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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Where would you be without FAB? Serious question, I’m 40 and my circle of friends are all married and I don’t socialise much. My life is is around my son and his football and work.

I love sex and I use fab to crave my need for sex, I find it very liberating and I enjoy it when I have free evenings and I’m able to have sex with like minded men. I’d like to maybe experiment with couples and other things one day , and fab helps me on my journey, maybe one day meet some likeminded and develop a relationship.

However if fab wasn’t here I don’t know where I’d be , probably be celibate.

I suppose I’m asking all you sexual deviants couples and singles if fab wasn’t here how and where would you satisfy your fab needs ? What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lonely and fat tbh

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Wank watching porn.....oh, wait.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lonely and fat tbh "

So because of fab your not fat or lonely? Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wank watching porn.....oh, wait.....

I still done that before I joined fab

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By *eilde HoarWoman over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

I'd be a swinging club platinum member

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s a mixed one as I’d b same but I did find something lost it so as they do better to have loved than not loved at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lonely and fat tbh

So because of fab your not fat or lonely? Seriously?"
yes honestly when i joined id spent 15 years dumbing myself down and ruining my body because my ex was so insecure fab opened my eyes that i wasnt as fucked up as i thought my humour along with my natural awesomeness i had forgotten about before was still there and i found out i was the greatest fuck in the universe not long after and iv grown from there with the help of some beautiful women until i found the one woman that made me complete

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd be a swinging club platinum member

But some people won’t or don’t want to go to clubs. I’m just pondering how they’d go about their sexual needs

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Wank watching porn.....oh, wait.....

I still done that before I joined fab "
it's encouraged me?- too many sexy women saying 'fuck me, steve'

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lonely and fat tbh

So because of fab your not fat or lonely? Seriously?yes honestly when i joined id spent 15 years dumbing myself down and ruining my body because my ex was so insecure fab opened my eyes that i wasnt as fucked up as i thought my humour along with my natural awesomeness i had forgotten about before was still there and i found out i was the greatest fuck in the universe not long after and iv grown from there with the help of some beautiful women until i found the one woman that made me complete

Well all I can say is Fooking brilliant

. Fab can be a big open door for some as it was you, and me kind of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Life would be pretty much the same I think. I use it like I use Facebook mostly. Although I have made some wonderful friends which I didn’t expect and I wouldn’t have met my gorgeous FWB x

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Exactly same place I am now, just without fab. Though the forums are (most of the time) a nice useful distraction from the shit that is life.

Connected with some amazing people though, and some less so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Life would be pretty much the same I think. I use it like I use Facebook mostly. Although I have made some wonderful friends which I didn’t expect and I wouldn’t have met my gorgeous FWB x"

So do you not meet at all for sex? Just communicating? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Exactly same place I am now, just without fab. Though the forums are (most of the time) a nice useful distraction from the shit that is life.

Connected with some amazing people though, and some less so. "

Do you not use fab for a way of sex? At all? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lonely and fat tbh

Well all I can say is Fooking brilliant

. Fab can be a big open door for some as it was you, and me kind of. "

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I'd have missed out on some of the best friends a lady could ever wish for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd have missed out on some of the best friends a lady could ever wish for."

I have met some wonderful people on here. I’ll agree.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

I wouldn't have met my absolute soul mate. I would probably still be single and cynical about love (I had my heart shattered in my life before fab).

I wouldn't have met so many awesome people who I have shared an explored with.

I wouldn't have had the support, freedom and opportunity to be the freak I am.

I probably wouldn't have ever had an orgy or group sex (I f'ing love an orgy).

I wouldn't have discovered clubs.

I wouldn't have dared to believe you could have more and experience more. Maybe would have probably just settled down into a successful vanilla relationship one day (once my wounds were licked) but always remain wondering is there more.

I think its completely fair to say FAB opened up doors for me, let my freak out of the box and introduced me to the wonderful sexy woman who I can completely be my self with and loves me for the weirdo I am.

I'd say fab is well worth the occasional £5.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wouldn't have met my absolute soul mate. I would probably still be single and cynical about love (I had my heart shattered in my life before fab).

I wouldn't have met so many awesome people who I have shared an explored with.

I wouldn't have had the support, freedom and opportunity to be the freak I am.

I probably wouldn't have ever had an orgy or group sex (I f'ing love an orgy).

I wouldn't have discovered clubs.

