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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you need to have a plan? See how you feel when you meet, hear each other, react.. all whilst remembering her and yours boundaries discussed before. All the best, sounds exciting  |
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Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex |
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Not on fab no.
However when Mr N and I met nearly 40 years ago there was a spark. The first time we met alone we had sex. We're still together.
Some people say sex spoils a friendship but if you like each other and hope to make a relationship together I don't see why enjoying sex with each other from the start should get in the way of that.
I hope it goes well  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex"
Agree. If you put it that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex"
This, absolutely. |
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"Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex
Agree. If you put it that way "
Also..
If you do make it all about sex, then sex will all that it will be …
Chapter 32 Verse 21 of the Book of Monkey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not on fab no.
However when Mr N and I met nearly 40 years ago there was a spark. The first time we met alone we had sex. We're still together.
Some people say sex spoils a friendship but if you like each other and hope to make a relationship together I don't see why enjoying sex with each other from the start should get in the way of that.
I hope it goes well "
That is so cool.
She is kind, intelligent and has purpose to her life. She is absolutely stunning too. She is just perfect. My concern is I don't want to lose it to a meaningless sex, as I haven't given a bit more time to get to know her better. I am a bit confused. |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
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"Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex
Agree. If you put it that way
Also..
If you do make it all about sex, then sex will all that it will be …
Chapter 32 Verse 21 of the Book of Monkey"
Ah yes. The monkey makes notes book  |
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"Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex
Agree. If you put it that way
Also..
If you do make it all about sex, then sex will all that it will be …
Chapter 32 Verse 21 of the Book of Monkey
Ah yes. The monkey makes notes book "
Hmm, my reputation precedes me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you need to have a plan? See how you feel when you meet, hear each other, react.. all whilst remembering her and yours boundaries discussed before. All the best, sounds exciting "
We haven't talked much as we both are in opposite ends of the world. Thanks for your advice! Much appreciated. |
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Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely only you can answer that question though OP. It's about how you feel and what you'd like.
I slightly disagree with the "sex site" comment though … yes, many people treat it with that sort of opinion, but I think this is more an adult social media site for people with similar open minded interests.
It isn't always about sex
Agree. If you put it that way
Also..
If you do make it all about sex, then sex will all that it will be …
Chapter 32 Verse 21 of the Book of Monkey"
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, I have.
I don't think how close you meet someone from initially talking affects or defined what the relationship is about. That comes from your unique dynamic. I class him as one of my closest friends now even though we had sex within half hour of meeting (all plans of pizza and quartets were quickly discarded  ).
I hope that it goes well, whatever happens OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck "
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess. |
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess. "
Openness is always best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess.
Openness is always best "
I have informed her what I have done. Hope she doesnt get mad at me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I have.
I don't think how close you meet someone from initially talking affects or defined what the relationship is about. That comes from your unique dynamic. I class him as one of my closest friends now even though we had sex within half hour of meeting (all plans of pizza and quartets were quickly discarded ).
I hope that it goes well, whatever happens OP. "
The reason I chose fab and not a normal dating site is because I didnt want any drama.
I cannot control who get I attracted to I guess.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's happened to spontaneity and seeing how things go? Over thinking always complicates things to be honest "
That is what I am doing. I am going to take some deep breaths and go with the flow! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It all depends on what she wants too and besides until you have met and spent time together you really don't know which way things will go. Meet up and talk is the best thnig to do. "
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you need to have a plan? See how you feel when you meet, hear each other, react.. all whilst remembering her and yours boundaries discussed before. All the best, sounds exciting "
this. Just play it by ear. I’m personally not a fan of pre planning stuff so would prefer things to happen organically. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you need to have a plan? See how you feel when you meet, hear each other, react.. all whilst remembering her and yours boundaries discussed before. All the best, sounds exciting
this. Just play it by ear. I’m personally not a fan of pre planning stuff so would prefer things to happen organically."
There is no pre plans. I was wondering if I postponed our meeting to next time I am back in the UK. I visit UK every three months or so. This will give me a bit more time to get to know her better I guess. |
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess.
Openness is always best
I have informed her what I have done. Hope she doesnt get mad at me. "
Good luck with the response... lesson learnt, you a musing about someone, tell them not the forum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess.
Openness is always best
I have informed her what I have done. Hope she doesnt get mad at me.
Good luck with the response... lesson learnt, you a musing about someone, tell them not the forum "
We learn from our mistakes I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess.
Openness is always best
I have informed her what I have done. Hope she doesnt get mad at me.
Good luck with the response... lesson learnt, you a musing about someone, tell them not the forum "
After all I was seeking some advice from like minded people I guess! Hopefully she will buy into it |
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"Do you need to have a plan? See how you feel when you meet, hear each other, react.. all whilst remembering her and yours boundaries discussed before. All the best, sounds exciting
this. Just play it by ear. I’m personally not a fan of pre planning stuff so would prefer things to happen organically.
There is no pre plans. I was wondering if I postponed our meeting to next time I am back in the UK. I visit UK every three months or so. This will give me a bit more time to get to know her better I guess."
She may see that as messing around just meet her have a fun time and see where it goes. |
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess.
Openness is always best
I have informed her what I have done. Hope she doesnt get mad at me.
Good luck with the response... lesson learnt, you a musing about someone, tell them not the forum
After all I was seeking some advice from like minded people I guess! Hopefully she will buy into it "
May I respectfully suggest you stop talking about her now. I think you're self sabotaging.
Start this conversation with her if you genuinely mean what you say in your op. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like a discussion you should be having with her OP, as she’s on the forums is this your way to open that door for the discussion to take place ?
