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"I'm just _hillout. Works for me "You do brilliantly, I love your approach and I'm kinda jealous, not that in comparing, obv  | |||
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"Drink peppermint tea and read the forums "That drink would make me angry and probs cause vomiting...  | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. " I try that too but ppl seem to pick me up on the flirting.... | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. I try that too but ppl seem to pick me up on the flirting.... "Most people find mine too outrageous to pick me up on it | |||
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"If I was anymore laid back id be horizontal. "And that is why we ALL love you CG  | |||
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"I'm just _hillout. Works for me "Your pics work for me too  | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here "Ditto | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. I try that too but ppl seem to pick me up on the flirting....
Most people find mine too outrageous to pick me up on it "Your flirting is awesome. Makes me smile | |||
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"We’re both very laid back and go with the flow , Fab isn’t the centre of our world so getting to meet lovely people is just a bonus "Soon, yeah? | |||
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"I'm just _hillout. Works for me
Your pics work for me too "What coincidence! So do yours | |||
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"I’m me. My posts are my real thoughts and those of you who know me, know I tell it how it is "Best way! | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. I try that too but ppl seem to pick me up on the flirting....
Most people find mine too outrageous to pick me up on it "So that means you haven't even tried with me....?  | |||
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"We’re both very laid back and go with the flow , Fab isn’t the centre of our world so getting to meet lovely people is just a bonus
Soon, yeah? "Absolutely xx | |||
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"Now I refuse to pay for it Im a bit more positive about my approach. I've basically given on finding meets. " Never give up! | |||
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"I'm just here, what will be, will be. " Are you happy with what is....? | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto "really  you sure 
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week | |||
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"I'm positive fun friendly caring and I will speak my mind forums are meant to be fun." A-fuckung-men my love! | |||
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"We’re both very laid back and go with the flow , Fab isn’t the centre of our world so getting to meet lovely people is just a bonus
Soon, yeah?
Absolutely xx"Is the invite in the post? | |||
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"I'm positive fun friendly caring and I will speak my mind forums are meant to be fun. A-fuckung-men my love! " | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. I try that too but ppl seem to pick me up on the flirting....
Most people find mine too outrageous to pick me up on it
So that means you haven't even tried with me....? "Yes | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto really you sure
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week "Ppl often say that, I've not noticed.... ....I do fancy Emma, though, I hope that doesn't offend anyone.... | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto really you sure
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week
Ppl often say that, I've not noticed.... ....I do fancy Emma, though, I hope that doesn't offend anyone.... " not offended just made me chuckle | |||
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"I’m positive and happy. I breeze in and out, ignore the politics and have a laugh. Sometimes I tut but mostly I smile. Great people, lovely conversations and breasts. I’m happy "You're the perfect forumite, so chilled and great hooters.... | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto really you sure
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week
Ppl often say that, I've not noticed.... ....I do fancy Emma, though, I hope that doesn't offend anyone.... "I thought you fancied me you big slutty mcslutface | |||
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"I have a few very lovely friends that I see reasonably regularly. So, I’m mainly here for a bit of flirting and I enjoy chatting to interesting people. Sometimes that may turn into a meeting but other times it’s just nice to get to know people from afar. " Ppl are brilliant ain't they! | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. I try that too but ppl seem to pick me up on the flirting....
Most people find mine too outrageous to pick me up on it
So that means you haven't even tried with me....?
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto really you sure
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week
Ppl often say that, I've not noticed.... ....I do fancy Emma, though, I hope that doesn't offend anyone....