I'd say fab is well worth the occasional £5."

I find it fascinating that fab can be so much to some people, me being one of them ! Brilliant how you have overcome issues, I find fab and forums brilliant for support and networking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I'm still fairly fab fresh but don't think I'll be looking back

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well I'm still fairly fab fresh but don't think I'll be looking back

Well welcome to fab,

never look back hey

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Exactly same place I am now, just without fab. Though the forums are (most of the time) a nice useful distraction from the shit that is life.

Connected with some amazing people though, and some less so.

Do you not use fab for a way of sex? At all? X"

Not actively, or persistently at least, not anymore. For my own different reasons. If it comes from interactions then great.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be rich

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Exactly same place I am now, just without fab. Though the forums are (most of the time) a nice useful distraction from the shit that is life.

Connected with some amazing people though, and some less so.

Do you not use fab for a way of sex? At all? X

Not actively, or persistently at least, not anymore. For my own different reasons. If it comes from interactions then great. "

I don’t either consciously, but however I do think unconsciously I do, if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd be rich "

Oh shush you, your already rich, oh la la!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id just spend my spare time layed under cars at my mate house covered in lube with my tackle out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Id just spend my spare time layed under cars at my mate house covered in lube with my tackle out."

So just life as normal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I'm still fairly fab fresh but don't think I'll be looking back

Well welcome to fab,

never look back hey "

Thank you, it's not just about sex there's definitely a community sort of feeling going on lots of people from all different walks of life talking, listening, given advice and support for all sorts of different things and most importantly just having a good laugh. It's a fab place to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be rich

Oh shush you, your already rich, oh la la!

If I were rich I would try to lure older ladies to suck my cock in exchange of werthers' original

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well I'm still fairly fab fresh but don't think I'll be looking back

Well welcome to fab,

never look back hey

Yes I agree. The forums are great for interacting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd be rich

Oh shush you, your already rich, oh la la!

If I were rich I would try to lure older ladies to suck my cock in exchange of werthers' original"

Pfffft your French! You do things differently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Id just spend my spare time layed under cars at my mate house covered in lube with my tackle out.

So just life as normal

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be rich

Oh shush you, your already rich, oh la la!

If I were rich I would try to lure older ladies to suck my cock in exchange of werthers' original

Pfffft your French! You do things differently

I am actually Asian I just say that I am French in order to fuck women who aren't meeting Asian

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd be rich

Oh shush you, your already rich, oh la la!

If I were rich I would try to lure older ladies to suck my cock in exchange of werthers' original

Pfffft your French! You do things differently

I am actually Asian I just say that I am French in order to fuck women who aren't meeting Asian "

Haaaaaaaaa ok mr fabulous your accent says otherwise, plus only French men are so arrogant and fabulous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be rich

Oh shush you, your already rich, oh la la!

If I were rich I would try to lure older ladies to suck my cock in exchange of werthers' original

Pfffft your French! You do things differently

I am actually Asian I just say that I am French in order to fuck women who aren't meeting Asian

Haaaaaaaaa ok mr fabulous your accent says otherwise, plus only French men are so arrogant and fabulous "

I am good at making arrogant accents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab? "

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

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By *ensualbicockMan over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I work in a pub, so in real life it's not a problem. Looking for certain things on here and hoping to find someone who accepts my bisexuality. Looking for fwb to explore and fullfill fantasies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know what that say. Where there is a will, there is a way. I'd go hunting penis elsewhere, like down on the farm where I walk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not really satisfying any sexual needs, just allows me a little expression. I'd probs be at the pub or summat.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media "

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You know what that say. Where there is a will, there is a way. I'd go hunting penis elsewhere, like down on the farm where I walk

I love farms , my cousin has one somewhere in Ireland, been a few times , no men for miles though (sad face)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health "

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"Lonely and fat tbh

So because of fab your not fat or lonely? Seriously?

yes honestly when i joined id spent 15 years dumbing myself down and ruining my body because my ex was so insecure fab opened my eyes that i wasnt as fucked up as i thought... "

This is a great, considered answer.

I've been there, dumbing down my passion for life due to an insecure partner. However hard I try.

Without fab I'd be using forum or loot!

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By *ensualbicockMan over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"Lonely and fat tbh "

You've got too much of a sense of humour to be lonely

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Lonely and fat tbh

You've got too much of a sense of humour to be lonely

Generally the funniest people are the loneliest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?"

