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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very. I’d rather not end up with abuse. So I’ll block. Fuck, I love blocking people. The button is there to be used.
The sooner you accept that not everyone is going to reply, the better you’ll find your experience on fab. Same goes for people blocking you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just this minute viewed a profile an bam blocked wtf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they are not interested and when they are polite some mobs start getting abusive and they get a lot of messages so can’t reply to all so don’t take it personally and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very. I’d rather not end up with abuse. So I’ll block. Fuck, I love blocking people. The button is there to be used.
The sooner you accept that not everyone is going to reply, the better you’ll find your experience on fab. Same goes for people blocking you. "
I block people who haven’t even messaged me. I’ll block whoever I like.
Nine times out of ten I’d rather block someone I’m not interested in than reply to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They prob get 1000 messages a day. A polite reply will lead to follow up message so if they decide you are not their type its easier to just block. I wouldnt take it to heart man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We block people we're not interested in. It's a "no thanks" and the block is to stop any whining "but why???" messages or worse.
So as frustrating as it might be for you, chill out and just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They prob get 1000 messages a day. A polite reply will lead to follow up message so if they decide you are not their type its easier to just block. I wouldnt take it to heart man."
Most women don’t get 1000 messages a day. It’s a myth.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just women i blocked at least 200 people for various reasons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got my account filtered heavily so a lot of the profiles I see on my who's looked list won't be able to message me. But if that wasn't the case I'd definitely be doing pre emptive blocking. The message filters here are better than any site I've used and I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for them. The shit you'd get just wouldn't be worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They prob get 1000 messages a day. A polite reply will lead to follow up message so if they decide you are not their type its easier to just block. I wouldnt take it to heart man.
Most women don’t get 1000 messages a day. It’s a myth. "
I would think the finger would be sore from all the blocking in that case |
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"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!"
Ranty forum thread... hmmmmmm
Just look at all those exclamations.
If women took the time to 'get to know' each man that messaged they wouldn't have time to buy lipstick now would they ? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"They prob get 1000 messages a day. A polite reply will lead to follow up message so if they decide you are not their type its easier to just block. I wouldnt take it to heart man.
Most women don’t get 1000 messages a day. It’s a myth.
I would think the finger would be sore from all the blocking in that case "
Or develop a serious callous  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
Why worry about it? The "no thanks" reply won't make you feel any better about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!"
Welcome to the forum.
They don't want to get to know you. Men outnumber women.
Have a look at my profile. If I put a statis up of "I need a good fucking", I get 10 messages a minute. By the time I've replied to them all, another 12 have come in, plus 6 of the first 10 have asked why I won't meet them.
If that happens to a profile like mine, imagine how many messages the women with pics get.
They are not rude, the men are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block guys for sending me their cock pics, the ones who are clearly way above my age preference(even though I'm not looking for men anyway), the ones who are cocky and think they would be the best experience of my life, and the list goes on and on...
If I'm up early in the morning I just put a filter on because I don't want to deal with stupid messages I get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block loads, those who message and have no public pics, those who send friend invites without having messaged me, those who’s profiles say they’re looking for something not compatible to me, those who send crude messages.
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!"
They are doing you a favour in the long run as you won’t waste your time messaging them again. |
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Don't take it personally, the numbers on here are probably 500 to 1 so even a a polite no would take up time and would then open up a response and expected reply! You can't change it, don't get upset about it and fab will be a far better experience for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do dem bitches do dat, it's a joke innit mate, you tell 'em....!
....why oh why do some ppl view a profile on an hourly basis when they've got a sweaty cock or ballsack as a profile pic and said profile states they don't like cock pics....? And why oh why do ppl wanking on their wfh day view profile a repeatedly..... Check out pornhub or pick an appropriate potential wank partner maybe, idk....?
Yw  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
Welsh Lass |
It just means they don’t want to talk to you at that point in time. Don’t sweat it. It’s not personal, they don’t know you so it couldn’t be personal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do not want your penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to block all men because I found when I said no thanks, they tried to persuade me and when I finally got my message through that I had no intention of meeting them, they would resort to abuse. I imagine women block to avoid this happening and because it specifically says in the site rules that it is an acceptable way to say ‘no thanks’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...? "
That's on them I love you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...?