I thought you fancied me you big slutty mcslutface " | |||
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"I just wander around this place talking to people, occasionally flirting - if I find someone that I click with and I find them attractive, then I'll generally ask if they want to meet. I don't much care what anyone else is doing, unless it's any of the negative shit and affects me directly. And I definitely don't compare myself to anyone - there's only one of me, so it wouldn't be a like for like comparison anyway! " You’re lovely as you are!! | |||
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"I'm just me. Sometimes that isn't the best me I could be but I try not to be hateful or hurtful in my interactions. I am tactless, waffley an often boring and preachy. I have given up being envious of others on here. I've given it a fair crack of my limp whip and I am trying to put aside the fact that I haven't quite achieved what I wanted. I have had good times, bad times, fun and frustrating times. I'll keep the secrets long after I have left. You're all safe. " You do yourself down too much, you're one of my loyal favourites and always have been. So caring and utterly clever without shouting it | |||
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"Tell me your shit, not you're shit, I've had a long day..took me a sec to get my head around that" Never get on the wrong side of shit.... | |||
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"I’m positive and happy. I breeze in and out, ignore the politics and have a laugh. Sometimes I tut but mostly I smile. Great people, lovely conversations and breasts. I’m happy
You're the perfect forumite, so chilled and great hooters.... "Do you have big hands? (refer to thread more than a handful is a waste) | |||
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"....is it important to you? How do you approach fab? Are you positive and focussed? Is it just about you and the ppl you're interacting with or do you get pulled into the negative anxious shit and worry about what other ppl are up to and compare yourself to those other beautiful gorgeous fuckers....? I'm guilty of a bit of both in the past, however I think I'm pretty balanced and grounded in my fabbing experience now. I like Nippy just as he is. Are you happy with yourselves....? Tell me your shit, not you're shit, I NEED TO KNOW....! (Plz )
Much love
Nip x "I use my daily motto of "it is what it is" If you'd like to reply to my message and arrange a social if we click that's fantastic but if you don't like me and don't reply to my message that's fine as well. | |||
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" I'll keep the secrets long after I have left. You're all safe. " Pheeeeew | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto really you sure
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week
Ppl often say that, I've not noticed.... ....I do fancy Emma, though, I hope that doesn't offend anyone.... not offended just made me chuckle "That's what I'm here for | |||
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"I dont care im real i dont fake emotion if im happy or moody i dont hide behind trying to bury my cock in a stranger by pretending im what they want never have im just her to entertain myself and natter with people i get on with no chasing cars here
Ditto really you sure
U were like a dog on heat chasing lucie jo last week and same with emkins this week
Ppl often say that, I've not noticed.... ....I do fancy Emma, though, I hope that doesn't offend anyone....
I thought you fancied me you big slutty mcslutface "That's me, apparently..... | |||
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"I just wander around this place talking to people, occasionally flirting - if I find someone that I click with and I find them attractive, then I'll generally ask if they want to meet. I don't much care what anyone else is doing, unless it's any of the negative shit and affects me directly. And I definitely don't compare myself to anyone - there's only one of me, so it wouldn't be a like for like comparison anyway! You’re lovely as you are!! "Aww, thank you | |||
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"I just wander around this place talking to people, occasionally flirting - if I find someone that I click with and I find them attractive, then I'll generally ask if they want to meet. I don't much care what anyone else is doing, unless it's any of the negative shit and affects me directly. And I definitely don't compare myself to anyone - there's only one of me, so it wouldn't be a like for like comparison anyway! " You're pretty brilliant tbf | |||
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"I’m positive and happy. I breeze in and out, ignore the politics and have a laugh. Sometimes I tut but mostly I smile. Great people, lovely conversations and breasts. I’m happy
You're the perfect forumite, so chilled and great hooters....
Do you have big hands? (refer to thread more than a handful is a waste) "Do you like big hands... ! | |||
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"....is it important to you? How do you approach fab? Are you positive and focussed? Is it just about you and the ppl you're interacting with or do you get pulled into the negative anxious shit and worry about what other ppl are up to and compare yourself to those other beautiful gorgeous fuckers....? I'm guilty of a bit of both in the past, however I think I'm pretty balanced and grounded in my fabbing experience now. I like Nippy just as he is. Are you happy with yourselves....? Tell me your shit, not you're shit, I NEED TO KNOW....! (Plz )
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Nip x "Hmmm,normally very confident, chilled, unflappable even but my mojo is currently missing. I'm considering blaming the weather. | |||
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"....is it important to you? How do you approach fab? Are you positive and focussed? Is it just about you and the ppl you're interacting with or do you get pulled into the negative anxious shit and worry about what other ppl are up to and compare yourself to those other beautiful gorgeous fuckers....? I'm guilty of a bit of both in the past, however I think I'm pretty balanced and grounded in my fabbing experience now. I like Nippy just as he is. Are you happy with yourselves....? Tell me your shit, not you're shit, I NEED TO KNOW....! (Plz )
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Nip x
I use my daily motto of "it is what it is"
If you'd like to reply to my message and arrange a social if we click that's fantastic but if you don't like me and don't reply to my message that's fine as well.
