"Extremely dominant role playing, water sports, pain, hot wax and things along them lines "
Yes, yes (although when I've tried it wasn't something I found arousing, I would never say never if a partner really loved it), no, yes, need more detail. |
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I get rinsed for not having preferences, fantasies or kinks on show and that is because dynamic changes from person to person, what I enjoy with one won't work with another, it is fluid and changeable.
And for me that is part of the fun, discovering what our dynamic will be, I always have an idea of it but can never truly tell until we are in a moment
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We enjoy spanking, grabbing with hands roughly in a certain area, hair pulling, name calling.
We have done ass to mouth on a few occasions, threesomes/foursomes, really enjoy using toys and having others watch/instruct up.
One of the kinkier things we’ve done: wife squatted to pee while sucking me off outdoors one night. We haven’t pee’d on each other though. |
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"I get rinsed for not having preferences, fantasies or kinks on show and that is because dynamic changes from person to person, what I enjoy with one won't work with another, it is fluid and changeable.
And for me that is part of the fun, discovering what our dynamic will be, I always have an idea of it but can never truly tell until we are in a moment
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Very true. While I love extreme and adventurous pleasure, youd white lose the fun it your ideas tend to put undue pressure on your partner or playmate.
The chemistry differs indeed from person to person. |
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"I get rinsed for not having preferences, fantasies or kinks on show and that is because dynamic changes from person to person, what I enjoy with one won't work with another, it is fluid and changeable.
And for me that is part of the fun, discovering what our dynamic will be, I always have an idea of it but can never truly tell until we are in a moment
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Then I also guess the balance from this thread is finding or creating an environment where people of like passions can explore.
I'm not sure of that was the original intent by the curator. |
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"We enjoy spanking, grabbing with hands roughly in a certain area, hair pulling, name calling.
We have done ass to mouth on a few occasions, threesomes/foursomes, really enjoy using toys and having others watch/instruct up.
One of the kinkier things we’ve done: wife squatted to pee while sucking me off outdoors one night. We haven’t pee’d on each other though. "
Now some stimulating stuff here.  |
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"In this day and age everyone thinks there kinky but who on fab can really get down? No holding back now "
Very into panties and talking about them, roleplay and phone sex, few other limits. |
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"I get rinsed for not having preferences, fantasies or kinks on show and that is because dynamic changes from person to person, what I enjoy with one won't work with another, it is fluid and changeable.
And for me that is part of the fun, discovering what our dynamic will be, I always have an idea of it but can never truly tell until we are in a moment
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This. Perfectly put. |
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"I get rinsed for not having preferences, fantasies or kinks on show and that is because dynamic changes from person to person, what I enjoy with one won't work with another, it is fluid and changeable.
And for me that is part of the fun, discovering what our dynamic will be, I always have an idea of it but can never truly tell until we are in a moment
This. Perfectly put."
Sounds just right to me |
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"Extremely dominant role playing, water sports, pain, hot wax and things along them lines "
You call that kinky? I call it foreplay!!
My point being that what may be kinky to one person is perfectly normal to another, and way out extreme to another - and that is the joy of sex, different people have different views of what does it for them - as Swing says it's not a competition but about finding people that match you, and even then that may vary from person to person or even individual occasions |
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Everything is subjective.....kink definitely being one of them.....what is kinky to one, is vanilla to another....someone else further up the thread mentions that it is fluid and dependant of the person you are playing with...this is true
My current playmate is decidedly vanilla compared to previous, but you can see that he gets so turned on by his version of kinky that sex with him is way horny than harder stuff with previous partners
There is the added bonus, of course, is that he is an experimenter.... rather than someone kinkier who can only get off on hard core stuff....so is quite easy to please ....if that makes sense x |
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