, single or married it makes no difference they do it from a purely fun nosy aspect.
I suppose on here comparison is inevitable and a fragile confidence is easily shattered by a few cruel words "
 ..I have never compared cocks in the changing room!..and never seen anyone else doing it either!... That would be hilarious! ...
"Gary, you've got a whopper there,next time we get a corner, whip it out in front of their keeper, and see if you can make him grab the wrong ball"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
The guys at football are always comparing their cocks in the changing rooms, it's just the way they are, single or married it makes no difference they do it from a purely fun nosy aspect.
I suppose on here comparison is inevitable and a fragile confidence is easily shattered by a few cruel words
..I have never compared cocks in the changing room!..and never seen anyone else doing it either!... That would be hilarious! ...
"Gary, you've got a whopper there,next time we get a corner, whip it out in front of their keeper, and see if you can make him grab the wrong ball" "
Guys are always comparing cocks here there every where.
Reminds me of the joke. "Guys going to the gents to where the boys hang out, for a game off bragg, see who's got the joker"  |
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"All of the attention seeking ‘fab my pics’ demands I see are from women and couples- so I guess there’s a lot of ego and insecurity everywhere, but let’s have another pop at blokes again?
I'm genuinely curious and not "having a pop at blokes"
I agree there's attention seeking on both parts . I'm not meaning to man bash. I love men. I just want to understand I guess.
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But surely it’s a question of what makes people want to be scored in various ways, so no reason to direct it solely at men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same reason women want their pics fabbed probably.
Men aren’t immune from wanting to feel good about themselves or desired.
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Yeah, tell me my penis is amazing damn it |
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a ‘rate my cock’ thread.
It’s one of those things, like most, that will differ from person to person depending on who is viewing it or indeed experiencing it. Someone’s 8 could be someone else’s 2 so a bit irrelevant.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same reason women want their pics fabbed probably.
Men aren’t immune from wanting to feel good about themselves or desired.
Yeah, tell me my penis is amazing damn it "
Your penis is a amazing si the guys keep saying |
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Guys are insecure about size and performance, which is why they ask afterwards, 'how was i?'
women insecure about our general shape and looks, so false boobs, fake tans and no guy honestly cares about eyebrows! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It helps boost their confidence and feel good about themselves. Before we got into this scene and the BDSM scene I always thought I had a small cock and was overweight. Now unless everyone is lying apparently this is not the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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I've never understood it myself but surely it isnt always that they want it rated they just want everyone to see it and desire it but what bemuses me are the small wrinkly and very hairy ones what are they thinking  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Same reason women want their pics fabbed probably.
Men aren’t immune from wanting to feel good about themselves or desired.
Yeah, tell me my penis is amazing damn it "
Well to be fair all of you is amazing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think I’ve ever seen a ‘rate my cock’ thread.
It’s one of those things, like most, that will differ from person to person depending on who is viewing it or indeed experiencing it. Someone’s 8 could be someone else’s 2 so a bit irrelevant.
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https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Rate%2bmy%2bcock
There you go SC. That’s just the most recent ones that used Rate My Cock as the title of the thread.
As these usually end up with varying degrees of humiliation- perhaps that is the un conscious motive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It helps boost their confidence and feel good about themselves. Before we got into this scene and the BDSM scene I always thought I had a small cock and was overweight. Now unless everyone is lying apparently this is not the case."
Glad you feel better about yourself. |
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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago
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"Guys are insecure about size and performance, which is why they ask afterwards, 'how was i?'
women insecure about our general shape and looks, so false boobs, fake tans and no guy honestly cares about eyebrows!"
No, i am not.
It's mine, so i don't care/worry about other's thoughts on my cock.
So not insecure about it, hence never measured it, never posted pics of it etc
And i care about eyebrows
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys are insecure about size and performance, which is why they ask afterwards, 'how was i?'
women insecure about our general shape and looks, so false boobs, fake tans and no guy honestly cares about eyebrows!"
I've never once asked how was I. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys are insecure about size and performance, which is why they ask afterwards, 'how was i?'
women insecure about our general shape and looks, so false boobs, fake tans and no guy honestly cares about eyebrows!
I've never once asked how was I."
I have! Hmmm another thread idea .. |
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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I don’t like the thought of anybody eating me or rating anything of anybody else’s I’m not Simon cowell or Brad Pitt I understand I’m not the best looking Male or have the biggest most magical wand I’m here for a good time to help others enjoy themselves and enjoy myself doing so |
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"I don’t think I’ve ever seen a ‘rate my cock’ thread.
It’s one of those things, like most, that will differ from person to person depending on who is viewing it or indeed experiencing it. Someone’s 8 could be someone else’s 2 so a bit irrelevant.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Rate%2bmy%2bcock
There you go SC. That’s just the most recent ones that used Rate My Cock as the title of the thread.
As these usually end up with varying degrees of humiliation- perhaps that is the un conscious motive "
Thanks Doc... yep I have missed all these and reviewing can see why. Cock doesn’t make the man and if you have to ask, especially afterwards, was that good you haven’t read your partner’s reaction.
But hey everyone to their own and what works for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not a clue.
Personally I can't see how anyone could truly rate a cock without experiencing what it can do or at the very least seeing it in the flesh?
You don't get any car magazines writing a review on a car that goes like "The new Audi R8 seems to have a sleeker shape and power and performance might be ok if it's anything like the last one. But I looked at a picture of it and it looked the bollocks so therefore rate it 8 1/2 out of 10..."
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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maybe it was cold outside, and they feeling a little sensitive, |
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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Why not |
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"I hear this is a thing now . Why though?
I kinda get it from the younger lads who are inexperienced bit a grown man in your 30s or 40s?
Why do men like this?
Is it an exhibitionism thing?
Is it a humiliation thing?
Are you just genuinely super proud of your appendage?
And are women asking men to do rate their bits now too?
I'm actually not mocking because each to their own, I just want to understand it.
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Attention seekers!
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Possibly the same reason women like having their pics fabbed.
Except women also have boobs and a bum to show off.
Men are objectified for their penises, especially on here, as some people are only here for the extra cock in their lives, or a cock inside them.
I've looked at a lot of couples' and women's profiles over time and I'm not surprised men have reduced themselves down to just being a convenient penis. |
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Us men are very focused on our cocks. They bring us a lot of pleasure. It takes time to figure out that just because we really like ours, there is nothing that causes somebody else to have feel the same bond with it. It's a maturity thing that many never get. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Possibly the same reason women like having their pics fabbed.
Except women also have boobs and a bum to show off.
Men are objectified for their penises, especially on here, as some people are only here for the extra cock in their lives, or a cock inside them.
I've looked at a lot of couples' and women's profiles over time and I'm not surprised men have reduced themselves down to just being a convenient penis."
Good point.
Too many boob pics on here. |
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