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"I just wander around this place talking to people, occasionally flirting - if I find someone that I click with and I find them attractive, then I'll generally ask if they want to meet. I don't much care what anyone else is doing, unless it's any of the negative shit and affects me directly. And I definitely don't compare myself to anyone - there's only one of me, so it wouldn't be a like for like comparison anyway! You're pretty brilliant tbf "Aww shucks | |||
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"I’m positive and happy. I breeze in and out, ignore the politics and have a laugh. Sometimes I tut but mostly I smile. Great people, lovely conversations and breasts. I’m happy
You're the perfect forumite, so chilled and great hooters....
Do you have big hands? (refer to thread more than a handful is a waste)
Do you like big hands... !"Yes  | |||
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"I’m personally becoming more disillusioned every day and will probably be off soon
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"I'm a positive person anyway and never compare myself to others, I don't need to as I am who I want to be. I focus mainly on my friends I see and chat and perv in the forums "Perv! | |||
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"I do how I do. Occasionally I get the hump about some aspects of the site but I accept its all in the game. I've definitely seen people here and thought "wow" and kinda felt like like an alehouse team player looking at a top international. But I've never felt bad about it or felt envious or resentful I've just thought "top work, hope you're loving the fuck out of your life." I try to avoid negativity everywhere, it's more harmful than people think. " Top approach! | |||
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"....is it important to you? How do you approach fab? Are you positive and focussed? Is it just about you and the ppl you're interacting with or do you get pulled into the negative anxious shit and worry about what other ppl are up to and compare yourself to those other beautiful gorgeous fuckers....? I'm guilty of a bit of both in the past, however I think I'm pretty balanced and grounded in my fabbing experience now. I like Nippy just as he is. Are you happy with yourselves....? Tell me your shit, not you're shit, I NEED TO KNOW....! (Plz )
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Nip x
Hmmm,normally very confident, chilled, unflappable even but my mojo is currently missing. I'm considering blaming the weather."What do you think could bring it back? | |||
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" I think I tried all which ways of approaching Fab. Doing your latter suggestion was probably my worst time on here but mercifully short lived. I practise pleasing myself these days. I zone out the people and the threads that don't engage me and I so it works pretty well. All in all I approach Fab with the wide eyed wonderment of a lady who can't quite believe how lucky she was the day she logged on." Awww that's lovely, it has it's moments for sure | |||
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"I'm pretty positive I think. I enjoy being on here sometimes I do roll my eyes at some of the stuff but mostly it's fun. When it becomes hard work as sometimes it does I just hide my profile for a little while. I've met some great people and made some good friends. I'm just me on here I don't pretend to be anything else sometimes u wish i could be as funny and witty as some of the people on here but I'm just me so it is what it is. "Ditto. (Tips hat to the lovely lady). | |||
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"I used to be much more confident and flirty, I join in some of the threads, but find flirting a bit difficult now. But I’m inclusive in my threads, and try to be nice x " I think being genuinely inclusive makes a huge difference | |||
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"I’m positive and happy. I breeze in and out, ignore the politics and have a laugh. Sometimes I tut but mostly I smile. Great people, lovely conversations and breasts. I’m happy
You're the perfect forumite, so chilled and great hooters....
Do you have big hands? (refer to thread more than a handful is a waste)
Do you like big hands... !
Yes "Like shovels my love, on the end of the skinniest stick arms you ever saw ... | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. " I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits.... | |||
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I'm by no means the funny one or quick with a come back but love the banter on the forum.
I have been known to flirt..love a good flirt.
Never judge myself by others. There are some really cool, lovely people and I'm happy (mostly)to be part of this crazy world we call the forum x | |||
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"I'm a real person and I don't hide that, sometimes I'm a bit grumpy and anti social and other days I'm silly. I am who I am, and I'd be the same person whether you come across me here or in real life. Though I'm more likely to negative against myself rather than others " Stop that shit, you're the most amazing mind and so caring, you need to make sure you love yourself as much as I do! (love you not me, obv ) | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits.... "He's right you know Nora you do have nice tits..and are beautiful with it | |||
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"I'm pretty positive I think. I enjoy being on here sometimes I do roll my eyes at some of the stuff but mostly it's fun. When it becomes hard work as sometimes it does I just hide my profile for a little while. I've met some great people and made some good friends. I'm just me on here I don't pretend to be anything else sometimes u wish i could be as funny and witty as some of the people on here but I'm just me so it is what it is. "I get that, some days I just can't be funny... | |||
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"I (the man half) am generally pretty chilled out by nature, and that hasn’t changed in the small time we’ve been here (4/5 months or so). We are both enjoying the experience, I enjoy the forums because I’ve always been quite nosy and interested in people. Jealous of others...? Not as such, but I think looking through a load of profiles has encouraged me to try and get back in some sort of shape (not that I ever was)" That all sounds healthy | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits....