Not so much better but my triggers are less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lonely and fat tbh

You've got too much of a sense of humour to be lonely

Generally the funniest people are the loneliest. "

Mr Picasso was a lonely sole and very misunderstood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

Not so much better but my triggers are less.

Well thats something at least. If you ever need to talk my inbox is open

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?"

I've always been antisocial when it comes to social media I use it to wish people happy birthday and every know and then to keep in touch with family who aren't close by I reckon everybody's life would be better without it, it stops people communicating everyone seems more interested in Facebooking and instagramming than talking with the people around them. Fab might have brought people here for sex but it's keeping people communicating and even getting people socializing and meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook"

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook"

I hate speaking on the phone, or on vid! My parents live in a different country and I even hate speaking on camera

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

I hate speaking on the phone, or on vid! My parents live in a different country and I even hate speaking on camera "
i must admit my mate phones me all the time (to check ive not "fallen" off a bridge) and when i cant be arsed i tell him im sat on the toilet and he hangs up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures

Haha after I posted that I knew someone was going to give a thumbs up

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures "

I drive my friends don’t so they also seem to think i should come to them! And when i point out I can’t they become shirty! So lately I’ve said “ well you come to me”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where would you be without FAB? Serious question, I’m 40 and my circle of friends are all married and I don’t socialise much. My life is is around my son and his football and work.

However if fab wasn’t here I don’t know where I’d be , probably be celibate.

I suppose I’m asking all you sexual deviants couples and singles if fab wasn’t here how and where would you satisfy your fab needs ? What would you do? "

There are other sites lol, swinging has been around long before FAB and I think it was easier then, for obvious reasons.

. I think the whole ethos of the lifestyle has changed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Where would you be without FAB? Serious question, I’m 40 and my circle of friends are all married and I don’t socialise much. My life is is around my son and his football and work.

However if fab wasn’t here I don’t know where I’d be , probably be celibate.

I suppose I’m asking all you sexual deviants couples and singles if fab wasn’t here how and where would you satisfy your fab needs ? What would you do?

There are other sites lol, swinging has been around long before FAB and I think it was easier then, for obvious reasons.

. I think the whole ethos of the lifestyle has changed. "

This was more my thinking of my post. Please tell me more,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

I hate speaking on the phone, or on vid! My parents live in a different country and I even hate speaking on camera "

I suppose it's not that easy to just nip round for a brew then,good excuse for a holiday though just called round for a brew

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

I hate speaking on the phone, or on vid! My parents live in a different country and I even hate speaking on camera

I suppose it's not that easy to just nip round for a brew then,good excuse for a holiday though just called round for a brew

It has its draw backs I’ve not seen my dad for 2 years ! Flights are expensive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures

I drive my friends don’t so they also seem to think i should come to them! And when i point out I can’t they become shirty! So lately I’ve said “ well you come to me” "

And do they

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures

I drive my friends don’t so they also seem to think i should come to them! And when i point out I can’t they become shirty! So lately I’ve said “ well you come to me”

And do they

Well last week I ignored all phone calls for 3 days! On day 3 my best friend Ever actually knocks on my door !! I was gob smacked! She was really worried. But what made me worry more was my sister my parents never noticed me posting on social media

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is just one website. Lots of people aren't on Fab and they still manage to have sex. Probably more than some people on Fab do.

Exactly! My thread was started as a way of curiosity mainly, as I’d be celibate probably. I’m nosey and wandered how more so people or couples who meet regular would do so without fab?

Why would you be celibate?

I find Fab is good for fantasies. It's also good for discretion as many people wouldn't want anyone knowing they are on a Swingers site.

I’d be celibate as I don’t meet anyone conveniently and I’m not on social media

I too am not on antisocial media, i came off it 4 years ago and its one of the best things ive done for my state of mind

I came off it also for my mental health

Do you find that life in general is better without it?

I actually have phone conversations with friends and see them too instrad of living through facefook

That's how it should be, knocking on the door and saying put the kettle on nob head or come on we're going for a pint is better than giving thumbs up to a load of pictures

I drive my friends don’t so they also seem to think i should come to them! And when i point out I can’t they become shirty! So lately I’ve said “ well you come to me”

And do they

I wouldn't worry about the posting thing, most sites have a messed up way of showing people what's been posted. It's good your friend shown up though

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

My life would be just fine. It was before and it will be after

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