That's on them I love you
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Oh shush....  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...?
That's on them I love you
Oh shush.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...? "
Look. I’ll unblock you if stop sending me 17 cock pics a day. Ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!"
Ahh you'll have to add more to your profile than you have done!
So much competition on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...?
Look. I’ll unblock you if stop sending me 17 cock pics a day. Ok? "
You fucking love my cock! My pics "do things to you"! Get back on stealth! |
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My block button is my best friend |
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I block most people even if they never messaged me,
But then again I don't give a fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally, the numbers on here are probably 500 to 1 so even a a polite no would take up time and would then open up a response and expected reply! You can't change it, don't get upset about it and fab will be a far better experience for you "
This
Should of read it before I wrote! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love all the men explaining for the woman  , it's ok lads they can do it for themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...?
Look. I’ll unblock you if stop sending me 17 cock pics a day. Ok?
You fucking love my cock! My pics "do things to you"! Get back on stealth! "
Yeah I’m not gonna lie, I do love your cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...? "
9/10 profiles I look on I'm blocked and at least then I know I've made an impact in their life |
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"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!"
It's not hard, but it could be.
An example, you message me.
I'll check your profile before I even read the message.
I don't feel an attraction or something in your pics or bio puts me off.
I now have choices...
Ignore & delete - which leaves you open to message me again. Maybe immediately, maybe in a few weeks time. The result will be the same, and you've wasted both our time.
A polite "no thanks", you maybe the nicest bloke going and accept my response with dignity, or you maybe one of those blokes who can't handle rejection and get shitty.
I don't know which you'll be, so I'm leaving myself open for abuse.
Or I block. This cutting off all oppertunitues for further communication, from someone I'm not intrested in, protecting myself, saving us both future disappoint.
It's not hard to work out why the majority of women, don't reply or block is it?
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
My friends and I warn each other about men that are abusive/weird etc and do abit of preemptive blocking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It just means they don’t want to talk to you at that point in time. Don’t sweat it.
*** It’s not personal, they don’t know you so it couldn’t be personal. ***"
*** Very much this. |
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Because of the reasons mentioned above.
Fab carries different difficulties for women. We learn how to manage in our own ways. For many, blocking is a vital form of defending ourselves. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
It's strangers in a virtual environment. Why should it matter, and most importantly, why should it bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take it personal, it isn't.. In fact you are far better off moving along..
There will be others who are interested.. But as we know it's a needle in a haystack sized bunch of needles!!
Have fun looking, I do.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...?
Look. I’ll unblock you if stop sending me 17 cock pics a day. Ok?
You fucking love my cock! My pics "do things to you"! Get back on stealth!
Yeah I’m not gonna lie, I do love your cock "
I kinda have a secret crush on your vagina too.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...? "
Fine. I’ll unblock you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl on this thread have me on block when we've never spoken but that's their own choice innit. Why stress about it...?
Fine. I’ll unblock you"
I'm still not gonna send you penis!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block rather than get abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!
It's not hard, but it could be.
An example, you message me.
I'll check your profile before I even read the message.
I don't feel an attraction or something in your pics or bio puts me off.
I now have choices...
Ignore & delete - which leaves you open to message me again. Maybe immediately, maybe in a few weeks time. The result will be the same, and you've wasted both our time.
A polite "no thanks", you maybe the nicest bloke going and accept my response with dignity, or you maybe one of those blokes who can't handle rejection and get shitty.
I don't know which you'll be, so I'm leaving myself open for abuse.
Or I block. This cutting off all oppertunitues for further communication, from someone I'm not intrested in, protecting myself, saving us both future disappoint.
It's not hard to work out why the majority of women, don't reply or block is it?
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Perfectly explained |
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It's not just women that block but must admit I've never blocked anyone just for looking at my profile or even messaging me. But I do if I politely decline and still get follow up messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do women feel the need to blk ya before they even get to know you or just message back "thanks for the message but no thanks " how hard is that !!!!!"
Very hard |
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It's the standard fab way, covered in site information. Expect others to use the site as they wish to, subject to appropriate limitations. You can then do likewise, happy in the knowledge that it's great for people to be happy being themselves and living the life of their choice.
Focus on what is possible, not on what isn't for you
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