He's right you know Nora you do have nice tits..and are beautiful with it "Haha . Thanks you two! | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. " This but my flirting isn't subtle. | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits....
He's right you know Nora you do have nice tits..and are beautiful with it "a nice rat too | |||
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"Okay, I'll be honest. If I'm having a bit of a low phase, yes I compare myself to a few. I think "bleurgh I'm so truly fugly and they are so hot and x, y and z" (never about intelligence obvs). Those times are far fewer nowadays. I try and be positive and take people for how they are and how they interact with me. If the negative crap affects me, it does make me a bit meh but if it doesn't? I don't really give a flying fuck. I'm quite happy with my fabbing experience currently - I have some wonderful friends who shag me beautifully and some who don't. I like who I am and I'm becoming more confident in being true to myself. Tl;dr Yes, I occasionally compare but as I grow to love myself more Fab is more positive and the comparisons are fading." I think you've got it nailed - wise, sexy, smart and witty. And I'm kinda glad to see you on my threads, reminds me that ppl can be themselves and my views and judgement can most definitely be wrong.... | |||
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"I knda rock around doing my own thing..as well as the occasional guy
I'm by no means the funny one or quick with a come back but love the banter on the forum.
I have been known to flirt..love a good flirt.
Never judge myself by others. There are some really cool, lovely people and I'm happy (mostly)to be part of this crazy world we call the forum x"It's ppl like you who make it! | |||
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"I'm a real person and I don't hide that, sometimes I'm a bit grumpy and anti social and other days I'm silly. I am who I am, and I'd be the same person whether you come across me here or in real life. Though I'm more likely to negative against myself rather than others Stop that shit, you're the most amazing mind and so caring, you need to make sure you love yourself as much as I do! (love you not me, obv )"Oh I don't mean it in a bad way, I'm just me which means I will compare and contrast myself with others it's human nature. I try and positive in my outlook as I think it kind of rubs off on others, and that you reap what you sow. | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits....
He's right you know Nora you do have nice tits..and are beautiful with it
Haha . Thanks you two! "Yw | |||
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"I just generally waffle on the forums and don’t make an effort to have sex. I find not making an effort means that, just occasionally, I manage to have sex "Nailed it!!!! So refreshing! | |||
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"Pinch of salt. No point getting all het up about this place. Always positive, no matter how many knock backs or lack of meets. Why pay the sub otherwise? "Haha | |||
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"I just kinda float around flirting subtly and annoying people, seems to work for me. This but my flirting isn't subtle." It passed me by... | |||
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"Be yourself Be positive Be happy Keep it fun" You can do no wrong! | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits....
He's right you know Nora you do have nice tits..and are beautiful with it a nice rat too "Is rat like slang for vag? | |||
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"I'm a real person and I don't hide that, sometimes I'm a bit grumpy and anti social and other days I'm silly. I am who I am, and I'd be the same person whether you come across me here or in real life. Though I'm more likely to negative against myself rather than others Stop that shit, you're the most amazing mind and so caring, you need to make sure you love yourself as much as I do! (love you not me, obv )
Oh I don't mean it in a bad way, I'm just me which means I will compare and contrast myself with others it's human nature. I try and positive in my outlook as I think it kind of rubs off on others, and that you reap what you sow. " | |||
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"Okay, I'll be honest. If I'm having a bit of a low phase, yes I compare myself to a few. I think "bleurgh I'm so truly fugly and they are so hot and x, y and z" (never about intelligence obvs). Those times are far fewer nowadays. I try and be positive and take people for how they are and how they interact with me. If the negative crap affects me, it does make me a bit meh but if it doesn't? I don't really give a flying fuck. I'm quite happy with my fabbing experience currently - I have some wonderful friends who shag me beautifully and some who don't. I like who I am and I'm becoming more confident in being true to myself. Tl;dr Yes, I occasionally compare but as I grow to love myself more Fab is more positive and the comparisons are fading." I've always liked reading your thoughts Meli. I have admired you and sometimes learnt from you. I like seeing you around. I loved meeting you and hope to again x | |||
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"That’s too much thinking for me. I’ve no idea! I log on, sometimes get involved in threads then log off a bit later. That’s about it! I don’t really analyse what I do how I do it and how other people do stuff. I just do me. I think that's what I find so beautiful about you Nora, you don't think, you're just genuine and honest, and have nice tits....