On a side note, let things take their natural course when you meet, it’s the best way. There is no reason you can’t be friends, even after sex, personally that is the best mix.
Good luck
I agree. I think I should own up to this post, before she finds out I guess.
Openness is always best
I have informed her what I have done. Hope she doesnt get mad at me.
Good luck with the response... lesson learnt, you a musing about someone, tell them not the forum
After all I was seeking some advice from like minded people I guess! Hopefully she will buy into it
May I respectfully suggest you stop talking about her now. I think you're self sabotaging.
Start this conversation with her if you genuinely mean what you say in your op."
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Talk to her .. asking questions and an open dialogue, sharing thoughts and feelings .. all part of building a deeper connection and finding out what you both want and if you're on the same page.
Trust your instincts when you meet 're sex..it's something you decide together X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would be mad about this post.. But there are nicer people out there than me
Your intention was good. Enjoy next step of this journey together. "
Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talk to her .. asking questions and an open dialogue, sharing thoughts and feelings .. all part of building a deeper connection and finding out what you both want and if you're on the same page.
Trust your instincts when you meet 're sex..it's something you decide together X
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Thanks Freya |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you need to have a plan? See how you feel when you meet, hear each other, react.. all whilst remembering her and yours boundaries discussed before. All the best, sounds exciting "
This ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?"
save sex until 3rd or 4th date |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?"
She will be reading your post OP.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP. "
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
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go for it if when you meet shes commando then its on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?save sex until 3rd or 4th date "
I like that idea. Build some intensity and make love than have sex
I think you should be a love doctor of fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
go for it if when you meet shes commando then its on "
I didnt see that thread!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't really know until I have spent time with someone in the flesh whether anything would work between us.
As such, I'd plan an open meeting up, preferably with a follow up "
I agree. |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
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"Let things happen naturally. No expectations, no script, just meet and see where it takes you both."
Agreed. Take it as a meet. Let what feels mutually right harken. What will be will be. Enjoy. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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Dont hold your hopes up that's all I'll say. On here people seem to have a change of opinion once the sex has been done and dusted or a personally transplant.
All the best. Never say never |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont hold your hopes up that's all I'll say. On here people seem to have a change of opinion once the sex has been done and dusted or a personally transplant.
All the best. Never say never "
Won't that all depend on how great the sex was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?save sex until 3rd or 4th date
I like that idea. Build some intensity and make love than have sex
I think you should be a love doctor of fab "
Behave don't give him that title! Have you read his feedback of other threads lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?save sex until 3rd or 4th date
I like that idea. Build some intensity and make love than have sex
I think you should be a love doctor of fab
Behave don't give him that title! Have you read his feedback of other threads lol"
Lol. He has got a great SOH. |
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
go for it if when you meet shes commando then its on
I didnt see that thread! "
its a thread in a haystack thats maybe why |
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
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Absolutely this. I do, and glad we had that conversation.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
Absolutely this. I do, and glad we had that conversation.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
go for it if when you meet shes commando then its on
I didnt see that thread! its a thread in a haystack thats maybe why "
How do you know if she's commando when you meet in the middle of winter when she is covered he's to toe
Or should I wait till summer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
go for it if when you meet shes commando then its on
I didnt see that thread! its a thread in a haystack thats maybe why
How do you know if she's commando when you meet in the middle of winter when she is covered he's to toe
Or should I wait till summer "
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By *eliWoman
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
Absolutely this. I do, and glad we had that conversation.
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Awwww are you the mystery woman? 
It's so cute! Please keep us updated with hourly posts about what's happened. |
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"Let things happen naturally. No expectations, no script, just meet and see where it takes you both.
Totally this "
And that is the advice I am going with |
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"save sex until 3rd or 4th date
I like that idea. Build some intensity and make love than have sex
I think you should be a love doctor of fab "
Possibly the worst advice I have ever seen on a swinging site. 3rd or 4th DATE. It's not a dating site. The poor woman might just want a good NSA seeing to and here people are talking about 'making love" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
Absolutely this. I do, and glad we had that conversation.
Awwww are you the mystery woman?
It's so cute! Please keep us updated with hourly posts about what's happened. "
Hourly post 
This is not love island! |
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
Absolutely this. I do, and glad we had that conversation.
Awwww are you the mystery woman?
It's so cute! Please keep us updated with hourly posts about what's happened. "
Not a lot so far
And he tells me he is very busy and important doing busy important things.
I am waiting for bacon, it might arrive soon.
Will be back at 11:26 to keep you informed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I met this wonderful lady on the forums by accident. I definitely feel the connection with her and been thinking about her lately. I am visiting the UK next month and planning to meet her for a coffee, lunch or dinner. I am aware this is a sex site and most of them are looking for sex. She is someone I would like to keep in touch with and be friends for a long time and get to know her better. My question is, if we meet and we ended up having sex, will the spark end there or is it better I give it a bit more time, build the connection and meet a few months from now! Has anyone else had a similar experience?
She will be reading your post OP.
She already did.
I believe she understands where I am coming from and all I am looking for is some feedback from ppl with similar experiences.
Absolutely this. I do, and glad we had that conversation.
Awwww are you the mystery woman?
It's so cute! Please keep us updated with hourly posts about what's happened.
Not a lot so far
And he tells me he is very busy and important doing busy important things.
I am waiting for bacon, it might arrive soon.
Will be back at 11:26 to keep you informed.
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"save sex until 3rd or 4th date
I like that idea. Build some intensity and make love than have sex
I think you should be a love doctor of fab
Possibly the worst advice I have ever seen on a swinging site. 3rd or 4th DATE. It's not a dating site. The poor woman might just want a good NSA seeing to and here people are talking about 'making love" "
What is wrong with making love |
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