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"Be yourself Be positive Be happy Keep it fun" I have always felt drawn to you, your honesty, integrity and warmth. | |||
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila " Who's Voila | |||
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"We’re both very laid back and go with the flow , Fab isn’t the centre of our world so getting to meet lovely people is just a bonus
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Is the invite in the post?"It will come to you via a surprise message soon x | |||
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila Who's Voila" shes a small violin eh? | |||
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila Who's Voilashes a small violin eh?" You kill me you do | |||
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"Okay, I'll be honest. If I'm having a bit of a low phase, yes I compare myself to a few. I think "bleurgh I'm so truly fugly and they are so hot and x, y and z" (never about intelligence obvs). Those times are far fewer nowadays. I try and be positive and take people for how they are and how they interact with me. If the negative crap affects me, it does make me a bit meh but if it doesn't? I don't really give a flying fuck. I'm quite happy with my fabbing experience currently - I have some wonderful friends who shag me beautifully and some who don't. I like who I am and I'm becoming more confident in being true to myself. Tl;dr Yes, I occasionally compare but as I grow to love myself more Fab is more positive and the comparisons are fading. I've always liked reading your thoughts Meli. I have admired you and sometimes learnt from you. I like seeing you around. I loved meeting you and hope to again x" She's a gem innit.... | |||
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila Who's Voilashes a small violin eh? oh her "I will call the spelling police | |||
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila " Sounds simple and dumb but it's true! | |||
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"We’re both very laid back and go with the flow , Fab isn’t the centre of our world so getting to meet lovely people is just a bonus
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila Who's Voilashes a small violin eh? oh her
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"Il bow later
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"Be positive not negative then eventually voila Who's Voilashes a small violin eh? oh her
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"Il bow later
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The walls have cocks.... "dunno what walls u got  but i assume lube is used after ever shite just incase? | |||
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"Its Nippy. Huh?" As in cold duhhhhh | |||
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"Its Nippy. Huh? As in cold duhhhhh" | |||
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"Its Nippy. Huh? As in cold duhhhhh" I'm stood in a bloody railway platform, im aware, my nipples are kinda hard... | |||
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"Its Nippy. Huh? As in cold duhhhhh I'm stood in a bloody railway platform, im aware, my nipples are kinda hard... "Then you should have got it. | |||
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"I'm here to satisfy my own needs, to enjoy the company of people I connect with and to share experiences. Therefore I approach fab positively and relaxed. I find it amusing watching the forums and how seriously some people take things, it's good to see nothing changes, just the faces. " They get proper ragey, don't they, and that's the stuff in public ... | |||
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"I'm here to satisfy my own needs, to enjoy the company of people I connect with and to share experiences. Therefore I approach fab positively and relaxed. I find it amusing watching the forums and how seriously some people take things, it's good to see nothing changes, just the faces. They get proper ragey, don't they, and that's the stuff in public ... "They? I was commenting more on the need to be liked than the rage although both are amusing. | |||
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"I'm here to satisfy my own needs, to enjoy the company of people I connect with and to share experiences. Therefore I approach fab positively and relaxed. I find it amusing watching the forums and how seriously some people take things, it's good to see nothing changes, just the faces. They get proper ragey, don't they, and that's the stuff in public ...
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"I like to think I have a positive approach on Fab.Most people that know me well enough,know that I like to TRY and stay in the background.I occasionally post what my favourite 80's song is that week,or the occasional pleasant comment if i'm feeling brave enough. As for comparing myself to others? No I don't need to.I do ok, just being me. Again I TRY not to get involved with the negativity on Fab.I've never had to deal with any dramas because MOST of my personal business,on here is kept private. I like doing Fab my way,while being mindful of other peoples feelings " Awwww, you came, I love you | |||
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"I dip in and out as time allows and for the main enjoy my time here. People will take me as they find me, I realise I’m not everyone’s cup of tea... it happens. I don’t compare myself to others; we are all individually unique in our own way and that’s what makes fab a great place. My regular Saturday thread is both inclusive and well received I think and I contribute to others where appropriate. It’s a crazy place at times, but nonetheless it’s fun and has enabled me to meet those I wouldn’t normally have access to in the vanilla world
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"I like to think I have a positive approach on Fab.Most people that know me well enough,know that I like to TRY and stay in the background.I occasionally post what my favourite 80's song is that week,or the occasional pleasant comment if i'm feeling brave enough. As for comparing myself to others? No I don't need to.I do ok, just being me. Again I TRY not to get involved with the negativity on Fab.I've never had to deal with any dramas because MOST of my personal business,on here is kept private. I like doing Fab my way,while being mindful of other peoples feelings Awwww, you came, I love you "You can keep some of your 80's shit though from Toto..... | |||
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"Me: 'do you want to get a lot of orgasms ? ' Her: 'no thank.' Me: you are on the right profile the. " Cumming is overrated | |||
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"Me: 'do you want to get a lot of orgasms ? ' Her: 'no thank.' Me: you are on the right profile the. Cumming is overrated " Fuck me, that's only just sunk in.... ....I really shouldn't be allowed on fab at times....! | |||
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"Me: 'do you want to get a lot of orgasms ? ' Her: 'no thank.' Me: you are on the right profile the. Cumming is overrated Fuck me, that's only just sunk in.... ....I really shouldn't be allowed on fab at times....! "Oh yes you should | |||
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"I generally just don't give a shit and do my own thing" Well put x | |||
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"I’m not different here than I am in real life, what you see is what you get. I say what I’m thinking and will step into a thread if someone is being rude or bigoted. Only difference in the real world I’m dressed from neck to ankle " Are your saying you fab naked....? | |||
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"I generally just don't give a shit and do my own thing" The best way, we'll be considerate to others but don't stress about things or folk that are irrelevant..... | |||
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"I agree with Mr monkey I'm chilled out till the lack of understanding the NO word turns to profanities from myself.. But laughter is the key. " *laughs nervously....* | |||
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"I’m pretty relaxed about fab...... until I receive a message at which point a change into a rambling idiot. Though some people like a rambler apparently." It's a skill! | |||
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"I'm like Marmite "No. You're like cake - we like cake. Xxxx | |||
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"I'm like Marmite
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"I'm like Marmite
No. You're like cake - we like cake. Xxxx"I was forced the buy cake at work today.... ....what's that all about, because you've had a birthday recently and you go to the office, the ladies (aka cake scoffing freaks) force you to spend fuck loads on cake..... I'd left it a whole three days, I thought I'd be safe..... Fuckers forced me to make tea too..... Sad times but at least they shut up for ten minutes while chewing the cake......! | |||
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"I'm like Marmite
No. You're like cake - we like cake. Xxxx
I was forced the buy cake at work today.... ....what's that all about, because you've had a birthday recently and you go to the office, the ladies (aka cake scoffing freaks) force you to spend fuck loads on cake..... I'd left it a whole three days, I thought I'd be safe..... Fuckers forced me to make tea too..... Sad times but at least they shut up for ten minutes while chewing the cake......! "That's not very positive is it, I'll retract that and shush.... | |||
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No. You're like cake - we like cake. Xxxx
I was forced the buy cake at work today.... ....what's that all about, because you've had a birthday recently and you go to the office, the ladies (aka cake scoffing freaks) force you to spend fuck loads on cake..... I'd left it a whole three days, I thought I'd be safe..... Fuckers forced me to make tea too..... Sad times but at least they shut up for ten minutes while chewing the cake......!
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"I drink a cup of tea and polish my glasses while having a browse. Set sail in the forums and explore!!" Spectacles or drinking vessels...? (I have two images, I need clarity...) | |||
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"Where's my cake Steven?" 
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"Where's my cake Steven?
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"Enjoy it & defo dont get dragged into the negativity that can arise. I generally try & let all life's negativities wash over me. It breeds negativity & I have had too much of that. " Too right! | |||
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